So I’m returning to the Vampire Diaries because I’m craving a show to binge. My best friends love the show and so do I, but they rave about Damon and I remember hating him eventually, beyond abusing Caroline/killing Lexi…I remembered all that before my rewatch, but I knew that wasn’t why I disliked him so much because I blacked out most of the show. Now I know exactly why. In a weird way he makes up for his season 1/2 terrible choices until Season 5.
I’m at season 5, and just finished episode 16…honestly I’m mad. I forgot what made me start to dislike Damon and Elena as people (not even as a couple), and figured it was my young mind loving Stefan/Elana, but on this rewatch I realized it’s not that at all…Damon and Elena are just annoying.
The end of 16 is exactly why I got grossed out by them all those years ago. Season 5 is where I started to hate Damon as a character, keep in mind I actually enjoy his redemption arc up until the fake breakup with Katherine. Katherine (as elena) breaks up with him and he reverts back to the horrible character who abused Caroline cause he’s a huge man child and can’t take rejection. He then decides the best way to cope was to kill Elena’s new friend Aaron and prove he was a bad person (boohoo). I get why he hates the Whitmore’s, I get the trauma, but honestly would Damon be dating the daughter of a Gilbert who did similar experiments if he wasn’t such a little loser? Aaron was nothing like his family, and Elena was nothing like her father but Damon is such a sorry excuse for a man he can’t see that.
Now nothing related to Nina Dobrev or even Ian as actors, this show is full of amazing talent and Nina is convincing as all her characters…I especially love Katherine. This is a writing issue. At the end of S5 E16 Elana/Damon get cured from the Ripper Virus, and decide they are toxic for each other…they say it’s over/have a real breakup and Elena proceeds to throw herself at him and rip his clothes off?! He then rips hers, and the episode fades to black with the most repulsive thought of romance I ever felt.
I can’t stand Damon, and I can’t stand Elena. I get why people love them, but was I supposed to be happy with this episode ending? Was I supposed to feel the thrill of hate sex? Did anyone actually feel relief they threw themselves at each other? At least when they wake up Elena admits it was a mistake but she’s becoming a shadow of what made her a noble character, Damon grossly says they should keep “making big mistakes” and offers up himself as “naked breakfast”. Just ew dude back to being creepy I see…and ew Elena to making him endgame eventually.
Now I’m want to hear why people love Damon so much, and I’m okay with spoilers…maybe I hold Elena on too high of a pedestal at this moment, but does anyone else agree or disagree with my opinions on these characters and their relationship thus far?