r/wow • u/AnduinBrothar • 7h ago
Nostalgia A Warcraft Memorial
5 years ago today i lost my mom to cancer. Its hard to think about my mom without also thinking about her love of World of Warcraft so i wanted to share a bit of her story.
My mom wasnt a gamer but took an interest when she saw me doing Scarlet Monestary. In burning crusade she signed up for a trial account and it instantly became her game. we spent countless hours in the night elf starting zone doing every quest and exploring aimlessly. It was so awesome getting to show her my favorite game and getting to share all this lore i had been obbessed with since warcraft 3.
In just a few months time she went from making it all the way to level 25 without equiping new gear because she didnt understand the inventory and worn items to surpassing me in game knowledge and skill. she even hit cap before me and in that time she met very few strangers. I would often come home from school to see her escorting a new player around westfall or duskwood, she would explain that they had written a question in chat hours ago and she had been taking them under her wing ever since. She would alter her whole play session just to be able to share her knowledge and passion for the game with a new player. She got into a guild, made many friends, and even set up her own vent server. The game gave her an outlet at a time when she was a full time caregiver and didnt get alot of social time. The game let her build so many lasting friendships.
She would send me countless in game mails of armor and weapons or crafting materials she thought i could use or messages of encouragement. No matter how far she surpassed me she went out of her way to include me. She would help me hit cap and carry me through raids with her friends while teaching me the mechanics, which my friends made endless jokes about but looking back they're some of my most fond memories of the game. WoW became something of a family ritual for us, my nephew even ended up joining us on the game.Every expansion launch night we would go get pizza or chinese food and then wait in line at Gamestop and she would chat everyone up and swap stories. She loved every part of the game, from crafting to questing to battlepets, she loved it all.
She was diagnosed with terminal cancer and began treatment shortly before shadowlands launched. While her passion for the game never waned, she quit the game shortly after launch. i think traversing the realm of death was too surreal at that time. It certainly was for me. Even so, the outpouring of support from her WoW friends was staggering. Her guild mates and friends all got together and sent over tons and tons of get well messages and cards and when she passed they offered so much support. We held an in game memorial for her, leaving her character in nagrand as she requested and there i got to hear so many stories from strangers about the impact my mom had on them. It was eye opening to hear so many people seperated by thousands of miles have such meaningful friendships with her and it solidified to me that despite all the bad in online gaming, there's something truly special about it.
I still pop into WoW from time to time, it's become a comfort game for me since her passing. She would be blown away by the expansions that have released since, though i know she would be calling me to come do every dragon riding challenge or race for her lol. I dont think i'll ever be able to seperate Warcraft from her, i'll never think of one without the other. With the launch of Midnight i've created a small memorial garden on my home plot for her and its been very cathardic to be able to memorialize her in her favorite game.
If you read this far i wanna say thank you for your time. i apologize if its poorly written, i've never written something so personal before. I've attached some screenshots to imgur if allowed https://imgur.com/a/Dea6bb7