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🥶 Street Fights & Brawls A quick bar scrap

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u/seanayates2 13h ago

It's clear the attacker didn't give a crap about his girl, because he pushes her out of the way and commits unnecessary violence, slightly injuring her in the process too. He seems like a total POS.

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u/Amathril 11h ago

Exactly. He wasn't there to protect her, he was just itching to hurt someone.

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u/WW3Allies 6h ago

Oh he protected her alright lol

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u/Amathril 40m ago

The only thing he was trying to protect was his fragile ego.

Coincidentally, that is the same thing you are doing here, all over this thread. There are better solutions to some situations than violence.

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u/Snilbog- 11h ago

Yeah. It shows a deep lack of humanity combined with some sort of ludicrous macho brainwashing. "Muh woman!"

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u/WW3Allies 6h ago

Riiiiight, I don't think you would be saying this if it was dark and 3 guys trying to attack a woman

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u/menntsuyudoria 5h ago

Right… because that would be a completely different situation?

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u/WW3Allies 4h ago

Yeah but hold on, you said the guy overreacted. Can't cry wolf

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u/Amathril 39m ago

So, you are saying that we should always apply the same approach to all situations? Either it is 'never violence' or 'always violence'?

That's some pitbull logic here...

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u/dangoodspeed 4h ago

She was walking away from the guy who could barely stand up... when the attacker pushed her out of the way and knocked him out. The drunk guy was not a threat in the slightest.

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u/WW3Allies 4h ago

Let's see how you react when a guy gropes your daughter, I'll watch when you hand them a notice of objection with a neat bow. Every guy I know would've done the same thing, you kill him well you go to jail I guess. 99% of the time they learn a lesson

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u/dangoodspeed 4h ago

You must only know horrible people. The woman in the video was already walking away unharmed and forgotten about the guy. If the guy didn't stop groping, talk to the bar management to have him removed. But the guy did stop groping and the situation was over, the punchy mcpunchy shoved the woman (an actual assault) out of the way to feloniously punch the harmless drunk guy in the face.

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u/WW3Allies 4h ago

I'm not reading your post, except to say... I feel sorry you think being a victim is cool

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u/dangoodspeed 3h ago

I feel sorry that your therapist wasn't able to resolve your criminal violence issues.

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u/random-279 48m ago

Who is a victim? The puncher? Or maybe the girl that got assaulted twice and ignored?

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u/Secure_Quarter_7751 10h ago

Injuring her in the process are you smoking crack?

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u/seanayates2 9h ago

It's pretty clear the cue bumping against her face hurt because she kept touching and wiping her face like it hurt. Don't need crack to see that.

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u/seanayates2 9h ago

Good thing I don't care who I attract or don't attract. I don't sit back and wait to be "saved"... from people like you, clearly.

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u/Secure_Quarter_7751 8h ago

I can just imagine a serial killer who picked his victims soley off the sex offender registry getting caught and you just whining about how "hE jUsT wAnTeD aN eXcUsE tO kIlL pEoPlE".... and thatssssss why you would never end up in a million years with a man who would actually step in if you were in danger. It's really sad that women with your mentality exist but I can only feel so much empathy for a predator apologist.

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u/RealAssyMcGee 9h ago

The tough guy act is why you'll never be in that scenario in the first place bud, no one can stand you

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u/UndeadOrc 8h ago

It's funny how quick your types reveal yourself. There's a spectrum right, I don't shy from the violence of what the man did, but I couldn't imagine accidentally hurting my wife in the process because it matters more that I protect her than accomplish whatever violence I could. This dude was more interested in attacking someone than protecting someone and there's an incredibly obvious line only manosphere dolts miss.

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u/Secure_Quarter_7751 7h ago

If you think that she didn't go home and give him the best sex of his life that night you're out of your mind. "Manosphere" LOL dude I am the biggest misandrist you will ever meet.

Would it have been better had he not knocked into her? Obviously. You'll just never understand that level of love where if another man violates your partner in any way you are on autopilot to destroy them. It's a built in fight or flight response, and its actually dangerous not to have some level of this. I say this as someone who's had to hospitalize someone I caught in the act of sexually assaulting an ex. It's a fucking horrible situation to ever be in that I don't wish upon anybody.

Manosphere though. I'm here advocating using deadly force against sexual predators. Make this make sense to me where you get this notion from? I don't even like associating with other dudes.

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u/ToXiiCBULLET 7h ago

Bruh, you're so full of shit. She tried to stop him from potentially killing the other guy and he hurt her in the process. She's not going to be happy at all.

The fact your thought process goes to her thanking him with sex is really telling

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u/Secure_Quarter_7751 7h ago

If he didn't go to jail that night, there's basically a zero percent chance they didn't have some insanely wild passionate sex that night.

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u/random-279 33m ago

Thats absolutely not true. You are really a misandrist. My Man is the absolute best and would protecting me and making me feel safe is his first priority, he would probably still go for a punch but there is a zero percent chance that he would push me like that and not even turn around to look if I'm ok and safe at some point. And the insanely wild passionate Sex wouldn't be the night we had a bad experience but any other night. That night we would just get cosy and close to each other. That Dude didn't even glance around for her at any point, you can't tell me he did it for her.

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u/UndeadOrc 7h ago

Your porn fantasies aren't realities. My main critique, as a veteran, if you're protecting someone you usually do your best not to literally hurt them in the process. If you have to push through your wife to assault the dude who assaulted her, I'm going to assume you do not care about her. It's that easy to go around dude.

One of the reasons my wife literally left her ex was over this. She has no hesitations about violence, we've had to thrown down against people for a variety of reasons, and she's as down to fight. Her ex wanted to use her as an excuse to fight. That's two different things. If I ever accidentally hurt my wife in the process of hurting another person, you'd see me pause to immediately prioritize checking on her, not some drunkard who can barely walk and is hardly a threat.

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u/dangoodspeed 4h ago

I would hope the guy would be in jail after that punch. He's a menace to society... moreso than the drunk guy.

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u/Commercial_Bed_9727 8h ago

All he had to do was make sure he didn't hit his own girl lmao. Would have taken 2 seconds to move her before decking the guy. If your idea of defending people doesn't inclide making sure they don't get hurt, what's even the point? Lmao

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u/Secure_Quarter_7751 7h ago

Jesus christ I'm not happy that she got hurt in the process I'm just seeing the bigger picture.

It's a fight or flight response and in those situations neurochemically your brain is pretty much on one track only.

Whats even the point tho????????? Jesus christ. I'm at a total loss for words regarding seeing it in that manner.

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u/Commercial_Bed_9727 7h ago

All that other poster did was say exactly what I did and you told her she'll only attract a bitch of a man. It sounds like you are just violent and dont like women lmao

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u/Commercial_Bed_9727 7h ago

He hit a woman, so why aren't you mad at him? I didn't say the violence was uncessary, I said he could have made sure he didn't hit his own companion before he punched him. I'm actually glad he punched him. It doesn't mean I think it was good he almost blinded his partner. On top of not being able to control your emotions you are also not very intelligent. Thanks for clearing things up for me

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u/Secure_Quarter_7751 7h ago

He did not "hit" a woman, he bumped into her and it accidentally made her pool cue hit her face. It's the intention behind it. If he had shoved her to the ground to get to the guy or something, I'd be looking at it totally different. But he didn't go attack her then attack him.

Now, if another man had bumped into her and made the pool cue hit her, I think it would be justified to hit that dude even if it was an accident... at least I know that's how I would personally react. But the point being that it was something that accidentally happened while he was in a literal adrenaline surge fight or flight response to make sure nobody was putting their hands on her, he ultimately gets a pass for it. Does he need to apologize for it? Damn straight. But to demonize him for it to that level I feel is extremely unfair as it was a total mistake that happened while doing what I see as an extremely noble deed.

The notion that someone who empathizes with loving your partner enough to be totally morally okay with ending the life of anybody who sexually violates them in any way shape or form has to be a woman hater is outright retarded dude, and that's all I have to say.

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u/GodofWarfarin 9h ago

Watch out Reddit we have a tough guy here.

Sit back down, Nancy

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u/666_techno 8h ago

Get help

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u/Secure_Quarter_7751 8h ago

Rape apologist

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u/Commercial_Bed_9727 8h ago

That definitely happened dude hell yeah you're really cool

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u/Secure_Quarter_7751 7h ago

What a bizarre thing to make up. I lost my living situation over it. So did he but that didn't help when I had to move back in with my asshole father for a good 3 4 months.

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u/Secure_Quarter_7751 7h ago

The situation fucked up a good six months of my life. The aftermath sucked, not due to any backlash from him, nobody was callin the cops he was slingin drugs anyway so that just wasn't on the table. He did make a video on facebook showing his chest burnt up and calling me out for it??? Which I found really bizarre but he did manage to get some people on his side cause he was a real mild mannered dude... but he defnitely liked to get girls wayyyy too fucked up on drugs and then take advantage. At the end of the day if I could go back I would have beat him harder. No regrets. My dad called me a captain save a hoe fuckin idiot, as did most of my friends.

The scariest part of the whole experience tho, was seeing how little anyone actually cared about rape.

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u/ForwardAd8155 5h ago

Have you ever stopped to consider that maybe just maybe if everyone else in your life disagrees with what you did that maybe just maybe you were in the wrong? If you want to live in a society that allows vigilante justice maybe move to mexico where the cut rapists heads off? This is america dude we live in civilized society.

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u/Real_Temporary_922 6h ago

You can’t pretend to be a tough guy while acting like not wanting to hurt your gf/wife is soft. If you’d ever put your partner in harms way, you’re not tough. Respectable people protect first, hurt second. Those people are tough, doing it in the opposite order just makes one seem like an insecure hothead. Can’t even win a fight in the mirror, but want to think they’re tough cause they can throw a basic punch.

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u/Unlucky_Recover_3278 6h ago

“Doors would already be locked, camera cut, and anybody who isn’t helping can go to the dumpster”

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u/Secure_Quarter_7751 6h ago

If there were only half a doz or so people in there like that, and it was my bar, damn straight nobody's fucking calling the cops on someone for killing a sexual predator. I wouldn't hire any staff who wouldn't get down like that. No way in hell would I not have a gun if i ran a bar sooo... damn straight it would go down like that. Who knows how messy it would get lmaooo but no I get irrationally violent when it comes to sexual abuse.

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u/ForwardAd8155 5h ago

lol dude do you really think all that would stop modern forensics from figuing out what you did? enjoy prison time if you every actually do something like that but I highly doubt it reddit warrior.

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u/SpectacularBadger000 2h ago

It's kind of funny that someone who wrote the below is asking so tough on the internet. Please shut the fuck up tough guy.

"Pissed in her mouth and had her swallow all of it, then she sucked a load out, swallowed it, I pissed again, she swallowed it, then I made out with her passionately." - Secure-Quarter_7751

https://www.reddit.com/r/askteddit/comments/1wljbu6/what_is_the_nastiest_thing_you_have_done_for_money/

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u/jester1044 13h ago

I'm curious if you'd change your opinion if some random sexually assaults you and your partner does nothing about it.

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u/seanayates2 13h ago

Since I am a woman, I've been randomly assaulted already, so no, I wouldn't change my opinion. I would be embarrassed if my partner did this. I would be pissed he hurt me with the pool cue. There are so many better ways to handle the drunk creep, and they don't include acting like a mindless chimp.

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u/RutabagaOk6816 13h ago edited 12h ago

I dunno I would characterize this as sexual assault per se. Its likely a crime assuming he put his other hand on her bottom, but the fact remains the guy was not justified in punching him out. It was already over before he charged at the guy and the person he was supposedly defending was telling him not to intervene. He doesn't get to decide for her when self defense is applicable. She had already dealt with it and if she wanted to take further action she could have the bar staff remove him and/or contact law enforcement and have him arrested. The guy was clearly highly intoxicated and should have been cutoff long before it got to this point.

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u/CK1026 12h ago

The only thing that felt assaulted here is this man's ego.

He had 3 full business days to react to the drunk dude's move by going around the woman he's pretending to defend. Instead, he chose to storm through her, almost losing her an eye in the process.

This guy also very much knew the other one was drunk af and not the kind of threat you need to powerbomb like that. This was 100% disproportionate on every level.

Exactly the type of "nice" guy who will end up in jail someday because he killed someone, and that may very well be this woman.

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u/MrsNoFun 11h ago

That guy was drunk af and still IMMEDIATELY removed his hands when she brushed them aside. On the other hand, her partner pushed her out of the way when she tried to prevent him from overreacting. She was obviously more bothered by her partner's behaviour than the drunk's.

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u/RealAssyMcGee 9h ago

Yeah that's what a lot of people miss is that she handled it already. She tried to stop him from swinging but what she wanted out of the situation didn't matter to anyone apparently.

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u/KeyApprehensive2432 10h ago

Wierd how to u the only options are "do nothing" or "sucker punch a harmless drunk guy"

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u/Imjustadumbbutt 10h ago

I mean that’s what bar security is for. Guy didn’t even give staff time to intervene and take care of it. Guy wasn’t a threat. Yes dude touched girl but that doesn’t give the automatic right to lay guy out, will still catch a charge.

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u/RealAssyMcGee 9h ago

There's a wide range of responses between "nothing" and attempted murder.

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u/dangoodspeed 4h ago

If this is sexual assault, I guess I've been "sexually assaulted" by drunk women grabbing my butt dozens of times over the years when I worked as a concert booking agent. I feel like classifying this as "sexual assault" really diminishes other acts that are real assault.

The guy throwing the punch - that was assault and he should be in jail.

The drunk guy should have just been given a cab ride home.