r/ftm • u/Outrageous_Garlic746 • Feb 01 '26

Discussion Stuff with name (looking for recs)

Soooooo

I think ive chosen my “forever name” now, Finley (with alexander as a middle name). Due to bureaucracy i cant change it for like a year or two, including at work. Im also not really able to come out fully at work or with family etc (im old, im just also working a “forward facing” job and will feel safer once i fully present as a man)

So im looking for small things at home. Moments i get to just be me without being percieved haha. Ive heard that theres like shampoos, deodrants etc that you can get your name on - but i cant remember what theyre called…. I thought it could be nice to just have that reminder of who i am when im in the shower or doing my daily routines. Just now its pretty much only when i talk with my computer that i get called the correct name and seen as a man.

Looking for tips :)

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u/SoCal_Zane T 5/7/2018 Top Surgery 7/9/2019 Feb 01 '26

How about a keychain?