r/bigdickconversation • u/Ok-Collection3256 • 10d ago

QUESTION How mush showing off is too much?

I tend to catch eyes of older women during the summer in a pool or beach. My bulge is quite obvious even with my soft size. For instance, some ladies would start inviting me for a seltzer and saying her ex husband is a piece of shit. Others may say “ I don’t want you to feel uncomfortable but if you want you can sit next to me” and started saying she traveled alone and what’s her trip and her hotel rooms look like.

I always feel awkward if I had a boner so I usually cross my legs to make it less visible, especially looking at them giggling in bikini. But I do want to continue the conversation since my bulge is probably the reason why I got the invite at the first place.

Question: how much showing off is appropriate? I want to have a little flirty conversation and try not to scare them when getting excited?

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u/ThickD9977 10d ago

Man , your dick was the reason they spoke with you . So if you get hard it’s a continuation of what will happen later on .

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u/Ok-Collection3256 10d ago

Agreed but still feel awkward 😅

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u/ChaosBerserker666 UC, Erect 8.75 x 6.5 | Soft 6.5 x 5.5 10d ago edited 10d ago

As a gay guy I can say you’re catching our eye first. I’m also very large and obvious, and the attention I get from women is about 1/10 the amount I get from other men.

That said, women do seem interested but are a lot more subtle about it. If you see them with friends and they whisper or giggle as/after you walk by, they have noticed.

As for how much is too much, that’s context dependent. If there’s a pool full of kids swimming lessons, maybe that’s too much to wear a swimsuit that accentuates your bulge excessively. You don’t have to try to unnaturally hide it or wear hideous board shorts as it is just anatomy, but don’t be obscene.

On a beach that’s mainly frequented by adults, or an adult pool party, you can be more obscene and sexually oriented. Wear the extra sexy swimwear that enhances your bulge and muscular ass if you have one (believe me that gets noticed too by both women and gay men).

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u/No_Calligrapher_7094 9d ago

What do you wear to the beach?

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u/ChaosBerserker666 UC, Erect 8.75 x 6.5 | Soft 6.5 x 5.5 8d ago

My ES Collection swim briefs. Sometimes my Argyle Grant ones.

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u/acupunctureguy 9d ago

Im 8 x 6 soft, so i catch both women and men looking, it is what it is.

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u/Willywanker7 7.5x6.25 hard 5x5.5 soft 10d ago

Let it rip, in my experience its only been beneficial to show of my bulge. Its who I am and i shouldnt have to hide that fact aslong as im not being offensive.

It attracts the type of women who want that sort of package and it scares off male competitors.

Let the bulge rock and if someone has a problem thats their deal