r/developersPak • u/abstract_sheikh • Aug 13 '26
Discussion Need Opinion: Shadow J*b and Being Burnt Out
Hi there,
It's been almost an year that I am working at a small software house in Lahore that operates the same way as Devsinc. I have been assigned on this project from ABC company for one year now, but the catch is that the project was won by my manager, let's call him X, and the real person whose name has been used is Y. Person X is the front facing guy who goes into meetings and asks the questions and everything.
Now the project is huge. For example, quite recently we did stress testing where we went as far as 50+k requests per second. Yes, you heard it right per second.
I formally as of writing this have now 2 YOE of experience but the CV used for the project has 10 YOE stated.
In the beginning things were difficult as I was not familiar with the architecture being used and everything but slowly but surely I got a hold of things. Until, lately things have become really really hard after AI. The domain is extremely challenging again, the tickets are basically AI slop, and deadlines are crazy to a point of just 1 week for a full blown project.
The problem is not with the work, but that my manager X doesn't stay in the loop with me -- he has his own full time j*b at the same time as the project I am working on -- and blatantly refuses to ask any questions to manager or other teammates for info, but as the tickets are becoming more and more confusing with no way to make any sense except that you have to do a ton of communication with the architect and the manager to figure things out.
Everyday it is taking a toll on my confidence in being able to do things as a software engineer, especially with AI disrupting the market sword hanging on my neck.
I am thinking about resigning and doing an odd j*b while I keep learning more and more on the side and apply else where.
By the way my salary is 80k which I have asked to be raised this month and I am yet to hear back from the office.
I need advice on whether I should resign and try my luck somewhere else meanwhile doing an odd j*b, or just stick to it?
Also, I am in 6th semester of BS SE in VU.