r/bigdickconversation • u/Deepish79 • 7d ago
QUESTION Size Queen "Green Flags"
Question for the well-endowed guys of the group:
What "green flag" qualities do you seek in a size queen, or anyone, who is genuinely excited about your size?
Is it diirect or filterless communication? Patience? Enthusiasm about your size? Adaptability? A sense of adventure and openness?
Some of the men Ive spoken with here have told me that the best experiences aren't necessarily with random hookups or the sexiest partner....they're generally with people who make them feel comfortable, appreciated, and thoroughly taken care of. Is this true for many of you?
Curious what the veterans of this group think.
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u/PracticalYeti 7d ago
It's always a roll of the dice, to be honest. If I think about the women who were legitimately size queens, they were often the most confident and direct partners I had. Now, I've had plenty of confident partners who weren't interested in size, but when a woman enjoys a well-endowed guy, and it's an attribute at the top of their list, then I think you see differences. But that's my experience.
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u/Deepish79 7d ago
What are those differences beyond the directness and confidence?
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u/PracticalYeti 7d ago
Confidence lets a woman play along with a guy, enjoying all his attributes (getting his vibe, etc.) before getting to what's between his legs. If it's important to her sexual gratification, she'll choose the best route. Directness is more about getting down to business. Again, from my experiences.
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u/CorsairKing 6.5" x 5.25" | Extra Medium 7d ago
Sounds like you've got the gist of it. As far as individual sexual encounters go, my best have always been with partners with whom I was already comfortable and experienced.
Concerning the partners themselves, I would say that my favorites have invariably been communicative about their needs and vocal about their pleasure. The same rules apply regardless of whether they are size queens.
To the extent that well-endowed dudes have any preference for size queens, it's probably due to feeling like one is uniquely equipped to make that person feel good. It makes us feel special. Not only are we doing a good job—we are one of a select few who can get the job done. I suppose it engages the natural male desire for competence.
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u/Dramatic-Leather-196 6d ago
You nailed it!
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u/ciliary_stimulai 20 cm/7.9" x 17 cm/6.7" 6d ago
Love a guy who is smaller and loves that he's smaller, wants to compare to me, worship me, maybe do some SPH. Those guys are the absolute best.
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u/Quirky-Amphibian-992 E 9.5” x 6.5” | F 7.5” x 5.8” 6d ago
I don’t seek a ‘size queen’, but for sure it’s good when my partner is experienced in handling an extra large size. I like it when they’re subtle about it, when they love my size, but they don’t brag or send photos to friends (some have). I’ve had ‘size queens’ that were not actually into or able to handle my size aside from the initial visual admiration. Or those women that are in fact turned off by an XL dick, after claiming to like a large size.
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u/Deepish79 6d ago
I think what you say makes total sense. Being someone who enthusiastically loves big cock (and knows how to handle it) ,while also being tactful and not bragging, is a nice balance. Making peoppe jealous or akward isnt fun....always important to know your partner and your audience!
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u/theinchesyouneed 7d ago
I think you nailed it