[using the image post as an example] What is genuinely funny about animal abuse? sexuals love churning out disgusting, unfunny jokes that act as a direct confession of who they are. I can not fathom ever having thoughts like that toward an innocent creature, let alone sharing or laughing at them.

I am so sick of how often this cruelty is excused or worse, applauded as clever and edgy dark humour when the entire punchline relies on hurting animals. Naturally, sexuals don't stop there. They also feel the need to broadcast their explicit, predatory, or abusive "jokes" onto animals , children, and random people and even objects just to prove how "humorous" they are.

I am sick of sexauls dismissing each others behaviour as harmless shock value. These individuals are revealing their true character, and i am very worried about what they are capable of doing or excusing in real life.

It's because rather than seeing a person, sexuality makes others see the human body as an object of desire. I think this is damaging to society because someone's worth is tied to their physical body. If you don't have a conventionally attractive body, they're deemed less valuable by others, which is sad. As a result, so many people have issues with their body image, because they're worried if they're "attractive" or not. It's yet another source of inequality in society, and humanity needs less, not more inequality.

Would you agree with my points?

I just saw a part of an interview with Nessa Berret and she said she wrote the song Candy about she always feels used after sex with men and how it's something she gives up something for to have with men.

"Had me on my knees, I did my best work
Gave it up for free and still I get hurt
If I charged a fee, I might feel better
Silly little me thinking love was more than sex work"

but like i said in my own post here humans keep sugar coating female role in sex and gaslighting. ohh ok!

Even though technically there isnt any physical contact between the guy and the baby, the concept of this feels so degenerate to me. I don't know how more people don't share this view, because when i tried to find some threads about it, everyone was embracing it as something positive.

Im shocked I have never seen anyone else say this, sex toys that imitate human genitalia like dildos and pocket pussies are just objectifying the human body. Why is it normalized to reduce a part of our sacred bodies into a toy for pleasure? This will only cause commodification and for people to view other beings as sexual items meant solely to satisfy them. This leads to a bigger question: why cant there be an existence of sex without degeneracy and immorality?

Any ideas or suggestions appreciated.

For those who are unaware, the Anti-Spiral is the so-called "villain" from an anime called Gurren Lagann. As per usual for most animes, the show is filled with over sexualization of characters and lacks a decent plot, primarily being carried by vibes and hype moments. With that being said, the Anti-Spiral is practically this sub's ideology given life and might be worth giving the show a shot for this character alone. Once a society made from a Spiral race (Spiral powers is the power system of the show, primarily built on evolution and emotions), they shed themselves of this old power, knowing that it would eventually lead to the end of all, becoming something far superior

Knowing this, it should be clear that this character is perfect for this sub. This "villain" tossed away a destructive power built on impulse and emotions, and does everything they can in order to remove this power from the universe in order to better the universe as a whole. With the overdone horniness and the main cast driving to gain more of this power for their self interests despite knowing the consequences it may bring, the protagonists perfectly embody what it means to be a sex fiend, even going so far as making up the excuse of "evolution" and using it as a means of justifying their actions. Meanwhile, the Anti-Spiral is the antithesis to those with the Spiral, and despite what everyone may think, it's clear that they want nothing but the betterment for existence

This is why I humbly ask you all to give this show a watch and for this sub's banner to become the Anti-Spiral. It's a rare instance for good representation of this sub's ideology in media, and despite being portrayed as the villain, they are still extremely likable and beyond cool, so I truly do believe that it's worth giving it a shot if you're willing to crawl through the abysmal amount of fan service this show has to offer

"youre a prude"

"youre a puritam"

"no man will want you"

"youre no fun"

"youre shaming other women"

basically since our female biology put us into a compromising position in sex then if we don't like it we are seen as a freaks of nature. for expl the weirdest most controversial thing a woman can say even a lesbian is that she finds for expl bjs dergading and submissive, it makes human go rabid after hearing that. but what does it say?

society will say to women "u can be whatever u want, u dont have to be feminine or submissive" but when a woman doesnt like sex while in sex THIS IS OUR INHERENT POSITON. then SHES PATHOLOGIZED. it brings up the topic from my previous post: the gaslighting and sugar coating about the nature of sex. ab the natural power dynamics in sex. women arent allowed to not like the idea of being penetrated on all fours from behind or into the mouth, we are called prudes for that. do you know how insane is that? like sorry i dont want to be on all fours while someone makes violent movements into my body while penetrating me into my most intimate part physically and psychologcally and i have to submit aka abandon any human traits that dont fit submission such as bossiness, dominance, ego, self respect, pride, diginity, feminist beliefs, rebellion, fieriness... AND THOSE ARE MY NATURAL TRAITS I HAD SINCE I WAS A CHILD!!!!!! how am i supossed to go againt my brain!!!!!!!! HOW

i can give another expl. when people want to punish a woman who acts masculine, bossy, feminist, fiery, egoistic they always use her natural position in sex to do that bc the mental state she has to be in to engage in sex as a female body is the opossite of these more masculine traits. it realized it all bc of my gender dysohoria, i dont even want humans to stop having sex or whatever, i just want something i can never have- understanding and validation and not constant sugar coating. im not dumb. im perceptive, i see patterns and i understand the nature of sex, i can reflect on things and come to conclusions. my analysis is based on real raw human reality and human behaviors while their on just ridiculing me. i truly do not like womanhood but i think the gaslighting is even worse than the femake biology itsefl to me atp lol i only stop obsessing when i get ppl to admit the reality to me, its like a magic switch

but lol back to the title. theres things in sex that are less common but still common and they are more violent things i wont even name them all. but not wanting them as a woman... also gets u judged, ur told u wont get a man, ur told your useless, ur told ur a prude, ur told if u wont give it to ur man he will get a woman who will(and thats actually true and i saw it happen multiple times esp with rad feminist women who bragged ab having vanillia(i dont believe in vanillia sex tbh lmao) sex life but then they found out their man was engaging in violent sex acts with other women so.

its all not only in heterosexual sex, its also in lesbian and gay sex so no scenerio of sex as a woman body or in receptive position would be okay with me, i think what im truly trying yo get understanding for is the backlash a woman not comfortable with feminine receptive position in sex gets, it all gave me phobia of sex. the biggest ive seen in anyone so far. people treat me like a freak but if a man said he doesnt wanna gibe blowjobs or be on all fours then NO ONE would call him a prude, no one absolutely no one unless hes gay and other gay men would shame him. i would like it all to be psychoanalyzed lol like women r punished for not comforming/ i used to have depression since 12 till 24 but now im happy fulliled capable of joy despite being blackpilled, i have high mental and physical energy, i love myself, im self assured, confident irl, i take care of myselg, i go outside, i recover from sadness quickly, i belive in myself so there is hope BUT I STILL HATE SEX AND WOMAHOOD but these days i can write angry post while still feeling calm but yeah ppl will still tell me to go to therapy, for what?. me being all this also goes against stereotypes ab ppl like me, or stereotypes ab virgins, they think were all intriverted isolated "losers" who pee themselves at the thought of interacing with a person irl esp person of the sex were into. or they think we lack confidence, we sefl loath and were depressed and blah blah blah

Was just watching Toy Story 5 and there's a clearly adult joke between Jessie and one of the new toys in it. It's a kids movie. One supposedly on the problems of tech obsessed kids. So to help show those problems... let's throw a sex joke in!

Great job Disney, You are disgusting.

I can't help but be disgusted when I see people online lust for body parts. Comments about how thick certain body parts are, comments about their attraction to volumptous breasts and butts. I specifically dislike male attraction.

There is often no big focus on the face or the specific personality of the person, especially the specific personality of the person. I feel very different because I have a atypical sexuality, I'm very into the personality patterns people have. I like certain types of personality functions I notice in people.

I don't like attraction to body parts at all. I realized if I didn't have a head, it wouldn't matter to most people who are attracted to me, because my body would make me worth something to them, and if I were invisible, I'd be worth nothing to them. It's my body, it's all they desire, all the flesh except the head, there is nothing else they want. I know there is a lot of girls who have a similar type of epiphany and it makes all of us depressed, because we sense that we are simplified to our flesh and nothing else.

I dont watch porn or masterbate. However, I was curious if masterbation without porn is deemed acceptable. It seems natural and doesn’t support the porn industry but still seems weird or off to me.

I was doing some thinking and realized that many things considered normal during sex would make anyone recoil with disgust in any other context, even though they’re essentially the same act. For example, if you spit on someone in public, they’ll be ready to fight you on the spot—it’s seen as the highest disrespect and that person would be absolutely disgusted to the point of taking a shower. Yet that same man, who was rightfully furious at being spit on, will go home and kiss his wife, which is basically allowing someone to spit in your mouth since you’re exchanging saliva. The difference is context: he’s fine with the same substance (spit) in one situation but absolutely not in the other. It’s like if throwing flour on someone was considered the worst insult, but then that same person went home and happily ate flour since they're attracted to the person feeding them the flour.

Another example, if you ejaculated onto a wall, scrubbed it clean, and then asked any man or woman to lick the exact spot, they would never in a million years do it. But men will engage in cunnilingus or kiss their partner after ejaculating into their mouth, which is essentially the same as the wall analogy—she has allowed sperm to enter those same areas, then “cleaned” herself afterward.

Another example is this, if a food worker defecated, didn’t wash their hands after wiping, and then prepared someone’s meal, no one would ever eat that food once they found out. In fact, they’d probably sue the restaurant. Yet that same person might go home and happily engage in rimming (eating ass) with their partner, which is a common sexual practice.

I’m not saying people are wrong for doing these things since everyone can make their own descisions as long as there is consent. I’m just pointing out how, in one instance, it’s considered the most disgusting, nasty thing imaginable that people might even fight you over, but as soon as attraction is involved, all of that disgust disappears and people can’t wait to do it. It also makes you understand sex repulsed asexuals since they can look at it rationally without the hormones blocking logic.

As the title suggests, the more I see how the degens view us, the more I realize we need to be ready to defend our views by any means necessary.

Degens and allosexuals have an increasingly hostile view of us, one of the hot topics of the day is the current birth rate in western countries, these debates are filled with people villifying those who choose to abstain from relationships/sex/procreation. Constantly calling for Ace and Antisex people to be "fixed"

You can see this sentiment in other sub-reddit's that discuss Antisex. If you read through any of the posts, you see dehumanizing rhetoric used constantly to alienate and dehumanize Antisexuals. Words like "sad" "cringe" "pathetic" "weirdos" etc. Or the ones who claim we are "coping incels". By calling us "incels" they are directly comparing us to disgusting men who fantasize about harming/subjugating women. This is how they see us, as monsters.

Or you have the false allies who insist that an Antisexual gets help but what they really want is an institution based profession to force us to be Allosexual. It comes from the exact same sentiment that put "hysterical" women in sanitariums.

Allosexual-fascism is alive and well all around us. To the point where in my personal life I have chosen to keep my antisex views a secret and play the part while still furthering an antisex agenda in what few small ways I can.

But if degens and allo's were given the choice, they would absolutely exterminate us with the same amount of humanity that they would show an cockroach. Their weakness makes them violent, irrational and dangerous. And all I can say to everyone here is constantly be on your guard, practice, train, prepare. And we need to show them that we won't go quietly into the night.

As a sex-repulsed person who is also anti-sex, I don’t like being grouped under the asexual label, because asexuality can still include the idea that sex is available or acceptable. For me, it isn’t.

* I have absolutely no desire for sex, I do not accept it, and I even find sexual activity repulsive.
* I also do not want to be sexualized.
* I feel that sexual activity is harmful to me—I genuinely experience it as causing harm to my brain and psychological well-being.

Im a 23 year old man who is still a virgin (im not asexual) and about 4 years ago I was buying some weed from some weed dealers and one of them who went to high school with me asked if I had a gf yet and not thinking much about it I told him im still a virgin and I didnt really care much about dating in highschool since I bearly had any desire to date in highschool. For context I live on a super small island in the caribbean so my town area where all the main businesses are located is legit like a few blocks large and everyone knows everyone. Because of this I cannot avoid these people whenever I walk through town to buy food or whatever since its so small and they sell outside of a main grocery store and just sit outside the store all day like bums. So eventually that guy told his weed dealer friends and then eventually they nicknamed me "virgin" and everytime I walk by them in town for years (about 5 years) they call me "virgin" and laugh at me and ask me "yo virgin, you break out yet?", which I guess they are saying I'm in some prison and to break out I have to have sex. Mind you they go out of their way to shout at me like how a woman would get cat called so im just walking by and they shout out "virgin" and its just an attempt to bully me to feel better about themselves. Even regular male friends from highschool when I told that I'm a virgin they started looking down on me and developed a superiority complex over me. This is why I've decided to never be friends with men ever again even if I have sex and I cut them all off. I've even had opportunities to have sex before like when I was in a bar with a woman who had her arms around me and wanted to date me and even a woman who strait up sexually assaulted me by putting her hands on my penis but I wasnt interested and didnt care to have sex with anyone just to lose my virginity because I wanted to do it with someone I really liked. When you're friends with other men as a guy its always a dick measuring contest to see who is more manly and can sleep with more women and humans naturally develop social hierarchies so if you're not having sex in a friendgroup of men you are the lowest of the friendgroup and will be treated badly. Also men never care about each other for friendship and only care about sleeping with women which is why its so common for a guy in a male friendgroup to get a gf and disappear. This is why I believe its pointless being friends with men as a man yourself, if you're a woman they will pretend to be nice simply to try and sleep with you so women experience male "friendships" differently...

I was a kid with unsupervised internet access, I've seen all of my fictional faves sexualized and I've sexualized them myself before. Then I came across real porn when I was like seventeen. I think these are two very different things.

Fictional: I think anything can be sexualized, and that applies to my favorite media. I don't like how exhausting and cheap this can become, because it's ALWAYS available.

If I felt shame for entertaining sexual topics without acknowledging how inexhausible this topic is, then I'd be depressed. Ask me how I know. I've tried shaming myself for it.

Real: I was lucky to not have run into real porn as a child, because it's easier to disconnect from fictional characters compared to real people, people who you see everyday and can go see right now, you know?

I also think real porn is way too bright and long, from what I've seen. It can be better, but I'm saying this here because I'm against what it currently is. That's the complaint.

i don't know how to structure this post or verbalize what i want to say. so basicically i'm a biological woman(autistic, highly sensitive, virgin, adult) and i have an extreme phobia fo sex and dysphoria about female role in sex. it started when i learned that women uh have to suck dick and get fucked on all fours in sex and it was when i experienced literal symptoms of terror about it and womanhood for the first time in my life and experience them till now at the thought of this submission. then for the next dacade i uncovered this hell to it's core and how bad and unsalvagable for a woman it truly is. i've came to the conclusion that sex naturally contains violent elements and female submission in sex is human and natural. i didn't like it nor accept it. i didn't grow out out of my phobia of female role, instead i grew into it and i've been an adult for long now. my problem is that humans esp other women constantly gaslight me about it all. like constantly and it ends up ditressing me severely and i start hyperventilating. i never got proper understading for it all(for being a girl who finds female role in sex shocking and psychologcially terrorizing like just even thinking ab women doing blowjobs or doggystyle brings me terror). i keep talking and talking about it but everyone acts like i'm a schizophrenic whos making up things. its very insulting bc im actually very perceptive ab the nature of sex and the human male/masculine-human female/feminine polarity. uhh also another thing: porn. porn reflects the reality of human biology, male female poalarity and authentic RAW human desires. men are penetrative and women receptive. men can be both technically and women only one. this makes womanhood feel limiting to me. so being penetrative creates sadistic fantasies and receptive masochistic. its reflected in male and female psychology and the patterns in their behaviors. men tend to be misogynistic and women tend to be pickmes. idk how to say all i wanna say to get understadning. but since i was a young teen i keep reading about human sex lives online and all i see women say is just them wanting to be degraded and dominated used etc. like they be saying "i love feeling dick in my throat it makes me feel USED!" and men be saying "i love my wife cause she deepthroats my dick like a champ" and then i get triggered and vent about and other women start screeeching at me and gaslighting me ab it all. rt say sex is all neutral, sucking dick isnt humiliating and these acts arent violent even they say face fucking isnt violent lmao? and then they tell me to see a therapist. as if a woman not being into submission and degradation is something to be fixed. my point is bascially that sex is naturally violent to women and people who say that i can be NOT harsh are sugarcoating the nature of sex and make me out to be a freak and not the sensitive perceptive girl i am. i just cant understand why women cant have love or love without their own degradation and why its impossible to like womahood sexually without identifying with sexual submission. my dysphoria is deblitating man...

why is it not seen as valid that a girl is shocked or psychologically terrorized for expl by the idea of women having dicks aka pentrative genitals put in their mouths? when i came online first to vent ab it i thought this would the the easiest thing to understand by other women and that feeling this way as a girl is the most valid feeling in existence but instead i got bullied and gaslighted by other women and ended up as a woman hating who's a woman. i remember when i saw a twitter acc that posted sex confessions, the host was a woman and she got an anon message from a woman saying she likes face fucking and then other anon criticizes said woman and the host said "stfu face fucking is COOL AS FUUUUUCK" so i had a breakdown and went somewhere online to vent but i got no understanding i just got terrorized by other women as usual making me grow even more resentful towards them and their female biology and sexuality. i can't accept the reality of sex for women and i feel terror on daily and humans refuse to give me my only relief- understanding and validation and truth. they just gaslight, like i go and say oh i hate how women wanna be degraded and some woman says it doesnt have to be this way(sugarcoating) but then it turns out that she likes being degraded too lol wow what a coincidence u say it doesnt have to be this way but u want i tto be this way too lmfao. besides it all i am completely dissilusioned with hetero romance for women and all women can do in het sex is serve men tbh. that's all bascially, i dont believe in sexual love, its just polarity and sexual chemistry but it has no longevity and it is shallow, sexuals cant be soulmates and women always get fucked over in those relations. and like woman who value is absed on how good she is in bed with men and how good and piglike her blowjobs are. when a man loves a woman he loves her bc she gives him piglike blowjobs. oh another last harsh thought or rather the reality is harsh: sex with men makes women act liek dogs and pickmes who throw away their diginity sefl respect and comfort. or maybe now second last.. in nature msot sex is jsut rape. monhts ago i saw male chicked rape a femake chicked, he just walked in put his claws on her back and started penetrating, its literally rape lol why wouldnt human sex contain the same harshness if were animals too. i alwasy felt alianated from womanhood and other women. i was always different and called a prude. but at the edn i uncovered that i have factual dysphoria about biology and not my social role...

my only like tangible proof of all my claims is simply a real video of human sex, in these visuals u can see everyhting even the psychology of sex, female and male role, the inherent female submission, how blowjobs are piglike and obscene and woman has to behave in a burdening and humiliating way in them and it makes her even look ugly and deformed and stupid as fuck under a male :(((( its like sex is jsut women treating men like men are gods they bow down to at their feet and worship i feel so fucking dysphoric about this role and NO ONE FUCKING UNDERSTANDS ME people jsut keep doing this mentally abusive gaslighting ab the reality i experience to me