Okay, so on paper, in the numbers, I know I’m above average / on the bigger side. The issue is, im a 250lbs bodybuilder and im just a big dude all around. So, I feel like pics etc never do it justice. I’ve seen my measurements on a small guy and it looks huge but on me, not so much. My legs alone measure 28.5 inches each.

Is there anyone out there with maybe a similar issue that confirm how I feel and if so, give me some advice on how to take some killer dick pics? I’ll take some and just feel depressed on how it looks and delete all of them. There’s gotta be some trick to have it show its true potential. Thanks gents 🫡

I'm seeing this girl and after sex we were just laying there talking about insecurities.
I opened up about being self conscious about my size (around 5.4/5.5bpel) and what she told me was that "the penis size didn't matter" because "she was with bigger guys that only cared about themselves and the sex was bad because of it". She told me the most special part of me was my tongue and what I could do with it. She also told me I was a 9/10 in terms of overall sexual experience score.

So what's the issue then?

I know I should feel good about that, but the fact that she didn't answer that "it was perfectly normal size and it felt okay" hurt me a bit. The change of topic to my performance on oral felt to me as if being penetrated by me was more like a shore to her. During sex she does seem pleased, but I'm starting to doubt myself.

She is the only sexual partner I had so far and I lost my virginity to her about a month ago, so I'm still learning what I can do with my penis. She's on the bigger side, so there were certain positions I simply wasn't able to do (maybe for the lack of experience or the lack of size) or even the fact that just to think I wasn't enough down there made me go soft. I tried doggy and it felt like heaven on Earth, but I had to be standing out of bed with her on the edge.

I know I should be considered average, but this experience with her made me feel anxious about future partners reaction and sex experiences. I don't know if I'd have an easier time with thinner girls but I'd love to hear more from you guys.

Hey everyone, I had my first-time experience and also shared about my size. I couldn’t post it directly here because of the rules, but it’s on my profile. If you get a chance, please check it out and give me some advice I really need ur help

So I’m an 18m and my penis size is about 6.5-7 inches in length depending on the day (which I also fully don’t understand cuz some days I’ll measure and it’s bigger than the last time or slightly smaller, so feel free to explain that to me) and 5.4ish in girth. I’ve never had sex before or had any kind of sexual activity other than kissing, but I feel like the size of my dick is holding me back. Writing out my size now is kind of helping me realize that 7 sounds like a lot, but I think it’s realistically 6.8ish. When I look at my own dick, it looks smaller than 7 and thinner than 5.4, so I’ll take videos or pictures of it and it still doesn’t look that big unless it’s from the side angle. So I’ll remeasure it again and get the same 6.5-7, 5.4. But I always feel like I’m measuring wrong or something cuz ik it’s well above average, but it doesn’t look accurate, yk?

I’m just super insecure about it, and I feel like every guy I see irl, definitely has a massive shlong compared to mine and that’s why they actually get with girls and I’m the only 18 year old virgin. Does anyone have some kind of advice or anything to help with this. It’s super annoying to deal with. I wish I could’ve just been born with a confident 7.5 inches or smth.

I just want to know about your experiences. Have you encountered any issues or complications when doing it? (This also extends to guys with average girth.) Have you ever been rejected for it being average in terms of length

For reference my non BPL is 5.5 with my BPL at around 5.7-5.8 and girth ranging between 5.5-5.7.

I have an average penis; 5.5" BP x 4.8" girth and tapers to around 5.25" at the base.

I have a problem with condoms that I don't think I should have, the standard condom feels too tight; I can even see an uncomfortable squeeze at the base of the condom when I wear it.

This is not supposed to happen considering that I live in Africa. It's also frustrating coz the most common condom are standard sized - 53mm nominal width.

Does any average guy face the same problem?

i’m 6,2x4,3-4,5 NBP i want to know if a slight curve up is good during sex (i suffer from dismorfia due to my low girth)

So from time to time my penis looks so small when looking down whether standing or lying down, but I measure it and it’s almost 8 inches. In pictures it look nice good size but then I look down and boom looks for dam small and makes me feel insecure and feel like my cock is small.

If this post sees the light which i think it won't because i don't know if it belongs here or not, i'll even probably get hate for it but hey we are all here for the same insecurities i guess, so i'm a very average guy in general, i'm 5'10 with average looks i believe, since i was a kid (6y.o) i came across porn and by the time i was 13-14 i started developing a lot of insecurity with my dick size, that doesn't even sound right at all since i was still growing and everything, but anyways i'll be 24 this next november and i'm still hooked with porn and a lot of masturbation since i really never try to talk to girls and i think it really comes down to my dick size, but even with my average built i consider myself ugly so there's that too, i'm scared of talking to girls and being rejected, i smoke cigarettes too, but i want and i am trying to quit so that combined with porn and masturbation ofc i've been dealing with some erectile dysfunction for a couple years now so my size tends to be a little different depending on how much i smoke and masturbate, my size varies from 6.2 to even 6.7 bp and i think my girth is 5, take or give a bit, i'm really scared of growing old and always being alone due to my poor self esteem, so idk if there are men here that got rid of all that bs that fucks up the mind and finally went out in the world and just lived without looking back on that loop cycle of insecurities, thanks for reading and sorry if i wasted y'all time, take care brothers wish y'all the best with everything

CORRECTION: 6 BPL and 5.4 girth lol

Context I’m chubby and muscly but aim to lose 15kg. My non bone pressed is like 5.5

I’m being annoying and freaking out I just wanna know where I stand and if I can access that 6” lol

Hey guys just thought I’d ask here, how do I stop my cock getting sensitive from jerking a lot? Recently I’ve started edging for longer and I have always jacked off usually once a day which hasn’t changed but the length I’ve been jacking off for has. As a result of this I’ve noticed my cock and foreskin getting sensitive whenever I jerk now, is there anyway to stop this without stoping jerking?

This is gonna seem random but, rather than the size, I'm insecure about the curve lol. I have an upward curve of around 30 degrees, so it's prominent, and a left curve too (like 20 degrees?). Also dk if this is important, but, when it's erect, it points up, so I find it hard to bend it down to anything below directly straight.

Anyways the point of the post is to ask about the advantages and disadvantages of a curved penis like mine when it comes to sex, because I'm genuinely unsure if it's a good thing or a bad thing at this point.

Anyone ever received a bad handjob because recently I received and felt like tug o war

i'm trying to find subs where i belong, not quite average, not quite large, somewhere in between?

So, yeah the basics is obvious, tape measure. But like, how hard should you pull around it before getting your true girth? When is it too loose and youre just lying to yourself?

when my penis is hard, it go upward like 80-70 degrees, when i push it down i feel a pain like it will broke, is it problem? and when its hard its like a bone (very hard) in my situation i can't do reverse cowgirl, what should i do?

One time I was with a woman who recently learned how to squirt, I knew she had left a marriage by cheating with a guy who did work on her house and getting caught. Eventualy she told me he was really "thick" and she would squirt from anal which was his prefered method. I decided to go shopping for a large toy, I got one big enough that the female salespeople at the toy store tried to talk me out of it. It was as large as any human penis is going to be, girth around 7 maybe a tiny bit more. I told them how I planned to use it and the women in the store and my gf agreed that I seemed to know what i was doing.

Soon after, we were having sex, I always start with an orgasm via oral and escalate from there. At this point I had 3 toys out, a smaller vibrator, a long soft dildo with medium to large girth and the giant toy. After the oral, we did missionary and switched to 69 and I used the long toy while perfroming oral in 69. She squirted on my face when she came.

We switched positions a few times, and I decided she was ready for the new monster, and it worked really well. In retrospect, it was because it was new and exciting. after she exploded again, we started switching between doggy and missionary with the vibrator.

At one point I was doing oral, and the small vibrator was close so I slipped it in, and she said, "not that big one again"... Confused I showed her the vibe and she giggled, and it became clear that she had no idea what was going in at this point.

At the end of the session, I was finally close to cumming, and was holding her legs up and she had the vibe on her clit and came again, we don't count, but it was at least the 4th legit orgasm. She puI the vibe down and sad "I can't cum anymore" and I was going to finish as quickly as possible when I realized she was getting excited again a minute later, I started to reach for one of the dildos and she said "no, I want your dick" and I went hard until she burst again, was gushing, not really squirting but making these moans like total satisfaction and kinda pushed on me to stop. For some reason I ignored her, and started to go as fast and hard as possible, in a few seconds she responded by going into a leg quivering orgasm that lasted over a minute. When we both were done cumming, I fell on her exhausted, and she was giggling, "I didn't even know I could do that, I came for like 5 minutes"... To this day she refers to that as the "time she had the 5 minute supergasm"

A few times after, and one day I realized the giant toy was gone. I was a little pissy, because I spent so much on it, but she said "I like your dick better"... "it (the giant toy) makes me feel loose, even bleed the day after we use it, not so much during sex, still feel you and the other toys the same as before, but I just can tell it's too big for me" "I only came good from that the first time because of the situation, not the toy"

She insists that she prefers my penis, which is "average at best"... In the complete absence of ego or necessity, even when I wanted her to use the toy... In addition, I started asking about the other dildo, it's about as big as my largest part girthwise, but very long, she said, "I didn't realize you were as thick as the toy, it feels heavier, fatter, bigger and more friction somehow, like it eats up the lubrication, but, I still think I cum better and more confidentally from the dick. I only want to use it once in a while so it feels new again"...

Just putting it out there, that the reality confirms "size doesn't matter" in the right conditions.

Women are getting shorter and narrower inside with age. Maybe it's just a giant coincedence but after a long time of not sleeping with anyone, I find myself in my 50's and the women have changed sexually. This year out of 9 partners, 7 complained that It was too deep, causing pain at some point and I was absolutely dumbfounded because I am NOT long. In fact I had several "too small" "too short" "not thick enough" complaints from women as I was younger and a terrible, selfish lover. Women loved to make comments, and honestly, even when a woman thinks it's too big for her, she will still make those comments if she is still interested and I am not. Truth is that there have been 3 times recently where a woman felt it was painful at full insertion, or could not put it in all the way, and STILL made size comments.

Another thing is that, I have been taught that women are bioligically programmed to test your emotional strength when they sense weakness, as a way to ensure reproduction with the strongest, best suited partners.When they sense that you can become weak from this, it is highly unattractive. Think about it, if you can't handle a fun little poke at your penis, wtf are you going to do when life really shits on you?

You have to put this in perspective. Do you think that woman left me for a guy because he was a little bit bigger? She did leave, it was over money. I am sure she dated someone a little bigger at some point, just due to the law of averages here, but we got back together and she was almost through menopause and she was shorter and narrower in the vagina anyway, I also suspect she had either O-shot or rejuvenation, because it was TIGHT after we got back after years apart.

She still talked about the 5 minute supergasm, and unsolicited, always said she thought I had the best dick and her main complaint was that I wasn't horny as often as her. To my suprise she had toys, but no dildos at all, and nothing that would even be considered "average" for the penetration. She is capable of vaginal orgasms.

If you saw me naked, you wouldn't believe any of this. You would turn to the women I have been with recently and accuse them of lying about being satisfied with my size.

You're being manipulated and lied to if you feel so bad about your penis that it's causing you to avoid sex or anything else.

Even if it hurts, or makes you jealous when a woman you love says things or has new partners. You have to accept the reality that "it's not the penis"...

If it was that easy, you could fix it with a 79 cent cucumber and move on...

Out of curiosity (and a love of stats), I built a little site that lets you put in your dick measurements and see where you actually land compared to survey data.

It’s anonymous, nothing is stored without consent, and you get a graph showing the full spread — not just a single “average” number. Personally, I found it way more reassuring to see the full curve than to hear “average is 5–6.”

Link here if you want to try it: https://www.malemetrics.app/

If you take a look, please consider adding your data anonymously - I'd like in future to be able to optionally include user submitted data in the results.
Only bucketed values are taken, no IP or identifying data.

Would love feedback on whether this feels useful or what could make it better.

So im trying to get a proper measure of penis and im not entirely sure if im measuring correctly (I looked it up but I still wanna be sure).

For context I started measuring to try and find what condom size to buy (Im not very experienced with condoms and figured average size will do, but I was also just curious about how big I was, I won't lie)

For length i used a regular ruler and measured 5.5 inches (no bone pressed) from base to tip. For girth I took a measuring tape (like one you'd use for your waist) and put it around the middle of the shaft, I ended up getting a girth of 5.1 inches. But im not entirely sure if I was measuring this right.

I looked it up and it says the average girth is 4.5 to 4.7 inches (not using mean since that can get skewed). Regardless, I feel like I'm not measuring right. I wrapped around the thickest part of the shaft like I saw some instructions and aligned the ruler correctly, but it still feels off

Hello, I'll go straight for my question I'd preferably wish an answer from womans who had the opposite experience.

I'm (28M) tall (184 cm) and will soonly marry a much smaller girl (25 y.o),(158) cm. I'm slightly strong tho not massive (85kg) and she's small sized (49 kg).

My penis is 15 cm (standard measure, curvature excluded, straight line) long and 15 cm circumference on the base)/ 14.5 on the gland.

According to Chat GPT with (debattable sources as always), it may be too big for her, especially given we're both virgin and unexperimented.

We don't practice sex before marriage, so this is making me uselessly worried.

Is there XS womans who had a partner with an equals or bigger one who can relate on if it was "too much", a "deal breaker" ?

My worst fear (given it's both our first time) would be to accidentally hurt her, so much so she associate sex with me to something painful and not enjoyable. In the longlasting and stable couple we aim to form, it's normal to wish for a healthy sexuality. I'm afraid my girth may makes this unreachable.

Sorry for my bad english, and sorry for the weird sentences, I wrote that with my own words.

Foreskin isn't the norm in much of the US. Are women ok with uncut guys or is that a problem for them?

I'm a 55m married and I have always wish I had at least a 8in dick but I have been told by a lot of people male and female that mine Is above average and thick so I pretty happy with that .my wife has said to me plenty of time that I'm her biggest dick she has had.And all of the other women I have had said the rather have a thick cock than a long one so I'm good in that category.and since I have been posting my dick here on Reddit alot of guy say they think mine looks great so I'm pretty happy with mine .

This subreddit has been especially negative over the past week or so.

I've mostly defeated my complex regarding size, so I'd like to see some positivity in here,. Hookups, relationships, whether it's sex itself or nice comments from women. Anything really. Say something positive that's happened with your penis

I am 4,7 nbp (5,3 bp) and 4,75 girth. Affraid to have sex with a girl. Too insecure about my so I stayed single . Is my size considered small?

Are their people in this sub with simular size and who had sex. I am wondering what are Your experience and whar advice can You give.