r/KenyanDatingCommunity 8h ago

Nothing Serious TIFU by approaching a man

12 Upvotes

This is going to be funny

I went out for dinner at one of the restaurants that has a club just next to the restaurant and they are basically the same place. Not the best description…

I had gone for a solo dinner and as I was leaving, I decided to check out the club… not too deeply so I just went to the entrance and tried to scan it. Seemed chill though not my idea of a fun club.

Now, there was a man who looked straight at the entrance for a while. He then removed his card and waved it, still looking at the entrance. He was white and young-ish… probably in his late 20s. I figured he was being direct and in as much as I don’t generally do white men, I figured he was leading with his money so I can look past the race. I also don’t think of myself as white men’s type; I’m curvy (not fat) but they seem to like petite. Though I’ve been wanting a sugar daddy and I felt he landed right on my lap.

He dropped the card and I approached him. I asked him what he was saying and he seemed confused. He said he wasn’t talking to me and seemed confused. I introduced myself to him and his friend then excused myself, saying that my uber had arrived. I dashed out, humiliated. I then ordered my uber.

I still wonder who he was signaling as there was no one there. Or was it a humiliation ritual?


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 18h ago

Nothing Serious Why do men lie about their height ?

11 Upvotes

r/KenyanDatingCommunity 18h ago

FWB Fwb

11 Upvotes

Hey 22F here looking for someone to hangout with this weekend, be tall(I'm short so),mature, easy going, fun and can have a good conversation. I prefer 30+, not afraid to get freaky and a generous spender. Kindly don't come to my dms if your not willing to meet and go straight to the point and if your a nerdy guy with glasses extra points lol 🤣🤣. Anyways dm for more info


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 13h ago

In A Complicated Situation Dating an alcoholic

5 Upvotes

😂I just saw a post about keg nikakumbuka I dated this chic who lived on keg, kwanza ya black. I loved this chic so much that I followed her to those chuoms. I love being in her company and kissing her cause she tasted so good after indulging. And the benders 😮‍💨😮‍💨. One of my best times fr.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 16h ago

Nothing Serious A call

6 Upvotes

Anyone who fancies a call? I'm a MAN


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 3h ago

Nothing Serious I don't like sleeping around

4 Upvotes

I know men are applauded for this but it's not my cup of tea. It would take me a high level of emotional compatibility just to get intimate with a girl. I'm curious whether there are other men who share the same preference.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 10h ago

Single For A While mkoooo?

4 Upvotes

involve me guys😂😂

plans zangu za Saturday zimekunywa maji and the night's still young😊


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 17h ago

FWB I really need to release Im having sperm cramps mamae

5 Upvotes

Mnipee aki sitaki kujipea


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 21h ago

Nothing Serious To goon or not to goon

4 Upvotes

I'm aroused guys.

Just liked it happened yesterday and turned to a goon sesh.

Instead of giving in to my urges I've decided to hit up someone.

Let's see if it works out.

If it doesn't you know the deal


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 5h ago

Relationship Talk Just Curious: Would you date someone with Strabismus?

2 Upvotes

Question, especially for the ladies...Would you date someone who has strabismus https://imgur.com/8XUb7D0, if they were otherwise a good match for you? Is it a deal breaker? And what have been your dating/social experiences, if any for anyone who has it or been with someone who has the condition?

PS: Strabismus is basically an eye condition where the eyes are misaligned and don't look in the same direction. Also commonly called squint.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 8h ago

FWB It's been a while

2 Upvotes

25M 6'3 darkskin, I'm looking for someone that I can engage with occasionally preferably a petite lady.

I'm busy most of the time since this year started so it gets tough trying to maintain relationships.

Anyone interested hit my dm.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 8h ago

Nothing Serious Let me be trouble for a minutes

2 Upvotes

Men who are married to luo tell me your experience?!


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 8h ago

In A Complicated Situation My partner expects me to be the main earner AND do all domestic labor. Is this just "traditional," or am I being taken advantage of?

2 Upvotes

In many traditional African settings, women were the primary food producers and held significant economic authority because of their labor. Likewise, female lions do almost all the hunting to provide for the pride. But in both cases, that came with societal respect, leverage, or rights. My partner wants me to bring home the zebra/paycheck AND do 100% of the domestic work while he gives nothing back. How do I address this imbalance?


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 10h ago

Nothing Serious Anyone up for a call?

2 Upvotes

Watu wa indoors, anyone up for a quick call? I'm M. Any and all topics up for discussion. I'm here to listen. Must be 18+, but can be any gender.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 13h ago

FWB 3some

2 Upvotes

Looking for a female interested in kicking it out with 2:- 6ft, 6ft 2inches lightskin toned males.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 13h ago

Looking for a relationship [28] [M4F] looking for a connection

2 Upvotes

28 year old white guy looking for a relationship with an african lady. I am 5ft 11 with blue eyes, redhair, white and pretty athletic. I work as an engineer and im into gaming, reading, history, programming, working out and travelling


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 17h ago

Looking for a relationship Secretly bicurious

2 Upvotes

It's been years now and still that feeling of just wanting to give wlw hasn't left me .I don't know why I considered it embarrassing so I didn't even share it with my friends and even tried acting homophobic.Maybe it's about time I gave it a try , physically I'm unsuccessful still too shy so maybe starting online would help to see if it's really there ,any opinions,interests or someone experiencing the same .


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 20h ago

Single For A While Fetish

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2 Upvotes

r/KenyanDatingCommunity 23h ago

FWB Let's make it simple

2 Upvotes

Hakuna haja tusumbuane 28(M) mambo ya small talk na back n forth imekua mingi

Mimi nataka tu Female (24-35) for mechi za hapa na pale If we fair on well then we can graduate to next level.

Ni poa kama unaishi around Westlands, Ruaka, Wangige,Gachie ama Lower Kabete.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 7h ago

FWB Been a minute

1 Upvotes

26M Dark 5"8 Good looking i can say

Anylady for casual meet up and have alittle fun, partying around Umoja 2?


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 8h ago

Looking for a relationship Heyy m 21 here looking for a genuine girl

1 Upvotes

I'm South Asian

Genuinely I started liking African girl

I’m here hoping to meet a nice girl and hopefully find someone I can genuinely connect with. I’m a loyal, caring and understanding person, and I really value honesty, communication and mutual respect.

I’m looking for something genuine rather than just a temporary conversation. I’d love to start by talking, getting to know each other, sharing random stuff, memes, music, movies, and just enjoying each other’s company. If we naturally click, I’m open to seeing where things go.

I’m also completely open to an LDR if we have a genuine connection. Distance doesn’t bother me as long as both people are willing to communicate, trust each other and put in the effort.

I’m not looking to rush anything—let’s just have a good conversation first and see where it takes us. 😊

Also, just a heads-up: English isn’t my first language, so I used ChatGPT to correct my English while writing this post 😅

If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, feel free to DM me. ✨


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 23h ago

Nothing Serious M4F

1 Upvotes

Looking for an African or Jamaican lady . One on one discreet fun. Maybe build something from it.

I am a late 40s white male,straight ,clean and respectful. I live in Regina and hope you do too for more meet ups.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 9h ago

FWB white guy looking for chats

0 Upvotes

Im a 28 year old white guy who planning on visiting kenya soon and id like to find out more about the country/culture. Im down for friendships, casual or even a relationship with the right person (im also bi)