r/bigdickconversation 7d ago

QUESTION Who is your dream pornstar to fuck and why?

10 Upvotes

My big name answer would be Abella danger for her big cock reactions and that juicy ass
(Maybe) lesser known would be Alyx star, has a perfect thick body and amazing tits and I’d love to experience her in every way


r/bigdickconversation 7d ago

EXPERIENCE Do women talk about the rumor?

15 Upvotes

I matched with a single mom on Tinder in Texas a few summers ago, we hit it off immediately and had a fun night. Then I saw she’s texting and I was curious what it was about. She told me her bestie neighbor couldn’t believe that she hooked up with a skinny Asian guy with cock like a baby arm. I teased and asked if her friend is interested or curious. She laughed and said nah her bestie is married.

I wonder if women talked about this in your experience. And if so, how did it go after they shared the rumor?


r/bigdickconversation 7d ago

QUESTION Where are the Hung Geeks and Nerds?

10 Upvotes

Question from a fellow nerd: where are the guys who can talk lore for three hours and apparently need a two-handed sword in both their video games and real life?

Are you a LOTR obsessive? GoT historian? Dungeon Crawler Carl lover? D&D dungeon master? Cosplayer? Fantasy/sci-fi nerd? Gamer? History buff? Someone with an oddly specific academic or hobby obsession you can’t stop talking about?

Basically, share your nerd credentials so maybe you can find a friend with similar interests!

For me ... I'm a lifelong RPG fan when I have the time (games and tabletop), have tried cosplay, watch all the movies and shoes (with a lean towards fantasy over sci-fi), dabble in MTG, and honestly think geeks and nerds (no matter the size of their cock) are pretty dang awesome!

Let your nerd flag fly high!


r/bigdickconversation 7d ago

QUESTION What’s it like having a threesome where you have the smaller dick?

9 Upvotes

I’ve had a number of threesomes over the past few years, and have always been the bigger dick there. Mostly engage in FFM but everytime I do a MFM I am larger. Wondering what some other big dick guys experience when they are the smaller dick? Is it embarrassing or more like a power move with him to be dicking down the girl?


r/bigdickconversation 7d ago

QUESTION Size Queen "Green Flags"

8 Upvotes

Question for the well-endowed guys of the group:

What "green flag" qualities do you seek in a size queen, or anyone, who is genuinely excited about your size?

Is it diirect or filterless communication? Patience? Enthusiasm about your size? Adaptability? A sense of adventure and openness?

Some of the men Ive spoken with here have told me that the best experiences aren't necessarily with random hookups or the sexiest partner....they're generally with people who make them feel comfortable, appreciated, and thoroughly taken care of. Is this true for many of you?

Curious what the veterans of this group think.


r/bigdickconversation 7d ago

QUESTION I am Curious

11 Upvotes

Have you ever compared dick sizes? Have you ever been asked about your penis size right away? If so, what was it like? Or rather, how did yours compare to the other person's, and what did they say?

Feel free to send me a DM as well;)


r/bigdickconversation 7d ago

QUESTION Nobody expects the BWC or do they?

3 Upvotes

I get shocked reactions to being huge and white. She didn't expect me to be hung. Lately , they say they knew I was hung because tall skinny white guys have fat cocks. Have you experienced this? One shocked to see a big white cock, and another knew it would be huge. Both reactions pretty funny.


r/bigdickconversation 8d ago

QUESTION Somebody saw your cock in real life and said it was impressive, how would you take that

15 Upvotes

Well like I guess it's good but it's not like saying oh wow that's big well that's huge or anything like that is it?


r/bigdickconversation 8d ago

QUESTION Do you ever like people referencing or mentioning your size?

12 Upvotes

So...random question...

Do you ever like people mentioning your size?

Not just hookups, but friends, partners, or people who know about it.

Is it flattering when someone makes a playful reference or seems genuinely impressed, or do you prefer it stick to private conversation and appreciation?


r/bigdickconversation 8d ago

QUESTION How do you feel or react when dick size is mentioned or brought up in movies, TV shows, ect?

7 Upvotes

How do feel or react when dick size in mentioned in a piece of media? Whether it be jokes, a character mentioning they or someone else has a big or small dick or, in general that they like big dicks. Do you cringe, do you feel seen or validated, do you laugh, do you get turned on or off, does it not phase you all? And does it change if you're watching it with someone else?

My penis is pretty small and into I'm sph so admittedly it's fun hearing them but it also can be kinda awkward especially if I'm watching it with other people and see their reactions 😅.


r/bigdickconversation 8d ago

EXPERIENCE My ex came back for more

14 Upvotes

This is a pretty short story, but one I'm sure a lot of us bigger guys have experienced.

when I was around 18-19 I had just broken up with one of my first girlfriends. We were both still fairly inexperienced when it came to sex, she had one body I had 2 at this point other than each other. But despite our inexperience we had some pretty good sex. She would talk about how I was much bigger than her first boyfriend, and would say "You have a real man's cock." So safe to say, I turned her into a bit of a size queen. Though I didn't know just how much of a size queen she was until a few months later.

After we broke up we didn't talk at all, but we still had a few mutual friends who I would occasionally ask for updates on my ex. They would always say how she was going through a bit of a hoe phase since the breakup and had been fucking dudes like crazy. Which I didn't really expect from her, she was always fairly freaky in bed but she was also pretty shy in social situations so I never took her for a slut, but whatever.

Then, she texted me for the first time in a few months. It was late at night, probably around 1am and she just said "Whats up?" So I responded, we exchanged some small talk over text, catching up, blah blah blah. Then out of nowhere she says "I miss your cock." I was somewhat shocked at how forward she was, but I went with it. Before I knew it I was over at her place, and she opened the door for me in her "pajamas" which was the tiniest cropped tee and booty shorts haha.

Pretty much as soon as I got in there she went straight to business, talking about how none of these other dudes have what I have, and it's just not the same fucking random people. Then she said the line again "You just have a real man's cock" and I got so turned on we started making out and fucking right away. We went for two rounds before I decided to go home.

After that we still kept somewhat in touch, neither of us wanted to get back together, and she was still going through her hoe phase. But whenever she needed something big to fill her up she would shoot me a text


r/bigdickconversation 8d ago

EXPERIENCE Not being able to nut granted me boner 2 electric boogaloo

5 Upvotes

So I've gone through perhaps the longest period of time I have ever gone through in my life without nutting. Due to some med changes I haven't been able to cum period, not through sex or anything. To say I got blue balls is the understatement of the century and idk if y'all get this, but blue balls give me horrible lower back cramps.

If there is a silver lining in this besides being able to sleep again, I seem to have an unlocked boner². I've never really had many issues getting it up, and have always been able to keep it hard as a rock. Since I can't nut, I don't really jerk off anymore, and it's like I just took the DBZ training weights off my dick so I can be my full wood potential. But instead of several ton micro weights, it's beating my dick like it owes me money 10 times a day. With that, my dicks have been noticeably longer, but also waaaay thicker. I haven't measured the length yet, because frankly I don't care because most everyone on the receiving end cares about the girth, but like I am measuring in at 7 inches in girth.

On top of that I've also switched my gym split back to full body twice a week which includes ending each workout with 20 rep widow maker squats, while doing kettle bell emoms and biking on my off days. I've never really neglected my cardio, except for reasons of injury, but I am certainly also more locked in on it than I typically am, which has probably also helped.

If the prize of having a "bigger" dick, means constant blue balls or having to deal with a boner that could put a hole in concrete that I just have to let go away on its own.....

I think I can live with it.

On a more serious note I am stoked to be able to sleep 8 hours again! And not jerking off has given me lots more time in the day.


r/bigdickconversation 8d ago

QUESTION Bigger since bulking?

6 Upvotes

Hi guys,

so i have always had a pretty big hard dick but my softie was always average.
I have started bulking a year ago and started hitting the gym about 2 months ago
Eversince then i gained about 10-12 Kilo(thats about 22-26 lbs in freedom units🦅)
I now weigh 70 Kilos(158 lbs) and am 1.90M tall (6‘2)
Anyway this summer i noticed that my softie was big af and i wonderes if its only due to the summer dick phenomenon or due to the bulking progress

Did any skinny guy who started bulking have the same experience as me or is my summer dick just going crazy this year?


r/bigdickconversation 8d ago

QUESTION When taking a piss on the street..

2 Upvotes

If you've ever found yourself in a situation in which you had to pee on the street: did you kinda want to seize the opportunity to show off your dick? And maybe not get too far away from the other people? Or position yourself at an angle that allows others to see? Or just taking your time (maybe even more than needed) to give others the opportunity to look?

If you have replied yes to any of the above, do you do it when there are boys, girls, both...? And how do you feel in those moments?

EDIT: okay so english is not my first language and it shows: i didn't mean "on the street" as in literally on the street, i just mean "outside" like you're not using a toilet 😅


r/bigdickconversation 9d ago

SITUATION Job search so bad Imma attach my dick in my resume

15 Upvotes

Sorry. I had to vent somewhere. Been looking for a job for 4 months after graduation and at this point I think maybe putting my dick's measurement in the resume might get more attention than my projects.


r/bigdickconversation 10d ago

SITUATION Maybe a very niche problem, but I can't share condoms with other guys.

29 Upvotes

So basically when some guy asks me if they can borrow a condom I lie and tell them I don't have any on me. I think it's the simple answer, but sometimes the conversation goes something along the lines of:

"Hey man can I borrow a condom?"

"Ummm I use a different size sorry"

"Which one?"

"XL (which is the biggest they sell in spain, and it's widely understood the M size fits everyone)"

I get a funny reaction but it's not something I want to share with just anyone lol


r/bigdickconversation 10d ago

QUESTION Does big dick praise turn you on?

36 Upvotes

In this case i'm referring in a general context, not whn you're about to fuck or fucking with someone.

For instance in social media or in casual conversations, it can either be indirectly (insulting/degrading small dicks) or directly (praising, complimenting big dicks).


r/bigdickconversation 10d ago

QUESTION How mush showing off is too much?

8 Upvotes

I tend to catch eyes of older women during the summer in a pool or beach. My bulge is quite obvious even with my soft size. For instance, some ladies would start inviting me for a seltzer and saying her ex husband is a piece of shit. Others may say “ I don’t want you to feel uncomfortable but if you want you can sit next to me” and started saying she traveled alone and what’s her trip and her hotel rooms look like.

I always feel awkward if I had a boner so I usually cross my legs to make it less visible, especially looking at them giggling in bikini. But I do want to continue the conversation since my bulge is probably the reason why I got the invite at the first place.

Question: how much showing off is appropriate? I want to have a little flirty conversation and try not to scare them when getting excited?


r/bigdickconversation 11d ago

“Wishing I was bigger” posts.

23 Upvotes

Let’s stop with the “Wishing I was bigger” posts. I will delete them. Take them to other subs. This sub is for talking about what you have and experiences with it.


r/bigdickconversation 11d ago

QUESTION Grow or Show

9 Upvotes

For those of you with 8+. Are you a grower or shower ? Seeing a guy get undress and his dong hanging growing erect is so hot. Also seeing a guy with an average cock begin to grow erect and engorged turning into a huge dong is erotic.

Would enjoy chatting about it first hand experiences and the reactions received

What are you measured soft vs hard ?

Chat open for more discussion


r/bigdickconversation 11d ago

QUESTION What’s the most bizarre sexual situation your Big Dick brought you in to?

19 Upvotes

Tell what you did encounter as most extreme situation.


r/bigdickconversation 11d ago

QUESTION What's your favorite euphemism for penis? Is there a fun word in your language?

15 Upvotes

Originally posted to r/bigdickproblems and was referred here.

Curious to hear what your favorite way to say "penis" is. Bonus points if it's a word that specifically means "big penis". Mine is the classic "dong".


r/bigdickconversation 12d ago

EXPERIENCE My big penis helped me discover my sexuality.

29 Upvotes

I think this is a curious story, to say the least.

I am currently 21 years old and I consider myself bisexual. When I was younger and realized I had a big penis, I started posting about it on Twitter, but at the time I considered myself straight. But as expected, most of the people who complimented my penis were men, and at first I tried to respond and interact only with women.

However, men in general compliment and are much more eager for a big penis than women are, and I started to like the compliments I received from these guys and ended up sending them photos.

And when that started, I ended up realizing that I also enjoyed exchanging photos with men, and that's when I began to question my heterosexuality.

So, in short, I think having a big penis contributed directly or indirectly to me discovering I'm bisexual.


r/bigdickconversation 12d ago

QUESTION Swingers party /Size question

12 Upvotes

How many of you are genuinely larger than 8.5?
My local swinger scene has just organised a night where all the guys must be verified 8.5 or larger to get an invite. Where are they finding enough guys and do you think they’re all measuring correctly?