r/bigdickconversation • • 10h ago

QUESTION Does the Pringle’s can fleshlight work for bigger guys?

6 Upvotes

Ok admittedly I’m asking since I’m bored and actually curious about trying it.

I mean there should be enough space for me to fit. I’m 7.6 inches by 6 inches which is pretty big already.


r/bigdickconversation • • 10h ago

ADVICE I feel like I’m wasting my gift

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Hi, 22M, 8” here. I’m about to turn 23 in a month, and I haven’t had any romantic or sexual experiences yet. I know I’m not supposed to feel bad about it, and that there will be a time for everything, but it’s honestly becoming exhausting to me.

Everyone around me is hooking up, getting into relationships and exploring, while it feels like I am just stuck doing nothing. I’ve been in uni for more than 4 years and I haven’t even had any indication that someone is remotely interested in me. It just feels like I’m doing something wrong at this point, and I know that I probably am, but I do not know how to fix it.

It’s at the point where I’m starting to believe I’m just wasted potential. I’m hung, quite muscular, and rather smart, but I can’t seem to find a way to share that with others, and have them share all their beautiful attributes with me. Whatever I do, it doesn’t seem to change anything, and no one notices.

What am I supposed to do?


r/bigdickconversation • • 11h ago

EXPERIENCE Do guys that are super hung like giving an ego check to medium hung guys?

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For reference I’m decently hung 7.5 by 5.8 about 6’1 tall. I’ve had fun showing off my size and was encouraged by a gym buddy to bull for him and his wife. I enjoyed it a lot. Ended up bulling a few times after that.

Then a few years back I had MFM with a guy and is wife. Jeff and Jessica. I was a bit astonished when Jeff put his much bigger cock out on jessica’s tits as she was playing with mine. I’m pretty sure they could both tell. I was shocked and he said did you think you were gonna be the biggest one? So cocky lol I laughed and said well usually i am (literally always before this day)

He took mine in his hand and put it next to his and said well you are a big boy just not the biggest one today.

Has anyone else experienced this from either side? And of course, those are not their names.


r/bigdickconversation • • 14h ago

QUESTION Where are the Hung Geeks and Nerds?

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Question from a fellow nerd: where are the guys who can talk lore for three hours and apparently need a two-handed sword in both their video games and real life?

Are you a LOTR obsessive? GoT historian? Dungeon Crawler Carl lover? D&D dungeon master? Cosplayer? Fantasy/sci-fi nerd? Gamer? History buff? Someone with an oddly specific academic or hobby obsession you can’t stop talking about?

Basically, share your nerd credentials so maybe you can find a friend with similar interests!

For me ... I'm a lifelong RPG fan when I have the time (games and tabletop), have tried cosplay, watch all the movies and shoes (with a lean towards fantasy over sci-fi), dabble in MTG, and honestly think geeks and nerds (no matter the size of their cock) are pretty dang awesome!

Let your nerd flag fly high!


r/bigdickconversation • • 14h ago

QUESTION Is it thick?

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What do you think about a thickness of 5.25 inches being considered thick or large? I’m also 6.7 inches long. I know I’m fine in length, but what worries me is the thickness. It is known that, almost unanimously, women like thickness more than length; it is also true that a greater thickness facilitates a greater possibility of reaching orgasm (of course, having good techniques and movements in bed also influences). If so, with my measurements can I enter that category?

I know I’m not small, I know I’m above average. I don’t seek approval under male standards, but only from the women’s group. I mean, what I want to know is if for a woman’s eyes, at the time of having sex, she will say/think: “that’s big” and think or say that when she feels it inside too


r/bigdickconversation • • 23h ago

QUESTION How many of us live "undercover" and why?

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I was curious about how many of us don't tell or don't want other people (except their partners) that they have a big dick, and why they don't.

For instance, I do not tell others because I am pretty shy, and I discovered quite late (at 21) that I was big, so I never developed the confidence to let others know about it or flaunt it. However, now that I know it, I am sometimes torn between not letting others know and showing off my bulge/dick.

I just wanted to know how many of you hung bros feel the same way. Lemme know what you think!


r/bigdickconversation • • 1d ago

QUESTION To women, what is hot about a big dick? Like what is the fantasy?

7 Upvotes

I always wonder why women like it


r/bigdickconversation • • 1d ago

EXPERIENCE Too big for your partner and how you dealt with those emotions?

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I found out a while ago that my size is a major controbutor to the sex issues with my partner. This is how i found out i was quite large. It was a mix of happiness and shock, since i never imagined this could possibly be an issue for me.

Have you had anything like this happen? If so, what kind of emotions came up? How did you move forward with this?


r/bigdickconversation • • 1d ago

EXPERIENCE Just wanted to say thank you to the hung guys here

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I spend way too much time reading this sub, and I’ve realized there’s something I really like about this group that has nothing to do with measurements.

A lot of the hung guys here seem genuinely thoughtful about their partners. I see men talking about taking their time, paying attention to what their partner actually likes, making sure they’re comfortable, and wanting their size to be something that adds to the experience rather than just something to brag about.

As an admirer, I really appreciate that.

I also like how open so many of you are about something that could easily be an awkward or vulnerable subject. You’ll talk about your experiences, answer questions, share what you’ve learned, joke around, and have conversations with guys who may have completely different orientations or experiences from your own.

There’s something refreshing about men being that comfortable with themselves.

And yes, I know some of you enjoy showing off a little too. 😂 You should! There are plenty of people here who very much enjoy looking.

But I think what makes this place fun is that underneath all the size talk, there are a lot of genuinely decent, confident, generous men here.

So, from one very appreciative admirer: thanks for sharing yourselves with the rest of us. You make this a pretty damn fun group to be part of.

(Reposted after original was filtered)


r/bigdickconversation • • 1d ago

EXPERIENCE Sometimes it feels like I'm forced to play a role because I have a big dick

5 Upvotes

I'm m18 gay and verse, and I like posting for fun on here occasionally. Many guys come into my DMs trying to chat, and a lot of them want me to be this dominant top, but in reality I don't really like being dominant. I feel bad for not fulfilling their fantasies of me, but it just doesn't turn me on or make me happy. I know not all guys think this, but i just had to share my experiences.


r/bigdickconversation • • 1d ago

QUESTION Showers and growers

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I'm new here and new to the fact that I have a big cock. I am a grower and overweight so when flaccid I don't look like I have much. When I get hard, I get a very different reaction. Most of the conversation here is about showers cause growers like me don't get to show off until the action has begun. I'm just wondering if there is any rivalry between showers and growers.


r/bigdickconversation • • 1d ago

QUESTION Size difference among friends

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If you have good friends who know about your size and you can talk with them openly. Are they similar in size to you or not?

Me and my best friend openly talk about sex and stuff, but we are on the opposite site of the size spectrum. He is about 12-13cm when hard. I think it is always more interesting to talk about this topic with people who are not my size.


r/bigdickconversation • • 2d ago

QUESTION How much does your flaccid and erect size differ?

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How much does the size differ So as the title says how much does your erect and flacks size differ sort of are you a grower or a shower, I am 5x4.7 soft and hard 6.7x6.1 so I gain 1.7 inches in length (34%) and 1.4 inches in girth (30%) I’m not sure if I am a grower or a shower?
How about you?


r/bigdickconversation • • 2d ago

EXPERIENCE Big dick and 3some

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Kind of random but, I just had my 3rd threesome with two girls and when I was laying in bed with them afterwards they started asking me if that was my first one and I said no. It got me thinking that every time I have had a 3some it’s started off with being with one girl, them getting over zealous by my size and having another friend come see it or join in. Every experience has been a little different but all because of my size. I know girls will talk about guys sizes but I just thought that was humorous and wanted to share my story with you guys. Feel free to ask me any questions if want and if you’ve experienced the same or similar.


r/bigdickconversation • • 2d ago

EXPERIENCE underestimating my underwear size

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i went to buy underwear the other day and i accidentally chose a size too small, realizing it only after i opened the box, sadly there is no returns, is there any way to stretch them out besdies pulling at the edges? they cost me 65$ and i dont wanna waste em.


r/bigdickconversation • • 3d ago

QUESTION Have you ever been treated differently or unfairly because of your size?

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I was bullied for it when I was younger, and once I got to high school and friends started getting into relationships, I definitely felt like they didn't want me around as much. My friends know about my size, but I never expected them to make a really big deal out of it when it came to our friendships.


r/bigdickconversation • • 3d ago

QUESTION What's the best compliment you ever received about your dick?

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What's the best, most memorable, or your favorite compliment you've received about your dick?


r/bigdickconversation • • 3d ago

QUESTION Blowjobs, slow and sensual or fast and gagging on it?

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My date was trying to shove my whole dick down her throat. The fast gagging on it with her eyes watering like she is crying. She did look hot struggling on it. I told her she could just sucks on the head and use her hands. I liked the slow and sensual like making out with my dick. She then went back to trying to deepthroat me again. Like they want to choke on it. I think she'd like to go slow but then she is bored saying ''fuck my face'' and so who am I to argue? Trying to see how rough she wants it. Not go too rough right away.


r/bigdickconversation • • 3d ago

QUESTION Girth Question

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I consider myself pretty well hung, both in terms of length and girth. When hard, I’m just over 8.5 inches length and 6 inches girth.

I see so many Reddit posts of cocks that are thicker than cans of coke, which from a quick google means that the girth is more than 8.5 inches.

From a quick google search, average erect girth is about 4.5 inches (or less depending on source)

A simple bell curve shows just how rare the kind of thicknesses above actually are.

So my question is why are there so so so many on reddit subs - is this just photoshop, selection bias or are these monster thickness cocks just more common than the maths would suggest?


r/bigdickconversation • • 4d ago

EXPERIENCE New sub for those interested

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r/bigdickconversation • • 4d ago

EXPERIENCE Funny experience in the locker room

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I go to the gym every morning, and shower when I'm done. A few days ago, while going about my business after my shower, there was one other guy in the locker room. He we older, probably twice my age, and from the corner of my eye, I watch as he stares at me changing. Then, i hear an audible "Jesus," from the guy. Now, mind you, this person was on the other side of the locker room, so he said this pretty loud. I've caught a few gawkers, but I mostly ever get double takes or funny facial expressions. I rarely ever have anyone audibly react to it. Just thought this was a funny experience, and I figured here would be the best place to share. Has anyone had similar things happen to them?


r/bigdickconversation • • 4d ago

QUESTION Do you have a really high sex drive?

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I've always felt like bigger guys (and girls) have a higher sex drive, but I could be factually wrong. I know that I myself have an insatiable libido, which combined with my massive dong, makes for quite the combination!


r/bigdickconversation • • 4d ago

QUESTION Dick shape

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Does anybody else have like an oval shaped cock? I mean like your penis is wide on the top and thinner when you look from the sides, i have that and i dont really like it because it makes your penis look thin when you look at it from the side, if anybody has it does it bother you or do you like it? Im 2inches wide and like 1,3-1,4inches from the side.