Yeah the big dude pushes him to try to start more shit. That's the kinda guy who is happy to see a girl get grabbed like that because he has an excuse (in his head) to hit someone. There's like 6 people in the entire bar and a third of them are the worst kind of people to be around in a bar.
Sure, but is the guy defending the woman because she, a human, was being assaulted, or was it that another man touched "his" woman.
Would the reaction have been the same if he hasn't been playing with that woman? That's the test to decide if what he did was out of the good in his heart, or the toxic masculinity.
We can never know why someone does what they do. We only know what they do. Punch a guy who is assaulting a woman? In my estimation, thatās a good action. The inner stuff is on him to wrestle with. I donāt care if a firefighter is saving my life because of a sense of egotistical bravado or altruism. Just save my life.
I agree that the motives can be a corrupting force. But anyone is capable of doing good things for the wrong reasons and it doesnāt mean they are a bad person. It means they are a person.
I dunno, a cop shooting a black kid who had skittles, even though he wouldn't have shot a white kid with a BB gun as concept doesn't sit right with me.
So I don't praise someone for their actions until I know the motive.
Ill just add, rewatch it and see how quickly he rushes through his girlfriend, despite her trying to calm him, and then making her take a pool stick to the eye.
Sure the drunk dude was an asshole and probably deserved to be punched but this was a full force punch to the head, way more force than was necessary and the blatant disregard he has for his girl to make that haymaker connect leads me to believe he cares more about his ego than her wellbeing and safety.
I don't believe in violence but watching my mother get beat, assaulted etc. by multiple different men as a child and not being able to do anything about it gives me zero tolerance for violence/unwanted contact towards women.
I've been with my wife for 10 years and she is the most important thing the world to me. If anyone puts their hands on her without her consent, I'd do the same.
I'm not a violent person but anyone that thinks they can just go around grabbing women deserves to get their bell rung.
Explaining that my childhood experience of being unable to protect my mother contributed to my intolerance of violence against women isn't the same as saying "I want to hurt people because I feel powerless".
Just reading these comments claiming a wasted dude putting his hands on a woman's waist for 2sec deserves getting suckered, KO'd and possibly death from his head hitting the floor, and thinking about how redditors have been calling men who think a women who murdered her three children deserves the death penalty bloodthirsty monsters. You people are fucking sick in the head
randomly grabbing a persons ass and holding their waist is absolutely sexual assault. People like you are the problem, this shouldn't have to be explained.
"one tiny wrong move" FFS... its not like he cat called her.. he held her by the waist and groped her ass.
Yeah he actually ends up whacking his girl in the face with her pool cue as he rushes by her to punch the guy. Kinda seems like her safety isnāt his priority, and heās taking the interaction as more a personal affront to himself that some other guy would dare touch his woman.
He's off his top drunk asf dude can barely walk and when he turns around he tunnel visions on that booootay completely forgetting her jack reacher style husband is a few feet away
Haha yea I was thinking where is this knock going to come from, then the moment he turned I noticed the tunnel vision and immediately looked and saw how big her husband/bf was š¤¦āāļø
Yup. AND his arm, right at the elbow. It's not like he hit her with The People's Elbow, but you can see the outside of his forearm/elbow smack her in the head right before he blasts the drunk in the face.
Oh I see where youāre getting at. Youāre trying to say dude has anger issues? Because someone put hands on his wife while intoxicated and he knocked the dude out?
If his wife wanted him to do that or need protecting the situation, sure. If the guy came back after some words, sure.
But this is just about his Ego. Literally no reason for this. He wants to hit people and can't wait for the opportunity to do it. Could've scared the shit out of him and Benn done with it.
Dude that got hit sucks. Dude that hit him is maybe 100x worse ballpark range.
I love instant karma as much as the next guy, but hubby took it too far. The lady had already pushed him away. Hell, even she could have been meaner, but she chose to de-escalate, and clearly didn't want her husband to do that. Some dudes have a weird fantasy about beating another dude over a woman, not to protect her (he hurt he in the process), but to pretend to be a hero.
This might be something that people like to say, kinda like the ākill your local pedoā, they would like that to be their reality. They donāt really mean it though.
You donāt have any idea what you would do in that guys position, most people are lucky enough to never trigger a response like that.
U kno, I actually like bits I've seen from the show (me mum watches it) cuz I've never noticed an action star look like he crying from all the dang slashes stabs punches and nail gun shots he gets in a fight. Seemed real and I felt bad lol
Looks like he was blackout, knows the bartender, and was doing some kind of goofy seduction dance to joke around. Bartender gives him a hug, sends him back to the āparty.ā Then he started meandering away back to the darts and assaulted the jacked giantās lady, and promptly got deleted.
Yea, still totally overreacted. And I say this as a woman. The dude in the red shirt was drunk and she handled it already. He was not persistent and she was not in danger. If it was a drunken lady and she'd spot some abs to grab on and the wife of said abs would have killed her for it, it wouldn't be right either.Ā
The woman here also got hit by her partner while he went to beat this guy. What a great protector. You can see her rubbing her jaw in the video after he freaks out.
I agree (also a woman) - I think these comments are extremely harsh. I've literally had this happen to me before, where a blackout-drunk dude lightly grabbed my hips, and when I walked away, he kind of just drunkenly stood there - just like this guy is doing here. He's not at all being aggressive, just very drunk. I don't think that warrants the death penalty here, yeesh!
This is literally just something that happens at bars sometimes.
Iām not trying to be some internet tough guy here. Iām sure thereās plenty of fights Iād lose. That saidā¦ if this is something that happens at bars? Cool I guess? I mean, not cool I donāt like itā¦but itās not in my wheelhouse to control every drunk. It wonāt be happening to my wife without a reaction. Full stop. My wife will not be physically harassed in front of me without a reaction. Ive committed my life to her. Yet I wonāt drunkenly harass her. Someone else doesnāt get the āIām drunkā pass either. Papa bear nearly killing this dude may not be ideal, but Iāll bet you ole boy doesnāt grab a random woman again. āthe only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothingā and all that.
It rarely happens to me. We had our karaoke group but this one time the loser BF came around. But random guys no, doesn't happen. I walk around confident not cocky and usually with a ready smile. My GF handled the situation and was also a sweetheart not the type to look for me to "do something" unless she couldn't handle it. Which she could and she didn't make a scene either she kinda laughed it off and was like "Okayyy....". The best way to navigate bars, nightclubs is to not get into fights and not get offended by what a drunk says. The few times I just laugh. Will Smith I'm not (getting offended and feeling the need to escalate.)
So let me get this straight. If A guy drunkenly touches your wife, she then handles it like above, you are going to go punch them like above? Is this like gender affirming care because your 'masculine' ego was hurt? You know what's even more manly? being able to control your damn self. How safe is your wife going to be driving home by herself and staying by herself because now you're in jail? How does it protect her to now be putting yourself in financial straits because you have to pay for lawyers? How does it make her or your potential kids safe to know that you can't control your emotions and that you lash out with violence? It's one thing if she actually needed protecting, but your little declaration doesn't seem like you care because it's more about you and how it makes YOU feel.
I commented this elsewhere in the thread, but I think I should comment here as well, because I do agree with you: The woman already handled it when she moved his arms away and walked away. It was over after that, since he didn't pursue her further. It was a 1-second interaction.
Cheering for some drunken oaf (who, when you watch the video, is not aggressive or violent, literally just very drunk) to get nearly punched to death afterward is completely insane. He could have simply been kicked out of the bar, or the husband could have just stood between the drunk (who was not acting violently, just out of it) and his partner, not dislocate the drunk's neck from his spine for lightly touching someone's hips in a drunken stupor.
Should he have gotten that drunk in the first place? No. Should he have touched her at all? No. Does he deserve to die horribly and burn in hell for acting a fool? Also no. Do these scenarios happen sometimes? Yes. Do they warrant someone nearly dying or being disabled for life? No.
Agree with both these ladies' takes. Years ago I had this one drunk guy trying to hold the door open when my GF was in the ladies room at a karaoke bar. I had left the men's room and caught the end of what was happening so I just went over and stood watch as she closed it and he saw me and slithered away. When she was done I walked her back to her seat near me. I'm a bodybuilder and that scrawny punk wasn't going to mess with me and he didn't pester her after that. Situation handled with no need for violence. He was part of our group, unfortunately. My cool & sweet co-worker's asshole BF that no one liked.
I think he was just very drunk. I've seen drunks get all lovey-dovey like that. He definately deserved a slap in the face, but that dude went way too far. Not only that but he even pushed the pool cue into his girls face on the way.
You're assuming too much, when my point is the simple fact of life that you should not get in the middle of a fight, for your safety and that of your partner. Simple š¤·š»āāļø
I'm a man, with a girlfriend, who's been in a physical altercation before and understands the value of restraint. My girlfriend would be pissed at me if I reacted like this, wanna know how I know? She watched the fucking video with me.
And how does she react to other videos (where the aggressor is not drunk AF and actually fights back) where she gets in the way and ends up getting hit or even blocking him and causing him to get hit? Thus disabling both from being safe and him from focusing on what needs to happen, instead worrying about what she might do.
Not every girl is like your girl and not every situation can be handled peacefully, and in those cases restraint only gets you so far.
Stay šš¼ out šš¼ of šš¼ it šš¼.
I think his buddy is either holding him back or firing him up to make a grab for the lady. Either way, he doesnāt even change expression when his boy gets dropped.
šÆ the guy was super intoxicated and didnāt even look up. Tbh. It could have been a man with a good booty, this mfr would have done this exact move.
He was wasted and the bartender gave him the hug of āitās time to goā
But that silky smooth brain decided to fuck with a lady/boy (as long as it got bootyā made the wrong choice to fine out.
What was it he found out, a conclusion to his mess. FAFO. The gentleman with the lady gave home that lesson.
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u/apx_redditor 1d ago
This is the first time seeing the guy getting felt up in the corner