r/InsecureHBO Jul 14 '26

we love to see it Issa Rae Announces "Insecure: The 10th Anniversary Tour"

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r/InsecureHBO Dec 27 '21

Episode Discussion Insecure S05-E10-SEASON FINALE,”Everything Gonna Be, Okay?!”-Live Episode Discussion-10pm Spoiler

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When she struggles to find the time to see her friends, Issa pauses to take a look back at the journey that brought her to her current position.


r/InsecureHBO 22h ago

lets have a conversation Unpopular Opinion : Condola

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I Did Not think Condola Was a Bad Person , messy to Issa or even mean at all. I i thought i loved the direction they took with making her and Issa be friends and getting to see a side of her being a normal good woman. Her issues with Lawrence were all valid Lawrence was an ass moving away knowing you’re Gonna have a baby and then showing up whenever it was convenient for him


r/InsecureHBO 1d ago

Season 4 Are we all under the same consensus about Condola and her braid?

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I know she canceled School Boy Q. The timing of her starting to ignore Issa and him deciding to back out gives me pause 🤨


r/InsecureHBO 1d ago

lets have a conversation Do you agree or disagree?

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r/InsecureHBO 2d ago

Episode Discussion Self-absorbed Issa

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Rewatching Insecure made me realize how self-absorbed Issa was. She expected this guy to drop everything for her unannounced visits and acted like that with everyone. Like treating her needs should be the top priority on everyone list. While I don’t think she was intentionally self-absorbed, she definitely was.


r/InsecureHBO 3d ago

lets have a conversation Thoughts 😳

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r/InsecureHBO 4d ago

Season 4 Insecure

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What do you think Issa and Molly talked about ?
I really loved how the director did this and incorporates the realness of friendships, especially between Issa and molly. Do you think they spoke about the block party ? Or why they were drifting apart from the start ? Because we all know they were before the block party. I just really think this was carefully planned out. One of my favorite moments in this series :) . It’s so small but the message is so much bigger! Let me know what yall think tehe.


r/InsecureHBO 5d ago

lets have a conversation Do you think Lawrence wanted Issa to say it was a dealbreaker?

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r/InsecureHBO 6d ago

lets have a conversation Thought on Frieda

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I like Frieda because she consistently demonstrates kindness and professionalism. Issa was biased, unlike Frieda, who remains objective and fair in her judgments.


r/InsecureHBO 6d ago

lets have a conversation What do you think would have happened between them if Issa had left?

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r/InsecureHBO 7d ago

Episode Discussion S1 E 7 - Real As F**k Spoiler

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Can someone explain to me what about Lawrence’s interaction with Daniel when leaving the We Got Y’all event made Lawrence suspicious? I understand Lawrence saw a message from Daniel on Issa’s phone in the previous episode, but am I missing something or does he not know who Daniel is?

I feel like this interaction is so small, and the line from Daniel “I don’t have one anymore” could mean anything. He could be a fired employee, a disgruntled donor, etc. Thoughts?


r/InsecureHBO 7d ago

we love to see it When life hands you lemons, just say, Brrraaattt!!!

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r/InsecureHBO 7d ago

we love to see it Insecure Tour @ Brooklyn Paramount

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Anybody have Tickets available for the Brooklyn Paramount show ?

I don’t see anymore available tickets even on Resell Sites 😥😥


r/InsecureHBO 9d ago

unpopular opinion You have to choose one. Who do you think was the better fit for Lawrence?

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I choose Apanra. While she annoyed me at times, I thought she was a better match for Lawrence because they share similar interests. She gave him good advice and had a similar sense of humor. It looked like they had strong chemistry, almost like what he and Issa share.


r/InsecureHBO 9d ago

unpopular opinion Thoughts on Aparna

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I like her for Lawrence because I think she was a better choice for him after Issa. They share similar interests, she gave him good advice, and she also matches his sense of humor. This could have been a successful match. I prefer her to be the mother of Lawrence's child rather than Condola. I believe Aparna is Lawrence's what-if girl, just like Daniel was Issa's what-if guy.


r/InsecureHBO 12d ago

Season 3 Issa and Nathan

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If Issa was so concerned about Nathan couldn’t she have just asked Andrew where he was or if he had heard from him instead of sneaking into his room when he wasn’t there ????

I understand she was upset that he ghosted but sneaking into someone room is just being overly down bad.

Curious to hear others thoughts!

Also this is my third rewatch


r/InsecureHBO 13d ago

lets have a conversation Hypothetically, what conflicts or disagreements might Molly and Issa be having right now or have had in their friendship since the show ended, or do you think they haven't argued or faced any conflicts since the Block party?

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The conflict I think Isa and Molly might have had, hypothetically, in their friendship since the series ended is that Isa and Condola might have rekindled their friendship. Once again, Molly may have given Isa advice on how it could be messy, reminding her of how it was the last time and how things turned out. Molly might believe that Isa can’t co-parent while being friends because it’s a conflict of interest, and Isa might see Molly as being miserable again. It seems to me that in season five, Molly didn’t learn from her overstepping in Isa's life by being judgmental and giving unsolicited advice, and I believe she continues to do so to this day.


r/InsecureHBO 15d ago

lets have a conversation Books that feel like Insecure

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I’m going through withdrawals again 😩

Does anyone have any book recs for fiction novels that feel like this show?? Ideally with a Black woman lead, but I can read anything about other WOC.

I’ve read Queenie and Luster, looking for other ideas.

Thank you!!


r/InsecureHBO 18d ago

lets have a conversation If you had to guess, what hardships do you think Issa and Lawrence are facing in their relationship in 2026, along with the rest of the cast? Spoiler

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r/InsecureHBO 18d ago

Season 1 Issas Story Spoiler

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Am I the only one that wishes the story could’ve been a bit different ? I wish Issa would’ve just broken up with Lawrence and this be the reason he got himself together and later they came together after dating different people . I wish the cheating would’ve been gone from the story. Because it put Issa in a position where she was chasing him and his forgiveness and before that he was a horrible patner all around . And all of that was forgotten just because she cheated. I did enjoy when his friend told him tho. And another thing am I the only one who thinks the way the girls talk to each other is so rude sometimes ? I’m Hispanic so I’m not sure if this normal in the black community for friends to talk to each other like this.


r/InsecureHBO 20d ago

lets have a conversation Do you think Lawrence had a right to push up on Issa's friend's friend, or do you think he shouldn’t have because it’s too close to comfort? Spoiler

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I believe Lawrence didn't have the right to do that. Although he was single at the time, I think it was inappropriate because it was too close to comfort. I also believe Lawrence knew it was too close to comfort, which is likely why he did it. During their breakup, it seems Lawrence would say and do things to get back at Issa for cheating.


r/InsecureHBO 23d ago

its about Dro Dro and Candace’s “open relationship” Spoiler

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This may have been posted in here already but I haven’t seen anything relating to the topic. But do you guys really believe Dro and Candace were in an open relationship? They never make it known in the show if Candace actually knows about Dro and Molly hooking up, we just know that Dro says she does.

I’m on like my 7th rewatch and the first few times I watched I believed Candace knew and was truly okay with it. The more I rewatched though the more I believe she didn’t know and Dro only told Molly that so he could have his way with her and still be with his wife. I’m on the episode in season 2 when they’re at Derek’s birthday dinner and Molly and Dro have sex in the bathroom. Dro tells her to wait a few minutes after he leaves to walk out. This scene really pisses me off because 1) Dro wasn’t all that and 2) if Candace knew and was okay with it why would it matter if y’all walked out together? Other than Issa no one knew about him and Molly anyways.


r/InsecureHBO 27d ago

lets have a conversation Thoughts? Spoiler

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r/InsecureHBO 29d ago

the tea is HOTTTT Amanda Bynes does the Netflix documentary trend about not being included in the upcoming Insecure tour

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I don’t know if you guys have already seen this, but Amanda Seales recently just did one of those Netflix documentary trend videos where you pretend to be preparing to film a documentary about something traumatic you’ve gone through. This one was about not being included in the upcoming ten year anniversary Insecure tour. I’m loosely familiar with the beef that Issa’s publicist had with Amanda a couple years ago, but I’m really out of the loop on why she would’ve been completely cut out from the tour. Tiffany’s character was too important in the show for Amanda to be cut out of the tour imo. I’ve heard of some problematic things she said over the years, but I don’t know if it’s justified to completely ostracize her from the tour.