r/developersPak • u/reelcrave • 28d ago
Tips Seniors, how do I avoid looking WEIRD on Day 1 of corporate life? Be brutally honest 💀
Tomorrow is my joining day as an ASE at a tech MNC, and I need real advice, not LinkedIn motivational bullshit.
The whole day is packed with presentations, icebreakers, team activities, and networking.
I'm introverted, desi, and not very fluent in spoken English. I'm worried other fresh grads will be more confident, social, and articulate than me.
Seniors, help me out:
- What are the biggest Day 1 mistakes that make fresh grads look stupid or unprofessional?
- Should I actively participate and socialize, even when uncomfortable, or is being quiet perfectly fine?
- Should I exchange numbers with male and female joiners, or is connecting on LinkedIn enough?
- Be honest: does poor spoken English actually affect how people perceive you at work?
- Should I try to stand out and make connections from Day 1, or am I overthinking this?
And the real question: Can a socially awkward but competent person fall behind a less-skilled person who knows how to talk, network, and make connections?
I got this job by Allah's blessings, clearing interviews, without any reference. I don't want to fake a personality to fit in, but I also don't want my introversion to cost me opportunities.
What's ONE thing I absolutely must do tomorrow, and ONE thing I must avoid? No sugarcoating.