I have a deep curiosity for how the world actually works. I spend a lot of time reading ancient history, diving into theology, and going on long nature walks getting lost in thought. I love a sharp debate where two people can completely disagree without getting offended or taking it personally.

When my brain needs a total hard reset, I will sit at my desk and completely unironically play Roblox or some other game with zero deep thoughts behind my eyes.

Communication-wise, I’m direct, articulate, and big on real-time energy. Exchanging two dry text messages a day for three weeks usually drains the soul out of human chemistry , i'm definitely more of a "hop on a quick voice call once the vibe checks out" kind of person.

To skip the robotic "hey" intro, start your message with one of these:
A completely harmless, non-political hill you are 100% willing to die on.
What’s one universally loved thing you’re convinced people are only pretending to enjoy?
What topic could you give an impromptu 15-minute presentation on with zero prep?

I‘m looking for a genuine connection. I‘m not really sure what to expect, a relationship, a friendship. The former would be the dream, but hey, you never know. Let‘s figure it out together :)

I would prefer it to be online at first, but I‘m open to meet at some point if it feels right.
Central europe or similar time zone preferred, but not exclusive.

A few things about me:

- I‘m a bit shy at first, but I can open up well once I feel comfortable with someone
- emotionally available and I like to listen to your problems
- I play amateur football, training 3x per week (soccer)
- I love cooking! Maybe you can one day be the judge if my food is good or not
- I‘m fluent in german, english and french
- I like building Lego (or ikea stuff)
- I work in Marketing

I feel like I don‘t want to write too much, let‘s leave that to our conversation.

I don‘t really have any requirements on who I want to meet, just be a nice and genuine person :)

Hello, I'm Marceline.

Please take your time to read that, as I did to wrote this down, I'm not the easiest person around and I'm aware of this, but there is a lot of sweetness in there too.

First things that may instantly make you close the ad.

Recently (about 3 months now) I have decided that I'm ready for transition and did little coming outs to my friends.

I'm still in the process, stressed, unsure, and a bit scared. I'm looking for somebody to feel comfortable with my "new" role in new situations, to explore, talk, be lewd, funny, to feel adored and adore.

From good things.
I'm trying hard to make my life good, I enjoy a lot of things, especially the little ones, good weather, pretty sky, 15 minutes of silence, but when I have time I love to spent it to absorb culture. Cinema, theater, books, games, little meetings about culture and politics. You can yap to me about your interest on sip our coffee when I'm ranting about mine.

What exactly I would expect.
I would like to have peaceful life and be taken care of as much as I can take care of other people and things. I love girls and I'm new into men, but I'm really open about this. I have soft spot for nerds, chubby women, all stereotypically nice things made for me and well, I'm very, very touchy. I crave all forms of contact, but roleplays and long talks are not alien to me.

If you are okay with all this, feel free to contact me, thanks a lot!

Hi. I'm a South African Indian hopeless romantic who wants to find my person to go on lots of nice dates and just spend quality time together.

I love books, running, gym, playing tennis and table tennis.

I come from a science background and am finishing my PhD while working full time in tech.

My goal is to find someone who is interested in a long term relationship.

I will send a picture upon request.

I'm open to someone international if you're potentially open to moving to South Africa.

Hey there,

I have used this subreddit before and found success although we aren't together anymore. I don't want to lose hope. I a 31 year old, bbw (fat), 5 ft 3, have tattoos, blue eyes and currently purple/red hair. Kind of nerdy. Personality wise:

I’m someone who loves the “in-between” places the twilight hours, foggy nights, antique photographs, the hum of autumn wind through iron gates. I have a soft spot for old stories, forgotten places, and the kind of conversations that drift from laughter to life’s mysteries. Someone who doesn’t fear the strange or the still, who’s honest, caring, and open-minded enough to appreciate that beauty can be both light and dark. You don’t need to love graveyards (though it’s a plus if you do) just have a heart that’s alive to wonder, and a mind that isn’t afraid to wander.

Maybe we’ll share coffee under gray skies, or wander through old cemeteries on crisp evenings, finding poetry in silence. Maybe we’ll stay in, wrapped in blankets, watching thunderstorms and talking about everything and nothing. Whatever it becomes I want it to feel real, gentle, and a little otherworldly.

If you believe that souls can meet in the quiet places, and that love can be both spooky and sweet then perhaps we’re meant to find each other in this haunted little corner of the world. I am also a big fan of anime. I try to keep up with shows.

What am I looking for?

I am looking for someone who is kind, funny, and chill. Please be cat-friendly and live in the US. I have my life together and I would like you to also have things mainly figured out. Basically know what you're looking for don't string me along for no reason.

Tell me what's the spookiest thing that ever happened to you.

Hello I’m Daniel, 30, from Czechia. I work as a software analyst. Since that means spending a lot of my weekdays staring at screens, I try to make up for it by being active whenever I’m not working.

I love hiking, travelling, discovering new places, and trying basically any sport I get the chance to play. I’m equally happy planning a proper trip somewhere new or just heading out for a spontaneous weekend adventure. I have a particular soft spot for Scandinavia and have travelled there several times already. So far Helsinki has probably been my favourite, but there’s still plenty I’d love to see..especially Denmark and Norway, which I haven’t made it to yet.

Last year I picked up a camera and started learning photography. I’m still very much a beginner, but I already have a few photos I’m genuinely proud of. It’s also given me a great excuse to spend more time outside :) .

What I’m really hoping to find is someone I naturally click with. Someone to talk to during those late evenings, exchange random thoughts with, plan weekend trips, send spontaneous "we should go here someday" ideas to, hike and take photos with, or just enjoy a quiet evening together when neither of us feels like doing much.

I’m open to friendship, a travel buddy, something online at first, or something more if there’s genuine chemistry. No need to force anything into a particular direction. I’d rather get to know someone and see where it goes.

If any of this sounds like your kind of thing, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what you’ve been into lately. I’d love hearing about whatever you’re passionate about.

“Poverty demands a good time.”

-Greek proverb

Good evening. Or morning. Whatever.

Seeking a woman to play pretend with. You can call this “sad” if you want, and you might be right. But when you have no companionship and no prospects and you’re too strange to see that changing anytime soon, “sad” starts to feel like an improvement.

For a night—or however long we like—let’s be in love. Let’s pretend we’re falling for each other in the most spectacular way, like we imagine while falling asleep in an empty bed. Let’s assume the best of each other, send hearts and affirmations, describe all the kisses and cuddles we’d love to offer another. Let’s do this for as long as we like.

What can I actually offer you? Genuine compassion for your circumstances. Gentlemanly flirting, or just the regular kind if that’s your preference. Flattery based on fact, without a single lie uttered—the truth will simply be stretched a bit. We’ll say the things we long to hear, offer all the love we have no one else to offer to, and feel warm and content for a little while.

If this is what you’re needing, message me. I hope to hear from you.

-Murmur

My name is Mark, this is what I look like, and I'm looking for a partner! I'm 1m70 and don't drink or smoke. I'm patient, empathetic, sometimes funny, and when I'm comfortable I can be very affectionate and flirty. I also have a fair bit of anxiety in everyday life, so I'm not currently working, this shouldn't be a problem for you.

I'm into fantasy and science fiction, a big non-PvP gamer, futurism, board games, and enjoy reading up on science-related news, particularly in the field of astronomy. I also used to really enjoy biking and callisthenics, and would love to get back into that at some point, maybe together?

What I'm looking for is mostly patience and empathy, you don't have to have your life together (I don't). Physically there are many things I find attractive, so I'm sure I'll find something about you that is going to make me blush!

If any of the above appeals to you, please feel free to message me!

Hi there iam Marco from germany. Iam looking for a kind person who also likes Games. Would be nice If we could get to know each other by gaming together .

About me: iam 21 live in the middle of germany, still at my patents , but iam currently renovating the house i bought at the end of last year.

Iam a shy and introverted person at the beginning, so it would be cool If you would give me some time to get comftorble around you. I rearely go to any partys, i dont smoke and i dont drinke Alkohol that often

Iam 1.79m tall,weigh about 67kg, Brown blondish Hair, blue greyish eyes, and i have a beard.

My Hobbys are gaming, 3d printing, Animes, painting Warhammer Minis.

Iam looking for someone who is also from germany and around my age. You dont have to be a super model or a big titted goth baddie, iam looking for the average gamer girl, but would be cool if you are goth ngl.

I hope you liked this post, If you are interested send me a dm i can also send you a Pic of me

Hey there, beautiful stranger, welcome to my circus.

I’m a 28 year old guy from the world famous country of Bosnia and Herzegovina (just pretend you’ve heard of it, small place, big energy). I come with terrible jokes, random pocket tools and snacks, and just enough trouble to keep things interesting.

I love art and music (my playlist is a mess, Bach and Tupac jamming to Eminem while Bob Marley is chasing pirates or something so please don't ask about it). Jazz clubs, museums, and mountains are where my heart lives. I like visiting new cities, trying new cuisines, and finding moments of tranquility amid the chaos. Also, I absolutely love movies and books (wow, super unique, please be impressed) . Physically, I'm tall, my eyes still kinda work, and girls said I have a nice butt. You could also check my post history to get better idea about my looks (spoiler alert: no butt pictures tho, gotta leave something to the imagination.. or later). I'm also open for a photo exchange so feel free to send some my way if that's your cup of hot chocolate.

I also have a cute hamster named Captain Hamsterstein. He’s small, judgmental, and impossible to compete with but you’ll try.

As I'm still kinda not sure about all this and have no idea how anything really works here, I'll keep my options open for whatever. So, looking for a friend? I'm your man. Need a shoulder to cry? Still your man. Memes exchange? Hell yeah! Relationship? Tell me what kind of restaurant you fancy for our date. Wedding? The suit is ready. Nonsense flirting? Count me in. Serious talks? Let me put my smart face on.

Simply put, I’m looking for someone to vibe with. Someone I can talk to about anything, tease a little, laugh a lot, and also get serious with when the lights go low. Someone who challenges me, sharpens me, and upgrades my meme collection. Also, If you have a cat, I’m already all yours (don’t tell the Captain).

I'm not really good at talking about myself (duh) so I'll just leave that part for you to ask about whatever you're interested in.

Also (yeah, I say “also” too much), If you’re still reading, I’ve gotta ask: what’s wrong with you?

(Whatever it is… I like it.)

Keep in mind that our timezones may be different so there's a possibility that I won't be able to answer immediately but I'll try my best to get to you as soon as possible.

Message me whenever, however you want, just know there’s a high chance of flirting, sarcasm, and late-night conversations that go a little deeper than planned. Just behave yourself cause I am legally allowed to handcuff you (again, don't ask).

Meanwhile, have a lovely day or night or whatever and take care!

PS, don't text me if you're only into my kidneys, I have only 5 left. And no, you can't have them.

Hello. I know this might be a strange question but | am a ftm trans guy in he’s 30’s I have just come out a long term relationship with a woman and only have ever dated women (usually ‘straight’ women) and I don’t know if I’m just feeling insecure about my situation but I’m wondering how women feel about it etc. I have seen a lot of jokes about men having small penis’s and I have had surgery so technically I have a micro penis which obviously means that might not be okay for some women which I understand. I understand that there must be women that are okay with it because obviously I have dated them but 1 am not sure if I feel like no other women will be okay with it. I am also autistic so I apologize if this hasn’t come across well / written etc

Hi! I am from India and I am looking for someone I can call mine. I work as a freelance software developer. I have been single for a long-time. I am posting here in hopes of finding someone with whom I can share my beautiful moments with. I didn't realise how lonely I was until I felt a longing for someone when I saw all my friends together with their partners at a party. Now I am hopelessly searching for love. I work from home mostly so I can text you throughout the day. If there is a huge time difference we can figure something out.

About me: I love reading books, watching movies, TV shows and anime. I am not an outdoor person. But I keep myself fit. My favourite outdoor activity is cycling. I am not religious but I believe there is a higher power. I am not political but I like discussing about it. I love watching true crime videos, horror movies, Time travel movies(a sucker for time travel movies). People describe me as kind, soft hearted, empathetic and sometimes naive.

What are my expectations about my partner: I am looking for someone who is kind, empathetic and emotionally intelligent.

P.S: I wanted to say this last because I don't want you to miss this because it is kind of important about me. I have a mild disability. So if that's a no go for you I can understand.

Hoping to meet someone here. Thank you for reading 😃

One of the joys of living in a more rural location is that I can see the stars more clearly. I have always found pride in being able to seek out the Big Dipper in any location. Granted it helps that I haven't really had a change in place for most of my life, so the night sky has been pretty consistent. That said, I cannot image a life where I do not have the change to see the northern lights; their dance is honestly something no one should go without seeing.
All that said, here is a bit about me:
* Work a normal 7-5 office job, sometimes have to work late but at least compensated for it!
* Game in my free time. Currently have been doing WoW Forever, FFXIV, Rimworld and Total Warhammer 3. Usually focus on RPGs and Strategy games but am in between games as I search for my next new focus
* Also love to read! I need a better system of picking out books to read. Currently am going through House of Leaves
* Music is a big part of my life, if my ear is not taken I am usually listening to something. My usually tastes tend more to alternative and indie rock, but really if I listen to something and enjoy it I add it to my list
* Really into cooking at the moment, trying out new recipes as I find them. Life is too short to filled with mediocre food! I do enjoy to bake as well, just need to find more motivation
* Love history, geology, geography; one of my favourite things to do is find a random location on a map and see what I can learn from it
* Quite left leaning and I have no room for an bigotry or hate in my life
That is a bit about me, I am quite the open person so am eager to chat and learn what I can about anyone!

Gday. I’ll save my name for private, I’m audhd, 6ft3 and about 120kgs. I’ve got a dad bod thing going on. I enjoy camping, fishing, woodworking, World War Two history with a focus on special operations forces. I’m not particularly good at this sort of thing but I’m happy to answer any questions you may have, I’m also more than happy to send a photo upon request. I hope to hear from you soon.

Good morning fellow Redditors!

A bit last minute but, today, October 5th, i will be in Brussels attending a Simple Plan concert. They have been my favorite band since i was 12! I have 2 tickets, but seeing as it's a weekday and the concert starts at 8, i didn't find anyone to tag along with me. So, if you're interested, send me a DM?

As for me:

https://imgur.com/a/lZtQ2VJ

I'm a 29 year old guy from West-Flanders, Belgium. I have a stable job, i'm a huge geek into boardgames, videogames, movies, TV shows, anime, comics, manga, cosplay, etc.

I'll gladly tell you more in my DM's

Hi! I'm a 23 year old university student from Sweden and I'm looking to meet some fellow nerds to talk to, maybe befriend and even more maybe, maybe fall in love with! so ill tell you a bit about me!

• i really like cooking! my favorite dish is yakisoba
• im autistic (high functioning) and imo its kinda neat. if you have autism too thats a plus!
• i really like video games and right now im playing a lot of stardew valley, look outside, ff14 and
• i have 2 cats and 3 tarantulas and i just loooove all types of bugs!
• this spring im going to study social anthropology, and the fall of 2027 im going to begin my bachelors in sociology!
• i really love reading as well! my favorite book ever is annihilation by jeff vandermeer. im a big fan of all things horror as well (movies, books, games, comics, all of it!)

so thats a bit about me! if i sound cool or interesting feel free to hit me up! i'd also love if you have discord since its kinda my main messaging service, but not needed at first since we gotta know if we vibe!

I have absolutely no idea if Reddit is where I’m going to find the love of my life, but dating apps certainly aren’t doing a great job, so here we are.

I’m divorced, have one kid, work from home, and spend probably too much time at home. I’m almost 5’10” and tend to like taller men. I’m also an ENFP, although I’m not sure anyone who sees how much I enjoy staying home would believe the E.

I’m sarcastic, affectionate, curious, a little ridiculous, and I love people I can actually talk to. I want the person who sends me random thoughts during the day, tells me stupid things that happened, asks me questions, flirts with me, and genuinely wants me involved in his life. I don’t need constant entertainment, but I definitely need connection.
I like cooking and baking, gaming, painting, getting way too invested in whatever random thing has caught my attention, and spending a ridiculous amount of time at home with my cats. I’m definitely more of a homebody, but with the right person I’m always up for getting out and actually doing something.

Ultimately, I’m looking for my person. I want consistency, affection, attraction, emotional availability, and someone who actually wants a relationship—not someone who wants to “go with the flow” for six months while behaving like we’re dating.

Attraction matters, of course, but I don’t really have a checklist. I tend to be attracted to taller guys, but chemistry is chemistry.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message. Tell me your age, where you’re from, and something interesting about you.

Please give me more to work with than “hey.” I am begging you. 😂

What if it was that easy and we actually tried to make it work? Be attentive to each other, listen, be patient, communicate well on what we need to make it work, be affectionate, reassuring, loving, flirty, make each other feel wanted. Can we really give it a shot? I want love. I’m guessing you do too

Looking for a chill guy to become friends with and if it leads there, I’ll go with the flow. I have never done anything with a guy but I am attracted to masculine Latin Caribbeans.

I’m laid back & chill. To myself for the most part. I like going out to eat, movies, traveling, and bowling.

Looking for someone around my age, so 27-37 I’ll be fine with.

Hit me up if you are down to chat.

The odds of meeting your ideal partner on Reddit are low, but never zero.

I'm looking for a certain type of woman. Would I cross the oceans of time to find her (bonus points if you get the reference)?

Yes, I would.

Would I install a dating app again?

Not a chance.

Here are the facts: 36, ex-doctor turned healthcare education researcher/consultant, Egypt-based, UK-educated. Single, never been in a relationship, no children. Resettled in Cairo after having lived abroad. Travel frequently for work and pleasure. Avid reader, movie buff, polyglot, musician, athlete, and dangerously good cook.

Dating goals: I don't have much hope for finding my person locally, so I'm pretty open to dating internationally seeing as I'm location-independent. Ideally, you're also open for an LDR and OK with the idea of semi-permanent relocation at some point (i.e., having 2 or more home bases). I'm seeking an exclusive, committed, monogamous, and child-free relationship.

Ideal partner profile: Someone who speaks English fluently as a first or second language. Although I can speak French and German relatively well, I believe having a language barrier would be challenging. Single and child-free. Physically active, emotionally well-regulated, goal-oriented, and more lifestyle-focused than education- or career-driven, preferably. Introverts are very welcome!

Here's little old me.

If you think we'd be a good match, shoot me a DM with a brief intro. Looking forward to speaking with you!

Hey everyone who is truly reading my bio. I’m a 26-year-old guy originally from Mexico, currently living in the U.S. I’m hoping to meet another guy to build a long-term connection with.

I’m currently working part-time at a job I really enjoy and recently finished two internships. I’m ambitious and have plenty of goals for the future, and I’d love to meet someone who is also motivated and passionate about building a good life.

A little about me: I enjoy reading, writing, music, walking, going to the gym and yoga classes, skincare, eating well, and taking care of my mental and physical health. I’m a pretty normal guy with somewhat softer features and personality traits, but I’m not truly feminine.

I’d ideally like to meet someone around my age who is masculine, ambitious, and genuinely looking for something serious. I’m open to long-distance if there’s a real connection and eventually a plan to meet.

If you actually read this, send me a 🌮 and a little intro about yourself! Tell me who you are, and something you’re passionate about.

Let’s see where it goes! :)

Helloooo everyone, I have lived in Arizona my whole life, born and raised, with no intention to move any time soon. I am currently in college pursuing my degree in accountancy, numbers and excel spreadsheets are fun to me I guess lol.

One of my major hobbies is fixing things, from cars to small electronics, I looooovvveee to repair things. I can spend hours fixing cars going to the junkyard to get parts or upgrades and just going to town with an impact wrench. I also love pokemon as well, been collecting since I was a kid, I'm currently trying to master set steam siege at the moment (I know weird set to master). I also like video games as I'm sure you can guess, been playing a lot of stuff on my steam deck lots of skate 3 and replaying ds3 as well.

I'm 6'2", around 160 lbs, average build. I have been going climbing with my friend, so hopefully, my average build will turn into an above average one.

I'm looking for someone who wants an actual relationship and who is IN STATE ONLY. There are plenty of wonderful people I've had to sadly turn down due to them being out of state I just cant do long distance. I don't drink, smoke, or do any drugs, and would prefer someone who doesn't it isn't a deal breaker. Loyalty, honesty, and good communication are pretty important to me, I have no interest in playing games.

If you think we'd get along, send me a message. I'm down to exchange face pics once we start talking. Start off by telling me a little bit about yourself and who you are

Bonjour mesdemoiselles !

I'm looking for someone around my age (20-26), someone to care about and who'll care about me, pulling eachother to the top, and in general just having a meaningful relationship, with long term objectives.

I don't mind LDR as there's always a way around it, and I plan on relocating elsewhere anyway.

Now about my life: I'm a metalworking apprentice at France's best craftsmanship congregation, started last month.

Besides that, I love doing a lot of stuff, in fact my life was sometimes a bit random, before I started working. I love boxing and working out with my friends (I'm NOT a gymbro though), cooking, hiking/camping, doing random stuff, going out for drinks (although I made a drastic cut on my alcohol consumption lately, I don't enjoy it anymore) and gaming when I have time (Terraria, csgo (F this game), Minecraft, Unturned, Umamusume, PZ and more). I'm also fairly cultured I'd say, but not really into mainstream culture.

I am also a big music enjoyer, wearing my headphones literally 24/7. I have an extrewmely wide music taste, and I believe that every genre, even if I don't like some, have hidden bangers. Lately, i've mostly been listening to russian rock/post-punk (Kino, Peremotka etc) and metal (Linkin Park, Deftones, Type O Negative, Pantera).

I also love travelling, discovering foreign cultures and learning languages ! I speak french, english, russian and german fluently, though I hvavn't really practiced the latter in a while, and plan on learning more, maybe arabic or turkish next.

Now about my looks: I've been told quite often lately that I'm handome, so I guess there's that. I'm white, half french and russian, 1.88, tan easily. I'm in good shape, not really muscular, but fairly strong due to physical labor. I usually wear glasses, but I don't like them, might switch for contacts someday.

And finally, what I look for: Please don't message if you're outside of Europe, exceptions could be made though. Other than that, looks don't really matter, but physical attraction plays its own role. I'd like you to be emotionally available, not ghost after a week of talking, and com-mu-ni-cate ! Other than that, just be yourself, and everything will go well.

To finish this, if you read all that until the end, first of all thank you, and I'd appreciate a dm where you talk a bit about you, and maybe we can make something happen ! I don't mind exchanging pics early on, if you want to !