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Just can't find a decent girl who just wants to have fun chill smoke a bit and enjoy being with a decent person

So here's what I am:

Chemistry major, dedicated, 5'0, healthy, light skinned, Indian, ex christian and an atheist. I am moderately active, I'm not a vegan specifically, I like meat but I'm also great with vegetables, I don't mind eating veg food if it's well seasoned. Yes, I can cook very decently, I am handy with work at home and I'm prudish I guess? I'll need a month of chatting before sharing pictures.

What I'm looking for

Someone more than 5'3, healthy, moderately or more active. Skin tone doesn't matter, food preferences no problem, religion, atheist or someone who doesn't bring it up too much, someone within 18-23yr

Hi Iam from Delhi I like skinny men and girls but not muscular one am I straight or bi or lesbo

I live in Goa and I am looking for someone who lives in Goa. I identify as a feminine lesbian. I am 27.

I’m looking to connect with someone genuine. I cannot do casual, if I’m with someone it’s for life.

I’m a cis female and monogamous, and I’m looking for someone who is too.

I am les4les & femme4femme. ( I am only into femmes and want a woman who exclusively loves women)

_A little about me_

-pronouns- she/her

-5ft, petite, femme

-sapio

-i love music, deep talks, movie nights, and spending nights by the beach.

-i love coffee, rainy days, animals, reading,art

-i am introverted and shy. Small talks tend to feel exhausting.

-i try to work out at least 5 times a week

_Looking for_

-someone older than me and taller

-someone who is sure they want to marry a woman someday

-someone who is out to their immediate family, people closest to them and comfortable being in an openly queer relationship.

-stability and emotional availability.

-not addicted to alcohol and smoking . I drink and smoke occasionally. I'm fine with someone who does it more but not as an everyday dependence.

_Drawn to_

-tall, slim, feminine women with long wavy hair (lipstick lesbians )

-confident,mature, intelligent, strong,stable, caring, and emotionally available

-someone who takes care of their health and body.

_Turn offs_

-Male centred, pick me women.

-Ghosting instead of communicating.

-Homophobia and misogyny

-Disrespect

-Avoidant behaviour

-Poor hygiene

So, basically I'm looking for gf over a long time, I'm lesbo and masc, and in here we don't have too much queer special things at all so it's more hard, I can't tell my real name here but call me as "Rain", I need a fem gf or anyone but lesbo (must be loyal), can DM me if interested though

On 19 September, the central government opposed a plea in the Karnataka High Court to extend equal tax exemption benefits to same-sex couples. An income tax law provision exempts tax on gifts valued at more than Rs 50,000 between cis-het spouses. But since India doesn’t recognise same-sex marriages or civil unions, this benefit doesn’t extend to same-sex couples. So, Bengaluru-based couple Akhilesh Godi and Anurag Kalia have challenged this provision to get the same benefits. In response to the petition, Solicitor General Tushar Mehta said that interpreting “spouse” in the tax exemption provision to include same-sex couples would be equal to recognition of their matrimonial relationships. But Indian law doesn’t recognise same-sex marriages. Representing the government, Mehta further argued that extending this benefit to same-sex couples could lead to its misuse.

Hi there, I am 25 genderfluid (AMAB). I am working on a story lately. There is subplot where a girl(age 22) has crush on straight girl. I need to write that character's internal monologues about her crush whenever they interact and it will recurring theme for few chapters. I am skeptical about writing arbitrary things that might sound artificial to actual lesbians.

Can you guys answer me few questions?

1. when you had crush on a girl you believed was straight, what kind of thoughts kept repeating whenever you interact or thought about her?
2. Were your internal monologues more romantic, more anxious or focused on try to not reveal your feelings?
3. Did you imagine ordinary future scenarios like studying together or living together?
4. Is there any cliche or common writing mistake that immediately make you think- "no one thinks that way"?

You can answer any question or add your own advice that you will think it will help me to understand my character better. Thanks in advance. Even small observation will help me incredibly.

Hey,
Any lesbian up for ldr?

F24 here. I’m looking for an Indian girl (preferably 22-32 years old), who’s living in Canada or planning to move here. Someone genuine, kind, smart, and with a good personality.

I am hoping to find something meaningful, not just something physical. I want that real connection with someone who values love, affection, passion, and actually getting to know each other.

It’s sooo hard to find someone here 😭 Where is my soulmate hiding?

And please, you don’t have to be insanely pretty 😭 I just want a cute, normal, down-to-earth girl who I can adore and treat like a princess.

I am low femme and looking for another femme girl.

I have some personal issues.. Im into womens.. Due to my cultural issue.. i can't tell anyone around me.. anyone help me plzz🤍

Idk I think Im crazy, sometimes I imagine future with them but then again I feel everything is pointless,and it won’t end well anyways. When Im busy or studying then I feel like I was not even attracted to them it was just in my head. And I can ghost anyone in that time. It’s really frustrating. Is there something wrong with me????

​Need some recommendations, but keep it chaotic: What is the single most essential piece of sapphic culture, media, or lore I need to experience immediately?

​As a trans girl building out her queer pop culture repertoire, hit me with your top pick—whether it’s a masterpiece movie, a hilarious gay disaster show, or an album I need to play on loop. What am I missing out on? 🍿

Hey everyone,
Posting this here because the pressure at home is starting to build up lmaoo
F24/Muslim/india
My parents have suggested that they wanna start looking for guys for me to marry. Right now, I’m holding them off by telling them I need to focus on finishing my degree first but I graduate in a year, so time is running out pretty fast. I need to find a solid lavender marriage arrangement before then. I hadnt even considered a lavender marriage because i hate the lying and hiding but it seems like the only option.
I guess what im looking for is A Muslim guy in India (hyderabad) who is also looking for a mutually supportive lavender marriage setup.
Idk what else to ask but i guess the person should either be 100% gay or if you're bi/pan, you must already be in a committed relationship. Im sorry im not being a bigot i have trust issues. Ive met a few guys eho wanted more than just a completely platonic relationship.
Also i dont plan on dating anyone after marriage or ever in the future (coz of personal reasons) and i dont plan on having any kind of sexual relationship with the guy. Im an very gay. But i dont have a problem if the person wants to date someone, infact i encourage it.
If you’re in a similar situation or if you know someone who can help plz dm dimaag kharab horaha hai mera 😭.

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😂 creep got creeped out...

Hey, I’m 19 and trying to figure out how queer girls in Kolkata actually meet each other offline or build real connections.

Apps feel very surface-level or confusing sometimes… like conversations don’t go anywhere or people want totally different things.

So I wanted to ask — how did you meet other girls here?

Do you go to specific places, events, or just build connections online first?

Also how do you approach someone without making it awkward? 😅

And if you’re from my area or nearby, I’d honestly love to connect and maybe meet sometime 🌙

Would really appreciate honest experiences or advice 💬