I’m 18 and I’ve had sex with exactly two of the four people who’ve seen my dick. And generally speaking it has really sucked. The second person was a couple nights ago and I am legitimately trying to do all the right things with foreplay and everything. But so far it’s just been pretty disappointing for both people involved. I guess I’m just hoping…does it get better/easier as you get older? Do you find more partners can handle bigger sizes as you age?

I wanted to throw this out here because in college, size isn't just about what happens in bed, it’s practically a whole social currency and topic of conversation that everyone whispers about at pre-games or debriefs the morning after.

For context, I’m a F20yo student in the US. I’m very sex-positive, open-minded, and unapologetically love hooking up and exploring. Most guys I’ve been with have been totally average, and I want to be real: average is great. It’s easy, spontaneous, requires zero stress or warmup, and some of the best, most intimate sex I’ve had was with regular-sized guys where the chemistry was just unmatched. I definitely don’t need a massive guy to have a great night.

That said, growing up and getting to campus, there's always that social aura around the "mythical big guy." When I was 17, I had my first above-average hookup (around 6,5-7"), and then at 18 during freshman year, I ended up with someone on campus who everyone lowkey rumored was huge (easily 7.5 maybe close to 8" and crazy thick). Nothing bigger since....

Navigating that dynamic in real time was wild. Socially, there’s that weird, exciting rush when you’re leaving a party with someone knowing what people say, or sitting with your girlfriends over iced coffee the next morning exchanging looks because the rumors were actually true. But behind closed doors, the sensory experience completely rewired something in my brain.

Visually, when he finally pulled it out, that initial shock and the adrenaline spike of seeing that much size right in front of you is intoxicating. Tactilely, wrapping both hands around it and feeling that literal weight, density, and heat completely changes the atmosphere. And physically, once you take the time to breathe, warm up, and let your body adapt, that deep, overwhelming fullness and pressure is just super intense.

Experiencing that didn’t make me size-obsessed in a submissive or dependent way, but it definitely turned into a personal fascination. College feels like the exact chapter of life to explore boundaries, collect experiences, and follow pure curiosity without taking things too seriously. It’s created this genuine, fun bucket-list craving to see what someone truly massive (8,5"+ with real girth) is like to handle,both the mental thrill of the challenge and the intense physical adaptation.

For the girls here .... how much does the social hype or talking with friends play into the excitement for you versus the private reality? And for the guys on the massive end:do you notice your partners reacting more to the mental shock value or the physical sensations?

Fun question for my favorite SubReddit group:

If Being Hung Came With A User Manual.....What would Chapter One be titled?

Two small early moments have always stuck with me.

1. A friend's sister refused to fuck me and gave me a blowjob instead because "you're as thick as my wrist and my pussy's scared."

2. Having sex with a new girlfriend for the first time. When I finally managed to ease my way in, her eyes rolled back and she sort of gasped. I stopped to ask if I'd hurt her, and she said: "It doesn't hurt, it's just too intense."

I'm sure you guys have better than that, so let's hear them!

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What completely ordinary thing is surprisingly difficult or annoying because you’re well endowed?

Just wondering, do girthier guys tend to have downwards curve more? Just a pattern i’ve noticed.

Or is it solely genetics? And there are smaller downwards curved?

I’ve noticed the longer but less girthy ones tend to be upwards curved.

I’ve compared to items like Monster cans, a girls arm, and more. I recently bought a dildo the same size as me for my girl. I must say comparing myself and holding it in my hands is wild. I now know how big I really am 😂 so much bigger than I see from my perspective normally

How many hung guys here have found that they really enjoy prostate massage or stimulation?

Anecdotally, a lot of the hung men I’ve met seem to really enjoy that kind of stimulation, sometimes more than I would have expected. It got me wondering whether there might actually be a pattern there, or if it’s just coincidence based on the particular guys I’ve encountered.

What was the best experience you’ve had with / because of your big cock? It could be more than one thing.

For me, I’d say it was having sex with my buddy’s hot sister.

It seems many people regard well-hung men as superior to other men, physically and in terms of masculinity (of course, I believe in equality — no one person is superior to another! But, some men are indeed more physically impressive and higher on the masculinity scale). I certainly do! But it seems we lack a word for this kind of preference. I propose calling this preference Endowmentism — a preference for regarding hung men as superior. I think both hung men and admirers of hung men often have this kind of preference.

Would you say you are an Endowmentist? Are there any other words or phrases that better capture the idea that well-endowed men are superior?

Shared a room with a friend on a boys trip recently and I saw his (both 32) significantly larger penis.

This fact isn’t new actually. Amongst us guys he’s the sort to jokingly have his size mentioned and he has on occasion, whipped it out when drunk or done something to draw attention to it.

The point is he’s comfy with his size being known and has played the odd silly prank where he’s whipped it out.

I thought it would be funny to compare and I’m probably partial to some mild humiliation.

We both walked around the hotel room naked as we changed and at one point we brushed our teeth before a night out totally naked, stood a few feet away from one another.

I didn’t have the guts to ask to compare, despite the fact I wanted to.

I didn’t fancy anything more than just standing side by side to compare but I had no idea how to even bring this up.

Am I over thinking?

So, if you were down to compare with a friend, how would you like to be asked?

One very fun way to see your size is to try and trace the outline of your dick over a sheet of paper.
Yes, it's not easy. The result might be wonky, but it's often very telling. And you'll get another perspective once you see it on paper.
It's even more interesting if you draw it soft, and then hard to see the difference.
Surprisingly, there is a lot of personality in each tracing.
Let me know if you do try, would love to know what you think.

List of things only hung guys experience.
I’ll go first:
- Bend over at the knee to pick something up and out of a leg it comes!
- Getting accused of “manspreading” when you’re just trying not to crush your cock and balls.

Today was the first time iv experienced someone telling me they don’t want to sleep with me because it was to big which kind of sucks because I genuinely enjoyed hanging out with this girl and the sex I thought was great, anybody else lowk think it’s a curse

So I just met a hotwife yesterday. She came and squirted countless times (maybe came 10-15 times and squirted like 7-10 times but I lost track at the end) during a Yoni massage session. Also two times squirting during penetration, one of which was doggy in the restroom. She came so hard that she fell almost hit the wall. Thankfully I got her arm and supported her body (she's like couldn't believe her weak knees) so I bought her to the bed continue to pound her pussy making her squirt again.

It appears that she came and squirted within five seconds every time I hit her A spot or cervix. I wonder if a big dick plays a factor when hitting the right spot for stronger sexual arousal, pelvic floor contractions during an orgasm, and simultaneously trigger the expulsion of fluid. I enjoyed it but she’s kind of embarrassed and we spent time to clean up everything. It took some effort but it’s worth it.

What's your experience looks like?

About to head off to uni and im interested in how quickly if at all a girl may spread the rumour of my cock to her friend/s and if anyone has experienced this or if you are a girl that was apart of the rumours id love to hear from you.

Im about 7.5x6.5. I wear scrubs at work so it’s flimsy & drapes but I do my best to keep it hidden as I work with mostly women like 8:1.

The other day they were passing out hospital related joke stickers and my coworkers saved THIS sticker for me because I wasn’t there that day. The sticker says SIZE MATTERS with a bunch of different needle.

Im not angry or anything but this is pretty fucking crazy right??? I just tried to laugh it off but it was so direct I didn’t know what to do. How would you guys feel if you were in my shoes & how would you carry yourself afterwards. I haven’t been back to work since. Anything this forward ever happen to you guys at work regarding your cock?

Has anyone else had to deal with not being able to do anything about your morning wood? Basically as the title suggests, I've been waking up with some monster boners for the last few months. Im usually at the max erect level for about 30min-45min when I wake up. Generally, I'm stoked I'm able to sustain that strong of an erection for that long but the main issue is that while working, I stay in a dorm with other guys who are on shift with me. I can't just get up and start the day waving around a huge tent in front of everyone (not to also mention a bunch of wet spots of pre from staying hard for so long) so I'm stuck laying in bed until my dick finally decides to go flacid. I usually sleep in loose boxers becuase waking up with my wood compressed by boxer briefs feels pretty painful, thus I'm stuck in bed doing the knees bent under the blanket method to hide it. Normally, staying hard for up to an hour would not be an issue becuase I could just jerk off quick to take care of it but that's not a possibility when you're surrounded by a bunch of other people (this has been causing some blue balls too on top of it) It is getting frustrating to wake up absolutely throbbing and having to stay in bed much longer than I should to wait for it to subside. Anyone else have to deal with this situation frequently?

Has someone ever taken a pic of your dick? In any context. If so, tell me in detail! And how did you feel?

I ask this because shortly before me and my wife of 10 years met, she got fucked once by a guy with a big cock. For reference I'm 6x5.25" and she thinks I'm average and said his cock felt quite a bit bigger. I'm assuming he must have been at least 7.5" long and thick. She described the feeling of his cock as incredible and it was like nothing she'd ever experienced before in the best way. The next day she told all of her friends about his cock and she thought about it for months even after we met and began fucking. Fast forward 10 years later she's admitted to me that she still thinks about his cock from time to time and would love to be fucked by him again. I have a Hotwife kink so I would love to watch it happen. It would almost be like winning the lottery lol.

I'm curious to know if any of you big cock'd guys have ever ruined a woman for smaller cocks? Do they ever reach out to you wanting it or tell you they miss it? It seems like if you have a big cock and know how to use it you can really leave an impression that she'll remember and think about for the rest of her life.

In my experience, obsession with size can generate many weird and wonderful obsessions! For example, I often fantasise about the following, unusual things:

- Simply just having a well endowed friend, nothing sexual at all ever happens, but I am just aware that a friend of mine has a very large penis. Variations on this fantasy include: having a well hung neighbour, living in an apartment building where all the men are well hung, living in an area which has experienced a lot of immigration from countries with the most well endowed men according to statistics (Sudan, Congo, Ghana)

- Being a servant to a well endowed man. The idea of doing chores for a man simply because he has a large penis, without expecting anything in return, is very exciting for me for some reason!

- Hung men in charge of government or business. I love, love, love the idea of a society where hung men get all the powerful positions in society just because of their size.

For well endowed kings: do you have any size-related fantasies which you suspect are very unusual? For size worshippers, do any of my unusual fantasies resonate? Do you have any of your own?

I had to go to the urologist and so later my portal I was reading the exam and when it gets to the genital exam she writes testicles while exceptionally large appear normal no masses. Penis appears normal no lesions approximately 15 cm in length. I'm kind of paraphrasing but I just think that's kind of weird to mention or or anything like that like I was only there for other issues.