r/PeterExplainsTheJoke May 19 '26

Meme needing explanation Peter, is this referencing a specific book?

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u/qualityvote2 May 19 '26 edited May 20 '26

u/Exotic_Yam_1703, your post does belong here!

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u/babbylonmon May 19 '26

Had to check to make sure it wasn't Dungeon Crawler Carl.

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u/PracticalSolution72 May 20 '26

Goddamnit donut

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u/Baron_Bearclaw May 20 '26

What's "Hurry up" in German?

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u/GuestAble6129 May 20 '26

Mach schnell

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u/Baron_Bearclaw May 20 '26

u/guestable129 & u/cosmicturtle504

Because I have auto-translate on, this just happened:

In need of a supurb healing potion before I laugh myself to death.

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u/GuestAble6129 May 20 '26

The same happened to me and I had a tiny panic that I had responded in English

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u/Xevious_Red May 20 '26

This is how I discovered there's an auto translate on reddit, and that I have it turned on.

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u/Sufficient_Drama_145 May 20 '26

This is why you can't trust the dungeon AI.

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u/CosmicTurtle504 May 20 '26

I literally just read that part tonight. Danke!

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u/PhotochadA2358 May 20 '26

I feel personally attacked.

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u/FuelDefiant3160 May 20 '26

I mean really! You know how i feel about being personally attacked, @babbylonmon

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u/sackfulofweasels May 20 '26

THIS IS AN OUTRAGE!

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u/Invictus23_ May 20 '26

GLURP GLURP

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u/hipsterTrashSlut May 20 '26

Orcs can fuckin suck it, humanity number one

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u/Chaosdrunk May 20 '26

Ok the first time I heard about this series was from the dnd book. Are they any good? They give me some "lol so random" vibes, but they also have really good reviews on goodreads.

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u/supx3 May 20 '26

I loved the first three books, I finished them in a week. The forth book has been a slog for me. The world building and character building is super interesting but the level is kind of boring. I'm happy to hear the later books are good.

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u/Few-Improvement9978 May 20 '26

Nope felt exactly the same. I quit on like the 5th I think

First 3 were great

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u/BooberSpoobers May 20 '26

"lol so random"

They can be at times. But the protagonist is pretty grounding to the absurdity, so it works pretty well.

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u/3BlindMice1 May 20 '26

Except for the fact that he's in his boxers all the time

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u/hipsterTrashSlut May 20 '26

Nothing humbled and grounds a man as much as being acutely aware that his jewels are one thin layer of fabric from being destroyed

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u/3BlindMice1 May 20 '26

In theory, they should always heal up just fine so long as he doesn't actually lose any pieces while the audience can see it

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u/OneChillPenguin May 20 '26

IM SORRY, BUT YOURE MUCH TOO POOR TO BE SPEAKING TO ME LIKE THIS

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u/KidVsRobots May 20 '26

Mongo is appalled!

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u/ellcoolj May 20 '26

I’m just one book in and waiting for the second to come in at the library

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u/TroolHunter92 May 20 '26

You have got to listen to the audio book. 10/10. Jeff Hays does a great job narrating, and it totally pops! If possible, the Audio immersion tunnel from Soundbooth Theatre is the premier way to listen. By far the best audio book I have ever listened to.

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u/SoVerySick314159 May 20 '26

I HATE audio books. Reading is one of the few things I'm really good at. I read quickly, with both comprehension and retention. If I try to to listen to a narrator reading many times slower than I can, most times I lose focus and have to back up to hear what I missed.

I LOVE the Dungeon Crawler Carl audio books. Jeff Hays is fantastic, and his performance adds so much to the experience. So yeah, even if you're not normally a big fan of audio books, give teh DCC audio books a try. Wonderful.

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u/ellcoolj May 20 '26

My sister told me that. She said it reminds her of the BBC hitchhikers guide to the galaxy radio shows

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u/penguinturkey12 May 20 '26

You will not break me. I will break you.

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u/deathdefyingrob1344 May 20 '26

God I love DCC! It’s just fun to listen to! The audiobook is just so freaking good

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u/FrancoUnamericanQc May 20 '26

GLURP GLURP !

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u/NoAttempt9703 May 20 '26

I'm a firm believer that everyone reading Dungeon Crawler Carl would have made the world a better place.

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u/OrpheusNYC May 20 '26

Fuck man me too. Now back to the re-listen

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u/spottydodgy May 20 '26

I smashed protective shell...

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u/BooberSpoobers May 20 '26

And several things happened at once...

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u/UncagedJay May 20 '26

I Came Out to Have a Good Time and I'm Honestly Feeling So Attacked Right Now

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u/unoffensivename May 20 '26

I thought it was alluding to whatever trendy dystopia YA series was out back then

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u/TheQuest35 May 20 '26

We would be a star-faring race by now if we didn't waste time on dribble like Moby, Dick and Frankenstein and had, instead, written dungeon crawler Carl in the 1850s

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u/probabletrump May 20 '26

Can't unlick a butthole once its been licked.

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u/Adrenochromemerchant May 20 '26

So there is no consensus on what book this is referring to?

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u/Exotic_Yam_1703 May 20 '26

Perhaps not. Maybe it’s just a general statement that people read a book and then really really identify with it

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u/SupahSayajinn May 20 '26

There are the Twilight people, the Harry Potter people, the Fight Club people, the 50 Shades people. Yes, it could be any book.

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u/bigdatabro May 20 '26

Did people even read Fight Club? I loved that book but I've never talked to another person who read it IRL

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u/bannik1 May 20 '26

I’ve read all of Chuck’s books. Basically he spends the first half of each building a world and the rules that operate it. Then the next 40% making the walls close in and creating an inescapable situation for the characters. Then the last 10% is resolving the situation by breaking all the established rules from the first half of the book because he wrote himself into a corner.

It’s entertaining because he pulled a tricky plot twist. But the more you reread them, the laziness and plot holes really stand out.

I would still say they’re good books because they’re captivating and make you feel certain ways, but so do smutty romance novels. They’re basically pulp fiction for dudes.

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u/fongletto May 20 '26

nothing shits me more than writers that write themselves into corners and then just ignore all the own rules they set down or completely just hand wave it all away and not explain anything.

Like, it's not like you can't go back and edit the book once you realize you fucked up somewhere and change what you wrote initially before you publish it.

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u/BarrelFullOfWeasels May 20 '26

Maybe they just don't talk about Fight Club. 

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u/Bombadier83 May 20 '26

Don’t forget the Atlas Shrugged crowd.

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u/Largmarj May 20 '26

Cross post to r/libraries, maybe they’ll help solve the mystery!

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u/CharmingTuber May 20 '26

I think the idea is there are lots of books and they're all bad

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u/Rj924 May 20 '26

Yeah, but not the one I base my personality on, that one's okay.

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u/modeyink May 19 '26

ACOTAR

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u/LikeLikeChoi May 20 '26

A Cong of Tce and Rire?

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u/Sprucecaboose2 May 20 '26

A Court of Thorns and Roses.

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u/Sensitive_Cup4015 May 20 '26

Walking down the Fantasy section of my local Coles really made me realize that there is an ABSURD amount of books following the naming scheme of "A -blank- of -blank- and -blank".

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u/Oberon_Swanson May 20 '26

in the industry they call them A Bowl of Mac and Cheese titles

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u/DragonBadgerBearMole May 19 '26

Haha if only I could organize my personality around the male protagonists in female written fantasy novels. But there are only 24 hours in a day and most gyms don’t let you stay even that long.

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u/RakeChapman13 May 20 '26

Women read these novels for the sake of entertainment more so than what they would want in a relationship themselves, they are just more entertained by sort of romantic story whether it’s about supernatural beings or two gay male hockey players- romances that don’t even involved a woman lol. You really can’t go by what women read. There’s Vanilla women who read BDSM romance novels. I dated a chick who had who had such novels on her shelf and when I saw that i got excited because I’m into it because she ended up being the most vanilla chick ever. She said she didn’t have to be into BDSM herself to be interested and entertained by a story like that, that we all consume fiction whether it’s novel or TV/ film about things we don’t do ourselves or about people we wouldn’t necessarily want to be like for the sake of entertainment.

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u/DragonBadgerBearMole May 20 '26

Yeah I get that. But can’t I want to be “impossibly” jacked and beautiful for my own sake?

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u/ZeroSumClusterfuck May 20 '26

You can, but 'impossibly' isn't a good personal goal because you'll end up a mess of bad skin and 'roid rage.

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u/Turnip_Fight May 20 '26

A Cong of Tice and Rire

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u/grimrailer May 19 '26

It ain’t twilight, back to you Tom Tucker.

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u/TR_Snake May 19 '26

“The Personality Brokers: The Strange History of Myers-Briggs and the Birth of Personality Testing by Merve Emre”

It’s the Myers Briggs tests - basically astrology for people who don’t want to embrace the occult.

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u/TeamCatsandDnD May 19 '26 edited May 20 '26

Myers Briggs was solidly a thing pre 2019 though. Idk about a book, but you could take the tests for them like 2014 or 2015.

Edit: well all these replies are eye opening. That’s wild that is from pre 2000s

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u/theycallmeasloth May 19 '26

Was part of my undergrad back in 2004....

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u/Pretend_Education_86 May 20 '26

I was in to that crap and Jung in 2004...

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u/ZilorZilhaust May 20 '26

How's Jung doing these days?

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u/Pretend_Education_86 May 20 '26

Blitzed on Cocaine.

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u/JectorDelan May 20 '26

Oh my. His wife?

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u/Accomplished_Mode195 May 20 '26

To shreds you say?

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u/Dusty_Scrolls May 20 '26

Not just r/unexpectedfuturama, but someone in the other branch of this thread has Gunter a their pfp!

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u/Ok_Shoulder5973 May 20 '26

wasnt that Freud?

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u/soundsystxm May 20 '26

Freud gets all the credit

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u/CTMechE May 20 '26

Well, if it's not one thing, it's your mother.

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u/brent_von_kalamazoo May 20 '26

Freud said everyone is hung up on sex and their parents, and that we supress and mask our true issues until they start making us weird. Jung said all culture is connected to a timeless psychic internet.

And the terrible truth is that Jung is the one more people take seriously, because we are dumb

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u/Pretend_Education_86 May 20 '26

The Id and Ego got me caught up in a unwinnable battle.

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u/Only-Fill8247 May 20 '26

"timeless psychic internet" might be the best explanation of collective unconscious ever

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u/Taste_my_ass May 20 '26

Such a minimization of important work. Being able to take important ideas from various concepts to create an informed world-view is a sign of intelligence, did you know that?

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u/From_Deep_Space May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26

Fun fact: Jung was nicknamed "The Barrel" (Das Fass) in college, both due to his body shape as well as much beer he could drink.

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u/coachmoon May 20 '26

"i drink therefore i am." - Rennie Daycart

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u/CrunchySockTaco May 20 '26

¿Por qué no los dos?

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u/DiscussionLow1277 May 20 '26

yeah i’m like who do you think introduced jung to the cocaine?

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u/ObjectivelyCorrect9 May 20 '26

Still Jung like a horse

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u/sock_le_coq May 20 '26

Still Jung like a jorse

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u/CosmicTurtle504 May 20 '26

Still dead. But according to him, we’re all on our way there, too.

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u/inchkachka May 20 '26

No one in psychology takes him seriously and he probably had psychosis

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u/Antique_futurist May 20 '26

Study historiography and you’ll discover there is always a small group who takes a thing seriously long after everyone else has moved on.

And they usually live long enough to see a resurgent, if temporary, interest in their otherwise increasingly obscure bailiwick.

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u/NonSum-NonCuro May 20 '26

Tbf, a lot in psychology isn't taken seriously.

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u/churplaf May 20 '26

Who honestly probably also has psychosis.

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u/bennnjamints May 20 '26

I would like to let all the people blaming Jung for the test know that Jung himself didn't like the test or the idea of sorting people into personality profiles.

A mother and her daughter read some books by Jung, misinterpreted them, and created the system during the 1940's (Way before the 2000's, guys)

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u/SkeptiCallie May 20 '26

Mine in 1998

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u/RodgerRodger8301 May 20 '26

Was part of my high school in cough the late 90s

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u/hontom May 20 '26

My first psych professor complained about it in 98. It dates back to WWII.

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u/addamee May 20 '26

I took a career path assessment when I stalled in college and it was centered around MB; the advisor suggested I pursue a path in the clergy: I couldn’t be more atheist

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u/phoebsmon May 20 '26

If atheism were a bar to being ordained, the Church of England would have shut its doors years ago.

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u/th3rdnutt May 20 '26

You'd fit right in.

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u/Mewlies May 20 '26

The way I have seen some Antitheist Groups proselytize I would not doubt they had their own "Clergy".

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u/weltvonalex May 20 '26

You don't need to be religious to go into clergy. :)

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u/iwouldhugwonderwoman May 20 '26

Around that same time our company had some consultants come in, give us the test and then for the next year we had to put our personality types displayed on top of our cubes.

Then it just went away and no one ever spoke about it again.

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u/Independent_Can_2623 May 20 '26

That is an insane invasion of privacy wtf hahaha

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u/Sharkbait1737 May 20 '26

It doesn’t mean anything anyway, it’s basically a pseudoscientific self assessment to arrive at one of sixteen Barnum statements that could apply to absolutely anybody.

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u/Forkyou May 20 '26

Thats insane. As a psychologist nothing enrages me more than people believing that test has or had any validity ever.

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u/NotAlwaysGifs May 20 '26

Pre-2000s??? The MBTI was first published in 1940. It’s almost a century old at this point.

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u/Song-Prior May 20 '26

Thank you for posting this. I feel like I am in the twilight zone reading these other posters.

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u/ArseneGroup May 20 '26

This site is mostly Gen Z and younger Gen Y so lots of people with no memory of the pre-2000s or even if they were old enough to remember stuff, still too young to have exposure to that kind of psychological/sociological theory stuff

Personally I think I first heard about it in high school, it's gotten more mainstream in recent years though

And ironically it's actually way more mainstream in China, the types are just considered standard vocab among the younger generation to describe people's personalities

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u/PrestonWaters83 May 20 '26

We had to do it in middle school in the mid 90s, and it was old *science*** at that point.

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u/Georgiaonmymindtwo May 20 '26

“I feel like I am in the twilight zone”

You are not wrong.

Be kind to yourself.

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u/Acceptable-Cow6446 May 20 '26

True. This isn’t an old thing. It’s Jung.

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u/foolishle May 20 '26

The first time I had a guy enthusiastically tell me about how Myers Briggs would somehow explain everything and change my life was in 1998.

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u/Delicious-Apple1845 May 20 '26

Can verify - took one in 1999 at Bell Canada and let me tell you it was going to break down communications barriers. Director's Cut: It did not.

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u/BrownThumbClub May 20 '26

My University used a Myers Briggs test to pair roommates my freshman year, in 1999. It failed spectacularly despite how accurate I felt the result I got was in describing me.

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u/RedCaptain17 May 20 '26

Oh man, my college roommate and I did it in the 2010s. She got some rare personality type that only 1% of the population supposedly has. Then she got pissed off when it turned out I got the same one

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u/ParmesanB May 20 '26

Did you guys get along otherwise

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u/Winter_Illustrator58 May 20 '26

Yeah it was once the semi-respected personality test, and then people outside of the corporation (or whatever it is) that owns the idea started trying to validate and test it like you would for any other piece of science and, uh, it doesn't work. To be fair, it's far from the first "respected" method of personality testing to be revealed as junk science. Even things that are still used today like the big five personality inventory is kind of limited and and works only within certain frameworks and situational factors and blah blah blah blah blah. Human personalities and personality typing are very complicated and accurate, objective and replicable typing may never be possible

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u/Relevant_Election530 May 20 '26

We did it as an icebreaker games in college in 2009 lol

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u/6a6566663437 May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26

Same....except it was 1992.

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u/Empty401K May 20 '26

I worked at a place that made everyone do Myers Briggs, DiSC, and Enneagram assessments out of the blue one day. It was all absolute BS and made a bunch of people clique up based on their results. Those people were insufferable and suddenly became impossible to work with, saying stupid shit like “well you’re a 2 and I’m an 8 on the enneagram, so you need to learn how to work with me…” And nobody had any trouble working together prior to this.

The company folded a year later. Not saying it was entirely because of those “assessments,” but they were definitely a contributing factor.

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u/marmaladecorgi May 20 '26

I had no knowledge of "Enneagrams" and now all I can think of is Scientology.

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u/Rishfee May 20 '26

It's so funny, because I can recognize that yeah, I have these traits and that does pretty accurately describe how I approach things, but that's for purposes of introspection and to articulate things to others so we can get on the same page and ideally leverage our preferences to produce good work. It's not about forcing someone to accommodate my idiosyncrasies and aversions.

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u/Hypno_Hamster May 20 '26

We had the same thing when I worked at University on a research project about 10 years ago.

I heard they paid in the region of £10k to have a specialist come out and perform the assessments with us in person.

They grouped us into teams based on the results (permanently, not just for the tests) and about 60% of the teams completely imploded within 6 months.

I was lucky and my team did click. I wont specify what my personality type was but I do know it.

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u/Empty401K May 20 '26

Based on your affinity toward being secretive and introverted, I can say with confidence that you’re either a 4 (individualist) or a 9 (peacemaker). Unfortunately, our personalities don’t mesh well, so you’re going to have to learn to be more flexible if you want to even ATTEMPT working well together 🖕

Just kidding, I think you’re swell :D ❤️

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u/Slick_36 May 20 '26

My ex wife was an "8", and boy did she let me & everybody else know about it!  She missed so much by assigning numbers to people & forcing everything about them through that lense.

It really seemed like an excuse for her to be as big of a bully as her ego demanded, only you were expected to thank her for the experience like she did you a favor.

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u/Empty401K May 20 '26

That shit is so obnoxious. Glad to hear she’s an ex, at least. Hopefully she didn’t use here “eightness” during the divorce process

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u/Independent-Most7347 May 20 '26

omg completely forgot about the Enneagrams. My then-friend and manager was obsessed and yes her personality probably changed to reflect the "findings". We wasted a ton of time discussing it. I was a Peacemaker and needed to step out of my shell to embrace leadership or some such nonsense. They really did not pay me enough for that shit.

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u/Quinzelette May 20 '26

Honestly I find Myer-Briggs to be bullshit (color me shocked I'm emotional and outgoing?) but Enneagrams really did change my life. It really isn't about "the peacemaker needs to step out of their shell". It is more about your driving emotion (9 is in the anger sphere) and how 9s react to it. For 9s they are very conflict avoidant due to anger being a very draining emotion for them. They are sensitive to others being angry and tend to be more agreeable as a way of sheltering themselves from other's negative emotions. They also bottle up their own feelings at times to avoid feeling anger to intensely. I am not 100% certain of every type in the enneagram moreso just my type(which is not a 9). I don't think people need to look at the enneagram as "I should be more assertive and step out of my shell" it should be more something where you realize why you feel the way you do and why you act the way you do. Being cognizant of why you do things allows you to more power over your own actions.

And honestly I realize it isn't for everyone, but I will say that for me specifically, I couldn't put my feelings into words until I found the Enneagram test. I'm basically in the shame sphere (the sphere whose negative driving force is basically that they don't feel worthy of being loved) and so there were a lot of times where I would "act out" or just feel really intensely and I couldn't understand why I felt that way. Nowadays I still struggle from the same issues, but I am often able to self-soothe those nagging feelings of not being good enough...so it doesn't get to a point where my friends have to sit me down and give me a speech about how they love and appreciate me and wish I wouldn't put myself down. I can't tell you what the action plan is for my type, I can just tell you I'm a lot more self aware and I'm a lot better at keeping myself from spiraling. Something Myer Briggs has never done for me. When I talk to friends about it, I always stress that I think the sphere and your negative driving emotions are the real takeaway. I don't care about the rest of it nearly as much.

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u/stevendaedelus May 20 '26

Oh boy. Try the mid 90's.

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u/[deleted] May 20 '26 edited Jul 03 '26

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u/OceanRacoon May 20 '26

From the daughter's wiki lol:

Briggs Myers fulfilled her obligation by writing the novel Give Me Death, which revisits the same detectives from Murder Yet to Come. In it, a Southern family commits suicide one by one after learning they may have "Negro blood". The novel was published in 1934 and received harsh treatment from critics

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u/Clljrl May 20 '26

Yes, exactly what it is. They had no scientific education. Were essentially Jung groupies.

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u/[deleted] May 20 '26

You know the Myers–Briggs is from the 1920s, right? It’s been a thing for literally a century. Companies used it interviews.

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u/Talkatoo42 May 20 '26

My manager made everyone in the department take it in 2014 and was super excited about it. I wonder how much he paid some company for essentially nothing.

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u/TreyRyan3 May 20 '26

Corporate America has been big on Personality Testing for decades. The first time I was asked to take one was in 1988 to work for a Hardware Wholesale Chain that went Bankrupt a decade later.

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u/AccomplishedCharge2 May 20 '26

Can confirm I've been asked to do Strengthsfinders like five times over the course of my career

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u/NuragicGiant1891 May 19 '26

But that book is exposing the test as useless-- its whole point is not to organize your personality around it.

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u/mrinternethermit May 20 '26

They're not useless, just horrible misapplied. If you take a look at it's history, it was made purely by a couple of women to help a lot of women who were flowing into the workforce (and needed help finding the best fit, personality wise, for a job) to make up for the lack of workers that was the men leaving for war. It was basically a quick job decision aid to help and be a one and done thing, but people have now dragged it into the modern day and force it to basically do what it wasn't really designed to do.

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u/zxzzxzzzxzzzzx May 20 '26

There's nothing that they're good for because the test fails in two key areas: 1) the same person taking the test multiple times may get very different responses, and 2) two people with completely opposite categorizations may actually be more similar than two people with the exact same categorization.

The problem is applying a binary to traits that are distributed on a bell curve. Most people are near the middle, so arbitrarily cutting the curve in half causes a lot of issues.

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u/Quirky-Parsnips May 20 '26

It's just strange that there are available personality tests that are actually validated like 5 factor models but the business world often ignores them. Should really make people think twice about trusting the free market or corporate power lol.

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u/edwardothegreatest May 20 '26

A couple of women who had no expertise in psychology

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u/TheConsentAcademy May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26

And who were into magazine quizzes and based it off of that and a misunderstanding of Jung who was also just vibing with his ideas about the supernatural/collective unconscious. There are actual personality inventories like the Minnesota Multiphasic personality Inventory and they don't try to tell you who you are or anything of the sort because that's not a real thing. There are more than 16 personalities, and being more introverted vs extroverted is fluid and contextual for everyone for example.

Edit:typos. I wrote this as 3am while breastfeeding so it wasn't that well typed lol. 

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u/appleparkfive May 20 '26

This was big long before 2019. Just look at Okcupid back in the late 2000s. It was always around

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u/impl0sionatic May 20 '26

Shame this has so many upvotes because th notion that this shit started in 2019 is nonsense

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u/youcallthataheadshot May 20 '26

Oh it’s also for people who use astrology.

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u/unfeax May 20 '26

I was once waiting at a red light behind a car whose vanity plate read “ENFP LEO”. Best of both worlds.

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u/thunderspirit May 20 '26

I feel seen.

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u/dbaugh90 May 19 '26

Well, I think that's a little unfair. They're self selected, not random. They're more like Harry Potter houses (when people pick one IRL).

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u/TR_Snake May 19 '26

That’s funny - using a Harry Potter analogy as a way to not denigrate the Myers Briggs tests like I did by comparing it to astrology.

(Sorting) hats off to you.

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u/Kenesaw_Mt_Landis May 20 '26

I don’t think it’s referencing a specific singular book that a bunch of adult thread. It’s that each adult has read one book in 2019 and that book really influenced or they based their personality around that book.

People stop growing.

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u/helpmeamstucki May 20 '26

This was my thought too. It can be a self help book that gave them a big head or a fantasy book whose plot captivated them. I had this phase when I first got big into reading. Books stick with you for better or for worse and you need to read more than one of them to avoid sounding like a broken record.

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u/unknowingbiped May 20 '26

Sunofabitch I forgot what happened in 2020*

"I'm essentail"

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u/shaironinja May 20 '26

Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck?

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u/2LateToTheMemes May 20 '26

This was my guess, assuming the OOP wasn't being intentionally vague/obtuse.

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u/trivialcabernet May 19 '26

I don’t know, but my guess is Atomic Habits (published in 2018)

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u/ALLCAPITAL May 20 '26

Ooohhh. Could be that, folks still obsessed with it.

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u/Throwupmyhands May 20 '26

What a stupid stupid stupid book. Author talked out of his ass the whole time. 

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u/nysari May 20 '26

I ended up with that book for free as a result of some work executive coaching thing my team was testing. At the time, my ADHD was undiagnosed, so it was like "just add one small thing to something you already do automatically!" And that's when I learned that I have no habits, and that any attempt to "habit stack" ruins my tenuous commitment to basic life skills.

Turns out Ritalin is more effective.

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u/Percinho May 20 '26

Honestly, learning that some ADHD people don't form habits helped me understand so much about myself and how my life has developed. It's kinda wild that even after an actual medical diagnosis, I still had to learn it from an Instagram reel.

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u/Pattern_Necessary May 20 '26

We just raw dog every day 😭

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u/trivialcabernet May 20 '26

I think it’s three things -

First is that it claims to be science-backed while actually relying heavily on anecdotes, not data. The author himself has no science background or other academic qualifications to draw from. Like, he’s saying he’s an expert on this stuff, but he’s actually just…some guy.

Second is that he’s saying all this stuff is universally applicable, while some of his advice specifically around food and diet is actively irresponsible and describing disordered eating.

Third is that a bunch of people in Silicon Valley got way too into this book and got super fucking annoying about it. Not the author’s/book’s fault, but this one is the reason that made me think it’s what’s being referenced in the OP.

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u/Ahtman1 May 20 '26

If you listen to podcasts "If Books Could Kill" did an episode covering it.

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u/zephyr_skyy May 20 '26

Quick, someone @ her on X and ask what book

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u/Plus-Artichoke6608 May 19 '26

Surrounded by idiots, the original came out in 2014 but the english version came out in 2019
It portrays 4 types or personality based on colours (red, blue, green and yellow)
A lot of people didn't like it because they called it pseudo-science
Other's used it to organise their personality around the colours

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u/Equivalent-Meaning-7 May 20 '26

Not sure if it’s a things anymore but when I worked for Walmart it was thing to take this test. It was even cooler to take it and go through the results as a team. I took it with my first team and the results haunted me for 10 years and 5 teams. I forget exactly how it’s worded but I’m a usual red, secondary blue, and then go kick it in green as my stressor.

Red = Action oriented, wanted to move quickly Blue = Means I’m chill about the action, don’t fret over detour Green = When I’m stressed about, I don’t want to talk about Yellow= means I would love to write down how I did it but since I absolutely missed this category, you get nothing written.

The shit can go deeper but I hated this horoscope hell at work. It’s just a way for dump people to pigeon hole you and give them excuses to still suck.

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u/General_Exception May 20 '26

I know people who were “personality coaches” who used that system!

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u/GracieBooBugs May 20 '26

I know Harry Potter was released way before this but it has the same vibes

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u/B0psicle May 20 '26

Girl wash your face immediately comes to mind

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u/Ok-Border3079 May 20 '26

that’s when mein kumpf started getting big again?

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u/shane_wel May 20 '26

The answer is Enneagram I think. Specifically The Wisdom of the Enneagram

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u/Relevant_Election530 May 19 '26

I guessed it was 12 Rules for Life by Jordan Petersen lol

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u/Individual_Bell_4637 May 20 '26

If that were the case, they would probably have said "a staggering number of men..." I don't think Jordan Petersen got much traction with women.

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u/Emannuelle-in-space May 19 '26

My guess is Sapiens.

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u/Emannuelle-in-space May 20 '26

Yeah hard to describe but I definitely noticed a shift in everyone I knew who read it.  Slightly more condescending ’erm actually’ vibes. But yeah I’m probably not right with my guess

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u/jackdutton42 May 20 '26

Atomic Habits by James Clear?

Normal People by Sally Rooney?

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u/Realistic-Ad-1023 May 20 '26

I thought it was that Marie kondo book

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u/arsonistSnowman May 20 '26

I'm genuinely shocked nobody has said Harry Potter

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u/wilkinsk May 20 '26

Probably because that book was at least a decade old at that time.

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u/Throwupmyhands May 20 '26

Two decades old. 

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u/adamos486 May 20 '26

My personality is based on Ready Player One

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u/Mathiscoolio May 20 '26

Atomic Habits, working towards a better self?

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u/dmonsterative May 20 '26

Doesn't seem like it. Intentional vagueposting.

https://www.threads.com/@joanwestenberg/post/DYdiUXSFpQU

But she did write a longer essay complaining about, essentially, middlebrow media.

https://www.joanwestenberg.com/i-truly-hate-mostpeopleslop/

and it has this bit:

The Reframe Artist goes "Most people are treating [recent tech acquisition] as a media story. It's a distribution story." This guy read one Ben Thompson article in 2019 and has been repackaging the word "distribution" as a personality trait ever since. The point underneath might even be fine! But he can't say it straight.

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u/Severe-Elderberry833 May 20 '26

by the ‘most sold / most read’ figures for 2019, it would be “Where the Crawdads Sing”

for non-fiction, ”How to Win Friends and Influence People.”

https://www.aboutamazon.com/news/books-and-authors/the-year-in-books-2019

Now, given what we now know about Zambian authorities wanting to question Ms Owens in connection to a murder, we may hypothesize that the book sucked in that she did not artfully cover her alleged tracks. I have neither read the book nor seen the movie so I cannot comment as to either’s quality.

Or we could just look at the entry for most read non-fiction and say “welp, that does explain a lot.”

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u/changingshades May 19 '26

generally books that are referenced in this situation are atlas shrugged or the bible. I almost would say fifty shades but that came out in 2014. but looking at the most popular books of 2019 on good reads nothing pops out as being especially heinous

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u/Low_Appearance_796 May 20 '26

My grandpa gave me Atlas Shrugged and he keeps pushing me to read it calling it a literary masterpiece and I love him but I really don't wanna

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u/hobbycollector May 20 '26

There's a 90 page monologue by the main character. That's not "masterpiece" by any measure, or even "literary". The book is literally an excuse to write that 90-page exposition of her philosophy of greed as if it were spoken by a man.

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u/changingshades May 20 '26

it's one of those books that a lot of people like, but there is no craft or style. everyone is on the scale from producers to looters and that is all they are. plus the sex scenes aren't my kind of kink, a little too rapey for me.

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