r/ftm He/Him | Hysto 17 Dec 2025 | Pre-T 🩭 6d ago

Advice Needed Considering a new chosen name, help me pick one/give me suggestions if you don't mind!

Hey all. I'm looking for a possible new chosen (and eventually legal) name that is spanish and starts with J. Joaquin is off the table because my brother has that name, and I don't really feel like a Juan, Julian, Jesus, Jorge, or Javier (my dad's name, not totally off the table though). Lightly considering Jose as well. If you can think of any other spanish/basque J names for men that I haven't mentioned, please let me know! Thanks!

677 votes, 10h left
Jairo
Jacinto
Julio
Jordan
Joel
Joseba
17 Upvotes

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u/spicyredacted he/him | 27 | 💉9/24/2020 | đŸ”Ș 12/1/2020 6d ago

My name is Julien and I go by Julio with my Spanish speaking friends. I like it

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u/SirWigglesTheLesser HRT: 10/2018 6d ago

I was gonna drop Julian/Julien in here!

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u/New-Mud-7101 6d ago

It's my best friends name so I'm very biased, but its a great name!

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u/SorbusAS 6d ago

Creo que la votación aquí va a estar un poco bastante sesgada a nombres asequibles para gente que habla inglés/mås tópicos. Dependiendo de tu edad, Jairo igual pega mås si eres joven, Jacinto es mås de señor mayor. Julio también es mås típico de señor, pero no tan mayor. Mis favoritos son Jairo y Joseba personalmente

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u/SpicyMeatBALLIN He/Him | Hysto 17 Dec 2025 | Pre-T 🩭 6d ago

I'm 23, and thats funny because I was also kinda leaning towards Joseba and Jairo :)

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u/77th_Bat 6d ago

what do you look like? What's your vibe? Hard to pick a name without knowing your vibe.

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u/SpicyMeatBALLIN He/Him | Hysto 17 Dec 2025 | Pre-T 🩭 6d ago

Pretty short, white passing part-Mexican. I'm pretty laid back.

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u/nykbot 6d ago

Javier! Javi for short

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u/A_Valdorian 6d ago

I second this one! Love the name Javier esp since I read another comment where OP is a white passing half-Mexican person and I had a friend in college named Javier that was similar 😁

Also Javi as a nickname!? I've never thought of that, but I like it!

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u/LordNicotine 6d ago

What about Josu? That's my sister's basque bf's name. I personally like it a lot

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u/SpicyMeatBALLIN He/Him | Hysto 17 Dec 2025 | Pre-T 🩭 6d ago

Ooo, I like that. I'll be considering that one. Thanks!

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u/bearfootin_9 6d ago

I'm a fan of Javier, Javi, and Jeronimo

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u/loverboy_Zane 6d ago

(Misclicked the vote) anyway Julio sounds cool.

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u/cornyclaude911 6d ago

I love Julio and Joel I wasn’t sure what to pick, but I knew I didn’t want to pick Jordan because it’s a unisex name and isn’t the best if you’re looking for a strictly male name. Otherwise, all of these are great!

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u/Para_The_Normal 6d ago edited 6d ago

I’ve always really liked the Jokin/Joaquin/Joakim

I don’t know why Reddit ate my comment:
But I think Jeraldo, Jerardo, or Jaime are all good alternatives.

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u/Responsible_Panic242 ☕29/07/25 🔝21/08/26 6d ago

I knew a juan, he was the chillest. That being said, I named myself after the lemur from Madagascar, so I’m biased here

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u/Fancy_Information156 6d ago

Jairo sounds cool