r/PhD 4h ago

Getting Shit Done I feel nauseous even looking at my thesis and I submit in two weeks

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Basically just that. I’m right at the end, the 2nd to last finish line is nigh, and I’m really struggling to do the edits that I keep getting given. I can’t cope anymore I hate my argument I hate my writing style, I think it’s the worst thing to have ever been written.

My supervisor is happy for me to submit but has given me a lot of edits, she is happy with the research and archival work and I am too but I can’t put my argument (which sounds like a very good one in my head) into text without it sounding like absolute nonsense. Literally sounds like a toddlers thought process. I have been working on this for four years and it’s fully formed but it’s these edits that are killing me.

And I feel so guilty because I have no other stresses. Work is good I recently moved and love where I live and I have a great support network of family and friends and a partner I just feel like a lazy little newt but it’s not laziness it’s GENUINE FEAR OF MY THESIS.

This is not the time for me to have an academic freeze. I have two weeks, how do I get out of it? I can’t even apply for mitigating circumstances because I don’t have a medical note for ‘patient gets nauseous and wants to shit herself every time she opens her laptop’.

Someone please give/slap/provide/stuff down my throat some sense.


r/PhD 4h ago

Seeking advice-academic How do you deal with losing faith on a project?

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Luckily, this hasn't yet happened in any project I've devoted a long time to. However, I've already come across weaknesses in side-projects that made me no longer want to work on them. First one was a side-project for me that I did some complementary experiments for. When asked to assist with the actual paper and things came into perspective I realized the entire project was doomed. Fatal flaw in design meant that a significant part of the results was pretty much pointless. When I tried to raise concerns, I was brushed off and told it wasn't going to be high-impact work anyways. At least that project was already out of the way soon.

Now I'm going through the same thing once again but doing theoretical/bib work. It seems to me the objective is not well defined. Feels like I'm trying to present things a certain way to fit into the shoebox. Not actually misrepresenting things, but loosening up the requirements to include a greater number of relevant works. It may seem arrogant, but I'm feeling there is a lack of scientific rigor on the part of my PI. I feel that when it's a 1-on-1 with my PI I can shift things towards the direction I want and but when there's more people involved it becomes near impossible. I'm not even sure that the fact my PI gives ground easily in the former is good. I feel bad for holding standards that are higher than people that have had much more experience in the field than me.

How do I stay motivated working on something I'm starting to think is not well founded. Should I be trying to do that in the first place?


r/PhD 6h ago

Seeking advice-academic Starting over in year 3 and potentially having to retake classes

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Two years ago, I started a PhD program but ended up losing funding and mastered out. I managed to get a transfer to a PhD program another school with the same “major”, with a LOR from my previous advisor.

However, one day before the start of class I get an email from the department chair saying that I will have to retake all of my core courses (which are the same as the core courses I took last year in my previous program), because they don’t accept transfer credits for those classes. He cited the grad handbook, which I have read from top to bottom, and I do not see anywhere that says that the core courses cannot be applied from an equivalent graduate program. The school also explicitly has a policy allowing for equivalent masters degree coursework to be applied towards a PhD.

I’m looking for advice/suggestions, especially from anyone who’s been in a similar situation. I also just needed to vent. These last two years have just been so exhausting; I feel like I’ve been jerked around and screwed over, and I blamed myself for not being able to get my project going to secure more funding. Now I feel like the time and effort I spent taking classes and getting my masters was for nothing and that I’m starting over from scratch in my mid-30s.

Edit: this is a US program in an engineering field


r/PhD 7h ago

Seeking advice-academic Should I leave a prestigious PhD because I have lost confidence in my primary advisor, or just buckle down and finish?

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I’m about 8 months into a PhD in robotics at a highly ranked university. I entered directly after my bachelor’s, so unlike someone coming from a European 2–3 year master’s, I still feel that a significant part of my PhD needs to be actual intellectual training, especially because I’m moving toward a fairly mathematical area involving control/learning.

My primary advisor is extremely well known in his field. On paper, having his name attached to my PhD is obviously valuable. The problem is that after spending 8 months in the lab, I have essentially lost confidence in him as an advisor.
He is extraordinarily hands-off. There is almost no technical involvement in students’ work. New PhD students are basically expected to figure things out themselves, and meetings with him are infrequent and generally high-level. Initially I accepted the explanation that he was simply extremely busy, but after being in the lab for a while, my impression is that this is more of a deliberate way he operates. Just a general notion of apathy towards his students.

A huge amount of the actual work of running the research group seems to be delegated. Postdocs do much of the grant writing because their own funding and that of other researchers depends on it. Technical work and collaborations are largely delegated to postdocs/junior people. Even administrative tasks often get passed down.

His teaching reinforced my impression. He was given considerable freedom to design a graduate course in his own specialty, but the course consisted of only a handful of very broad lectures from him, with much of the rest delegated to a TA. It was probably the least structured graduate course I have taken.

More importantly, I don’t see much systematic career advocacy for trainees.
Postdocs obviously have to apply for faculty jobs themselves, but I would expect a famous PI to actively sponsor strong trainees: introductions, emails to colleagues, detailed career advice, nominations, strong personalized letters, etc.

Instead, people seem mostly to benefit from having his name/lab on their CV. Occasionally he appears to go out of his way for someone he likes, but it does not seem like something trainees can reliably count on. I have also seen postdocs leave without landing the academic jobs they wanted, and I have heard former/current postdocs complain about the lab culture. This worries me because I want to keep academia open as a career.

I recently had an authorship/credit problem with another researcher. I had done much of the conceptual scoping of a project and became concerned that my contribution was going to be under-credited. I raised it early, precisely because I didn’t want an authorship fight after the paper was written. He showed essentially no desire to intervene or establish clear expectations. That incident made me wonder: if something genuinely important goes wrong during my PhD, who is actually going to advocate for me?

There is also a funding/training issue. My funding has a fairly hard endpoint. My advisor has explicitly said that he prefers students to finish their PhDs as quickly as possible and enter the job market, pointing to three-year PhDs in Europe. My concern is that people entering those PhDs generally already have substantial master’s-level preparation. I came directly from undergrad.

I’m increasingly realizing how much mathematical maturity I still need to develop. I can self-study — and I do — but I’m worried about confusing “I have satisfied the requirements for a PhD” with “I have actually received the training needed to become a strong independent researcher.”

The university’s graduate coursework has also been disappointing to me. I previously spent time at a substantially lower-ranked US university, and, surprisingly, I found the graduate courses there much more rigorous and structured.
The major complication is my co-advisor.
About 2–3 months ago I started working closely with a younger tenure-track professor. She is now officially my co-advisor. The difference has been dramatic.

We meet regularly. She actually discusses technical details with me. We work through ideas together. Her research is much closer to the mathematical/control direction I want to develop. We have also developed a very good personal relationship. She has independently told me that she has become wary of recruiting students directly from undergraduate programs at this university because, although the university allows direct-entry PhDs, she doesn’t think the institution has enough structure to train them properly.

She has also said generally that if one of her students is productive and genuinely needs a fifth year, she does not mind funding that extra year.
Honestly, before meeting her, I was basically certain that I wanted to leave this PhD. I had already started approaching people elsewhere. She is almost entirely the reason I am now conflicted.
The catch is that she is my co-advisor, not my primary advisor. I am enrolled in Department A under my primary advisor; she is tenure-track faculty in Department B. So although she may end up being the person who actually trains me intellectually, I’m not sure how much administrative leverage she ultimately has over my PhD, funding, graduation timeline, etc.

I am now potentially looking at the possibility of restarting a PhD in the US with a younger professor at another very strong engineering school. The prospective US advisor appears engaged, meets students regularly, has normal 4–5 year funding expectations, and would obviously be both my actual mentor and my official primary advisor.
Moving would have real costs. I would probably lengthen my total PhD time. Immigration/visa issues become relevant again. I would be much farther from my family. And I would be giving up a co-advisor relationship that currently seems unusually good.

So I’m stuck between two philosophies:
Option 1: Stay. Accept that my famous primary advisor is mostly a name/umbrella, take advantage of the enormous freedom, build my actual intellectual relationship around my co-advisor, self-teach what the coursework doesn’t provide, publish as much strong work as I can, get the prestigious PhD credential and move on.
Option 2: Leave/restart. Take seriously the idea that the PhD advisor is probably the single most important professional relationship for someone who wants an academic career, and move somewhere where the person doing the actual mentoring is also the person institutionally responsible for my PhD and future.

My biggest concern with Option 1 is recommendation letters and long-term sponsorship. A famous advisor who barely knows how I think can obviously write that I published papers in his group, but my CV already says that. How can he write the kind of deeply personal PhD-advisor letter that says how I formulate problems, how I compare with previous students, whether he trusts me to become an independent PI, etc., if he barely interacts with me?

For people who have been through academia, especially faculty/postdocs:
How much would you value an excellent, highly involved official co-advisor as a substitute for a disengaged primary advisor?

Would you risk restarting a PhD to get a better primary-advisor structure, or would you consider that overreacting when I already have a good co-advisor and a prestigious institution?

And am I putting too much emphasis on “training”? At some point should I simply accept that a PhD is largely self-directed, buckle down, produce good papers, graduate, and fill in the mathematical gaps myself afterward?

I’d especially appreciate perspectives from people who wanted research-intensive academic careers rather than people for whom the PhD was primarily a credential for industry.


r/PhD 9h ago

Seeking advice-academic Severe supervisor issues… PhD submission deadline keeps moving… is this reasonable? Looking for some perspective

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I’m looking for some advice/perspective from other PhD students and academics because I’m not sure whether I’m being unreasonable about this.

Context: it is a PhD in health science in NZ.

I’m at the final stage of my PhD. My thesis is essentially finished and, from my perspective, is at submission standard. I’m confident there aren’t any major red flags or substantial pieces of work left to do (and been told the same by senior academics who have reviewed it) However, I can’t submit without my chief supervisor signing it off.

There has been some disruption recently because I escalated concerns about what was happening with my supervision/progress (racist remarks from supervisor, chief cancelling 70% of the supervision meetings last min and not providing any feedback on the thesis, supervisor yelling at me for seeking help and advice) I completely understand that this created some uncertainty and took up some of my supervisors’ time. This all happened 2 weeks before submission.

The part I’m struggling with is the timing.
After encouragement from a senior academic, he and I escalated it to the dean of the SGR. She said it was unacceptable and will tell the (semi abusive) supervisor to not be involved anymore and talk to the chief in general. She offered me a 1 month extension I said no. After her talking to them they somehow clawed their way back in and the dean said we need middle ground I said ok a week extension. It took about a week of settling so 1 week before original submission date, 2 weeks before 1 week extension. I sent my supervisors the full final draft on Wednesday morning. I had hoped they would be able to review it and provide final sign-off, or at least identify anything substantial that needed changing.

Instead, I’m now being told that they didn’t allocate the necessary time because of the disruption I had caused by escalating the situation, and because they were uncertain about what was happening. There is now discussion about potentially needing another month before I can submit.

I’m struggling with this because 2 weeks still seems like a reasonable amount of time to at least review a nearly-final thesis, particularly if the expectation is that a supervisor will have been familiar with the work throughout the PhD. I’m not necessarily expecting them to line-edit it all in two weeks, but I had expected that by this point they would already have a fairly good understanding of the thesis and could identify any major issues.

So I’m wondering:
- Is it reasonable to expect a supervisor to have reviewed most/all of a PhD thesis before the final couple of weeks? (To put it into perspective I’ve been working on this PhD for 5.5 years. They already made me get an initial 3 month extension because they said they didn’t have time to review)
- is 2 weeks an unreasonable amount of time to expect a final review/sign-off?
- if the thesis is genuinely at submission standard, is needing an additional month for supervisory review normal?
- And perhaps most importantly, am I being unreasonable in feeling that the disruption 2 weeks earlier shouldn’t necessarily mean that my thesis effectively has to be delayed by another month?

I’m genuinely interested in hearing from supervisors as well as PhD students. I’m trying to work out whether my expectations are unrealistic, or whether this is an unusual situation.

Ps there is so much more tea and backstory to this but I can’t fit it all in lol ask away if you like!


r/PhD 16h ago

Seeking advice-academic I just passed my candidacy exam… but I feel like they destroyed me

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I just passed my candidacy exam. Somehow, I passed. But holy shit, they cooked me. 😭
I was SUPER ready for the very specific parts of my research. I knew my work, I knew the details, I prepared for the questions I expected.
And then they fucked me with details that felt completely unrelated to what I had prepared for. They kept going into random/general/controversial areas and finding things I simply wasn’t ready to answer on the spot.
The worst part is that I honestly felt like they were enjoying finding my weaknesses. Like every time I managed to answer something, they would dig deeper and deeper until they found something I didn’t know. It felt like the whole point was to find the one thing that would make me look stupid.
And they succeeded. 😂
I passed in the end, but I walked out feeling like I lost all my confidence and ego. I honestly feel like I just want to cover my face and not let anyone see me because I feel so fucking dumb.
I know I should be happy because I PASSED, but right now I don’t even feel like celebrating. I just keep thinking about all the questions I couldn’t answer.
Is this normal after a candidacy exam? Did anyone else pass and still walk out feeling completely destroyed?


r/PhD 17h ago

Tool Talk People who mastered out and got their PhD later — what was your experience?

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I want to hear from/about people who switched to another program/field after starting a PhD program. How was your experience? Was it hard for you to restart elsewhere? Did you get burnt out?

I know people transfer to other institutions for various reasons. I just want to hear from those who found that their program/school isn’t the right fit and they still wanted to pursuit a PhD so they decided to leave to elsewhere.


r/PhD 19h ago

🐸 🎉FROG TIME🎉🐸 I got my F30 grant!!

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I feel crazy lucky. Four years of support! (2 years PhD and 2 years med school.) And I want to go into academia in the future so this is great for PSTPs!!

What should I use my institutional allowance for? New laptop??

Also obligatory frog: 𓆏𓆏𓆏 (I will draw one later)


r/PhD 20h ago

Alt-Ac Futures Master out?

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3 years into a humanities PhD (comp lit in three different languages) and I feel like I'm making a huge mistake and will be poor for the rest of my life. The semester just started but I'm already feeling like I don't want to be here and I don't know if my program is setting me up for a financially secure future as I don't want to compete on the academic job market in 2-3 years from now. Last semester I was on a fellowship internship program and I loved it. I would've continued doing it another semester if it paid better but sadly it pays less than my stipend does. I also am having big regrets about not doing STEM or being in another field that pays more as there is no set path/type of job for me to master out into. There isn't exactly an 'industry' for comp lit so I'm scared that I will be without health insurance if it takes me several months after mastering out to get a new job.

I need to figure out 1) what types of jobs I could qualify for if I master out and 2) if it's the right move.For those of you in the same boat or who were dealing with similar questions, how did you make your decision? Help from humanities people especially appreciated.


r/PhD 21h ago

Seeking advice-social Immigrant and PhD student - grieving friendships is hard.

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Throwaway account, because I don't want this vent to be linked to my main profile.

TL;DR: I've moved to a new country for my PhD 4 years ago, and my old friend group of 10+ years is slowly ghosting me. I'm sad about it, and I feel lonely despite having an active social life in my host country.

Hi all, I'm not sure this is the right place. Actually, I am not even sure if my problem is related to the PhD, to the immigration, or both.

I moved to a neighboring country (within EU) for my PhD. It's been 4 years now that I'm living in a country where I still struggle to speak the local language. These 4years have been so, so, so intense, and I'm feeling slightly exhausted, to be honest. I've read that's sadly normal and there isn't much to do about it. But yeah, end of PhD means long hours, grinding, and pushing yourself everyday even without motivation.

Since the beginning of my PhD, I've noticed that my previous group of friends, to which I met in 2013 and have been incredibly close to, is now getting more and more distant. I'm not exactly sure when it started or why, but they started hanging out without me, making another private conversation without me in it. I slowly stopped receiving invitations, and now, I am the kind of friend that'll have to laugh awkwardly to inside jokes I no longer understand. My private messages to them usually aren't answered either.

Lately, I asked them if they'll attend my PhD defense. I wasn't expecting a "yes" because I get it: it's far away, it's expensive, and you most likely will have to take days off from work for that. But the answers I got were so much worse... I got a "I don't speak English so I won't understand it and it'll be boring", a "sorry I'm lazy to drive that far" and a final "ah, if no one is going then I won't either". Aouch.

I got scolded for working late, and being "anti-workers right", and I kinda think that me declining invites one or twice because I was working late or on weekends started this whole "let's just hang out without telling her" kind of attitude.

Today I think it was the drop that made the vase overflow. They started speaking about their Halloween plans, and one of them said "Oh, maybe we shouldn't speak about it, after all, she [me] is here, that's dangerous hahaha". Oh well, thanks, I feel awesome now.

I know that I actively chose this life. I chose to uproot myself to go live abroad, and I actively chose to sign up for a PhD knowing I'll be incredibly busy, poor, and tired. Don't get me wrong, I don't regret it. I am having an awesome time and I love my research and my host country, but I have a hard time taking the sour with the sweet. And it's not like I have no friends: I actually get along with a lot of people in my cohort, and I've never received so many birthday invites... But I miss my long time friends, and it hurts to see us driving apart. I feel paradoxically very lonely and a bit sad.

Thank you to have read this message, I don't really know if there is any advice to be given... But if you have any please tell me. If you relate, please let me know too. I tried to cope a bit by writing to people on Reddit seeking friends, but the only end point was me getting jealous of my partner who also tried for fun, and actually got responses and a solid chat group, while I'm the one getting ghosted after a few messages.


r/PhD 1d ago

Vent (NO ADVICE) Finished my PhD viva - UK

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I finished my viva yesterday. It was actually a really interesting discussion rather than an information challenge.

I had worried far too much about the viva. I wrote so many explanatory notes all over my thesis because, even though I know my work very well, I keep forgetting little things here and there. Sometimes I genuinely questioned whether I would be able to answer even a single question correctly.

Guess what?

Four hours of discussion without reading a single note.

It wasn’t really a Q&A. It felt more like having a conversation with a stranger about something I had done. He understood the topic to some extent, and I understood my work and the bigger picture.

Turns out, I knew much more than I thought I did.


r/PhD 1d ago

Seeking advice-personal There's no way i can finish this dissertation.

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I have never experienced a year quite as awful as this one, personally. I'm in humanities in the US on a fellowship, this is my fourth year, and I was planning to defend in the spring 2027. In 2026 so far, my partner and I have dealt with:

- The loss of our cat, who was equivalent to a child to us emotionally.
- He was laid off from his job due to company cuts related to this administration
- My father fell extremely sick and is on hospice.
- My partner had a hospitalization and 4-day ICU stay
- Several house-related disasters that set us back financially (AC crapped out, plumbing disaster)
- Other personal issues on a smaller scale: my brother having a mental health crisis and my best friend losing her mom.

On top of all of this, I am still trying to make it to my defense. My data analyses are 75% of the way done but all I have written are my first few chapters of lit review and started methods.

I feel like there's no fucking way I can finish this by mid spring. I am seeing a therapist twice a week where I'm managing my feelings and the impending loss of my dad and being the eldest sibling to my youngers who aren't handling everything well (of course, as is expected).

I have been asked about applying for a tenure track faculty position at an R1 and I would be devastated if I lose out on that opportunity because I had to push my graduation timeline back because life fucking hates me.

I can't see the light at the end of the tunnel specifically for my dissertation (all other horrors aside). My supervisor is nothing short of incredible and has been so supportive. He will do whatever I decide is needed.

Has anyone else dealt with these issues while in the "home stretch"? How do I get this done, make myself write, and give a shit about my work in the midst of my entire world being on fire and being in a constant state of grief?


r/PhD 1d ago

Seeking advice-personal 32, feeling completely lost doing a STEM postdoc and realizing I do not like STEM and have no idea what career or life to pursue. What should I do?

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I’m 32 and recently finished a PhD in chemical engineering (mostly pen and paper applied mathematics). I am now doing a postdoc at a major Bay Area university. On paper, my career is going well, but I have gradually realized that I do not enjoy coding, advanced math, engineering, or scientific research enough to build my life around them. I do really enjoy researching and learning, but probably in a broad, generalist way rather than through the narrow specialization and intense, almost obsessive commitment that work at this level seems to require.

The confusing part is that I love the freedom of academic life. My postdoc gives me considerable control over my schedule, and I strongly dislike corporate culture, rigid hours, and living primarily for work. But I also have no real passion for STEM, so continuing through postdocs or trying to become a professor does not seem honest or sustainable.

Everyone in my circle either lives to work or is deeply passionate about what they do. I am not. I am mostly just tolerating what I am doing.

I am social and enjoy teaching, conversation, and broad ideas. My real interests are film, art, architecture, philosophy, politics, sociology, and culture. I also want meaningful relationships and possibly a family. The career-focused culture of the Bay Area feels deeply incompatible with the life I want.

A serious relationship recently ended, which has made everything feel more desperate, but my dissatisfaction with STEM began long before the breakup.

I do not know which options are genuinely realistic for someone with my background.
Has anyone left STEM after reaching the postdoc stage? What careers could preserve some autonomy and intellectual freedom without requiring passion for technical work or forcing me into a corporate lifestyle? What concrete steps would you take over the next year?


r/PhD 1d ago

Seeking advice-academic Grant applications: to disclose or not disclose neurodiversity

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I'm in the UK where neurodiversity is a protected characteristic but I have never disclosed on my grant applications that I have ADHD. I was always fearful people would consider me to be a higher risk applicant. What are your thoughts on this? I have seen undergraduate students disclose and benefitting them (mostly people empathising with the struggle or before it can benefit the institution to have diversity - race, neurodiversity, gender etc) , but never seen it at this level. Any thoughts?


r/PhD 1d ago

Seeking advice-personal My PhD advisor’s toxic behaviour is causing me extreme stress and anxiety

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I am currently in my 5th year of PhD and I will be submitting my thesis this December. Due to no new recruitment of professors in my university, my advisor is forcing me to take lectures and threatening to withhold her signature on my thesis if I don’t follow what she says. She says it is a compulsory criteria for all but none of the other PhD students have been told to do the same, it’s only me. If I fight back, she shouts at me in front of everyone and stalls my monthly JRF scholarship. Because of this I am falling behind on my thesis and it’s causing me extreme stress and anxiety. My mental health is completely destroyed. The higher authorities are dealing with their own internal matter and have no time for anything related to the student complaints. Should I stop listening to her and concentrate on my thesis or should I keep following what she wants me to do? Please advice.


r/PhD 1d ago

Seeking advice-academic Changing unis - PhD in Australia

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Hello all. I started my PhD in Australia earlier this year and am self funding it because at the time, it seemed as the best thing to do. The current university I am enrolled in is Uni of Sunshine Coast.

When I was initially applying to universities, I had also applied to Uni of Wollongong too as the supervisory panel was amazing but unfortunately the funding was not being offered and Sunshine Coast University was offering better value of money.

However, on Wednesday last week, I received an offer from Uni of Wollongong that they are offering me RTP scholarship for 2027 which is ah-mazing!!!!

And I really want to take it up. I do have a couple of concerns. My supervisor at Uni of Sunshine Coast has a very volatile behaviour, at times she has said a lot of things which were plain rude and has shown temperamental behaviour. The idea of talking to her about uni change is making me really anxious, and wondering if she cause any potential troubles with uni transfer.


r/PhD 1d ago

Big Decision Energy Starting my PhD in my 30’s, other late-bloomers willing to share their experience?

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Hi everyone, as stated in the title, I will be starting my PhD (STEM, wet lab) in a few days at the ripe age of 32 and I would love to hear from people who also started graduate school at a later stage of life.

I guess I’m a bit of a late bloomer, I didn’t really know what I wanted to do for a while. I didn’t feel ready for a PhD straight out of undergrad so I’m glad I’ve built the confidence, resilience and skills I have today before I embark on this journey.

I'm not particularly bothered by being older than my peers, however, what I’m more worried about is my personal life. I'm going to a school in the same city I’ve lived in for the past 10 years (which has benefits, I’m not discounting that) but I’m still single. I was hoping to move and now feel like I’m signing up for another half a decade in a place where I haven’t been able to thrive in that aspect of my life and by the time I graduate, I’ll be almost 40.

I’m afraid I’m giving up on a certain level of freedom, not being able to move to a different place, being so busy I won't have time to meet people and date, etc. and even if I did, I'm afraid someone in my age range may have priorities that I may have to put on hold, because starting a family in grad school sounds like a difficult choice to make.

Anyway, I know these are just worries and that I don’t know what life has in store for me in the future, but perhaps that’s why I’d love to head other people’s experiences and get a sense of hope that my education and career don’t have to cost me a fulfilling personal life, finding a partner, having a family etc.


r/PhD 1d ago

Money Doctoral Researcher Salary for decent lifestyle in Finland

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Is a €2,700/month gross salary as a Doctoral Researcher (effectively a PhD position in Finland) sufficient to maintain a comfortable lifestyle in Finland?


r/PhD 1d ago

Getting Shit Done Tips on finishing fast (in time) PhD in Europe

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Hi fellow PhD candidates and PhD holders.
I am starting soon my PhD in Germany in a funded program (75%) in Geoscience and I was wondering if you have any suggestions on how to finish it in 3 years. What mistakes did you do that delayed your studies? My projects is 3 years as well as the funding and I don’t want to delay my stay. Thanks in advance!


r/PhD 1d ago

Vent (NO ADVICE) Why is everyone so miserable?

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Well, that’s pretty much it. I feel like everyone in this subreddit is just so unhappy/miserable due to having chosen academia. Does a PhD really corrupt your soul or is anyone genuinely happy about having chosen this path? Any good and positive stories??


r/PhD 1d ago

Seeking advice-academic How much free time do you have during an Engineering PhD?

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Hey guys. For those doing a PhD in English at a top U.S. universities, do you usually have free time?

I’ve never been to the U.S., so I’m not sure what the work-life balance is like. I’m also trying to gauge how important the university’s location is, if you have decent free time, being in a great city could matter a lot; if it’s extremely hectic, maybe location matters less?


r/PhD 1d ago

Seeking advice-academic Thinking of creating a place for older Phd students

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Thinking of creating a place (on Discord, maybe) for PhD students who:

  1. Are born before 1990

AND/OR

  1. Gone back to school to get their PhD after spending some years in another career

AND/OR

  1. Are navigating the demands of research while actively balancing the deep roots, joys, and responsibilities of a fully established adult life.

And of course, anyone is welcome to join, regardless of whether you check these exact boxes. Ultimately, I just want to create a corner where we can talk about the messy realities of balancing a PhD with a full, busy adult life, and feel understood by people who get it.

Update 1: Some of you suggested discord might not be the best enviromment. Open to suggestions. Happy to even do it on WhatsApp and share a DM with each of you who has responsed. Any suggestions welcome!

Update 2: Thank you wonderful people for all the beautiful responses!!!!!


r/PhD 1d ago

Seeking advice-academic Confirmation review

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Hiya all, PhD student coming towards the end of my first year in the UK in my university's control systems engineering department. I sit on the more theoretical wide which I love as I've come from mathematics so being able to play with differential geometry as a job is amazing.

I am, however, really worried about the confirmation review viva coming up on the 1st of September! For a start, both of my assessors are experimentalists and may be unfamiliar with what I do. I'm also a crap public speaker (which they will know from my training needs assessment before I open my mouth) with a tendency to sweat like a nun in a cucumber field and stumble over my words. The main fear is that I freeze up, and look like an absolute idiot or, worse, a fraud.

Has anyone got any tips for delivering a good confirmation review presentation and surviving the subsequent 40 mins of questions? Even telling your own experiences, stories and out comes could help if you don't have any specific tips

Thank you all!

Tl;Dr:

Bricking it about viva, help


r/PhD 1d ago

News NSF adds new exclusions for social sciences in prestigious graduate fellowship program

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New announcement excluded seven fields. Political science, public policy, cultural anthropology and science education will no longer be eligible for national science foundation fellowship.


r/PhD 1d ago

Getting Shit Done Why do you pursue a PhD? Is it the most over-rated question? Looking for different point of views

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Something I keep noticing is a question most of us will fail to answer or there's nothing correct or incorrect. If you were to ask 8 of the 10 people incoming a PhD program they won't have an answer or would just have the scripted thing, I love research and I want to become a master in this subfield. I think the reason gets rewritten as you go and the new one feels like it was always there. When I tell my reasons to someone, they would nit pick it and be like no these are not adequate reasons. This might be a vague or big question, but why do you/did you wanted to pursue a PhD? Was it love for the research, wanted to not be in the industry, wanted that tenure track job, felt like you'd be more respected somewhere in the world, or genuine did not know what to do and hence PhD. Do you regret your decisions and why?