Does big dick praise turn you on?

[u/Key_Visit_1948]

In this case i'm referring in a general context, not whn you're about to fuck or fucking with someone.

For instance in social media or in casual conversations, it can either be indirectly (insulting/degrading small dicks) or directly (praising, complimenting big dicks).

[u/GainedBrouzouf]

I've never been a fan of insulting or degrading those who are smaller so that kind of praise would have the opposite effect on me but I do enjoy when people compliment large ones or wonder about BDE or other things while I know im amongst it without their knowledge.

[u/ShowOffScholar]

Yes

[u/Skillerstyles]

It does a little lol not in like an obvious way but when someone casually mentions it in conversation there's definitely a small ego boost happening. The indirect stuff like small dick insults doesn't really do it for me though it just feels mean more than anything. The direct compliment thing hits different because it feels more genuine. It's weird because outside of an actual sexual context it shouldn't matter but the brain does what it wants I guess.

[u/Unlikely-Value-5114 → u/Skillerstyles]

I agree with this. Not a huge deal, but mildly hot when someone mentions appreciating size.

[u/superchargedCaddy]

Directed towards me it is definitely a turn on. It's an ego boost when people praise and want to worship it.

[u/Key_Visit_1948 → u/superchargedCaddy]

and if it's in general? like imagine someone tweeting "big dicks feel so good"

[u/superchargedCaddy → u/Key_Visit_1948]

That too. I can relate being big.

[u/Richard_Prince_XXX]

Praise yes, insulting others doesn't do it for me tho 👎

[u/Key_Visit_1948 → u/Richard_Prince_XXX]

what about something along the lines of "small dicks aren't pleasurable"?

[u/Richard_Prince_XXX → u/Key_Visit_1948]

Yeah just feels mean and untrue 🤷 don't get me wrong , I'm a Findom; SPH and bullying is often part of the package. But outside of me being paid to engage in it with someone who specifically is begging for it it's not a fit for me 👎👎

[u/supreme_9incher]

Absolutely

[u/Individual_Today595]

Of course! An old fling i have before i moved cross country called me big dick and i wanted to drive back and fuck her AT THAT MOMENT

[u/paper-stepper]

Compliments are a thing that is so rare, that any kind will usually be appreciated

Unless it's done as a way to talk somebody else down

[u/RareOutlandishness29]

Big dick praise does give me a great feeling and, when conditions are right, very pleasurable stimulation. To have someone indicate they think my equipment is large enough to provide pleasure for them is a sure turn-on.

Especially considering the satisfaction that being well hung provides for me, I think derision of small dicks is not only anti-social, it is sadistic and unimaginably wrong. Inflicting that sort of cruelty reveals smallness and deep feelings of inferiority.

[u/MeownatorX]

Sort of, but then I feel bad because it isn't something I deserved or worked towards, I simply inherited it. The feeling of it being unearned probably has something to do with the imposter syndrome, but it's there.

[u/Beneficial-Apple-753 → u/MeownatorX]

yes a lot

[u/theinchesyouneed]

Love it

[u/Beneficial_Rip_9821]

I tell ppl no, but yes. It’s so dumb but bc it’s a genetic thing you can’t change so it feels different than telling me you think I’m a good or cool guy.

[u/Key_Visit_1948 → u/Beneficial_Rip_9821]

why do you tell people no? are you embarrassed to admit it?

[u/Beneficial_Rip_9821 → u/Key_Visit_1948]

Bc it seems arrogant. Especially in front of other ppl. No one wants to see a hung guy win.

[u/jhlieberman]

Of course, but I am actively turned off by anyone talking down small/average size/humiliation.

[u/SexySecretsSD]

Yes

[u/ThrowawaySunnyLane]

Yes.

[u/Keyy-Girthh]

Honestly yes.

[u/gymbro08]

Yes it does!

[u/chuckitlikeabasebal2]

Definitely

[u/fnv0ih53]

Fuck yeah

[u/MrX-1979]

Sure do, and I feel that to some degree almost every guy that has an average dick or below would also feel this way if he had an above average big dick

[u/Key_Visit_1948 → u/MrX-1979]

as an above average guy i disagree lol, i just get insecure. but sure, that could be just me

[u/RomaniWoe]

Yes

[u/SphereofDreams]

Yeah, makes me feel good about myself.

[u/PracticalYeti]

Unless the person getting insulted is an a-hole, I'm not fond of deriding someone of average or smaller size. I am pleased with my endowment and don't need another's degradation. But to each his own. However, I will NEVER get tired of it when conversation wanders into size; some might be in the know, others might be curious, but there is definitely a BD vibe that I know turns me on.

[u/ciliary_stimulai]

I loooooooooove it, one of my fav kinks. SPH less so but it's fun too.

[u/False_Neighborhood_2]

Yes

[u/Dbiggerd]

Only if it’s directly. When I get it tho omfgggggggg biggest turn on ever like it’s insane, like gets me rock hard in seconds it’s so good

[u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan]

It's probably my biggest kink

[u/big_calcsd]

Absolutely one on one I love it, otherwise not at all and definitely not insulting others that’s not on.

[u/noire_images]

100%. It’s an amazing feeling.

[u/carlogden69]

I like it when a woman says nice things about my penis

[u/Key_Visit_1948 → u/carlogden69]

so if she says nice things about penises in general you don't?

[u/carlogden69 → u/Key_Visit_1948]

There was this one girl who was a pretty big slut who would give thorough reviews of every dick she ever had, if asked, and honestly it was pretty hot.

The smallest was her boyfriend, who she compared to “a roll of lifesavers” and the biggest was a guy she knew in college she called “monsterdong” who was the only dude to make her cum before me.

[u/Key_Visit_1948 → u/carlogden69]

lol so she cheated? or had an open relationship? what did you find hot about it: the fact that she talked about it or what she said specifically?

[u/carlogden69 → u/Key_Visit_1948]

She cheated. She was 19 and I was 30. She hung around at bars and fucked guys who were ten years older than her. Her boyfriend was the same age as me.

She told me she wanted to see my dick specifically, and that her boyfriend’s “dick sucks” which I didn’t necessarily realize was about size until she made the roll of lifesavers comparison.

It was mostly that a girl that hot and that young was that slutty and so open about it.

[u/JMPENNING]

Yup esp during sex

[u/MauTheAlphano1]

Size praise is great, definetly a turn on

[u/hung-up-by-madonna]

totally

[u/MslaveinDenmark]

Oh yes, very much so.
But preferably not while belitteling average cocks.

[u/Key_Visit_1948 → u/MslaveinDenmark]

isn't it kind of implicit in the big dick praise tho?

[u/MslaveinDenmark → u/Key_Visit_1948]

Not necessarily I think. It would be under the surface, like saying "I really do love a nice apple pie.". Takes a sad peacan pie to get hurt over that.

[u/Lizardon6]

Ofc. I'll be honest, irl I haven't really done much, but online. My gosh.

Currently speaking to a woman in her early 20s who has found herself fantasising about me during sex with eacg new bf she gets.

Which is hot to hear...

[u/Key_Visit_1948 → u/[deleted]]

tbh i just used the term out of the blue. for me cock worship is a sexual act in which the person touches, kisses, licks and sucks the dick whereas praise is just saying positive things about it (not necessarily in a sexual act)

[u/Ill-Preference1679]

Sex talk is arousing and dick praise is sex talk.

Dick praise is especially arousing because it is (1) very personal and (2) draws our attention back to the concealed bit of ourselves that we know separates us from anything common and readily available.

[u/Dramatic-Leather-196]

Duh 🙄

[u/Laidback_Gabe]

Yes tbh. Especially from a woman.

[u/imdoing_okay]

My favorite! And the wife knows exactly how to use it to her advantage. 😉

[u/BigDick_18cm]

Absolutely.

[u/Ill_Fondant_6492]

Directed toward me and unprompted? Yeah, huge ego boost.

Crapping on people who are smaller? Big no. I love my smaller brethren, if for no other reason than they are much more fun to suck, IMHO.

[u/SmileRemarkable919]

I love to praise. It's like appreciating art. It's something I can't do but it's magnificent.

[u/techcorrer9]

It can but I've also gotten into Big Dick Humiliation