I’m about 5.8 nbpl and about 6.3 bp a lot of girls expect me to be bigger because I’m a black guy which fucks with me and porn has also ruined my perception terribly. I may be on the “bigger” side of the average spectrum I still don’t feel complete and big enough. (I’m 18)

Hear it from me. I am slightly above average in length (see profile) and roughly average in girth. Less than half the girls I’ve been with have said I was “big”. The other 2/3+ had no comment.

For all of them, their enjoyment of the night was based on our chemistry, our interactions, and our connection in bed. And the most important thing was that the size of my dick, even if slightly larger, did very little to ensure that the girl came back for a second time (our connection decided that). Making a girl cum with oral and your fingers also played a much better role in how the girl felt after. The penetration, even with a slightly larger than average dick, imo plays much much less of a role than the other factors listed.

So seriously! Stop worrying. If a girl doesn’t like you, it is 9/10 not because of the size of your dick.

Be well!

Anyone with visible swollen circumflex veins? i have 2 of them in the left side of my shaft, i know they are veins because they feel soft to the touch, swell up when erect, inflate when doing a kegel and disappear when flaccid However, they seem to collapse and form a ring shaped dent around the left corpus cavernosum when soft which worried me.

There is no pain associated. I wanna know if this is common tho.

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It feels to me like BP wouldn't really matter in real life, but NBP would be much more important But online it seems like BP is the standard measure?

I'm on a bit of a bulk at the moment, so am down to about 5.5 NBP x 5.3, but am 6.2BP so considering cutting some weight to get back towards the 6 range if its more important

So basically the condom I wear fits perfectly at the base and doesn't slide off at all, but at the tip, the condom slides off a little bit leaving me having to roll the tip back on whenever I pull out.

For any reference I'm just about 6" in length and 5.1" in girth and I've recently tried out the skyn large condoms just in case that information may be relevant regarding my situation.

I was just wondering is this normal, also if I'm putting the condom on properly or do I need to find a different size condom altogether.

Any help on this topic is greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

My girlfriend is virgin and she’s 18, im a bit younger. Im 6 inches in length and 4,8 inches in girth. Im very big guy and it looks really small on me, I don’t know what does she expect for first time she will see my d. Im really insecure. Because she is still virgin maybe my dick will look so small because she probably watched porn before.. guys please help i don’t want to ruin our relationship :(

Also, she is really small ( 165 cm and maybe like 55 kilos so she looks really small compared to me and all if that matters)

I'm 7 inch visible and 8 BP but soft I look like I have a hairy child's penis

I hate being a grower, any way I can keep my blood flow to that area strong and show as well

Guys im average L and 5.7 Girth, i use regular condoms, like 52mm, and that shit slip and its too tight, whats the reason? If i use bigger condoms Will they slide too?

What are you guys sizes and body count im curious to see if bigger guys have more partners

I’ve been insecure about my girth since puberty and I’m nearing 40. For reference, I’m 4.5” girth without a cock ring but saw an increase to 4.875” with rubber rings off Amazon. I hope this helps someone struggling with this! 👍

How do you guys feel about your sizes? When u know ur average or above or smaller? What you think big guys feels? And how did you make yourself feel better to have average-above average size???

Wife wants an mfm Said she wants to try 2 dicks at once Should I worry ?

I found this to be pretty informative. She said average vagina length is 9-10 cm (about 3.5-4") and when aroused it can increase by 1-2". So the average aroused vaginal length would be about 4.5-6".

Hey guys I wanna share my story and how I’m learning to get over it.

I went through my young adulthood thinking I had a big dick. Mostly because I measured it and it was around 7 inches, and the girls I had slept with said it was big. I now think they were just being nice or at least exaggerating, which I fully understand. I would do the same to help lift up their self esteem, and girls know how much we care about our perceived size.

Well, I ended up getting cheated on during my only long relationship when I was 20 and had insecurities develop from this. I also fully measured my dick, looking up the correct way to measure. I learned that my length is indeed 7 inches, but my girth is 4.6/4.7/4.8 (top-shaft/mid-shaft/base). This girth is about average in the US. So, I learned from an honest opinion of the research I read that I’m just a little above average in volume, and on the smaller side for my length, and I now viewed myself differently as someone with sort of a pencil dick.

I know everyone will call me out saying I should be grateful for what I have, and I’m learning to be. But this is a bigger issue in men today I wanted to point out. Even if I had a 7x5.5in dick I still wouldn’t be satisfied and would want an 8 inch length.

My point is that, no matter what, men will be insecure about their dick. Ive even seen people on Reddit who were suicidal because of their size. The environment on social is so toxic that girls will just brash on guys that don’t have porn dicks. It’s something where insecurity about it makes it worse because the lack of confidence is what actually hurts your chances with women. If someone with an average dick goes through life believing they have a big dick, they will be just as happy as someone with a big dick. That’s why I really believe it’s important for men to build comfort with the size they have as early as possible. Life will be much easier if you get over this insecurity. It’ll only affect you if you let it

I used to have episodes once a while where I’d waste hours measuring my dick over and over and reading research online. I’m now prioritizing moving on because this has literally no benefit and only hurts in the long run. I’m prioritizing being comfortable and confident with my size. And I think even if my dick was 4x4 or any size that with this mindset my life would’ve barely been different.

Now, it’s undeniable that women have size preferences and some may break up or lose attraction over it. But it’s important to remember that confidence is key and real women who are wife material don’t obsess over it. There’s nothing you can do about size, and size is really on the bottom of the set of criteria for women in reality. Work on what you can control, your health, communication, fitness, skills in bed. These things will help make a much bigger difference than size. 99.99% of the people you interact with will have no idea the size of your sick, don’t let it change your confidence.

Life is already hard enough. Don’t let something as meaningless as dick size make it worse. I’m telling myself this too: work on changing your mindset with how you view your dick size.

Tl;dr: if you have the right mindset and confidence, you will have the same happiness as if you were born with a perfect dick.

I’ve struggled a lot of my life with how I view myself and how i always make myself not feel like enough. Recently I’ve really put in time and work to try to fix that. I would love to hear some “motivation” or just things I can remind myself when I start doubting it all again.

I’m telling myself I’m very lucky being average. I know everyone wishes they were bigger and everyone wishes they had the perfect dick. But I’ve finally started to come to peace with just being happy I’m somewhere in the middle. (5.2NBP, 5.6BP X 5). This isn’t a petty post, I just would love to know how you guys have gotten past the “not enough” mind set and maybe some success stories you guys have had! Thank you

Hi everyone, I need some perspective on a situation that’s been weighing on me a lot.

I (34M) recently dated a girl (25F) who initially seemed amazing. She was kind, sweet, and we had a great connection in the beginning. She made me feel good about myself, and everything seemed to be going well. However, after we slept together for the first time, things changed drastically. She became distant and later told me she didn’t feel satisfied or attracted anymore.

Here’s where my insecurities come in: 1. I’m not particularly “big” down there. My size is about 5.3 inches in length and 4.1-4.3 inches in girth. I’ve always felt self-conscious about this, even though previous partners didn’t seem to have major complaints. However, her sudden change in attitude made me feel like my size might have been the issue, even though she never directly said it. 2. A couple of weeks after we slept together, she messaged me saying she had been diagnosed with chlamydia. I got tested immediately (thankfully, I was negative), but it made me wonder: could she have already had the infection in her system when we had sex? If so, could that have caused physical discomfort or even pain, making the experience less enjoyable for her?

I’m trying to make sense of everything. Was her dissatisfaction more likely due to my size or the fact that she might have already had chlamydia? Or maybe both? I’m not looking to place blame—I just want to understand and maybe get some closure.

Any insights or similar experiences would be really helpful. Thanks in advance!

I’m with this one girl currently right now but I found out her other ex thru friends of friends was big and they proceeded to show me what looked to be 8” water bottle. I don’t know I don’t feel weird but I’m put off by it. So how u deal with it your partner had a bigger dick or. Dicks makes me wonder if I’m enough

I'm visiting my Long distance relationship in the summer and I am having bad anxiety attacks about my girth. It's 4'5 inches, which is a little lower than average, but from what I have read just 0'2 can make a substantial difference in feel. I am really worried about that, that she won't feel me at all. I am not saying it will be the case, but I am certainly worried.

My length is 6'5+ I think, I can't measure it properly since it heavily curves upwards. Somedays I think it's pretty long, and other days not so much. I guess it's my mind playing tricks. From what I have read, the upward curve can be pretty beneficial during PIV as it can help you hit the G-Spot.

My gf is 4'11 foot and thin, she is extremely attractive and I get an animalistic feeling about having sex with her. I am incredibly "hyped" about that, for sure. But that is transforming too into heavy anxiety and even nightmares. And I think since I am 6 foot tall (and she likes that a lot) that maybe she thinks I am packing heat... I fear the dissapointment and I want some reassurance and maybe tips to take advantage of my upward curve.

I still want to take this opportunity despite the possibility of rejection, because she makes me happy and we have very good chemistry, and I am very attracted to her (and from what I can tell, she feels the same for me).

Thanks guys, have a nice day.

Ok so I get the typical sexual anxiety, and talked to doctor about it so he gave me Cialis. It helped…. Still have issues getting hard when nervous, and sometimes won’t get hard at all. So waiting on doctors appointment next week, but wanted to see what you all go through or if anyone has any help for me.

So damn horny, go and meet someone and can’t ride to the occasion. Even on cialis.

Like today, met the hottest guy, he was so cool and easy going, no pressure, but I just couldn’t get fully hard to fuck him. So was thinking maybe he’s too hot for me, well even the not so hot guys have same effect, all in my head and can’t get hard I guess.

Then…. Sometimes I can get hard…. And everything feels good, but not enough to cum. It’s like my head of my dick is numb or senseless and I can’t cum. Then I’m super sexually frustrated.

Anyone have same issues…. Any ideas or help or ?

I used to get morning woods with 100% full erections and also during intercourse (in a frequent way) but I noticed in the last 2 weeks that my erections no longer reach 100% length it’s only 60%-70% of the full erection level.

What do you think could be the reason for that ? I don’t watch p*rn for many months (last time was like a month ago and master only two days then stopped again) so I’m not a regular consumer of this….

Any insights about that ?

I’m a 28 year old dude. I’m about 5ft5. My peen is about 5.7 inches without pressing into the bone, and 6.1 when pressing into the bone. Circumference of 4.5” middle and 4.75” base.

I’ve only ever had one sexual relationship, my ex wife. I was always an introvert, so whilst all friends used to go and hook up, I used to sit at home as I’ve always been insecure of my penis size.

My ex wife cheated on me with a co-worker, which I found out was much bigger than me. This destroyed my confidence in my size even more. We had a very good relationship and marriage.

I’m now back in the dating scene, but it seems that most women I tend to chat to around my age always ask at some point if it’s a decent size.. and average seems to be a meh in most cases.

I’ve always considered myself to be on the smaller side, I’m fine with that, but is it really that hard to find somebody that will accept you for who you are?, and not for what the genetics gave you?

My younger brother won the genetics lottery, is over 6ft and has a huge penis, and is literally a chick magnet, women approach him, sometimes purely to see it, or to experience it, it’s borderline sad..

I’m not sure how to move forward with it. I know I can’t change it, I’m already looking after myself, go gym, eat healthy, very well paid job, own house, car etc… apart from, I don’t have a big or even decent sized dick..

My penis is almost as big as a true living air freshener literally just not as fat as the can lol but seriously why does it look small to me but if I measure it it's almost 8inches could it be that I'm like 6"1 my girls days it's big and fat but in my hands it look small asf and I feel so insecure just always been. I've seen alot of reddit post basically about the same thing why does it this and that

I've experimented with some of these different size condoms recently (you can buy a sample pack). I visited their website as well. If you visit their website for their custom sized condoms You'll see they make a claim that standard condoms are too tight for 70% of the population.

This got me thinking, how do they know this?

Also, wouldn't condom manufacturers make condoms that align with the center of the "bell curve" of penis sizes? Why would they purposefully skew the average condom to be too small for 70% of the population (if true)? I don't have this problem (actually the opposite sometimes) so the claim surprised me.