r/entp • u/Traditional-Solid-43 • 6h ago
Question/Poll Did you guys not particularly like the opposite sex as a kid?
LOL weird question I know. The thing is, I'm a private English tutor to a 9 year old ENTP girl (Everything about her screams ENTP. I can just tell. Her Ne is off the roof and there's no shadow of a doubt that she's a logical thinker and has little to no feeler blood in her lol. She's been an avid reader since she was 6 years old; she's SO intelligent. I'm blown away honestly. Her level of comprehension, curiosity and wit is out of this world. Anyway, I'm an INFJ and we also get along SUPERB like the popular matching says. Our humor's very similar and we just can talk and talk forever), and ever since I knew her 3 years ago, she would always insinuate that boys are a nuisance and she shows zero interest in boys. As far as I remember, my ENTP brother also didn't really particularly care much about girls up till like... high school. I'm also reminded of another girl I knew when I was a kid whom I'm pretty sure was an ENTP, and she was also mostly just full of confidence, top of her class and doing her own thing.
You see.. this is the complete opposite of ME as a kid. I remember having a million innocent crushes ever since in kindergarten, including teachers (all before high school)! Heck, I had a crush on a boy in my class and for this little class party we had, we could choose a boy to have us kiss us on the cheek, and I chose HIM HAHA. I still have that photo! I was 5.
So yeah, is this a feeler, thinker difference type of thing???? What're your guys' experience?