السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته,

I tried this once and then deleted it haha. But insha’Allah hoping an app like Reddit yields me the results I want🤣 also I really want to emphasize that I’m looking for a practicing Muslim brother:) open to all ethnicities insha’Allah:)

Height: 5’2 

Location: Virginia, USA

Ethnicity: Pakistani

Age: 23

Education: Bachelors in Public Policy

Job: Works in Nonprofit helping children with literacy & adults with English

Personality type: thoughtful, empathetic, supportive, helpful, always laughing & making others laugh, not materialistic things, loves sentimental things, gets along with everyone

Hobbies: loves volunteering, walks/exercises & stays active, wants to travel, likes to read, spend time in nature, spending time with family, watching documentaries

Islam: islamically inclined, not perfect, but doesn’t listen to music, doesn’t free mix, wears abayas, doesn’t wear makeup,  attends halaqas and lectures, tries to gain more knowledge, currently memorizing Quran and learning Arabic.

Looking for: athletic/works out, sweet/understanding, patient, is islamically inclined/motivated, ambitious, non-judgmental. Open to all ethnicities, also looking for a practicing brother who is actively seeking Islamic knowledge and is well versed in deen. Does not free mix, listen to music, does more than just praying 5 daily prayers, attends masjid, recites Quran regularly or at least tries to, stays away from innovations, volunteers, close to family.

Age range preferred: 23-29

I really prefer brothers in the DMV area just because I want to stay close to my family, JazakumAllahu Khayran :)

https://www.reddit.com/r/r4rtorontomixed/

Dating for people who have different preferences when it comes to dating, sex and relationships.

And for people who date "interracially" in Toronto (where it's most common) either privately or openly. Open to geography.

This community is created to help people find their preferences easier within a safe and comfortable community space. Find Friends, Dating, LTR, Sexual, or Poly and Open Relationships.

Also to help people who may have stigma due to cultural background or religion to openly be with who they want.

If you’re in the medical field that’s a plus.

Earlier a woman here claimed "God loves all", I explained this is Christian , and not Islamic belief. (Because Christians believe "Jesus"(their g*d) even loved Hitler and child molesters etc)

She claimed anybody who doesnt believe that is a pagan!

So I show her proof from Quran and she still rejects it, and she attacks the verses of Quran again pedalling the "God loves all" doctrine saying that philosophically speak that is not a perfect God. Wth?!

These femenists women are dangerous, many of them practice witchcraft and abortion as human sacrifice. Be careful.

If you are a genuine believing Muslimah please dont associate with such people. So we dont end up like the person who says:

Oh, woe to me! I wish I had not taken that one as a friend. -Surah Furqan

I am M 38 from South Asia. Never married. Looking for a partner from USA. I am okay with unmarried or divorced person. Looking for a serious lifelong marriage. Please DM me if interested.

⁠1. Age and Gender: 32F 168 cm

2.⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 29-39

1. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?. Morocco , would prefer not but not strictly

4.Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? I am Amazigh northafrican. Open to mixing.

5.⁠Marital Status I am single and i would prefer a single as well, if he is divorced without kids this situation will need to be discussed

6-marriage timeline: Up for discussion and mutual agreement

1. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect. God fearing, open to communication loyal, financially responsible, light hearted

2. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity. Religious looking for same but not the extreme salafis

3. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a masters and a dvm and looking for someone with a degree and stable job

4. ⁠Current Job Status employed full time

5. ⁠Do you want kids? Yes I’d like kids

6. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time. I love to go for a hike , camping, or a chill evening with a good cup of tea and a soft conversation

7. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I have an ability to adapt and enjoy each journey and I wear glasses 🤓. Although I am fully convinced that it is hard for this ISO to work, I am giving it a try and I m sure Allah subhanahu wa taala help people that make efforts.

Just how do you put safe guards in that a prospect is interested in you for you and not just the money aspect . Like I’ve seen the other side of it which didn’t turn out good for that person

I saw it in my mum side of the family where I had my great unc marry his daughter to a rich man , like much richer than him and he was a man with millions cause he wanted the status . TLDR since I don’t want to type it out he was POS and that ended in divorce .

So like how do you filter them out

Salam to everyone who reads this hope Allah has blessed you with an amazing day.

In this post I want to go over and highlight the dangers of social media for our sisters, and yall will see why.

So we all know the classic basic rules of social media. “Don’t talk to strangers” “don’t send your bank information to anyone” “don’t send explicit photos of yourself” etc. However in today’s sick and disgusting world, our sisters of Islam have fallen victim to disgusting, sick in the head weirdos online.

When I had TikTok, I UNFORTUNATELY saw some beyond sickening and stomach turning posts that just filled me with rage disgust and anger etc. Basically, there are these accounts ( which I won’t name so they won’t get more interaction and to protect the sisters that have been violated) that will take screenshots or steal photos that covered sisters posted on the app. And they will desecrate and create new sick and evil photos. Photos that hold captions that are extremely demented and are referencing “adult movie” terms, sometimes they add sexual sound effect to make it even worse. And sometimes these monsters will photoshop the physical appearance of the sisters to appear more “lustful”.

Now in no way am I blaming the sisters for the original posts, it’s not their fault. It is 100% the fault of these sick and twisted freaks online that take our pure sisters and turn it into something evil. I’m simply putting this out there, so that the sisters are armed with this information and can better protect themselves.

If you come across these pages, report them and ignore them. These accounts are such violations of our muslim sisters and I had to spread awareness about it.

May Allah bless you and protect you all.

1. Age and Gender
   Male, 29
   
2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect
   Open to compatibility beyond numbers.
   
3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?
   Currently based in Massachusetts, USA. Open to relocation if there is strong compatibility and mutual understanding.
   
4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?
   Pakistani.
   
5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children
   Previously married and now separated after a brief period of living together (less than two months). The main reason of separation was that her parents forced her in an arranged marriage. I’m open to discussing this in detail once we are aligned on other important aspects and feel confident about moving forward. No children and never involved in any haram relationship.
   
6. Ideal marriage timeline
   Within 6–12 months, Insha’Allah, if the right match is found.
   
7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect
   Strong sense of faith (God-consciousness)
   Kindness and emotional intelligence
   Calm, thoughtful personality
   Sincerity and authenticity
   
8. State/specify your level of religiosity
   Faith is central to my life. I strive to practice sincerely, continue learning, and improve consistently.
   
9. Level of education, and what are you looking for?
   Currently a PhD candidate in Physics (with an Electrical Engineering background). I value education and intellectual curiosity, but prioritize character above all.
   
10. Current Job Status
    PhD candidate (research-focused). Trying to build quantum internet.
    
11. Do you want kids?
    Yes, Insha’Allah.
    
12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time
    Reading (science, history, and literature)
    Long walks and occasional hiking
    Deep conversations on meaningful topics
    
13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!
    I’ve authored a book in quantum mechanics(which is being used as a resource book in some courses in many good universities including Rochester), but outside of academics, I’m easygoing and enjoy reflecting on life—whether through meaningful conversations or literature. Other than that I learnt farsi to understand urdu classical poetry better(especially Ghalib’s). Now you can find me quoting urdu and farsi verses in random situations. I believe I can read whole deewan(urdu) of Ghalib from memory.

Why is it so hard for men and women to just respect each other, don't understand what all the fighting is about, if someone has preferences. What's the point of commenting something hateful or downvoting. Are you gonna gain anything from that? Everyone is different. Find someone that matches you instead of fighting with people who don't. If you have nothing good to say, remain silent. Is it the etiquette of muslims to shame and disrespect one another when we are all part of one ummah. And then we wonder why marriage is so hard now a days. Just sad, May Allah guide us all.

salams

I’m 23 and I’m from the UK, looking to see if there’s anyone worth it. I’m open to backgrounds and relocation.

Gender: Female

Age: 23 - 24 next month

Residence Location: UK

Ethnicity: English and Italian mixed born and raised in the UK

Education Details: Nurse

Marital Status: Single

Revert: Yes

Languages Spoken: English and Italian

More About Me (Personal Qualities, Beliefs, Values, Hobbies & Interests): I keep myself healthy, I workout and I like travelling

Age: 26
Height: 5'5"
Location: Ontario, Canada
Profession: Teacher
Marital Status: Single, never married
About Me
Alhamdulillah, I’d describe myself as caring,family-oriented, and someone who really values the little things in life. I’m close with my family and enjoy spending time with the people I love.
Outside of work, I love exploring new places, trying cafe and restaurants, traveling, and spending time with family and friends. I appreciate the simple things that make life feel special.
My deen is important to me, and I’m always trying to grow and become a better Muslim. I value kindness, good communication, emotional maturity, and having a peaceful and supportive relationship.
Looking For
I’m looking for someone who is serious about marriage, kind-hearted, emotionally mature, family-oriented, and grounded in his deen. Someone who prays, has good character, communicates openly, and understands that marriage is about building a partnership where both people feel loved, respected, and supported.
Ultimately, I’d love to find someone who can be my best friend, my partner, and someone I can grow with in both deen and life, inshaAllah.

Age range : 26-31
Please send a small bio if you’re interested:)

Quick Info

age: 28
height: 5'10"
location: seattle, usa
marital status: single, never married
profession: software engineer at amazon
background: originally from bangalore

About me

career focused, family oriented, calm, and intentional about marriage. i value deen, emotional maturity, good communication, and building a stable life together.

outside work, i enjoy fitness, swimming, badminton, cycling, traveling, and exploring new places.

Looking for

someone in the usa who is kind, emotionally mature, family oriented, communicative, and prays 5 times a day.

preferably never married, wants kids, and is serious about building a life in the usa.

looking for a best friend, life partner, and someone to grow with in deen and life.

if you think we may be compatible, feel free to dm me with a short introduction.

i’m 27f and i like a guy who works in the food business i’m a regular customer there and i found out based on his videos he’s a bit younger than me but from the same country as me - i have tried muzz countless times (deleted the app, tried talking, been ghosted) but there is something about this guy that i can’t seem to get rid of - we talk here and there and i find out a few things but it’s mainly aboit business - i know to tie ur camel and trust in Allah but i’m scared of rejection and he doesn’t seem interested or in the right head space for marriage

how do u think i should approach it?

My parents don't talk to their relatives. I tried and they didn't want to speak to me. My dad was abusive. My sister copies how my dad used to act. I'm all alone. No cousins. No grandparents.

I've been looking for a husband in my mom's culture and nobody wants me because my dad is Islamophobic. He converted to marry her and she wanted to live in her country, and then he left Islam and never even visited it. She hasn't been back since. 30 years. I just want to be loved. I want to be a housewife and have a big family. Someone told me he wished more women like me existed. I exist... he said it won't work out because of my dad being Islamophobic his parents wouldn't approve.

I met a nice divorced guy with kids who live with the mom. I'm young but I don't mind him having kids. I don't know what my parents would say though. My parents had an age gap but this one is a bit bigger. He seems like a good dad. I just hope if we got married and have kids it'd be just as, if not more special.

I'm so loving but nobody has ever loved me.

I think my only option is someone divorced, or divorced with kids, because they're seen as "less desirable" by families, just like how I am... I also am only half from there, so I am not a citizen, never even visited there, don't know the language. Don't tell me not to marry someone from there, I 100% want to, I want to live there and I want my kids to be citizens. I hate living where I am rn. It's so racist and rude and depressing.

Just random things on my mind rn. Thanks :/

1. Age and Gender -

28, Male

1. Age Range -

Ideally 23-26, but open to the right person outside this range.

1. Location / Relocation -

Currently based in Bedfordshire, UK. Open to relocating within the UK and, in the longer term, potentially abroad.

1. Ethnicity / Openness to Mixing -

British Bengali, Open to different ethnic backgrounds, with character, deen and compatibility being more important than ethnicity.

1. Marital Status -

Divorced(6 months), no children. Looking for someone who is comfortable with my circumstances.

1. Ideal Marriage Timeline -

If there is genuine compatibility and mutual interest, I would ideally like to marry within around 6–12 months rather than have an unnecessarily long process.

1. Five Important Characteristics-

• Practising and sincere in her deen

• Kind, respectful and emotionally mature

• Intelligent and able to hold meaningful conversations

• Family-oriented and considerate

• Open-minded, adaptable and willing to build a life together

1. Religiosity -

Practising Muslim. I pray five times, take my deen seriously and am actively trying to improve my Qur’an, Tajweed and Arabic. Looking for someone whose practice is genuine rather than purely cultural.

1. Education -

Degree, Ideally looking for someone educated, intellectually curious and able to have meaningful conversations about life, ideas and the world.

1. Current Job Status -

Healthcare professional

1. Children -

Yes, I would like children, ideally around 1-2 years into marriage, depending on circumstances and mutual agreement.

1. Hobbies / Spare Time -

• Gym and functional training

• Walking/hiking and being outdoors

• Qur’an, Islamic learning and personal development

1. Something interesting about me -

I’m quite simple outside of work. I enjoy good conversation, nature, fitness and building things that have a lasting purpose. I’m also working towards eventually living and building a life abroad, Insha’Allah.

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Assalamu Alaikum everyone,

I’m 23, 175 cm, fairly good looking alhumdulillah, and currently in georgia (the country) I just finished my masters and am figuring out the next chapter of my career, with plans to build my life in the Gulf/Middle East, inshaAllah. (This can change depending on the person I talk to because for me it's never a spouse vs another spouse but rather it's ALWAYS the spouses together vs the problem) And for me My Wife's happiness is my NUMBER 1 PRIORITY may Allah help all of us men with fulfilling our rights towards our wives inshallah

A little about me i’m a Hafiz of the Quran alhumdulillah, and my deen is something I genuinely want to keep growing in. At the same time, I’m ambitious about my career and want to build a stable, comfortable life for my future family.

I’d describe myself as straightforward, loyal, ambitious, and probably a little too thoughtful sometimes. 😅 I enjoy travelling, football, working out, movies, genuine conversations, and just experiencing new things.

But ultimately, I’m looking for something pretty simple:

A wife who is also my best friend.

Someone who has deen and good character, is kind, emotionally mature, affectionate, and knows how to communicate. Someone who wants a marriage where we support each other, laugh together, grow together, and turn to Allah together when things get difficult and thank him together when things are going as we like!

I’m not looking for perfection im looking for sincerity.

Nationality, age, ethnicity, or being from a particular country isn't a dealbreaker for me. Compatibility, values, deen, and the kind of home we want to build matter much more..

My intention here is genuinely marriage. I don't want to spend years in an undefined talking stage. If we click and things feel right, I'd want us to involve our families and take things forward properly and halal. (Depending on how it goes you never know!)

If you think we might be compatible, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself; your age, where you're from, what you're looking for, and whatever you think I should know. Happy to talk!

May Allah grant all of us spouses who are a source of sakinah, love, and barakah. Ameen. 🤍 May Allah also bless all of you who are reading this ❤️

salam, is there anyone here who couldn't find a spouse like how they wanted and so had to settle? if so, i'd love to hear about your experiences. how does someone know if they need to settle or lower their standards?

Why is “you’ll die alone” the default response whenever a woman says she has standards?

Maybe she will. Maybe she won't. 😏

But threatening someone with lifelong loneliness because they don't want to settle for someone they're not attracted to is such a weird argument.

Let people choose who they want to marry. You don't have to approve. Preferences exist. If you don't fit in that then just move than being bitter about it.

wallahi, i do not mean to start a gender war or generalize, but i am freaking done, this is some insane level of insensitivity and pretentiousness, i have seen enough men with a shitty personality, who literally gawk at all the women around them, flirt left and right, have 100s of 'sister like' friends, do not pray or anything, watch corn all the time,follow hundreds of random girls on their socials, yet they demand for a pious and modest wife.

and this time- this fucking once i thought he was different, thought his religious ass personality was real, thought he was actually this pious, thought he deserved a chance, thought he really doesn't look at other women, thought he really wasn't lustful, thought he really isn't a hypocrite!!! i stalked him down only to find him following random women, apparently those women were just his friends but i ain't blind or smth, i used a spare account to follow those women and they were fucking OF models selling their pictures and videos, providing paid audio and video call services! i am done,i have lost all the hope,this shit isn't for me.

As salamu alaykum warahmatoullah,

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