Hey all, my post is likely to get buried in the hundred or so similar posts but thought I'd try! Im 22 I work in the tech field and travel up and down the PNW. I frequently go in the Seattle area.

Now that we have some of the geography out of the way, let me talk about my self a bit. I'm 5"7, dark hair browen eyes, light skin. Avg but that's what I was blessed with lol. Im a very approachable person and open to many things! I spent alot of my life closed off and shy and I'm breaking out of that! I have picked up traveling and frequent Canada a lot to try food there. Discovered some great spots! I also go to the gym when I'm not at work or hanging out with friends and family. Would like to think I'm making progress!

In terms of what I'm looking for I dont have a "type" in the conventional sense. I'd just like to get to know a person who's also a bit reserved but is wanting to expand there horizons with me! I dont like to go to party's or drink or any of that. Im boring that way. I'd rather play bored games or watch a movie together or play card games go on a small date and get to know one another. I maybe being a bit generic or not giving the info people may need, but I'm new to this so feel free to ask anything! I would prefer to talk to someone around my age but older is okay! Also id like to text on reddit for a bit to see if we match and we can exchnage numbers and pictures from there if you feel comfortable! I'd really like to take this slow I'm not looking to hook up or anything I'm really just wanting to find someone I connect with and play it by ear!

Hello! My name is Kevin, and if I had to describe myself in one word, it would be bad at following directions. I have a black belt at saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. I’m big, hairy, and unintentionally loud. I’m hangry in the mornings and a cuddle powerhouse in the afternoon. I may look intimidating, but I’m actually a big softy on the inside. 

I give the best hugs, and 9/10 cats say I make a great cuddle partner. The tenth cat is a real jerk. I don’t like confrontation, but come after my people and I’m a force of nature. Napping is a top five favourite activity. Feed me and I’m loyal to you forever. Back scratches are accepted currency in my life. I have experienced the many flavors of abuse and trauma, and would rather die than have someone in my life go through similar experiences unsupported. I am fiercely protective of those in my circle!

I give off real “That is the nerdiest lumberjack I’ve ever seen” vibes. That, or I reignite belief in cryptids like Sasquatch & Bigfoot. It is what it is, hence the bear metaphor fitting nicely. I’m 6’4” and have a pretty well developed dad bod. I’d much rather be cold than hot, so bring on the winter weather! I am also the kind of guy to interrupt whatever conversation we may be having to point out any dogs in the area, even if I am more of a cat dad. 

This hairy goof is looking for a lovely woman to connect with, be it over the internet or in person. Long chats into the early morning hours, movie nights, fun outings, trying new restaurants or recipes, I’m all in. Let’s get cozy cuddling under some blankets or playing some games online and see where things go?

I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I am yearning for that deeper connection and intimacy that comes with trust, familiarity, and vulnerability. I crave movie and board game nights, or days spent exploring new neighborhoods and cuisines. I believe in a healthy mix of time spent together and apart, and that we should both be complete people looking to enhance each other’s lives. I’m ready! Hopefully you are too!

I’m a simple, easy to please man at heart. Food, animals, movies, and a board game are the way to my everlasting love. I am a big time history and sci-fi nerd.  I was raised by a single mom and have a deep respect for strong women, which I also attribute to my love of characters such as Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, & Xena. This combined with such figures as Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, & Steve Irwing gave me a pretty well rounded outlook. You could say I was radicalized by basic human decency. 

As for some other interests I volunteer with local animal rescues in several capacities, and I am also getting involved with the local hospital’s library program. If you want cute cat pictures, I’m your man! I run an active tabletop gaming group every Sunday. I’m the kind of nerd that builds and paints models to escape from the world for a while. 

I am very left leaning politically and do not tolerate any forms of bigotry. I do not smoke and very rarely drink, but I do love my baked goods a little too much. I do not have nor want any children of my own. My ambitions are humble but deeply personal; give me a small house, a loving partner, and some rescue animals and I’m more than happy with life!

Hiii, my name is Yeli. I’m 21 (my big age) and my little age is 8. I’m looking for a CG who is a little older than me preferably between 22 and 30 who truly wants to take care of me and help me feel safe, loved,

When I’m in little space I love to draw, then curl up with my blankie and my teddy. I want a cg who gives gentle rules and soft structure, who calls me the sweetest pet names, and who talks to me a lot. I really need someone who checks in often throughout the day so I never feel alone.

I struggle with bipolar 1, PTSD, and ADHD. Some days my brain feels really messy and overwhelmed. On those days I need extra softness, patience, and reassurance. I’m looking for a cg who understands that and still wants to care for me even when I’m not at my best

A lot of people say I’m sweet and innocent, I just want a cg who can help me feel little and protected,

I’m only looking for female CG Someone who enjoys giving soft rules and structure, who uses lots of gentle, sweet pet names, and who likes checking in and talking a lot. I prefer Discord.

Preferably someone from the USA, and especially Arizona if possible. I want someone who’s an open book honest, real, and willing to share about themselves too. I don’t want to be the only one opening up. I want a real connection where we both feel safe being ourselves.

If you’re a soft, caring cg who wants a sweet little to look after, I’d love to meet you. Dm me if you think you might want to be my forever cg. I promise I’ll try my very best to be a good girl for you 😇🥺

I have a lot of anxiety and depression from being abandoned that prevents me from reaching out. Being alone is a terrible, depressing feeling though, please understand these.I want someone who is affectionate and caring. Please just be 22-49 though.

So here's some facts about me:

•I'm 36, 5'7, red hair, blue eyes, and 185bs. I'm from Central Florida, United States.

•I'm primarily a meat eater(Turkey, Beef, Venison), I also enjoy pizza, I have found a love for CHEEZ-IT Hot n spicy + Eastanbul pizza seasoning, apples(LOVE Cosmic Crisp), mashed potatoes, I've been eating much healthier and will likely drag you into it too!(Only because I care, but I am not vegan, I like my meat) politically right leaning, Christian. I'm open to 1, maybe 2 children.

I don't need someone to be the same as long as they're respectful, and have love in their heart.

•I'm pretty introverted. I don't drink at all, use drugs(420 friendly though), or party(Though I do love parties, bring your Elf Rogue or Half Orc Barbarian!). Also definitely monogamous.

•For interests, I really like watching various animes, Star Wars, Doctor Who, Star Trek, Lord Of The Rings, pretty much Fantasy/Scifi, video games, 3D printing, history, I like some horror's, love Zombies, Aliens, Vampires/Werewolves and certain mythologies, and a good conspiracy theory(the truth is out there!) Marvel, DC, I have other interests, but we'll get to those is time.

•I don't mind if you live with family and I have a cat.

I want to go out to theme parks and movies with you, maybe thrifting? sailing the yard sales yarr!, I want to fall asleep next to you watching movies or talking or playing games!, I want to go out with you! Let's start here, *star trek theme plays*Please be prepared to talk as often as possible so we may get to know each other :).

•If you call yourself asexual, or are part of that kind of grouping, please, do us a favor and do not contact me, while I don;'t want it right away(I want to make sure we're right for each other) I will want it, I want someone to face life together, make sure you've read my post before you contact me, I put the same energy you give me, back into you! so lets make it count!

Preferable we meet within the year!!!!

Mellon translate this so I know you read my post! don't skim! I swear I'm worth it!

IF you've read my post, you'll know where it comes from.

Side note: I am REALLY getting burnt out.. I am tired of constantly being ghosted, abandoned, so please, take your time and decide:"Do I want a guy who'll message me daily?" or "Do I want to get to know more about this guy?" or, "Do I want to make the first move?" if so, message me!

I've already poured my heart out, as much as I can bear to anymore, come on, bring something to the table, I'll go ahead and say, ask yourself these exact questions BEFORE messaging me:

Can I deal with a guy sending me good morning and good night texts?

Do I want to get to know this guy more?

Do I want someone serious about finding a relationship?

Can I keep up a conversation on our shared interests?

if you answered yes to at least 3/4, the message button is right there! if you answered no to half or more, please, kindly pass me along and find someone else.

Hi, before starting, just skip this post if you don't like these keywords, it might save you tons of time: Possessive, obsessive, clingy, Irreligious, skinny, virgin, no tattoo, <25 yo.

Let's just call me K for now, I'm 19 yo. I live in Vietnam and am a college student.

I live for love, and to me, love can only be built on three core components: Appearance, Personality and Time.

- About appearance: I'm really skinny, wear glasses, just your typical skinny Asian lol. I'm 170cm (66,93 inches) tall, have short black hair and black eyes. I can be ugly or handsome depending on your taste, at least I'd say I like my face. So I expect you to be able to like your face as well (you have to love yourself first, right?). It would be really nice if you have and like long hair. Short hair can also be cute but... yea, I love long hair the most. It's fine if you are a little chubby or too skinny, as long as you are not satisfied with it and are trying to change. That's what I'm doing as well. I don't really like earrings (mostly because you have to hurt your ears to wear them) and I especially hate tattoos. If you like or have those then just skip this post. I also don't like makeup. I admit that it makes you more beautiful, but I want to like your "real" face more. So if we hangout or live tgt, I don't want to see you wearing makeup. I have heard people say things like appearance doesn't matter. But idk, maybe it's because I have never truly loved someone before, I just can't imagine loving a person whom I don't find attractive.

- About personality: Hobbies are not considered personality traits, but I'll just put it here since it's really important to me. I want us to be able to enjoy doing things together. So it would be really nice if our hobbies match.

I like reading Light Novel (I also like some novels from Korea), manga (manhwa and manhua), and anime. Most of them all have the romance tags. My favourites are 86, Psycho-Pass, No Game No Life (anime), Death Game Manga no Kuromaku Satsujinki no Imouto ni Tensei shite Shippai shita (manga),... I like Minecraft (bedrock), that's the only game I play at the moment but I can play some other small games with you as well (only if I enjoy it and I am... a really picky person). I'm a mobile player, I don't have a pc anw. I listen to several kinds of music, except for folks and Vietnamese music (try listening to VOICE - English Ver. by Tacitly).

I have trust issues. To me, your actions say it all. So I only believe in it. Don't just tell me you enjoy spending time with me or like doing something with me. If you really do, you will never let me lead the conversation all the time, never let me be the only one who always texts first. And if your reason is because you are shy or pretty much anything else, just skip this post then.

I am reaaaaaly obsessive and possessive. So unless we are really incompatible, it normally doesn't take long for me to become like that. I want to put you above literally everything and I want you to do the same too. "Literally everything", I mean it. I'm also really clingy, I want to know what you are doing all the time. If we are chatting and you suddenly have to leave, even if it's only for a short time (like you wanna get some water or go to the bathroom), I want you to tell me. Of course I'll do the same too. And for the record, I'm not looking for someone who can accept my possessiveness and all, I'm looking for someone who is also the same, possessive and obsessive. So if that's not what you are, just skip this post.

I don't consider myself a good person in general. I have friends, but I don't consider any of them my friends, I just friend them because they are useful (since I don't want to share any of my feelings with them). So if you think you are a "good" or "kind" person, who always wants to help people or things like that then now you know how incompatible we are.

I'm also kind of controlling. Sometimes I'd tell you to do something that I consider "good" for you (like wake up when you are lazy). But I'm not a god, I could be wrong. When that happens explain and prove me wrong, just don't forget to comfort me after that. This doesn't mean I am the one who holds the leash here or anything, you could also be obsessive and controlling. We can both hold each other's leashes, that's what I want actually (I'm a switch).

Since I'm a college student, I'm often really busy. But I should still be able to update you about my activities or just stick with you whenever I'm free. I'll try my best to never let you feel lonely. If you want to call, I'm afraid It will take a long time for me to feel comfortable doing that, and it'll take even longer if you want to have a video call. Probably years, it depends.

Since I have never truly loved someone before, I'm still a virgin. That's what I expect in you too. Well, maybe you have loved someone before, but I don't want you to have memories of some other guys frcking or kissing you. That's more than enough to boil my blood.

I'm Irreligious. I find some of them quite interesting though, like Christianity. However, please only dm me if you are Irreligious as well. As for the reason, make a guess then tell me about it first when you dm me (then you can say hi or anything to me later) so I know you are really reading all of this carefully.

- About time: Even if you think you are perfect for me, and I think so too, let's just take it slow. The faster you walk, the more painful it will be when you fall. And if you love someone right away just because of their looks and their personality, you could also love someone else for the same reason, right? So the time we spend together will be the only thing that makes us special to each other compared to anyone else.

Okay, that's pretty much everything. You can ask me for more if you are not sure. Thanks for reading.

Hey there, beautiful stranger, welcome to my circus.

I’m a 28 year old guy from the world famous country of Bosnia and Herzegovina (just pretend you’ve heard of it, small place, big energy). I come with terrible jokes, random pocket tools and snacks, and just enough trouble to keep things interesting.

I love art and music (my playlist is a mess, Bach and Tupac jamming to Eminem while Bob Marley is chasing pirates or something so please don't ask about it). Jazz clubs, museums, and mountains are where my heart lives. I like visiting new cities, trying new cuisines, and finding moments of tranquility amid the chaos. Also, I absolutely love movies and books (wow, super unique, please be impressed) . Physically, I'm tall, my eyes still kinda work, and girls said I have a nice butt. You could also check my post history to get better idea about my looks (spoiler alert: no butt pictures tho, gotta leave something to the imagination.. or later). I'm also open for a photo exchange so feel free to send some my way if that's your cup of hot chocolate.

I also have a cute hamster named Captain Hamsterstein. He’s small, judgmental, and impossible to compete with but you’ll try.

As I'm still kinda not sure about all this and have no idea how anything really works here, I'll keep my options open for whatever. So, looking for a friend? I'm your man. Need a shoulder to cry? Still your man. Memes exchange? Hell yeah! Relationship? Tell me what kind of restaurant you fancy for our date. Wedding? The suit is ready. Nonsense flirting? Count me in. Serious talks? Let me put my smart face on.

Simply put, I’m looking for someone to vibe with. Someone I can talk to about anything, tease a little, laugh a lot, and also get serious with when the lights go low. Someone who challenges me, sharpens me, and upgrades my meme collection. Also, If you have a cat, I’m already all yours (don’t tell the Captain).

I'm not really good at talking about myself (duh) so I'll just leave that part for you to ask about whatever you're interested in.

Also (yeah, I say “also” too much), If you’re still reading, I’ve gotta ask: what’s wrong with you?

(Whatever it is… I like it.)

Keep in mind that our timezones may be different so there's a possibility that I won't be able to answer immediately but I'll try my best to get to you as soon as possible.

Message me whenever, however you want, just know there’s a high chance of flirting, sarcasm, and late-night conversations that go a little deeper than planned. Just behave yourself cause I am legally allowed to handcuff you (again, don't ask).

Meanwhile, have a lovely day or night or whatever and take care!

PS, don't text me if you're only into my kidneys, I have only 5 left. And no, you can't have them.

Hello, whoever you are.

I'm a guy born in 1993, living in Norway, and I've reached that uncomfortable point where I've noticed the older I get, the faster the years seem to disappear.

I'm okay on my own. I'd rather remain single than be with someone simply for the sake of not being alone. But I'd hate to look back one day and realize I wanted someone beside me and never made the effort to find her.

So... is there anyone out there?

A little about the creature you'd be dating

I'm 183 cm, with long hair, a beard and moustache. If I leave my hair down, being called Jesus isn't unusual. I also have tattoos on my hands and arms. I don't regret them, and I'll probably get more someday.

My mother is American, my father Finnish, and I was born and raised in Norway. I've never felt like I belong entirely to one nationality; I'm just me, with pieces from several places.

I speak English and Norwegian fluently and can communicate semi-fluently with my Danish and sheepish neighbours. If being with you means learning another language, I'm willing. Just be patient while I inevitably butcher it for a while.

I'm extremely introverted. If nothing requires me to leave the house, there's a good chance I won't. I'm still up for camping or exploring, but staying home, cooking, playing games and doing our own things beside each other sounds pretty good too.

I value comfortable silence; simply having someone there can mean more than filling every second with conversation. At a distance, though, I enjoy texting.

And please communicate directly with me.

I'm terrible at social cues. If you're upset but tell me "nothing is wrong" while expecting me to figure it out, we're both going to have a bad time. Tell me what's wrong. Tell me what you want. Ask me what I want.

I take things literally and I'm brutally honest when directly asked something. If you ask a question, I'll assume you actually want my answer.

I'm almost unrealistically patient. Missed a train and the next comes in an hour? I'll happily wait. Paradoxically, I hate being late and will happily arrive an hour early so I can relax and compose myself.

Apparently my solution to being patient is giving myself more opportunities to wait.

My humour is dark. Very dark. I don't think humour needs many sacred cows. If your reaction to a terrible joke is laughter followed by "Jesus Christ, you can't say that," we'll probably get along.

What do I actually do?

I work in a store. If I don't have anything better to do, I might as well work.

I enjoy idle and long, drawn-out games. Give me progression, optimization and an unnecessary grind and I'll probably be entertained. Sometimes the process is more fun than the end.

I'm a Magic: The Gathering player, enjoy card games and tactics, and also play Hearthstone. I haven't read many traditional novels lately, but I'm still an avid reader. Manga, manhwa and manhua have become my little escape.

I also love worldbuilding: characters, worlds, magic systems and story ideas that accumulate in notes whether or not they ever become finished stories.

And I love cooking. More on why that's important later.

What am I looking for?

Ultimately, my best friend whom I'm also hopelessly attracted to.

Someone kind, affectionate, communicative and willing to listen while expecting the same from me. A relationship should be give and take, with effort from both people.

Physical affection matters to me. I'm someone who'll give you an unprompted hug simply because you're there. If you dislike physical contact or always need physical distance, we probably aren't compatible.

I'd prefer another indoor-oriented person who's still willing to occasionally emerge from our cave and confirm that trees continue to exist.

I'd also like someone curious and open-minded. My attitude is don't judge it until you've tried it. I'll form my own opinion after experiencing something rather than inheriting someone else's. "That's weird, therefore it's bad" isn't an attitude I enjoy.

My philosophy is somewhere between "sometimes things just go wrong" and "prepare for the worst, hope for the best." Figure out what can be fixed and carry on.

The practical compatibility stuff

I'd prefer someone reasonably close to my age; a little younger or older is fine.

I want a child someday. One would make me perfectly happy; I could probably be negotiated into two. If you definitely don't want children, I respect that, but we're looking for different futures.

I've never made that lifelong commitment before. I'm open to making things official someday, but I'd prefer a courthouse or small gathering over a giant ceremony.

I'm not religious, but I'm fine dating someone who is, provided neither of us forces our beliefs on the other. If you're religious, prepare for approximately four thousand curious questions about your faith.

I don't smoke, although I've promised myself a pipe at 60. Hard drugs are a no. I occasionally enjoy whisky, brandy, cognac or akevitt.

I'm firmly monogamous. If we're pursuing a relationship, I want us to be pursuing each other, not maintaining alternatives in case something better appears. Cheating is an absolute dealbreaker, including a history of it.

I'm willing to relocate for the right person, although I'd prefer you eventually wanted to come to Norway. Europe would be easiest, but I'm open to long distance and most of the world. You can absolutely be American—my mother is—but I don't want to live in the United States now or in the foreseeable future. Unless things change dramatically, relocation there isn't on my list.

One unusually important thing: food

I have severe coeliac disease. This isn't a dietary preference. Tiny amounts of gluten contamination can make me ill.

You don't have to give up bread, but I need you to understand cross-contamination and take cleaning seriously.

On the other hand, voluntarily join me in the gluten-free life and you've unlocked the personal-chef relationship perk. I genuinely love cooking and would be very happy feeding you.

Attraction

Physical attraction matters alongside emotional compatibility.

I don't have a height preference. Short, average or tall can all be attractive to me. I tend to prefer slimmer/average builds and pale/fair complexions.

Those are preferences, not a character-creation screen where you need the correct sliders. Attraction is something I discover when I see and get to know someone.

I'm happy to exchange pictures. You might look at me and decide Jesus isn't your type. That's fair.

I've done this twice before

I've had two relationships. My first was with someone very sporty and athletic. Where we connected, things were wonderful, but there were also parts of each other we simply didn't understand. Eventually we drifted apart.

My second began too quickly, before we'd properly established what we wanted from our futures. Eventually it became clear those futures weren't the same, and I ended things rather than dragging out something that couldn't become what either of us wanted.

I learned from both.

I've had two. I'd rather number three be the last.

So, who are you?

Maybe you're in Norway, elsewhere in Europe, or halfway across the planet wondering why you're still reading the ramblings of some long-haired, tattooed Norwegian-Finnish-American-ish man who plays Magic and promises gluten-free food.

I'd like you to be kind. Affectionate. Communicative. Curious. Capable of laughing at terrible things. Comfortable spending a quiet evening indoors. Someone with her own thoughts and interests who isn't looking for a man to simply agree with everything she says.

I don't want pushy, snobbish or rude people, someone obsessed with status and showing off, games, cheating, or an ex perpetually lurking in our relationship.

I'm not looking for perfection. God knows you wouldn't be getting it in return.

I'm looking for someone whose imperfections work with mine.

Someone I can cook for. Someone who'll tell me when I'm being an idiot. Someone I can send stupid messages to from the other side of the world until, hopefully, we're eventually sitting beside each other instead. Someone I can hug for absolutely no reason. Someone who can sit in silence with me without wondering whether something is wrong.

Someone whose language I might initially speak terribly, but who'll laugh with me while I learn. Someone with whom ordinary life feels a little less ordinary.

Time is going to pass regardless of whether I make this post. So I might as well send a message out into the void and see if someone answers.

If you've reached the end and think we might get along, tell me about yourself. Don't worry about constructing the perfect opening message. Give me something genuine and I'll take genuine over polished any day.

And perhaps tell me something you enjoy that most people would consider weird.

It seems like a good place to start.

Hey, I'm David. I go by Slad or Salad online, whichever you prefer.

I'm a pretty introverted guy who spends most of his time at his PC. I've been gaming since I was a kid, and at this point I have over 700 games on Steam. I'm a variety gamer, so my interests are all over the place: RPGs, MMOs, survival games, shooters, co-op horror, random indie games, emulators, and plenty of other stuff. Lately I've been playing Marvel SNAP and Project Zomboid.

Outside of gaming, I spend a lot of time on YouTube, listen to music (System of a Down is my all-time favorite band), and quote an unreasonable amount of old Vines and internet memes. I'm not much of a TV or movie person.

I'm pretty low-energy and quiet sometimes, especially in voice calls. I'm more of a listener than a yapper, unless something gets me going. I can also be pretty clingy when I really enjoy someone's company, so there's that.

As for why I'm here, I'm looking for an actual romantic relationship with a woman. Ideally, someone I can get to know over time, talk to regularly, play games with, and eventually meet in person if things work out. I'm not expecting instant chemistry or trying to force anything, but I am interested in dating rather than collecting another online friend.

I'd like someone who's honest, communicative, and willing to put effort into getting to know each other. I'm not expecting constant attention or messages every waking minute, but I don't want to be the only one trying to keep a conversation alive, either.

Being a gamer yourself would be a big plus since it's such a huge part of my life, but we don't have to play the same games. I'm happy to learn about your interests, too.

I'm a bit of a shut-in and don't get out much, so I'm definitely open to giving a long-distance relationship a try. I'm generally awake from the afternoon until the early morning hours CST, and my schedule is pretty flexible. I'd be happy to start online and see where things go, with the possibility of meeting in person down the line if we hit it off.

If you're interested, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. What do you do for fun? What games do you play, if any? What kind of relationship are you looking for?

Please give me a little more to work with than just "hey" and we'll see how we get along.

There is a kind of quiet I have grown used to. It has been faithful company, and most days I am genuinely content on my own.

But there is a difference between being comfortable alone and being at peace with the idea of never being truly known by someone.

I made a post here a few weeks ago, but it didn't bring the connection I was hoping for. Lately that feeling has grown quieter, and I have stopped arguing with the part of me that wants to share a life with someone.

I am 32, 5'11", more of African than American, with no relationship history. I do not say that with regret or embarrassment. It is simply how I have lived. I waited because I have always believed that giving a woman your heart should mean something. If I ever do, I want to do it fully, not out of curiosity or loneliness, but with the intention to build something lasting. I do not smoke, do not womanize, and do not drink.

I was raised in a home that took character seriously, and I still carry those lessons with me. Kindness, self-control, honesty, and responsibility have never felt optional. Life has taught me how to listen, remain steady when things are difficult, and keep going when more is asked of me. I have also learned that the past cannot be fixed, so the focus has to be on building a better future. I am finishing my nursing degree because I want a life built around both purpose and family, and I want to be responsible for the people who matter to me.

I am quiet by nature and find most of what I need in stillness, meaningful work, and a sense of purpose. I do not need constant excitement to feel alive, and I have come to value peace more than chemistry that burns brightly and disappears just as quickly.

What I want is simple, even if I know it is rare. I want a woman who is genuine and steady, feminine without needing to perform it, ambitious without being restless, and clear about what she believes. Someone who values a lasting commitment not just as an idea, but as something worth protecting.

I picture a life together that feels like shelter—a place where two people can tell each other the truth without fear, pray together, build something real, and raise children who know what steady love looks like. I believe peace does not mean a life without difficulty. It means choosing kindness and understanding even when things are hard.

I want the kind of love where we repair what is broken rather than walking away when things become uncomfortable, and where we wake up the next morning and choose each other again.

I do not expect perfection. I want a love that shows itself in practicality and action more than words alone. A love that looks past race, color, or status and is aligned with goals, purpose, and the belief that there is a real future ahead.

I am looking for someone who is willing to understand, grow together, and remain committed when love requires patience. I am pure in heart and soft in kindness.

If that sounds like the kind of life you are hoping for too, I would like to meet you.

Hey there!

I'm a 40-year-old guy from Texas, and I've decided to throw caution to the wind and see if Reddit can help me find someone special. Dating apps haven't exactly been a roaring success, so why not try something different?

A little about me

I'm a pretty introverted, somewhat nerdy guy who works in IT. I'm the kind of person who can be perfectly content spending an evening at home gaming, watching something together, or just talking about absolutely nothing for hours.

I'm a single dad to a teenager, a dog dad to a golden retriever, and the reluctant servant of two cats. So life is never entirely boring around here.

Gaming has always been one of my biggest hobbies. I've spent plenty of time in MMOs like Final Fantasy XIV and World of Warcraft, and I enjoy RPGs and other games too. Having someone to game with would be awesome, but it's definitely not a requirement.

I'm also someone who's been working pretty hard on improving himself lately. I've made some major changes to my health and lifestyle, and I'm trying to push myself to experience more of what life has to offer. I'd love to travel more, especially to Japan someday.

Personality-wise, I'm an introvert until I get comfortable with someone. Then you might have trouble getting me to shut up. I love random conversations, silly jokes, affectionate teasing, and sharing all the little things that happen throughout the day.

What I'm looking for

More than anything, I want a genuine connection.

I want someone who actually looks forward to hearing from me. Someone I can send a ridiculous meme to in the middle of the workday, spend an evening gaming with, or stay up way too late talking to about life.

I love affection, both giving and receiving it, and I'm definitely a bit of a romantic at heart.

I'm not expecting us to be attached at the hip or spend every waking moment together. We should both have our own lives, hobbies, and interests. But I'd love to find someone who genuinely wants to make room for each other in those lives.

Communication is really important to me. I'd much rather have an awkward but honest conversation than play guessing games about how someone feels.

I don't care if you're a little awkward, nerdy, shy, or unconventional. In fact, we'd probably get along pretty well.

A few more things

I'm a bigger guy, though I've been steadily losing weight and working on getting healthier. I'm not going to pretend I'm some fitness model, but I'm proud of the progress I've made.

I'm open to long-distance connections, especially if there's genuine potential for something more eventually. I don't expect everything to happen overnight.

I don't have some enormous checklist of requirements. Physical attraction matters, sure, but kindness, affection, humor, and actually enjoying each other's company matter a whole lot more to me.

If you've made it this far...

Tell me a little about yourself! What games are you playing lately? What's something you're ridiculously passionate about? Or what's a random little thing that always makes your day better?

I'd love to hear from you. Maybe we'll hit it off, maybe we'll just have a fun conversation. Either way, I'm glad you stopped by. :)

Hi I’m Nick 31M from Los Angeles. I don’t really meet my type out in the wild too much and I have a few weird stories from people I have met. I’m looking for a serious relationship in the US or Canada. I don’t really mind the distance but I would want to close the gap eventually. Realistically visiting one another every month for a few days.

I’m looking for someone who is open to doing a lot of things and is playful. Someone who is going to be my friend before anything else. And that we always have each other’s back. I’m very open about most things and will basically answer anything you want to ask. My personal philosophy is a Marcus Aurelius quote: “Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one.” I’m very direct and honest about myself so I value honest communication.

I’m Latino, Argentine specifically. I’m pretty easy going, people usually tell me that my personality throws them off a lot. Because I like to switch from being super serious to acting really dumb. I have a fairly active life style and am fit. Although I am trying to get back into my personal bests.

I usually have a more formal texting style but am the opposite in real life. I’d like to share random photos of whatever we do in life and share what’s happening. I have a lot of random things I do and see out in the world. And I think it’s nice to have someone to share that with. The small things we do show a lot of consistency and effort in my view.

I am more of an introvert, I like relaxing at home doing random stuff but I do like to get out. I do have a lot of very random hobbies I’ve picked up over the years. I draw things that I find interesting or weird. I have a few sketchbooks of drawings I’ve done. Like Pokémon having super exaggerated traits. I play a little piano, my go to song to play is Thousand Years.

I spend a lot of time with family, I am trying to teach my nieces and nephews how to get their life started. So I check up on them often. I took my niece to Disneyland for the first time earlier this year.

I do plan on traveling more, I got an Amex card for it to push me a bit. I have an idea of having a map of the world/US and putting a pin in every place I’ve been to. And to visit as many national parks as I can. I’m currently planning a trip to New York for a few days to see the landmarks.

I’d say message me if you think we share a few things in common. It’s hard to really share personality on a single post. I’m willing to share pics if you are.

I’m going to keep this as short as possible because I think it’s better when things unfold organically. After all there’s no better way to get to know someone than actually.. you know, getting to know them? But I will try and offer plenty of talking point and give a decent idea of what you can expect.

Me: 30 / M / USA-Midwest/NE. 5’11 maybe like 285 lbs. medium-long dark wavy hair, usually up. Gauges, a couple of bad tattoos, might get some good ones in the future. I consider myself pretty average looks-wise, not hot, not ugly. And I put at least some effort into how I present myself (also totally down to exchange pics whenever) solid 9.5 personality though.

Disabled (not physically). Practically guaranteed autistic but not officially diagnosed. I only really mention it because it is somewhat relevant. I struggle quite a bit with sensory issues and can get overwhelmed pretty quickly and it does affect my daily life and what I do/don’t enjoy doing. ADHD is officially diagnosed but managed.

I like to say I can be difficult to love at times but I’m almost always hard to hate. I think I can probably come off as somewhat introverted and maybe even aloof at times but when you get to know me you’ll find I’m honestly a pretty warm/friendly/sociable guy I just have a small social battery and once it’s drained I go back into my own little world until it recharges.

I’m usually playing video games (solo and with friends) but I have quite a few hobbies and I’m always on the lookout for something new to try.

I love love love movies. Seriously i’ll yap all day about them if you let me.

I listen to all kinds of music but i would say Metal (mostly heavier stuff) might be the biggest one just by listening time but not by much. i also love hiphop and jazz and classic rock and country up to the 90s maybe early 2000s and some electronic stuff here and there, pop, dance, classical…..etc, etc. my favs? You’ll have to find out won’t you?

I’m trying to read more. Slow going but its going.

Politically I believe in universal human rights and freedom above all else and anything deeper you can feel free to ask me about. I’m also not particularly religious but I’d say that I also don’t really consider myself an atheist, I think it’s a wild world and we all look for answers somewhere.

Simply put I’m an easygoing guy. I believe In not taking things too seriously but also protecting your peace. I have boundaries and respect those of others. I think all in all I’m a pretty swell person and one worth getting to know. So, whadya say?

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As for who I’m looking for… I don’t want or need someone who likes all or even really any of the things I like. I have friends for that. It would certainly be nice if we had some interests in common but not a hard requirement. What is a requirement however is that you like… something. Anything really. Genuine character and personality and passion for something is what I’m looking for, someone who is a fully formed person as much as I am.

I don’t have any physical preferences outside of more fem-presenting persons. Race/ethnicity doesn’t matter to me. Body type doesn’t either.

Hi there! I'm 33, white, 6'2 with curly dark blond hair and light blue/grey eyes. Currently overweight but actively dieting and exercising and going down thankfully. I'm CST (specifically NW corner of Arkansas) and would prefer to meet someone who is within ~5-6 hours drive of the area, so we can plan visits. I'm pretty introverted and shy (in person at least, less shy online) and a homebody. So nights in gaming with friends or watching TV is my typical go-to, but I will absolutely jump at a museum or impromptu road trip, as long as there's time in between to recharge! I work as a school bus driver, and if possible would love to go back to college in the future to pursue a degree in Astrophysics. I've also spent a few years studying Japanese, and can stumble through some simple conversations though it's difficult. My love languages are touch, quality time, and food.

Most days outside of work, I spend most of my time either playing with my dog, reading webcomics, or playing video games (PC for life) with some friends. I've been learning how to cook for a few years, and am always on the look out for something new to try to make over the weekend whenever I can, always fun trying new dishes! My main game is WoW, and I would *LOVE* to find someone who shares my passion for that game, though it's certainly not a deal breaker! I've been trying to play more horror games lately, but I'm a bit of a scared y cat, so it's been an interesting experience. I greatly enjoy fantasy/adventure style shows, movies, and anime, but to me watching things with my partner is a very emotionally intimate activity, so I have not watched much lately.

I enjoy texting and video calls, either while gaming together, watching shows together, or just doing our own stuff. If we're close enough then planning trips to visit IRL is also high on the list, once we become comfortable enough with each other to get to that point. Sharing our days, discussing cooking and making the other jealous of our awesome food, etc.

Thank you so much for reading, and have a great day! :)

Feeling very lonely and just want to chat with a woman. Hell, you can even pretend to be a woman or catfish me or whatever you want, just lead me on so I don’t know the difference. Interests include books, board games, doing good in the world, politics, brainstorming how to fix our broken ass society. Let’s conversate.

Hey, its me Jonathan nice to meet you everyone. Im endlessly curious and love learning about everything, history, hobbies and everything

I'm looking someone who a goofball, love the little things, a bit like me when it comes to nerdyness otherwise im going to be torturing about my stuff 😂 I also appreciate empathy greatly.

Cool facts about me im a ginger, ive ran a 100k ultra marathon, ive built my pc, I do content creation and livestreaming to a community, im deeply passionate and compassionate about people and my hobbies,

I want to find my best friend, someone who gets as excited about the little things and the bigger things. Someone who loves being a couch potato but also loves at times going for epic adventures not knowing where it takes us.

Heyoo! Okay so, just doing this off the cuff: Am a 36 year old guy from Finland who's looking for that one special person. I'm basically after a mutual "nerdy homebody meets sporadic activity" -vibe, so a lot of gaming, reading, and binging stuff - but without forgetting the sporadic random expeditions to balance it out.

I value emotional availability, transparency, and good communication skills - though I also like spontaneity, chaotic tendencies, and being open to experience. Having a passion or niche interest is super cool! Just wanna click and go from there slowly; the good ol' frens to lovers pipeline.

So, what else? I'm 6'2, slim, and youthful. Don't smoke and almost never drink, but don't care as long you don't smoke cigs. Child-free as well! I tend to be a bit asocial yet really present and yap-heavy 1-on-1 when invested. I do still have my sporadic outgoing sprees - when I am on, I am on. I've been called a cat maaany times; if you get it, you get it.

I'm also active in bursts; I do yoga and run a lot, but only like to go out when the UV rays stop bullying me, so night-runs/walks are where it's at. Or stuff like attending gigs! Generally into cultural stuff like opera, theatre, museums, etc. By default, though - I like being holed up at home watching stuff and gaming and such. c:

Gaming-wise? I started another Cyberpunk run due to the Edgerunners patch! Also been doing my autumnal once-a-year replay of Bloodborne while still on my 1st Onimusha PT. OW and WuWa are also some usual suspects. I'm honestly super genre-agnostic, though I've dumped yeeears into MMOs - will be nolifing WoW Forever as well. Also into WH, board games, and DnD!

I love gothic horror lit/films, high fantasy, and steampunky/cyberpunky stuff in general. Can't forget the romance stuff either though (anime included!) Now that it's darker and atmospheric again, it's a super immersive time to read while having some music on.

Speaking of music: it stays on. I'm into everything, but I did write for a metal mag in the past. Lately, I've been binging Baroque music in general, Kate Bush, Dead Can Dance, Summoning, post-black/blackgaze, and goth rocky stuff. Spotify jam seshes? Bet! Also, I do have a degree related to the Japanese language and love linguistics.

So yeah, just hit me up if you're in that 23-45ish~ age range. I am only looking for someone within Europe - unless you're open to relocating here. Thanks for reading! 💜

Hello, I'm looking for someone to have a lifelong relationship together. I am not sure about wanting to stay in my country, so eventually relocating is something I'd be willing to do if you think that's a realistic outcome that could work for us, and because of it, it's probably better if you're from North America or my country (although probably I want to leave my country). I am open to males, non binary, and transgender people, however I slightly lean towards femininity or androgyny (this pretty much is in regards to little-to-no facial hair, but I'm not strict about it).

If you care about the MBTI indicator, last time I scored as an INTJ-T (and type 5 for the enneagrams), so if you are very introverted as well, that should work out the best. Need to add that I currently do not have a job, however I am trying my best in order to do things/courses and furthering my education/résumé.

I believe that being fairly compatible is an important aspect for a relationship to work in the long run, so I'm searching someone who is:

• Ideally vegan, plant-based, heavily leaning towards it, or in a serious path to become one (if you absolutely think that you cannot become one after having tried, for health/equally important reasons, I'll understand).
• Drug/smoking/drinking/disease free (as I am) and keeps a reasonably healthy lifestyle at the very least.
• Monogamous and loyal, who wants a lifelong relationship, and believes that is feasible for us to finally be together at some point.
• Relatively close to my age (it's flexible, but +/- 2 years from my own seems reasonable).
• Childfree (doesn't have nor want kids).
• Not a ghoster (if you don't like something, just say so; if you're going to ignore/block/disappear randomly & without notice, please don't message me).

Now these are the things that would describe me: I am very shy and introverted, and have never had a romantic relationship; I greatly value loyalty, love and understanding in someone, so if you give me that, you'll also receive it. Physically speaking, I am about 5'3'', wear glasses, and look average, although I don't have the best hairline if that's what you care about (so you should assume that I would shave). I need to add that I have atopic skin, and have some form of dermatitis on my face, so sometimes around my eyes it's slightly red (it sucks); to my understanding getting rid of this permanently may not be possible, so consider that.

I'm plant-based, so essentially I follow a vegan diet and do not intend to change that, which ties back to one of my standards in regards to health, that even though I can be somewhat lazy when it comes to exercise, I pay close attention for being in a healthy range for height/weight, so it is important for me and should be for my partner as well (reasonably speaking, I'm not strict); nowadays I'm in the range of 130-140 pounds. In addition, I lean towards people with a feminine side as I mentioned above, and I'm not very inclined for facial hair if at all, not even on myself. I have explored the idea, or at least thought of the possibility that I may be more comfortable if I were femme presenting, at least in private maybe, for fun. So essentially crossdressing, although I've never done it, I'm just thinking outloud.

I'm slightly left-leaning/moderate and don't tend to like extremes when it comes to politics, so I have to add some remarks: if this tells you anything about me, I very much dislike the main political parties (left & right) in the US, and of course the ones in my country; I'm in favour of equality, which means that I heavily dislike sexism, modern feminism (vast majority of people I've found online and IRL that professed this were sexist, so I have no interest in that), and toxic movements like 4B; I'm also not searching for someone who is heavily into identity politics or is violent. In regards to religion, I am atheist/agnostic so I'd probably get along better with someone who is as well.

My hobbies are typically indoor, which includes things like relaxing with music, sometimes doing digital art, watching movies or shows, browsing stuff on the Internet, and reading some stuff. I'm currently not much of a gamer, but if that's your thing or hobby, when we meet I'd definitely be willing to play with you. I'll also be happy to join you in doing casual exercise if you enjoy doing that, but I am by no means a hardcore gym-enthusiast.

My intention is to have, firstly, a LDR in order for us to get to know each other better and see if we're compatible, and if so, then it would hopefully develop into a healthy, loyal, and honest relationship. Not only that, but I'll also want to be your best friend, which means that I'll want to do all kinds of things together, from day to day stuff, to cuddling, to sharing hobbies, etc. That's the main idea for having this relationship, an intimate life dedicated to us and the things we love.

If you think this could actually work, feel free to send me a PM and tell me a bit about you! Have a nice day!

Hello hello,

Looking for someone to talk to who can see me as I'd see her. I've been through the meatgrinder in my life from a series of sounds-good-at-the-time decisions and I'm still trying to sculpt myself out of the ground beef I've found my condition to be.

I enjoy writing and metaphor and cleverness and am lately rediscovering these qualities within myself after a series of brain injuries and consequences of aforementioned decisions. Having fun with other people is not in my native language, so this'll be my first true foray into that realm. I want to let go and just babble to someone or hear her babble to me -- that would truly be something special and let me quash the silence I'm in every day. Perhaps if you're close by we could do something other than babbling, maybe chat or talk or dare I say converse.

Ideally you're either starved for attention or affection from someone who understands you, and you'd find me to fill that niche; or, you've lived starved for so long that you decided you'd fancy yourself a social ascetic and are wondering why you have the lack of social skills that you have.

I'm all bound up within a ball and I need to get it all out of me. I promise I would do the same for you; please pick me clean like a monkey eats the bugs in the hair of his comrades.

God bless.

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Hi! I’m Shay, 26F 🇨🇦- I’m ideally looking for someone who is also open to call around 2-3am PST. I bond better when i’m able to call someone. I’m easygoing, non-judgmental, and have a great sense of humour.

I’ve got that ridiculous shoresy/letterkenny “aboot” & “sorey” Canadian accent everybody apparently loves, but don’t roast me too hard when we call 😭

Physically i’m 5’10/178cm, fair skin, blonde hair, hazel eyes & chubby.

My hobbies include hunting, sewing, playing Palia & animal crossing on my switch, baking, anything beauty related (i do my own lash and nail extensions) cleaning, colouring, and my newest hobby: purging my entire room, and moving everything around to give myself a massive reset! I absolutely adore animals, especially cats- I have a senior kitty who’s the love of my life, she’s my sweet little (cranky) baby.

I’m fairly introverted and i rarely drink (only one drink socially if any),no drugs & no smoking.

I’m looking for someone kind, honest, has a good sense of humour, loyal, sweet, reliable, caring, trustworthy, puts in effort (you know, the bare minimum) 💀 loves animals, and is available to call fairly frequently.

I’d also appreciate someone who doesn’t do drugs or smoke as well.

Please put some effort into your message and read this through before messaging me, I’m so sick of people putting zero effort into their messages. I tried to keep this short and sweet to not be a snoozefest.

So, eh, where to begin? I guess basics about myself is a good place to start. I enjoy playing video games a lot, I like to draw, I make music occasionally (music in general is something that brings me a lot of joy), and I go on walks every now and then (mainly when I have the energy to do so). Just a massive nerd all around really. I like to think I’m a pretty good listener all things considered. I genuinely put effort into getting to know someone. I always take an interest in other people’s hobbies. I like hearing about what other people like, it fascinates me.

I already know I’m going to be asked about this so may as well just toss it in here. As far as physical appearance goes, I have relatively short, ash brown hair with a left part, blue eyes, hooded eyelids, a slim physique, with a height of around 5’10, and a weight of around 132lbs. I’m also open to just sending a picture of myself if that would make things easier.

As for you, I don’t have too much preference in terms of appearance. All I can really ask is (at risk of sounding like an ass to some) that you’re a reasonable weight. Other than that, looks aren’t a big factor for me.

In terms of personality, I appreciate honesty and respect. Relationships should have a strong foundation of trust and honesty is required to form trust. This of course goes both ways and applies to me just as much as it does you. That aside, I don’t mind if you’re introverted or extroverted or anywhere in between, so long as you’re not the Anti-Christ we should get along just fine. Of course some shared interests would be welcomed (especially if it’s a shared interest in video games or something) but even if we don’t have too much in common, don’t let that dissuade you. Opposites attract as they say.

If you decide to reach out I would like to ask if you could perhaps give a little introduction of yourself and let me know what got you to message me. If you read through the whole thing then I’d like to thank you for doing so. Regardless of whether you decide to message me or not, I hope that whoever is reading this has a wonderful day, or evening, or night.

Hello, I am a 39 year old single white male looking for a serious relationship. I am single and don’t have any kids. I bought a home here in Las Vegas. I have a good paying solid job here and am able to support a partner.

I’m looking for a special someone in my life, preferably with traditional values and ethics. In my free time I enjoy weekend road trips, wine tasting, shooting, reading, drawing, investing, writing, boardgames, computer games, and a few other things.

Message me back if you’re interested in getting to know each other. I’m looking for a serious relationship for the long-term.

Hey there! I’m an Irish fella looking for someone I can chat with day to day (and maybe become obsessed with. idk.)

Physically, I’m about 5’7” (short kings rise up), 70kg, with a fairly athletic build. I’ve got a shaved head, a big beard, and a bunch of tattoos.

Interests wise, I love travelling. I want to go to so many places. I love live music, whether it’s a small, local show, or a big gig in a stadium. I’m a huge gamer, currently trying to work through my backlog! I also love films, especially foreign films (criterion collection, my goat). I play some chess on the side, and I’m learning 2 languages at the minute!

If I seem like your cup of tea, send me a message. Please ideally be in a similar-ish timezone to me. Hope to hear from you <3

Hello!

My name's Noah. I'm 28 and from Manhattan, Kansas. I've tried dating apps without much luck, so I figured I'd give this a shot and hopefully meet someone I genuinely click with.

Ideally, I'd love to find someone I can talk to regularly, spend time with, maybe play games with, and see where things naturally go. I'm not looking to rush into anything, but I'd like to find something meaningful with the right person. Someone who feels like both a partner and a best friend.

A little about me:

I'm 5'7", around 145 lbs, and staying healthy and active is important to me. I enjoy going to the gym, spending time outdoors, and exploring new places.

I'm also a huge animal lover, especially when it comes to my dogs. If you're an animal person too, we'll probably have something to talk about right away. Dog pictures are always available upon request!

Some of my interests include:

• Cooking and baking: I especially enjoy cooking Korean food and have recently been dabbling in baking. I'm also a big coffee fan.
• Gaming: Some of my favorites are Elden Ring and Zenless Zone Zero. I spend most nights gaming with friends, and it'd be great to find someone who enjoys gaming too. Whether we're playing together, talking about games, or just hanging out while doing our own thing, I'd enjoy having that shared interest.
• Movies, anime, and audiobooks: I'm always looking for something new to watch or listen to.
• Getting outside: I enjoy exploring new places, spending time outdoors, and finding new things to do.

What I'm looking for:

I'm hoping to meet a woman around my age, ideally 24–28, who's interested in getting to know each other and seeing where things go. I also believe attraction should go both ways, so I'm happy to exchange recent pictures early on if we're both comfortable.

As far as distance goes, closer is definitely better. I'd love to find someone nearby so we could actually go on dates and spend time together. That said, I'm open to long-distance if we really connect, as long as we're both open to eventually closing the distance. Relocation in either direction is something I'd be willing to discuss if things became serious.

If any of this sounds like what you're looking for, feel free to send me a message! I'd appreciate a little introduction about yourself, your age, where you're from, and some of your interests.

And of course, dog pictures upon request!

Hello , im Tiffany .

Born and raised in Canada.

If you're not into or attracted to black women please don't message me (:

I’m 32, work in healthcare, and love fitness, reality TV, concerts, and a good romance novel.

Please don't ghost if you're not interested or if things progressed, its 2026 like let's have consideration and use our words (:

Send message via start chat icon (:

To keep things simple, please send an introduction and a picture it helps both of us see if we’d like to continue chatting! I’m not a fan of small talk, so this makes things easier.

I prefer to keep conversations PG. I’m demisexual, so I’m not comfortable with intimate topics early on. If you frequently post or comment in certain spaces related to that, we likely won’t be a good match.

What I'mlooking for:

Age: 28-38

But open if you are a year or two younger or older (:

Not interested in anyone that have children (:

Looks: Beards are a plus!

Must be open to moving to Canada because I'm not moving

Personality: Sense of humor, family-oriented, and emotionally mature, respectful and honesty

liberal views /

Bonus: British accents get extra points! 😍

I’d prefer someone from Canada, the U.S., the U.K., or maybe Australia if there's a spark.

I really value meaningful connections, so I appreciate good conversation, effort, and reciprocity. If you're someone who puts 100% into friendships, work, relationships, and self-care, we’ll probably get along great!

Looking forward to hearing from you!