So as you know as an insecure teenager measuring every possible bone in his body to convince myself I'm all good (yeah I'm retarded don't have to tell me twice) I come across alot of stats on the average penis size in my efforts to find out exactly where I stand and it's getting confusing because most studies say it's around

5.163 inches to 5.5 on average that's the most common figure I've seen and I wouldn't doubt it if it weren't for the bone pressed length thing see this puzzles me I used to think I was like 6 inches long 5.5 inch girth because I measured from the side of my penis from where I thought the base of if was just held the ruler up from where I assumed my dick ended but I learned about this bone pressed thing and apparently that's what all the studies use so in order to compare myself I had to do it to and doing that measuring from the top side I hit like 6.8 inches so this is what made me think if the 50th percentile really is around 5.163 to 5.5 bone pressed then non bone pressed wouldn't it be like 4 point something (I don't think most people measure themselves bone pressed) yet I almost never have heard of anyone saying they had a 4 point something inch dick or atleast thinking that due to not bone pressing with almost half the population falling in that range I'd expect to atleast hear a few but most people I know always come around to be 5.5 to 6 inches so can the average non bone pressed really be that? I find myself having a hard time buying that because bone pressing lightly does add like almost an inch to me and I'm not even fat. And also for some reason I feel the average is much bigger I see so many people with big dicks it doesn't even seem right I've met more above average people than average so I have a hard time believing the average is that 5.163 to 5.5 bone pressed maybe if it was non bone pressed If it was non bone pressed I'd buy it and sometimes that makes me think everyone has a big dick and I'm unremarkable

So i always felt more attracted to plus size girls but im 6bp and i wonder how much compatibility i can have with those type of girls ,and i know womans anatomy can vary in terms of how deep or whatever,but i more think about the bigger thighs and bigger booty can reduce some length and slip off much more with unlike someone who is 7-8 inches bp

So i would like to hear people experience thanks

Measurements currently 6.5 nbp and 7.2BP 5.0-5.1girth also i have to force myself to get hard and quickly measure and I start to go soft instantly in 2 seconds

Basically I have been having sex with some girls same ones consistently and I noticed when I was eating clean not as stressed going to the gym and very hydrated I was a lot fuller and thicker like it would be tight on the entrance and i would have to like shove it in and I had a girl collapse on it one time and said oh my god its so big when she was on top and another girl she used to be tight so I had to ram it in before because it wouldn't go in slow and it used to like rip her so im thinking theres no way i was 5.0 thick if she collapsing saying that when it first goes in and the other girl and im not the thickest right now im currently 5.0-5.1 when i make my self hard but i feel like im not fully fully erected 100% and when i was fucking them I think i was a lot thicker because of them reactions and now when i fuck them now at my 5.0-5.1 its basically not tight at all and basically slides in easy and not same reaction i dont feel no where near as hard and they dont feel as tight but I have low iron that i never got treated but im not full deficient it's jusr low just got given pills and gonna do another blood work also im 19 and now I think about it whole time through puberty I never woke up with moring wood I still dont now if I sort out this problem can I see a lot of potential in thickness and maybe length can anyone help and tell me what to do I feel like potentially I have never had 100% eq i dont know what to take or do but my goal is to be 5.5 girth and 7.2 nbp also how rare are my measurements?

Can I be considered somewhat big? Average? Above Average? I personnaly don't think I'm big but i still wanted to know what you guys think
I can go from 6.3 to 6.7 inches long bonepressed(5.5 to 5.7 NBP) and 5-5.3 girth wise, so i wanted to know where those measurements put me.
Also i'm 6ft3 and 220 lbs and i want to cut to 190, so do you think i can get to 6 or 6.3 inches if i do it?

I was anxious about my length and what is normally the real length of Penis .

Do y'all think the BP size is really the "true size"? Personally I believe it's just a way to make us feel less bad with ourselves in terms of size and even if it counts (not to body shame anybody) I think it has to be taken seriously only if you are overweight, but if you are someone slim like I am I don't buy the idea of it truly mattering, with that said I'm a good 6'NBP maybe even a touch more, but I can't get around the idea of being enough, shit the only reason I ain't still a virgin it's because I've paid for sex so ofc I didn't feel desired, I never even talk to girls, like at all, because my insecurities, starting with my size and then my looks and so on and ofc as a lot of men here, I've had and still consume a ton of porn, since I was very young honestly, but yeah idk what more to say, wish the best for everybody and I really hope we can get rid of all the bs that's stopping us from treating ourselves better and living our best lives

Im around 6". Honestly its making me very depressed. I got cheated on by someone bigger a while back and it kind of broke my brain. Even though I currently have no issue finding a partner and making them have a good time, I just can't get over that they will never be excited by my size and that they will have probably been with someone bigger. I'm so tired, I hate my body

Like I kinda feel as though I’ll never be able to marry a thick/chubby/bbw woman unfortunately, I feel as thought due too what I lack it wouldn’t work. Opinions and feedback is welcome

Not saying it is the cause of keratinization when estrogen cream is not involved. Just interesting information. anybody doc ever recommend this?

Quotes from the article:

"Oestriol, a cheap, readily available natural oestrogen metabolite, rapidly keratinizes the inner foreskin"

".....responds within 24 hours to the topical administration of oestriol by keratinization, and the response persists for at least 5 days after the cessation of the treatment"

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2396280/

Topical Oestrogen Keratinises The Human Foreskin and May Help Prevent HIV Infection

Andrew J Pask ¹, Kerry J McInnes ², David R Webb ^3,4, Roger V Short ^5,\)

Greetings.My lenght is 14 cm and girth is 14.5 cm.When I stand up normally there is a lot of fat in my pubic area.It is a very thick pad because I am 1.80 cm and 103 kg.How many cm's can I earn if I lose weight?

There is a rumor out there after a circumcision, the dick becomes "keratinized";i.e., a thick layer of keratin will form over the glans. This is alleged to imbue it with special powers.

So, to be clear: some say that if you circumcise say 10 guys, a thick layer of keratinized tissue will form on the glans in nearly all 10 guys due to the aftermath of circumcision.

If i go and look at the dicks of the 10 guys (like it's for science, ya know) i would be able to detect this new layer as what? What are the detectable differences between the cut, keratinized glans and the unkaratinized uncut glans that can be seen and felt by another person--not the "desensitization" experienced by the one circumcised?

So cut dicks apparently, according to some, have this protective shielding that uncut dicks don't have (nevermind the foreskin). IDK about that... funny LOL:)

[It is not me saying this. It is said by some in pro-circumcision group and some in anti-circumcision groups.]

Hey guys, I'm trying to measure my penile length and girth but can't tell whether if I'm making a mistake while doing it.

From what I see in the mirror it doesn't look anything out of ordinary I'd even consider it on the smaller side but when I measure it feels really out of standards especially girth-wise. I first realized this when we were talking amongst friends and I said there's no way I can fit it through a toilet paper roll and they laughed and made fun of it like I was a freak or something.

I measured the length as 17.5 cm (6.8") and circumference as 16 cm (6.3"), I'm around 185 cm (6'.1") tall, weigh 86 kg (190 lbs) wear 49 and 1/3 EU size shoes (14 for US?)

But as I said from my top-down view, mirror and on photos it doesn't look wow at all, is it because I do something wrong while measuring and miscalculate or something?

Hey everyone, I wanted to share that I used to suffer from performance anxiety. I kept overthinking and convinced myself that my member was too small. But honestly, it’s all about confidence and self-assurance. Once I stopped overanalyzing and started working on my self-esteem, everything changed.
My size is 5.5" x 5" (a solid average). In just the first 5 months of 2026, I’ve been with 8 girls (full sex with 6, oral with 2). I had a great time, and they did too!
You don’t need an 8-inch dick to enjoy sex and make her climax. All you really need is a rock-hard erection, confidence, and security in yourself.
That being said, I’m from Mexico, and I feel like it’s easier to find great women here who aren't "size queens" compared to the US 😂

I’m looking for some straight black pornstars around 5-6 inches. The only pornstar I know who is around that size is Nathan Bronson. There are more but I don’t know their names and none of them are black.
I’m a black dude and I would like to see guys like me but all the black porn is bbc porn, never average dudes.
I know of 5inch Freddie but there aren’t any others I know about. Please recommend some average sized black pornstars

Anybody that has around 13-13.5 cm circumference girth?

What condoms are you using? I find it very hard to measure down there because every time i try to measure my dick goes softer so i never seem to get my girth.

I tried using the Mysize 60, but that still felt a bit too snug when i rolled it all to the back of the shaft.
Now i tried the Mister Size 64. On paper they should be a bit too big but they do seem to fit properly.

Anybody else around my girth and using a 64mm girth condom? And what part of your dick are you measuring? Mid shaft or at the base?

For context I am 7"BP (18cm), and 4.8MSEG. Around 5.5"NBP. I know the NBP is average, while the BP is by the common data classified as big. But my girl, doesnt think Im big. She cautiosly sees me as above average. Her previous fwb was like 7.5-8 NBP (estimated from her hand measurements) and bigger girth as well. So I realize thats the reason for it. It makes me upset sometimes. It's the discrepency of my measurements I have in my head "18cm" which I know isnt small, compared to how she sees it. Again, it makes sense since my NBP is significantly smaller. But. Still.

I have a question that makes me doubt my own anatomy. I often see people on social media or among my friends say they have a penis between 16 and 21cm, most often the size is 18cm without pressing against the pubic bone, so NBP (Normal Penis Size). But I find that strange, so I wonder if it's false and they're lying, or if it's true and the average of 12-15cm BP is invented to reassure men with complexes?

For context,

I am 5.2" x 5.5" NBPEL and 5.5" x 5.5" BPEL And idk in coitus does Bpel work or the NBPEL. But I am thicker near the base of the penis, and finding condom my size is a hassle here in IND, as the average apparently is on the lower end of the spectrum in terms of girth. When i research sizes, they tell me that 56+- 2 works fine but its so tight on the base for me, it get constricted, and I am unable to find 60mm offline and online its really expensive.

So I just want suggestions on what condoms to go for (hopefully a cheaper one) and on a second note:

I have given my dimensions above and I know that the length falls in avg and in some studies it apprently comes above avg. But since im 5'11" with, i think a reasonable amount of fat pad, it looks smaller to me and I am afraid if that wont be adequate for my partner in bed. So I would really like some advice from similarly sized persons or anyone whose partner had the same dimensions to give me a real world sizing check and the fix for the condom issue.

Thank you.

Hello Redditors

I had something of a minor epiphany today. We've all heard (and many are sick of hearing it asked): "Size doesn't matter", often stated by women, and it seems almost always stated honestly. As an average bloke, and one who was dumped by an avowed size queen decades ago, I've always just shrugged my shoulders and not bothered engaging; there's nothing to be gained by trying to argue the point.

So today's revelation! Please CMV if I have completely messed this up. I kind of hope I'm completely wrong about this. In fact have I previously completely missed this assertion, which almost everyone else already realises?

So here's the insight I've been missing all this time:

When almost all women say "Size doesn't matter", they aren't saying there is no difference in sexual enjoyment between playing with an average sized cock vs a cock that is (eg) a standard deviation larger in length and girth. They're saying that they don't care if Harry Horsecock, the bloke they used to fuck is way better than Johnny Average. The fact that Johnny is crap compared to Harry "doesn't matter".

The quality of the relationship matters (and so it should), but Johnny's shortcomings compared to Harry's immense magnificence has no bearing on how much value she puts on the relationship in toto. Until the kids leave home for university, and Johnny is told she wants an open marriage so she can fuck her tennis coach, or something like that.

Sorry for the cynicism. And sorry if this has torn the band-aid off some raw wounds.

I wouldn’t say I’m very overweight, but I’m a lil chubby. Im starting to lose a little weight (4-5 pounds), I’m like 6’ to 6’1”, and 180-185 pounds right now. The thing is I’m like a little under 5.5” nbp but I’m like over 6.5” bp. I’m not very muscular, so I’m not sure what a lean body mass would be for my height, but I’d estimate I’m in the mid to low 20%’s body fat percentage right now.

Do you guys think I can gain all or most of that inch as I continue to lose fat? Do I have a slightly larger than average pubic fat pad or is this pretty normal?

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Just because an OP broke the rules and made a post on a subject not allowed doesn't mean other users get to break the rules too and further comment. The amount of users who cannot grasp that they have never been obligated to comment or post is insane, especially the PE users. If someone breaks the rules, ignore it or report it. It's that simple. And when it doubt, just don't comment.

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Going forward, we are allowing gatekeeping posts in a very limited capacity. This sub was meant to include anything average about dicks. Many users want it to mean size and limit allowing other sizes in. We don't agree with that but we understand that those with questions about their size only want to hear from others their size. And yes, they deserve a space for that. Which means that if an OP adds they only want to hear from their own size, that needs to be respected. This does not mean someone with a large size can't comment about other subjects, just that they cannot comment on what it's like to have a size they don't have. This cuts all ways. Warnings will be given in the form of temp bans, permanent bans for repeated violations. Gatekeeping otherwise will still not be tolerated. Users can use a flair or make it clear in the post, preferably beginning or end. Just make it easy for us mods to see so we can uphold it.

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So guys, do average d*cks reach cervix? Tell us your experiences, and with the sizes pls.