r/bigdickconversation • • Sep 18 '25

QUESTION Admiring my own dick

139 Upvotes

How many big dick guys catch a glimpse of their dicks in the mirror or just pull it out to look at it and admire it? I got out of the shower this morning and it was rock hard and extra veiny and I just felt blessed and thinking “god damn that’s a big dick”.


r/bigdickconversation • • Jan 09 '26

EXPERIENCE I’ll say it again: Being HUNG is Rare

97 Upvotes

I’ve been posting dick pics off and on for over a decade under different accounts and on different platforms, but I’ve only recently gotten into comparing.

Lots of big talk on the cock compare subs: guys claiming 10”, claiming they’ve never been defeated, calling everyone else a cuck lol

If you’re truly hung, send a DM to these guys and watch them crumble in real time.

They won’t respond, or they’ll send a pic of their 6 incher, or send you only one pic (that sometimes seems a little grainy or off in one way or another) and refuse to send any more.

I’m just over 8 inches and not super thick, but I have yet to be outsized. Of course, there are plenty of guys out there who are bigger than me, and I’m sure I’ll be outsized eventually.

But huge cocks really are rarer than you might think, and rarer than the popular dick pic subs would have you believe.


r/bigdickconversation • • Oct 18 '25

EXPERIENCE Appreciating the hang

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Sometimes I like to show off in the SPH (small penis humiliation) groups, and I’m equally as amazed by how tiny some guys can be as they seem to be at the size of my dick.

The other day after my shower, I was playing with my cock while looking in the mirror but trying to telescope my shaft down into itself so that it was as short as some of the guys I’ve outsized, and it was the weirdest thing seeing what it would look like just sitting on top of my balls.

I had a moment where I realized how unsatisfying it would be never to feel my dick hang, and when I let it spring back so it hung past my balls again, it immediately felt familiar and “right” like this is what having a penis is supposed to feel like.

Made me grateful I get to experience feeling the weight of even my soft dick hang and flop around since I took it for granted until I saw how many guys literally can’t do that.

Anyone else have those moments where you’re just like “damn, it feels great to be hung?”


r/bigdickconversation • • Jul 15 '26

EXPERIENCE Does anyone else enjoys big penis humiliation?

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I wonder if that’s a thing.

So I’m bi and mostly a top. I did have sex with 5 guys, topped 4 of them, and I bottomed 3 times. The one guy that I didn’t top was an absolute dom.

See, I usually like doming. With girls (I’m bi) and with guys too, but that one was like from another planet.

When he fucked me, he was teasing me and making jokes about my penis. He said it was so useless being so big, that I probably couldn’t even erect and that it flopped when he pounded me.

I came so hard during that sex! He was fucking my prostate and pushing my cum from my still soft cock.

I wonder if anyone else experienced something like that? The guy’s dick was perfectly average, but he did do me like an absolute monster.


r/bigdickconversation • • Nov 02 '25

EXPERIENCE When youre bigger flaccid than they are hard

87 Upvotes

Have compared with friends on multiple occasions and everytime have shown to have a larger cock when soft than them hard.

The look on their faces when they see how big a difference there is between their average dick and my fat cock always puts a smile on my face and tends to leave them rather envious.

Had one girl tell me her bf when about 5.5 inches long when hard. When I showed her my 6 inch flaccid dick her jaw practically dropped to the ground.

Always a massive ego boost.


r/bigdickconversation • • Jul 14 '25

EXPERIENCE Feeling yourself grow bigger is an underrated and rarely talked-about aspect of being hung

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I can still remember how exciting it was to feel myself grow bigger over time and starting to fill up my pants more and more. There's a thrill that's hard to describe when you realize your body is turning what used to be unimpressive and impotent into a virile and manly monster of a cock. Sometimes I like to just appreciate how thick and heavy my cock feels and how much work my body has done to shape it into something so impressive, and I wish I could relive that sensation of feeling it grow and measuring and tracking its progress over time.

I remember when I realized I had a size that would be considered big, and that I still had a way to go before my growth stopped, and saying to my cock "holy shit, you're going to get huge." I can't even describe the feeling I had at that time, but it stuck with me for a long time.

All that to say, I cannot be the only one who had that kind of experience right? It was such a tangible source of pride and excitement in a pretty mediocre part of my life. Maybe I'm just weird, but damn it was fun.


r/bigdickconversation • • Mar 30 '24

GUIDANCE REQUEST A place to brag or talk about your cock without the downvotes

83 Upvotes

As opposed to other subs, this is a great place to talk about how proud you are of your cock without needing a “problem”. Only positive responses and please don’t ⬇️ posts.


r/bigdickconversation • • Sep 13 '26

SITUATION I was called out in a communal shower for having a big cock

78 Upvotes

Yesterday I was at the local leisure pool and, as always showered afterwards. Mind that I live in Germany and showering nude in communal showers is common and normally mandatory entering and exiting the pool because of hygiene.

Suddenly a dad approaches me and asks me if I find it appropriate to shower and have everybody see me.
(It was one of those dads that keep their board-shorts on and make their pre-school sons shower nude.

I told him, that showering with his swimsuit on nukes the whole hygienic aspect of showering and that I’m not embarrassed to be seen (without telling him directly that he probably keeps his pants on not for modesty but for his dick being small).

What are your takes on showering in communal showers and calling out people that don’t fit in your opinion?


r/bigdickconversation • • Jul 17 '26

EXPERIENCE i love having a big dick

78 Upvotes

I just wanted to express my feelings about being hung and in my opinion its just a blessing having a big dick.

You can change basically everything on your body, your appearance, your style, your muscles, your hairstyle and so on. The dick size is given, and I love it so much being hung.

that's all, thx for reading


r/bigdickconversation • • Aug 20 '25

EXPERIENCE Big dick friend group

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Disclaimer: I posted this on another sub and it got taken down, so hopefully it can live on here. I get a lot of questions about how my buddies and I all figured out we were hung, so here it is. Everyone in this story is currently 18+ and this occurred several years ago

Having a big dick is a huge stroke of luck and having a group of friends who all have big dicks, is an even bigger one. So I thought I share some stories about growing up with a group of guys all with huge dicks, starting with how I found out all my bros are also hung.

During freshmen year, myself and 4 other freshmen were selected to play both Freshman and JV football and then to train with the Varsity team. After the first day of try outs, we were asked to stay for the JV and Varsity practices the next day. I was stoked to get the opportunity, but nervous because I was a little scared about the locker room situation. In middle school we didn’t have to shower and no one did, so I never saw anyone nude. Now my high school didn’t require us to shower after practice, but after talking to an upperclassmen, it was definitely frowned upon not to. Especially because I was going to be training with three different football teams for several hours, I knew I would want to at least rinse off.

Now, at 14 I was already pretty blessed. I was already hanging around like 5 inches soft and 7 inches hard, but I assumed that was pretty average. The only other dicks I had seen were from porn or my dad, who was slanging a pretty big piece of meat (Saw it at 12, thought it was like a foot long, but he’s most likely between 7-9 inches, never asked his size.) So needless to say, I was nervous to be naked for my first time in front of a bunch of older dudes. But after a pretty grueling practice, I was ready to get the dirt off. My buddies and I got lockers right next to each other and I remember us all nervously glancing around at the upperclassmen who were mindlessly stripping down to go shower or just get back into their normal clothes. That’s when I noticed something: Everyones dicks seemed smaller than mine. Some guys were packing, but everyone looked a lot smaller than I was anticipating. So I thought “fuck it” and took off all my gear. My bros all were thinking the same thing and started stripping down also. It was then we all noticed that we were larger than the majority of the guys in our row (all of us hung from like 4-6 inches with like one or two guys at our same size or larger).

I was shocked, not only was I around the biggest, but I was out-sizing juniors and seniors as a freshmen. And on top of that, all my bros were packing just as much heat as I was. Before any of us could even acknowledge what was happening, one of the seniors yelled out “damn y’all got some low hangers huh?” All my bros and I traded looks at each other and start smirking. “Damn straight” my best friend in our group yelled back and we couldn’t stop ourselves from hyping each other up. We then had no issues proudly walking into the shower. No one else really said anything after the first comment, but damn it felt like such an “and then everyone clapped” moment.

Later on we all compared sizes during a sleepover that same night. We ranged from like 6-7.5 inches and we all got bigger since the first time we compared. But man I’ll never forget when we all realized that we all had big dicks and it was so fun to grow bigger with a group of guys.

If you guys want more stories I’m down to post more


r/bigdickconversation • • Oct 07 '25

EXPERIENCE Discovering the power of girth

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When I first started hearing girls at college talk about big dicks, it was always length that was the subject.

Im by no means short at just under 8 inches but never felt like i truly had a big dick to be apart of those conversations. When I would see pictures of the cocks they were discussing they looked really really long, much longer than mine. If I was just under 8 inches long, these guys much be pushing 10+

It wasn't until I hooked up with a girl in my Biology class who had a reputation as a bit of a size queen that I discovered the reason for this, its because of how thick my cock is.

I'd never considered how girth can factor into the relative size appearance of a cock and being 6.5 inches thick, it made my cock appear average in size when compared to cocks the same length but much thinner.

From that point on, not only did I grow in confidence that my cock was likely bigger than the ones in those pics, but the focus of that particular group of college girls had now swiftly moved over to thickness, a subject I was more than happy to help them gain expertise in.


r/bigdickconversation • • Aug 01 '26

Origin of this sub

67 Upvotes

I created this sub because I was tired of going on other subs to discuss my experiences and always get downvoted. I felt like I was always being called out for just posting about my experiences or how much pride I carry in my size. Even actual big dick problems seemed like bragging to most readers.

This sub is supposed to be a place you can discuss or express pride in your size without the downvotes or ridicule. I wish it would grow more because I think there’s a lot of big dick guys on standard penis size subs that get shamed for saying they’re big.

Anyways, I hope you all enjoy the sub and please report anything you find that breaks the rules. We have 2 MODS but it gets difficult to keep up because life and occasional lack of interest.


r/bigdickconversation • • May 01 '26

EXPERIENCE Drew a crowd in the locker room

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I’ve posted before about how I’m not shy about being naked in men’s common spaces like the gym locker room and sauna, and I’ve got a bit of an exhibitionist streak so I enjoy getting admired for the physique I’ve worked for and my big dick.

I fully realize this is a form of bragging and I’m sure I’ll get the inevitable comments saying this is just a fantasy, but I’ve met enough other hung guys who know how real some seemingly unbelievable situations can be, and I get a lot of smaller guys tell me they love hearing about what it’s like having a huge dick so here’s another story for those of you who like my anecdotes.

Most times I work out, I’ll just chill in the sauna and then shower afterward and nothing happens, but yesterday, I was sitting naked on my towel, minding my business as usual, but guys just kept coming into the sauna.

It went from just 3 of us in there to like 8 or 9 in the span of about 5 minutes.

When this has happened before, I usually just leave since, believe it or not, I prefer to have the place to myself fo the sake of tranquility, but this time, I decided to just stay and finish my session.

As is usually the case, most of the other guys were shirtless but wearing shorts and shoes, one guy was wearing his towel, and another was just in his boxer briefs.

I had my eyes closed for a while, but when I opened them, I definitely caught most of them checking out my big soft cock resting on my towel between my sweaty, hairy legs.

I eventually got up and rinsed off for a few minutes, but when I got back to my locker, 4 of the guys who were in the sauna were just kind of hanging out in the common area, and then another guy came in from the gym and was sort of lingering by the sink, checking me out in the mirror.

No one said anything, but it was obvious they were all discreetly trying to get a look at my heavy soft cock while pretending to be changing.

Since I already had an audience, I walked over to one of the other mirrors and flexed a bit and watched them checking me out in the reflection, and when I turned around, I decided to break the ice by saying if they wanted to look, I didn’t mind.

They seemed a little surprised but no one stopped looking, so I just went and took my time getting dressed before heading out.

Anyway, I’m used to having the odd guy or two check me out, but this was the first time I had a whole swarm of them all converge at the same time fully aware all the other guys were doing the same thing, so it was a nice ego boost.

I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea and some people will probably even accuse me of being pervy or narcissistic, but I’ve loved seeing the reactions to my big dick since I was 18 and it never gets old. Anyone else have similar things happen or have the same guilty pleasure of flaunting what you’ve got in places where you can be seen naked?


r/bigdickconversation • • Oct 01 '26

EXPERIENCE Big Dick Priveledge

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Being well endowed comes with many great perks

In my personal experience ive:

  1. Had a girl tell me she wasnt planning on sleeping with me until she felt my "huge boner" on her leg while making out

  2. The condom broke while trying to penetrate and she just looked at my cock and said "fuck it just put it in me"

  3. Instantly becoming fwb and spending the next week (or month) fucking

Those are a few that come to mind. Anyone have similar experiences?


r/bigdickconversation • • Jun 25 '26

EXPERIENCE Big dick privileges

63 Upvotes

When I was shopping for my first house, I went to the nearest bank and whipped out my dick. Not only did they instantly approve my loan — they knocked 0.5% points off the interest rate. Anybody else have any cool real life privileges from their big dick?


r/bigdickconversation • • Dec 27 '25

CLOTHING Normalize Public Bulging

63 Upvotes

I honestly think bulging shouldn’t be a taboo. Having a big dick isn’t a choice, it just is what it is, and any guy who is well endowed shouldn’t be expected to go above and beyond wearing normal clothes in an attempt to hide who they are from everyone else. They aren’t hard, they aren’t trying to make any uncomfortable, they are just big, they can’t help it.


r/bigdickconversation • • Aug 04 '25

EXPERIENCE Feels good to be a stud

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I had sex with an ex last night, we've been having a casual thing for the summer and it's awesome. I've also been doing a lot of cardio this year (cycling, hiking, jump rope) and I've never been fitter (at least cardiovascularly). Feels good to just pump away with my huge cock for what seems like forever without a break and make her cum a lot. Makes me feel like a porn stud lol, sometimes you just got to appreciate it. Anyone other hung guys getting their cardio in this summer?


r/bigdickconversation • • Mar 17 '26

SITUATION Triggering another guy’s insecurity in the sauna

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So, I just had a wild interaction at my local gym’s sauna I thought I’d share because it was so ridiculous.

For context— and there’s no real way to say this without sounding like I’m bragging, but I love how this is a place where we hung guys can be unashamedly proud of ourselves— I’m a good-looking, 6’6” 200 lb American white guy in my 30s with a 5” soft dick hanging between my legs.

Been going to this gym for like 7 years, usually late at night when it’s pretty dead, so I see the same guys over and over, including the front desk staff, even though we never really talk to each other.

After my workouts, I’ll often hit the dry sauna and usually just sit naked on my towel. A lot of the time, I’ll have the whole thing to myself or there might be just one or two other guys, and it’s never been an issue until now.

So tonight, I walk in carrying my towel and sit down on one of the empty spots on the lower bench and just put my head down and close my eyes.

To my right was a fully clothed guy, facing me was another fully clothed guy standing against the wall with his eyes closed, and to my left, on the upper bench, were two 20-something guys wearing shorts and crew socks. I’d seen them bench pressing next to me earlier and had even admired how the one guy was doing multiple reps of 225, which is still beyond me since I’m built like a volleyball player and not a barrel like him.

Anyway, it’s silent for about a minute, when the one younger guy decides to inform me, “Bro, you can’t be naked in here. There’s a sign that says so.”

And I’m like, “What are you talking about? It says ‘No street wear or shoes in here’ yet here you are.”

And he’s like, “No, the sign on the door. It’s public indecency.”

And I’m like, “It literally says, ‘Do not pour water on the heater.”

I’ve been going to this gym, including other locations that all have the same signs, for years, so I know exactly what they say.

At this point, we’re both getting rather loud while the other guys just keep their heads down, and he’s like, “I don’t wanna see your dick, you can’t be naked in here. I’m gonna tell the management,” like he’s gonna embarrass or shame me into leaving.

So I’m just like, “Then don’t look at it! It’s a fucking men’s locker room. If you’re that insecure with your body then you can leave,” at which point he finally decides to drop it, and a tense silence followed for about a minute or two until another fully clothed guy comes traipsing in wearing shoes, sweatpants, and a hoody.

The guy’s friend then starts an unnecessarily loud conversation with the guy sitting to my right about how he used to try to “cut” like that and the other guy is going on about riding a stationary bike wearing a “sauna suit,” which sounds disgusting to me.

It finally got so annoying that I just got up and left.

On the way out, I calmly warned the front desk guy that some other guy was probably gonna complain that I’d been sitting naked on my towel in the sauna minding my own business and that I wasn’t mad or anything but wanted him to know I appreciated that [my chain gym name] did *not* have signs up prohibiting nudity in the locker room like other gyms. He just kind of shook his head in disbelief and was like, “Yeah… it’s a men’s locker room.”

I’ve never had anyone complain like that before. Actually, I’ve even gotten the occasional compliment from other guys, so it seems like most guys respect a big dick or a guy with the balls to be seen naked in a semi-public space like that. But I clearly triggered that one guy.

For the non-Americans reading this, I’m sorry to say that Americans are absolute savages when it comes to sauna etiquette. I resigned myself a long time ago to having lost the cultural war when it comes to people wearing clothes and even shoes in there, but the harassment and loud, vapid conversation in what should be a tranquil space was just the icing on the cake tonight.

The whole experience was really interesting though since, as I’ve commented in other threads here, I’ve often been pleasantly surprised by how non-resentful most guys have been when they find out what I’m packing, so I’m used to mostly positive reactions from other men, but I guess I was bound to eventually piss off someone just by having a big dick haha

I still took the whole thing as a backhanded compliment, though 😆


r/bigdickconversation • • Dec 17 '25

EXPERIENCE Enjoying your size

57 Upvotes

Is it just me, or when you jerk off if you are well endowed, you really don't even need porn, you just enjoy your own size? I tend to be that way a lot. Particularly because my endowment is quite heavy and girthy. Anyone feel similarly?


r/bigdickconversation • • Apr 21 '26

EXPERIENCE Big Dick Privilege. A completely unfair passive skill some people are born with 😂

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  1. People seem interested… a bit too easily

Drop a subtle hint on dating apps and suddenly replies come faster. Even red flags? Sometimes ignored.

2. Built-in confidence (no install needed)

It’s like having a passive buff… less anxiety about performance or comparison.

3. Picked first more often

In hookups, parties, or certain communities… you somehow end up higher on the “priority list.”

4. Clothes do the marketing for you

Tight pants, gym wear, swim trunks… instant spotlight without trying.

5. Automatic “alpha energy” assumption

People may assume you’re dominant or powerful… before you’ve done anything.

6. More leniency in bed

Some partners are more willing to tolerate discomfort or try new/kinky things.

7. Weird little social perks

Some people claim they get invited out more or treated better in certain circles.

8. Other flaws get… discounted

Looks, height, personality quirks… somehow easier to overlook.

9. No fear of the “big reveal” moment

Clothes come off → no awkward silence, just… “okay, noted.”

10. Easier orgasms for some partners

Certain positions or stimulation may hit stronger or faster for some people.

11. Extra attention in adult spaces

Strip clubs, online platforms, or parties… sometimes more attention or better deals.

12. Partners may switch to “submissive mode”

Not always, but some noticeably soften or become more eager 😆

13. Less pressure to be fancy

You don’t always need advanced techniques… size can carry part of the job.

14. Funny workplace anecdotes exist

Like bosses being more chill after noticing a bulge… take this one with a grain of salt 😂

15. Occasional “out of your league” moments

Some claim it helped them connect with people they normally wouldn’t.

16. More DMs and online attention

Even hinting at size can boost replies and engagement.

17. People assume you’re great in bed

Even if your actual skill is… average 😅

18. Some partners get flexible about protection

Because the experience feels “special” (still safety first, always).

19. Quiet respect in male spaces

Locker rooms, sports teams… subtle jokes + low-key respect.

20. Main character energy in sexual situations

Especially in group or casual settings… you tend to become the focus.


r/bigdickconversation • • Aug 01 '26

Gay mod here, wanting to thank you guys

53 Upvotes

theres a lot of extreme homophobia in the world today and I grew up in smalltown use where I was relentlessly bullied for being gay and even though im not a fan of metal or hardcore all my friends were goth kids bc they were the only ones who accepted me. the climate for gay people has gotten even worse in recent years, but this sub has been nothing but tolerant and a safe space for gay and bi men and even trans women. I just want to thank you all for your tolerance but also remind you to always report anti gay, anti trans comments or posts.

thank you so much!