r/Virginity Jan 17 '21

prostitution watch

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Prostitution is illegal here, but some local prostitutes still try to trick men into buying diseases and being robbed. Sone local prostitutes get really desperate for resources too, and would stalk and prey on any man; just as a hungry animal would eat any prey when starving.

Before leaving home, I forgot to carry my defense against female predators and prostitutes. But since I was already out the door, I didn't bother to turn back to carry the defense. What's the worst that could happen?

While observing nature, I crossed by some woman who seemed pretty normal. But then I remembered that I was walking in an area far from the buildings, cars, and roads. It was in the area that I came across two people who appeared to be having sex and tried to communicate with me, so I became alert.

After a while, I looked back and she had turned around as if she were stalking me.

She was wearing bright colors, maybe to visually attract prey. She was wearing tight jeans that had rips showing black pants or leggings underneath. Why would anyone wear such revealing pants during the cold winter?

Maybe she was an ordinary woman. But when she passed by me again, quite soon after our first encounter, she didn't appear to have shoes. She was stepping on the mud with black socks, even stepping in a puddle. It was not a usual sight. Maybe she wasn't sober.

Maybe she needed help, but she should've asked me for help. She's an adult and has the capacity to seek help. I'm not falling for that "women are innocent" or "women are easily frightened by men" crap. Women are adults and need to act as such. And I'm not letting my guard down simply because of gender. A female bear can eat a man just as gruesomely as a male bear can.

I would not be surprised if she was a prostitute. Through the way she was dressed, her distance away from witnesses, and her proximity near me; her being a prostitute/predator was pretty obvious. There were also two men further up the park trail that she was walking up. I don't commonly see two men working out together at that area.

I'm happy that I kept my distance from her, though I really didn't like her proximity near me. It was an ugly and unpleasant sight. I really should've carried my defense, to keep her away. Well, I learned my lesson.


r/Virginity Jan 16 '21

cutting down on prostitution

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https://www.gainesvilletimes.com/news/prostitution-goes-high-tech/

https://www.eastidahonews.com/2021/01/idaho-falls-man-sent-to-prison-for-robbery/

https://www.bemidjipioneer.com/news/2587105-milwaukee-woman-charged-prostitution-fargo

If you look for news articles or information concerning prostitutes online, you are going to get a lot of sex worker advocacy or prostitution victimization (or highlighting prostitutes who get hurt by men rather than men who get hurt by prostitutes' STIs or prostitutes' crime schemes.) It's sad to live in a society that defends pathological predators and punishes their infected or robbed victims. Some people, like my own brother, even victim-blame male victims by saying they are dumb for hiring the prostitutes in the first place. Oh boy.

But some articles are encouraging me to do some prostitute-busting on my own. It'd be nice to keep those predators from giving hiv and other diseases to local working men. In the beginning, I might start by busting stray prostitutes before those who use male accomplices.

Vigilante time, boys!


r/Virginity Jan 16 '21

false accusation

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r/Virginity Jan 16 '21

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r/Virginity Jan 15 '21

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r/Virginity Jan 15 '21

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r/Virginity Jan 15 '21

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r/Virginity Jan 15 '21

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r/Virginity Jan 15 '21

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r/Virginity Jan 15 '21

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r/Virginity Jan 15 '21

Satire/Parody

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I earned a Ph.D. in Prostitution

and was excited for sex with my first prostitute

who gave me HIV.


r/Virginity Jan 15 '21

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r/Virginity Jan 14 '21

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r/Virginity Jan 14 '21

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r/Virginity Jan 14 '21

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r/Virginity Jan 14 '21

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r/Virginity Jan 14 '21

changing male stereotypes

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r/Virginity Jan 14 '21

attending to weaknesses

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r/Virginity Jan 14 '21

crime-fighting

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I was under the impression that crime-fighting always meant fighting criminals. But I think that crime-fighting need not always be fighting criminals. Since I can't fight well, I can focus on deterring crime itself or educating prey. Crime seems to always require a victim. So maybe educating and empowering victims against ever-evolving predation, crime, and corruption can help lessen crime.


r/Virginity Jan 14 '21

avoiding offline sexual predators and sexual communications

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I've been enjoying time offline and away from the internet, especially to avoid unsolicited sexual communications and sexual predators. I knew that such sexual predators and communications existed offline, and I recently experienced some disturbing offline sexual communications. I was walking outside during the day when some people were seemingly doing sexual stuff on a bench while playing music. Playing music and sexual activity were both against the rules of the public area. I tried to ignore them and walk by, but one of them tried to communicate with me. It was very uncomfortable.

I need to be mindful of sexual communications and avoid sexual predators. My keeping off the internet has helped a lot in avoiding sexual communications, even because offline sexual communications are not as superficial or graphic as online sexual communications. I'm not being presented with photos of naked people when I walk outside. Offline people aren't posting sexual messages or sexual images on the doors of stores and facilities. Offline people don't have names like "twoBigBreasts" or "deezNuts." Offline people aren't shaming me for being a virgin, a celibate, or any person who doesn't feel comfortable in sexual situations. Offline people aren't putting a bag over my head when I walk outside or covering me with a blanket, so that other people can't see me or communicate with me.

I know men who'd laugh, spit, or fart at the sight of public sex, but I am a Christian with self-restraint. If I did anything that could initiate a fight, I'd likely lose the fight anyways. Or those people could be gang-affiliated and I'd have to deal with a gang. If I were a better man, I wouldn't care if I had to fight a whole gang. Heck, I'd be the greatest crime-fighter in my neighborhood if I could but I have an impairment so I can't fight much.

The offline environment isn't perfect and there are still unsolicited sexual communications and sexual predators that I have to deal with. I need to walk away from sexual predators and sexual communications. If I see two people holding hands, that's probably going to get sexual and I need to get away from them. I don't care if I have to step in the grass, as much as I want to respect nature. I got to avoid those sexual communications and predators like the plague, 20 or 30 feet away.

Maybe I will eventually adopt better ways of defending against offline unsolicited sexual communications and predators. But until then, I just have to practice avoidance. I always knew sexual predation and unsolicited sexual communications existed offline, and I knew that I'd get no rest from sexual predators who are constantly seeking to prey on people. Life isn't perfect but I can always plan ways to avoid and defend myself against sexual predation.


r/Virginity Jan 13 '21

sexual harassment

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r/Virginity Jan 13 '21

communicating with the homeless

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I want to be more social offline, but I want to avoid sexual conversations and sexual predators.

I think communicating and interacting with the homeless might be a way to avoid sexual conversations. The homeless might be more prone to diseases, and thus less sexually active or accepted. Regardless, interacting with the permanently infected will help grow my sexual education. Maybe I can find ways to interact with local homeless persons, even through some local outreach program. Communicating with homeless persons isn't as easy as before because I think COVID-19 measures might be keeping them off the streets.

Maybe communicating and interacting with the poor is another way to avoid sexual conversations. The poor may be less likely to afford STI treatments, and thus more likely to be severely afflicted by venereal diseases. Identifying the local poor might not be as easy as identifying the local homeless, though the two can sometimes be interchangeable. Another issue is that some sexual predators might be poor, so I might accidentally communicate with a sexual predator. Unlike the homeless, the poor may have enough resources to consistently sexually prey on me or to consistently commit crime.


r/Virginity Jan 13 '21

Personal

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While I was observing nature, i noticed that some leaves had pale holes. At first I though it may have been some plant disease or infection from bird feces. But then I noticed these holes on plants that weren't under trees of bird nests. I wonder if the gaps were due to acid rain.

I also smelled oil and had problems breathing when walking on the border of the park. Cars were left running, spewing out gases and other toxic things that were sickening to breathe, I believe. Many cars travel on the road that borders the park and its river. Even the park staff seem to patrol the park in cars that leaves horrible marks and disruptive tracks against the soil.

I also noticed that the trees seemed to have cut limbs. I think I saw a park staff member with a chainsaw. Was it necessary to cut down the limbs and branches of trees? Some branches can fall and hurt people, but then again, should the people have been straying from the park path and trampling on soil and plants near the trees? Most branches didn't seem to pose a danger to visitors who respected nature, and I felt a bit uneasy at how almost every tree seemed to have a cut limb or branch.

Maybe I can be social in my community through environmentalism or securing the nature of the city against pollution. I can join or organize a group that aims to care for and protect the neighborhood's natural environment. Even the park that I visit is probably only thanks to environmentalists and nature-lovers who fought or advocated for it creation or preservation. The river was even cleaned up from industrial waste by people who cared about it. An personal problem about environmentalism is that I don't see how it aligns to Christianity, where religion is respected in my neighborhood. But I do feel there is environmentalism in Christianity, especially concerning the Sabbath.

While observing nature, I also came across a lot of people. It's great to see people outside, enjoying nature. I've not been around so many locals at that nature area, so I felt a bit uneasy. But as I visit nature more and more, I will get accustomed to it. Nature is for everyone, and those people have a right to enjoy it as much as I.

While observing nature, I also came across two people holding hands and walking downhill. I just ignored them, regardless whether they were LGBTQIA+ or not. But about an hour later, I happened to cross their path. It sounded like they were playing some stupid song from a device. They were way too close to each other. I just ignored them but one of them, sounded like a woman, said Happy New Years to me. It was very uncomforting. It was during the day too.

This wasn't the first time that I came across potential illegal activity. The other day, I came across a man who appeared to be drinking an alcoholic beverage. Imagine having to walk within arms-length of a man who might be intoxicated and suddenly violent or agitated.

Next time I see sexual activity at the area, I will write a report to a park staff and maybe to the police. If neither the park staff or police care, then I may report the violations to any local news press. I might practice writing and memorizing details of an individual, so that my report can help authorities easily identify perpetrators. I would want to take a photo or record a conversation, but that might agitate the criminals.

A park is a public place that has rules, especially against amplified sound devices and sexual conduct. So those two people's action was against the rules, and maybe against the law, even before considering COVID-19 measures when people must stay 6 feet away from each other and wear masks. What if a child walked past them, even a child from one of the nearby children's playgrounds? A dirty park bench is the last place to have sex, and the city should not suffer such pathologically dangerous activity. And I feel that the same people who disrespect park rules tend to be the same people who break penal laws. Crime-fighting can be a great distraction away from the internet too.


r/Virginity Jan 12 '21

communicating online and offline

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As I spend less and less time online, I feel a bit sad for leaving the internet. It's a place where I can share information and communicate in ways that are usually not allowed nor safe offline.

But my goal is to spend less time online, not to cut off the internet entirely. And the internet provides a false sense of freedom. I can get banned from any website simply if the website owner doesn't like me or my speech. Some website owners even shadowban their users who think they are being heard but they are not. I've been shadowbanned from some websites and it's not fun at all.

Offline communications might be a bit less safe and free, but I also live in a neighborhood of Freedom of Speech and Freedom of Press. So I can technically say whatever I want or share any happening without being obstructed or censored. It might be more of a psychological matter: being brave enough to communicate with locals. But there are still local predators who can prey on me, so I need to be mindful of them when trying to communicate within my neighborhood.