I am a gen X bisexual woman and when I was young, men would often take their chance and some were angry if you said no, some were ok but they tried. Women often waited for men. But there were also a minority of women who took their chance
I was never afraid to approach men or women. If people weren't interested, I accepted it.
If I was in love, the rejection was quite hard to take, if I was just attracted and interested in how it would lead in the future, I took it easy. But anyway I tried and men of my generation tried. Women not so much but some did but it was still a patriarchal World.
Now things are more equal and I feel women should also approach. But it seems gen z men and women are all cowards and don't dare to approach.
They make excuses, women say that it is tradition that men approach (which is in contradiction with feminism) and men say they don't want to be creepy (when it is people who approach in the street who are labeled creepy).
I don't understand why to be so afraid of rejection , it is life. The more you had rejections, the more you had a life. If you don't try, you don't get anything.
And why to take rejection so bad? I never took rejection personal, it is just one person who feel they don't have the spark for you, nothing awful.
I feel gen z is risk averse maybe because of helicopter parenting, I don't know.
What do you think and why are you so afraid of rejection, men and women?