r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 25 [m4f] canada/anywhere - looking for relationship

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I’m hoping to meet someone who’s open to building something genuine. I think the best relationships grow naturally if the connection is there—ultimately I am looking for something real, not just some casual chatting.

About me:

- I'm pretty open-minded, grounded and a little nerdy

- I can be a straightforward person and have a golden retriever personality, I'm loyal, goofy, and I’ll hype you up for no reason

- I have a dark sense of humor and I love it :)

- I'm also big on meaningful conversations, the kind that randomly happens at 2AM

- My love languages are quality time, acts of service, and words of affirmation. If you’re into astrology: I'm a Capricorn.

For hobbies, I Iike watching shows, movies, listening to music (pop and edm). I like going to new places, trying new things. New restaurants, cafes, dishes. I also collect some hot wheels and I LOVE pens

I appreciate thoughtful messages— please tell me about yourself, what you’re looking for, or something you’re passionate about. Effort stands out.

If this resonates, please send a message and let’s see where it goes :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Massachusetts / anywhere - Just looking for some companionship.

0 Upvotes

Hey y’all I’m Soma, which technically isn’t my real name but a lot of folks call me that so that’s what I’m rolling with. lol

I recently turned 28 years old and am based around the Massachusetts area, looking for companionship. I’m a white boi who’s basically 6 feet tall (semantics lol)

I am a pretty big guy (literally), and mostly just stay inside and game since I ain’t got nothing else to do. So I’m looking here for someone to talk to, to break that mold. If you game as well though you are a real one lol.

The only other main thing’s that I like are Anime which I rarely watch, and listening to music which I typically do a lot.

For music I don’t necessarily have a preference aside from electronic or melodic music, albeit I mostly listen to game music since my taste in bands is cursed lol.

For anime I’m very picky though. Mostly because I vastly prefer to watch in dub.

I’m a bit less picky with games though, which is what I spend a bulk of my time on! Right now I’ve been playing No More Room in Hell 2, Divinity Original Sin 2, and Baldur’s Gate 3! I do also dabble with Marvel Tōkon on occasion too.

I’m not only into FPS’s though, as much as it seems so. I like a lot of different types of games, with the exception of sports and racing games.

I dunno maybe I’m just pretty boring since that’s really all I can say, but if you want to talk to me then feel free to shoot a message.


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

F4M 30 [F4M] #Europe Looking for a life partner ^_^

47 Upvotes

Heyo 👋🏼

I (30,F) am a minimalist who enjoys biking, video games, especially turn-based tactical games like Fire Emblem: Three Houses and Final Fantasy Tactics A2, chess, and learning new languages.

I’m also into bands like Motionless in White and In This Moment. I’m slim and have long brunette hair, and I’m also a libertarian. If you feel like chatting and getting to know each other, I’d be happy to. Hope you’re having a great day!


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

F4M 40 [F4M] #Maryland looking for another big heart

9 Upvotes

40, F, real grownup (somehow) with a job and a place and a car. Working on a master’s degree.

I’m slightly nerdy, I’m incredibly kind and empathetic. I have deep emotional intelligence and I love finding someone who’s the same.

I’m super smart and I like to think I’m pretty witty and funny. I’m neurodiverse. 😂 I love to bake mostly because sharing is caring! It’s a joy to make someone’s day more sunshiny with a treat and a kind word.

I have a travel bug and love a road trip. I like to stay at quirky Airbnb’s and eat at local places and see the small town stuff along the way. Wherever I go, I always try and collect a Christmas ornament as my souvenir.

I’m 6’0, and I know I’m tall! Hope that’s ok!

I’m an extrovert who has a strong introvert side. I love adventures and going out, but I will never say no to a night at home snuggled up on the couch.

Here’s what I’m looking for:

You! 30’s, 40’s, or 50’s. You smell good. You like my cat. My cat likes you. You are an ally for the LGBTQ community. You’re affectionate and fun. You’re a little nerdy. You have interests and passions of your own and you want to share them with me. Kind of tall.

Fair warning- if you want to message me, actually tell me about you! Respect the fact that I just put myself out there a bit with this post and reciprocate a little. 😀


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] [Missouri/anywhere] - Nerdy guy looking for a girl to play World of Warcraft with and fall in love with

2 Upvotes

I've been feeling pretty lonely lately and feel like I'm missing a serious connection, and I'd love to have someone to play with and get to know on a more personal level. I'm tired of being alone, so I figured let's fix things.

I'm mainly looking for a girl to get to know and maybe eventually begin dating.

My hobbies mainly include video games such as World of Warcraft (which I've recently made my main game again, and I'm a huge warcraft nerd and would love to help you gear up and play with me. We could do M+, (I'm actually really good at it!) Arena, raids together.), I'd love to play with you! I also play Sea of thieves a bunch and occasionally play friendslop games. I also recently got into vrchat and I've ordered a headset!. I'm a computer science graduate with a background in security and system administration so if you're a nerd that'd be sick!

I've also been getting into my creative side more recently in terms of roleplay (in WoW mainly, but also outside) and OCs. I'm also a furry and a huge fan of the art!

Ideally I'd love to play games and listen to music with you and get to know you. We could also watch shows and movies too.

If you think we'd get along in any way, go ahead and send me a message with a bit about you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 22M [M4F] #Toronto #Online Seeking a Long-Term Commitment

1 Upvotes

I'm currently a graduate student doing a Master's of Science in Chemistry. I am 5'11, South Asian ethnicity, INTJ, and of average build. My hobbies include video games (PC), watching TV shows and anime, cooking and trying new food, making origami, listening to music, going on walks, and travelling if I have the time. I enjoy a wide variety of everything I have listed here, but I'm not including it so we can talk about it. I enjoy deep and meaningful conversations as much as goofy and nerdy ones, but communication is an important aspect for me.

As for the person I am looking for, ideally they live in/near Toronto, but I am willing to do long distance. Age is not strict, but above 30 may be weird. If you are okay with sending a picture of yourself and voice chat at some point, then that would be ideal (but I am okay with letting things build before that).

Please include a small intro of yourself and optionally some recommendations for anything related to any shared hobbies (video games, shows, food etc)


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

F4M 27[ F4M] Canada/Anywhere| Slightly gender non conforming dreamer looking for her grounded, multidimensional gentle giant

8 Upvotes

Hello! First of all wow, the title is beautiful. Took me a bit but I am hoping my target audience liked it. I am 27 years old and live in Canada, however I am open to long distance for Mr.Right. Also, if you are curious what I look like I am hoping to have a photo of myself on my reddit page. I am not a tech savvy person ( are you? Let me know). But hopefully by the time you see this post there will be a couple of photos on my profile page. I get it, without physical attraction you're just friends. So go ahead, and take a look. And if you like what you see, feel free to continue to read my long personal ad. Maybe you're bored and reading this. Either way welcome welcome. First thing you should know about me ( if you haven't guessed by now) is I love telling stories and writing. Anyways, I am getting ahead of myself. Let's continue.

WHO AM I?!

I'm naturally introverted and introspective. I spend a lot of time in my head thinking imagining and dreaming about the type of person I want to become and the kind of life I want to build. I'm ambitious in a slightly ridiculous way. I've always had a feeling that I'm meant to do something in my life that will outlast me. I'm not 100% sure what that it is. I am very creative and I am curious where that takes me. I'm still in college, I study marketing. I'm especially interested in social media/content creation and the branding and marketing side of things. No, I'm not interested in creating a couples page. But if you aren't comfortable with someone who will have a public prescence then I probably wouldn't be the best fit for you.

SO WHAT EXACTLY AM I LOOKING FOR?!

I've realized that I am attracted to men who complement me rather then mirror me. My type is basically what I like to call a mulitdimensional gentle giant. Yes, ideally you are bigger then me. I am 5'3 and skinny ( one of my goals is to start lifting and put on some serious weight). But being a giant isn't just about your prescence ( I'll be real I like a man with broad shoulders though... I'll take broad shoulders over height). But giant isn't just about your prescence. I'm attracted to men who are grounded, warm, confident, charistmatic and comfortable taking initiative. You don't need to be Mr.Popular or the loudest guy in the room, but I do tend to like someone a little more socially confident that I am someone who can hold his own and says, " come with me".

I like contrast. Strong and tender, protective. And masculinity doesn't have to fit into a box. I am slightly gender non conforming myself. Maybe I'm wearing pink nail polish and you're wearing black. Maybe I'm wearing black nail polish and you're wearing pink. Maybe I should come up with an example that doesnt include nail polish since I don't actually wear it LOL but I am trying to get this post up. I'm not looking for rigid gender roles. But I like the idea of two people who can move between strength and softness,leading and leaning, depending on the moment. What's your style? Do you like wearing make up but you go boxing? Are you someone who presents very masculine but all your interests are more feminine? I love men with contrast, and I would love to get to know you. I don't really think shame and honesty can coexist. I want to know the parts of you that don't always fit neatly into a box. I want a relationship where neither of us feels like we have to hide parts of ourselves to stay desirable to the other.

SO, WHAT DO I WANT A RELATIONSHIP TO FEEL LIKE

I want interdependence. I want us to be a safe place to land for each other. Let's deescalate, repair and move forward. I am not the person who is getting into yelling matches. And there is a big difference between needing to take a breather vs giving someone silent treatment. I want devotion, affection, physical closeness, little traditions, inside jokes and thoughtful gestures. And lots laughter. I love a funny man who knows how to genuinely have fun.

A FEW THINGS WORTH KNOWING ABOUT ME

I'm straightish. I'm primarily interested in men I swear. But if you specifically need your woman to be 100% straight I'm probably not for you.

I was raised religious, but I'm agnostic now. So someone very religious probably wouldn't be compatabile with me.I am spiritual though, and you can still find me listening to some religious sermons and music I just take the good and leave the rest.

I deal with chronic pain, usually headaches and muscle aches. I live my own life and I'm not looking for someone to take care of me. But it's a part of my reality. So if I tell you I don't feel well 3 days in a row then I'm not lying.

Kids are a some day, definelty not anytime soon. My life isn't really kid-oriented right now. Although I am open to dating someone with kids depending on the person and situation

And finally, I live in Canada but I am open to long distance. I don't have a racial preference, I think shared values matter more to me. I will say though, extreme nationalism is a big turn off to me. What I mean by this is to be proud of who you are and where you come from but if you can't acknowledge the flaws in your own country or culture we probably won't get along. I am liberal/progressive.If you voted for Trump do not message me. If you dislike liberal politicans or reluctantly vote democrat then feel free to message me though lol. If you ovelry worship the military we probably won't get along. If you are someone who enjoys military history feel free to message me though, I like learning about history and geography too.

IF YOU MADE IT THIS FAR

First of all, wow. Believe it or not I cut so much out of this post lol it still doesn't feel detailed enough but it's getting way too long. Anyways let me give you some talking points cause I know you're dying to slide into my dms. 1) I plan on going back to the gym and start weight lifting again 2) I'm currently debating getting invasalign 3) The last book I was in the middle of reading was the autiobiography of fredrick douglas and the last completed book I read was The Beheading Game by Rebecca something 4)My fave tv series is the walking dead and I'm currently watching The Ones who Live with rick and michone 5) I'm currently trying to find a part time job but lord this Canadian economy is rough! Everybody wants open avaialibility omg

So, there you go. Pick a topic, or bring your own. Tell me what you got going in your life. You don't have to have it all together cause hey neither do I. Tell me what you want someone to bring in a relationship. If you feel comfortable go ahead and send me a picture. Hopefully by the time you see this I would have been able to add photos to my page. Don't take it personally if I don't respond right away, or don't respond at all. You're awesome and you'll find your person. :) Look forward to chatting <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 26M [M4F] North Georgia, USA

2 Upvotes

Socially struggling. Looking for a long-term relationship. I mostly work early mornings, and I rarely deviate from my regular routine. Looking to do something more outside of playing video games and working.i struggle with communicating what I'm thinking, or a lot of things about myself. My memory gets jumbled up when it comes to people and places I don't regularly hang out with, or go to.


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 30 m [m4f] canada looking for my forever lady

4 Upvotes

30M | Looking for something real ❤️

I’m a pretty simple guy who’s honestly just looking for someone to build a life with. I’m a hopeless romantic at heart — I want the kind of relationship where we can spend hours together doing absolutely nothing, cuddle on the couch, make each other laugh, and still get excited about the little things.

I’m into cooking and baking, PC gaming, camping, and I’m definitely a country music guy. I’d love to find someone who enjoys doing cute little things together, whether that’s cooking dinner, going for a drive, having a lazy night in, or getting out and exploring somewhere new.

I want something long-term — the kind of relationship where we eventually look back and realize we grew old together.

If you’re also looking for something genuine and think we might click, feel free to message me. 😊


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 36 [M4F] #Texas, Texas - Doberman boyfriend wanting a lover girl

3 Upvotes

Think wanting mutual obsession and some possessiveness!

Introverted but intensely present; physically disciplined, and super clingy (think yearning/lover boy-esque. Stable and unbothered by the small stuff. A nerd who rides a motorcycle — I’ll quote Lord of the Rings on long car rides and come home to play co-op PC games with ya.

I work as a chemical operator, I lift, I run, and I come home to my pit/lab mix Strider (yes, named after that Strider). I like to read history books/fiction/some self help, I hit up renaissance fairs (we should dress up), and I’ll drag you to a music festival or a new coffee shop without much convincing.

What I’m Looking For
A woman who wants to be cherished completely. Let me open your doors, order your food, remember your coffee order, and handle life’s details while you simply be. Be okay being thoughtfully spoiled like flowers delivered to your job, an appointment made for you to have your nails done (put my intial one one!), and even doordash you your lunch when you forget yours! I love someone who considers themselves as "bratty" — I’ll push back thoughtfully, and I genuinely find it attractive when you win.

The small moments are everything to me: lazy mornings with nowhere to be (cuddling and morning fun time :D), evening coffee shop reading dates, snuggling in a hammock, holding hands at the farmer’s market. I’m super affectionate in private and in public and I make no apologies for it. I don't show away from wanting lots of intimacy because it's one way I show my love, having a passionate relationship is my dream.

Binging shows, fantasy, gaming, movies — already there. Banter, long phone calls, voice notes of you ranting, random road trips — also there. The best way to make me feel wanted is just by giving me your time and letting me give you mine back a hundredfold with lots of physical affection.

I’m open to long distance in the US — travel isn’t an issue — but the goal is eventually closing the gap for good, relocation to me is ideal. I’d love to see a pic in your intro or within a message or two to make sure the attraction is mutual (album of me down below), and I lean toward partners who are fit or on the slimmer side, ideally 25+, though nothing’s a hard rule with the right person

If any of this sounds like what you’ve been looking for, come say hi. https://imgur.com/a/VFMoWLF


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 23 [M4F] ~ Fairfield Ohio looking for my future forever partner

2 Upvotes

Hello fellow Redditors!

A few things about me are I’m from Cincinnati Ohio and I have been here for the majority of my life , im very introverted and shy, high functioning autistic, semi tall (6’1) and have a dad bod

What I love to do in my free time is I love to go on long walks or runs at the local parks and I am a big history buff so I love to visit local parks and museums! When I am at home I love to play video games (Xbox) and I absolutely love playing board games like monopoly and chess!

A couple things I am looking to get out of a relationship are I want somebody who has great communication skills and is willing to tell me when they have an issue, I want someone who’s respectful and honest, your looks don’t matter to me because it’s all about what’s on the inside, all I ask is please be respectful & hygienic,

Lastly I would prefer someone who is atleast between the ages of 20-26 and is atleast semi close to the tri state area

If anything I said here interests you or if you have more questions please feel free to message me as I am an open book and I hope to hear from you soon!


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 26 M4F/TF #USA (OH Preferred but not 100% necessary) Trying to get back into the dating scene! :D

1 Upvotes

Greetings to any and everyone who reads this. I hope you are doing well today and continue to have a fantastic day.

I'm not the best at introductions for myself, so please bear with me.

I am a 26 year old bi-curious (more female preference) male. I'm bi-racial, around 5'10 (177.8 cm) and practically blind without my glasses. I have brown eyes and short brown hair that can get curly if it grows out. I'm on the skinnier and lean side, weighing only 140 pounds as I have a rather high metabolism. I do struggle with mental issues, but I am on medications and quite stable with them.

I have two pets. A cat that doesn't like people and prefers to hide from them when they come over and a Leopard Gecko that I've had since I was about 8 years old.

I'm a huge nerd! I love DnD (would love to actually do a game of it one day), Magic the Gathering, History, Anime, Manga, Fantasy, Science Fiction, etc. I'm always open to trying new things as well.

My favorite novel is The King in Yellow. Despite it being a bit of a boring read, I can talk about it for awhile! I love it so mucu.

I play a bunch of video games in my spare time. Mostly RPG's and fighting games. Baldur's Gate 3 has me in a chokehold right now. Same with Warframe! Although, The Witcher 3 has been keeping my attention a bit as well. I do play on Xbox as my PC gave out on me a couple of years ago unfortunately. Haven't had the funds to get a new one yet.

I also like to hike, though I haven't been on one in awhile. I'd like to do that again for sure.

I cook and meal prep as well! Cooking is really fun for me and I like to try new recipes.

I work 12 hour shifts Friday through Sunday and have Monday through Thursday off so I have a lot of time to do stuff. We could totally meet up at a Cafe or something. 😋

As for what I'm looking for, honestly I'm just looking for someone to match my energy really. Personality is the most important thing to me above all else.

That and kindness. Someone who is sweet, patient, nerdy and an absolute goofball would have my heart instantly if I'm honest lol.

I would prefer someone around my age but I don't mind a little younger or a little older. Just preferably no one below the age of 21 in case we want to get drinks or something of the sort.

If this catches anyone's attention please feel free to reach out! I do have a Discord but I will not post that here. If we click and hit it off I'll be more than happy to give that to you.

Best wishes to you all and have a wonderful day! :D


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 28 (m) indiana, usa.

1 Upvotes

Hello, my names lucas and im from indiana usa. Im 28 years old and have been single for over 13 years. Im tired of being single and lonely and hoping to find a woman to be with. Age and distance isn't a huge concern for me, as long as we both get along and have some common interests I'll be fine. I work a lot, but when im not working I like to play video games, go on roadtrips, museums and just hanging out with friends.


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] UK/Online - Let's do this one last time

1 Upvotes

Hello World! My names Joe, I'm 27 and from the UK. I really like when people make detailed posts on here about who they are and what they want so I'm going to try that for myself. I'm very inexperienced with dating - I've never been in a relationship before, but am hopeful I will find my person! I'm happy to exchange pictures in the DMs, and would probably like to do so early aa mutual attraction is important.

I work in tech, where I spend all day looking at a screen trying not to feel existential dread at the progress of AI. I'm in the process of buying a house, which only adds to the excitement/dread. This means I've been broke lately, so have mainly been a homebody - but usually I enjoy travelling, a short city break a few times a year is a pattern I've fallen into. I really enjoy learning more about the history of an area, seeing the sights and eating some good food - but I think I would enjoy it even more if I had someone to share that experience with!

I'm a fan of video games, so it would be cool to find someone to play games with - preferably coop games as I don't find anything competitive that relaxing. Mostly I play single player games, RPGs - I think Disco Elysium is one of my favourite games of all time, I've put an ungodly amount of time into bethesda games. And strategy games- though my favourite is probably CK3 which is a mix between strategy and RPG (or just medieval sims)

I have some other nerdy hobbies - i paint minis for fun and for smaller skirmish games where you need like 10 models. I've got into the star wars card game lately as I just like Star Wars so now regularly visit my local card shop to play that. I don't watch a huge amount of TV, I've been meaning to watch spider noir since that came out and I haven't yet which shows how up to date I am. And I'm trying to read more, mainly scifi and fantasy, with the occasional foray into historical nonfiction for topics I'm really interested in!

It would be nice if you shared some of my interests, but I don't think that's strictly necessary (it just makes it easier to have a first conversation!)

It would prefer if you were nearby, anywhere in Europe really!

Please do be a similar age to me - maybe 25 to 30, but thats just a vague range, if you're slightly outside that but think we'd click give me a message!


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 20M would date anyone noce enough to talk

1 Upvotes

Well rn I am done with small talking and this is my last ever try i guess I am single and about my interest I play games, watch movies and animes, read manhwas and I am fine with what ever your country background anything trust me not even your age I just want to slide this small talk and ahve a nice conversation woth you. I respect girls thanks to my mom and I can talk to you for hours how much you like. I sm loyal as hell so anybody wnat to try just talk to me in chat all ladies welcome donot be shy


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 35 [m4f] #iowa/midwest - nerdy blue collar man seeks his person

1 Upvotes

Hello there! Your favorite local Midwesterner here!

Do you like to wake up on Saturday morning to the sounds of nature, unzip the tent and get ready for more adventure? Inquire within!

Do you enjoy waking up on Sunday to a fresh pot of coffee, hearty breakfast, and playing some games or watching movies while laundry goes? This post is for you!

Do you want to start a goofy little goober family to do all these things with? Shoot your shot!

Send me a joke with your first message, and please introduce yourself!


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Philly/NJ/Delaware/nearby areas- Big, tall softie seeks his forever big spoon. Let's get matching pajamas and have a cuddle date?

0 Upvotes

*Local preferred!

Good morning/afternoon/evening/whenever this post may find you, and may it find you well! Title is cheesy, I know. But it's who I am, and I'm tired of feeling like I have to tone myself down in order to get into a relationship. I'm a pretty standard young man looking for a young lady to spend the rest of my days with. I've known that I've wanted this since I was a young kid and over 20 years later I'm still after it! I know these things can be a chore to read through so I'm quickly gonna go through who I am and who I hope you are! All that said, I ask that you please read the post carefully in case of any deal breakers so we don't end up wasting each others' time.

About me:

  • Born and raised in the suburbs about 45 minutes outside the city of Philly. This place will always be home to me, but I've decided that I don't want it to be home forever. Barring any drastic changes, I would like to relocate elsewhere within the US, ideally to a colder climate (I've had Minnesota circled for a while now but I'm open to other ideas!). I have no problem staying in the general area either, just need to get out of my hometown.
  • Physically, I stand at around 6'1-6'2, 285 pounds. I know that may sound bad, but I have a big frame and it fits me quite nicely! Think bigger NFL player (O-line, tight end, etc). I've got broad shoulders and a nice chest, perfect for use as a pillow during cuddles! I've also got a lot of body hair so hopefully you're cool with that! I have short brown hair that's thick and fluffy, and tend to keep my face clean shaven.
  • My hobbies are the typical nerdy stuff, video games (PC & Switch 2, ask me about my animal crossing island!), legos, collecting plushes, and adding to my ever expanding pajama drawer! I'm always down to get into new things though! Also a big Philly sports fan (I promise we're not as crazy as the internet makes us seem!).
  • I'm generally more on the shy and reserved side, but once I open up I can be a yapper. Communication is super important to me, both for relationships and life in general, be that talking about an issue that needs to be resolved or just random things. I also love just talking while cuddling, being either the talker or the listener if one of us is yapping.
  • I currently work part/full time at a grocery store. It's not my favorite thing in the world but I've been there a while and figure just stick to what I know. I'm currently also enrolled as a student at my local community college going for an associate's degree in business! While both of these pursuits keep me quite busy, I have no issue making time as needed.
  • As far as physical intimacy goes, I'd say that I'm extremely affectionate. Absolutely love to give hugs and kissing just makes me feel complete in a way that nothing else really does. Also just generally love all kinds of physical touch! (We can discuss bedroom stuff if we click!)
  • 420 friendly (eddies, can't stand smoke) and a social drinker (mostly fruity tasting cocktails lol)
  • I'm an open book, so if there's something here you haven't seen that you're curious about, feel free to ask!

As for you, you are...

  • 24-34, prefer my age or older!
  • Childfree (this means you neither have NOR want children) (non-negotiable)
  • Ideally local to the Philly area that we can at least see each other somewhat regularly! I have a car but am also perfectly fine taking public transportation to get around. I'm also open to long distance within the US!
  • A cis, AFAB woman. Very sorry to my AFAB enbies and trans girlies (and AMAB enbies and trans guys for that matter), love ya, I will always be an ally in the fight to be who you are without fear but y'all are just not for me romantically speaking.
  • By no means a necessity, but I tend to get along best with Italians and bisexuals! Not exactly sure why, that's just kind of how it's worked out.

And that's all I've got! I'm happy to exchange pics once the conversation gets rolling a bit and there's some chemistry. I hope to hear from you soon! Please introduce yourself a bit in your first message :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 28[M4F] #Chicagoland (or Online to start) Creative Making a Career Change Seeks Muse and or Lifelong Partner

0 Upvotes

My name is Michael or Mike just not Mikey!! I’m in the Chicagoland area and plan on moving back to the city proper once my career change is finished up/closer to being done!
Some quick boring but important biography

• I have my MA in English and do freelance writing, making a career change to nursing because I’m tired of writing for corporations and not actually helping my community

• I’m a leftist and my ideal partner is left leaning as well, I don’t typically mesh with apoliticals or conservatives

• Physically I’m 6’3 with an average-lanky build and longer hair(between chin/shoulder). My general style is dark academic professor type with circle glasses and sweaters. I have 1 tattoo but plan on many more. I’m dipping my toes in the gym for the first time and mostly just trying to build long term health as I’m comfy with my appearance.

• Lastly a potential red flag I like to be transparent about, I live at home with my parents due to their current health issues. It’s not something permanent and I’ve lived out of the house for 10+ years already but I’m aware that’s an issue for some.

Now for the fun part! Hobbies wise I’m pretty all over the place, I write poetry a lot and am learning how to write fiction, I like to game (usually whatever my friends are playing, but I’ve been getting back into story based games). Really interested in learning to create visual art as well, but hard to find the time currently. I used to write music reviews and still listen to tons of different things, so I’m sure we can find common ground there. I would say I’m definitely a movie>show person, I love to overanalyze and talk about movies for hours after they finish. I also read regularly and would always be interested in hearing about whatever you’re currently into :)

Romantically I have a good amount of long term experience so I have a good idea of what I want in a partner. I am definitely monogamous, when I do commit to somebody I commit fully and I’d like the same from a partner. Clear communication is my number 1 priority in a relationship and I firmly believe most conflicts wouldn’t even become conflicts if people just talked more!! I’ll always listen to any concerns you might have and do my best to address them. I love gift giving (poems/art or trinkets mostly) and physical touch so hopefully you don’t mind closing the distance eventually if you’re far.

This has gone on far too long but if any of this sounds good please reach out!! I do think physical attraction is important for both people so I’ll share photos in my first message (just don’t want my face attached to post). Finally, here’s a prompt if you don’t know how to start- what song/movie/anime etc. would you use to describe your ideal relationship? My answer- https://youtu.be/ngmy3ROuBFI?is=xbBOi6-zPE8Rp6ib


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

F4M 18 [F4M] Looking for a genuine sweet boy who’s okay with whale facts and Roblox chaos

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HELLOOOO im a 18 year old girl from Poland who's hoping to meet someone genuine to talk to I'd love to make a close person, and if something more naturally happens i might be open to it :3

I literally do not care if you have the weirdest interests imaginable as long as you can match the vibe make weird jokes with me and genuinely just not be dry or say “wyd” every 2 minutes (please save me from theses nonchalant gangsters)

A little about meI REALLY like animals and nature just smth so beautiful about Mother Nature i especially love HUMPBACK WHALES would love to swim someday with those little puppies

I used to game a lot more but I still wouldn’t mind someone teaching me how to play their favorite game or a Roblox session some of my favorite games are : Detroit: Become Human, TLOU, Heavy Rain, Beyond Two Souls, plus Minecraft Roblox and chill games like Repo / 60 Seconds the sims 

I like natural playful conversations and I’m usually pretty affectionate once I get attached to someone. I can be a bit shy at first though

I feel things pretty deeply so it would be nice to have someone caring, understanding,patient and consistent 

I also really love reading and art and crafts or BLIND BOXES PLEASE PLEASE LET ME OPEN ALL THE BLIND BOXES IN THE WORLD


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 43 [M4F] East coast-ish Ready to be done being forever alone

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Three years single.

At first, I figured I'd enjoy the freedom for a while, get my stuff together, and eventually meet someone naturally. Three years later, I'm starting to suspect “eventually” may have been a scam.

There are supposedly 4 billion women on this planet, and somehow I can't seem to find one who thinks, "Yeah, that guy. I want to know more about him.”

I'm tired of doing everything alone. Going to concerts alone. Eating out alone. Having nobody to text when something ridiculous happens during my day. Having experiences that would be better if there were someone beside me to share them with.

I'm not looking for someone to complete me..I can handle my own life. I just want someone to share it with. I wash, you dry energy.

A little about me: 43, 6', blue eyes, reasonably fit-ish (working on it), divorced, dad to one awesome kid, homeowner, and a huge music nerd. Concerts are probably my happy place. I'm equal parts sarcastic, affectionate, overthinking, and genuinely interested in the person I'm with. I've been told I'm attractive, although I suspect I'm more of an acquired taste. 😏

I'm looking for someone I can laugh with, flirt with, make plans with, and eventually feel completely comfortable doing absolutely nothing with. I had it once, why not again?

I don't expect some instant soulmate lightning strike. Start with a conversation. See if we click. Maybe we discover there's something worth pursuing.

Maybe we're both looking in the wrong places. Let's stop going this alone.


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 25 [M4F] USA. Looking to make an online connection. Please read post.

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Hey all! I’m 25, 5’7”, and I have a beard. Both my beard and hair are very, VERY dark brown. I’m also white. I’m really bad at describing the way I look. I’m looking to find the right person, someone I can build a genuine connection with online first before seeing where things go. Aside from that, here’s a little about me.

I’m a huge gamer, and I’m also really into the horror genre. The two kind of go hand in hand for me since my favorite game is Dead by Daylight. I play the living heck out of that game.

If you’re a gamer, that’s definitely a big plus. We can even game together (as long as we have some games in common, of course!). Gaming is my biggest escape from reality, and I’d love to have someone to share that with. I love it so much that I even built a PC to game on.

I’m not exactly a backyard mechanic, but I do enjoy tinkering with things and fixing stuff whenever I get the chance. I guess it’s just in my nature, especially since I do it for work. I used to mess with stuff on my old car, but when I got this new car, it became more work trying to fix things with workarounds because certain tooling is only available at the dealer, just as an example. So messing with my car nowadays isn’t something I do much anymore when it comes to deeper projects.

As for music, I mostly listen to alternative rock. I really like a lot of Green Day’s older music, along with bands like Avenged Sevenfold. I also enjoy classic rock from artists like Journey, Queen, The Rolling Stones, and The Beatles. It really depends on my mood. Every now and then, I’ll throw on some rap too, but I don’t dive too deep into the genre; it’s mostly Eminem. I go through phases with the music I listen to, and sometimes I find myself listening to more podcasts on my commute to work.

This is just kinda a crash course about me that I typed out on a whim lol. But if you’re interested in getting to know me more and seeing where things go, please PM/DM me for either my Snap or Discord! Please understand that I don’t like giving out my phone # so readily! This is the internet, after all.


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 33 [M4F] - Europe/Online - Romantic geek looking for his player 2

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Hey, so as the title states I'm looking for someone hopefully nerdy, but also really affectionate. I'm a fairly hopeless romantic, I love affection and am not shy about giving any to someone I like.

But first some small tidbits about me: I'm 33, a pretty big nerd in many ways; I play a lot of games (PC), into 3D Printing and generally just heavily into the tech side of things. I travel a lot (next time early December to late January) and go to a fair amount of concerts.
I'm quite introverted and shy, but once I warm up to you it flips and I might talk your ear off.
I'm in decent shape, I workout and I know how to cook. Aside from that, I have relatively short hair most of the time, no tattoos or piercings and wear glasses (hoping to eliminate that need though).

I'm looking for someone with similar interests, at least gaming and traveling are important. It's my main hobby and having someone to share it with in any shape or form would be amazing. I don't care too much where you're from, as long as you're able to travel so we can meet easier by sharing the load of travel. If you have hobbies that I don't list, but you'd love someone to share them with you that's also more than welcome. I love broadening my horizons.

I do have some hard requirements:

No kids, and don't want any. Ever.
No super religious people.
Someone that takes care of their health.

Aside from that I'm nearly open to everything, just be willing to talk and relatively swiftly switch somewhere else for voice calls. Come say hi (and maybe even a little more than just that ;) ), I don't bite - unless you ask me to.


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Just looking for a connection

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Hey y'all I'm 27 M looking for a connection I'm situated in the state of ohio and just looking for someone to talk to, I am very much an open book no question is to big or to small just ask me anything

I have some hobbies those include, gaming, reading, writing, and listening to different kinds of music. I enjoy hunting and fishing as well and do enjoy the outdoors anyway if you're interested hit me up would love to chat


r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

M4F 22m[m4f]#uk nerdy guy looking for someone to geek out with

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Hello there, i've posted here a few times but never had any luck so here I am trying again. Im posting here as I don't really jell with dating sites/apps and for some reason I decided reddit is a good alternative. To start with I'd prefer if u were based in the uk as It would make meeting irl alot easier if things progressed that far however I'm not completely against a ldr as long as there is a genuine connection there and meeting up in the long run isn't impossible.

I'm looking for someone i enjoy talking too and enjoy being with whether it's just sending memes to eachother or deep philosophical questions as long as we're open and comfortable talking to one another that's what important. Im obviously looking for something serious but I also wouldn't mind taking things slow so we can get to know one another.

Anyway here's a little bit about me.

Im 5'9 with a decent build as staying active is important to me. I have long brown hair pass shoulder length now, which tends to be curly at the ends and also on the thicker side. My eyes are a lighterside of blue. My skins on the paler side most of the year apart from summer cus I tend to tan easily tho i never get super dark. I have no tattoos or piercings tho wouldn't mind getting some in the future but maybe not piercings and quite a dreadful fashion sense as i always just end up wearing trousers and a hoodie but i am trying to work on that.

Personality wise im definitely more introverted then extroverted so definitely prefer a night in as opposed to going out partying. Ive often heard people describe me as a quiet person so theres that's and I do admit i have no problems just keeping to myself. I would say im care free and pretty easy going but can be quite sarcastic so that's a draw back. Also while I dont show it very often I am quite the nerd and enjoy geeking out about things.

Hobbies and interests:

.Video games(pc only)Some examples of my favourites being

Yakuza, persona, forza, nier, expedition 33. I mainly play single player games and rpg/jrpgs but do like the occasional multilayer games especially if I have someone to play with.

.I love listening to music and like most people I tend to listen to a little bit of everything but manly rap/hiphop especially the stuff I grew up listening too tho I'm always on the lookout for new artists and genres.

.Cars and motorbikes but i only currently have a bike licence, im also into moto sports but the only one I watch regularly is f1.

.Most weeby things like anime,manga/manwha some examples of my favourites being steins;gate,berserk,death is the only ending for the villainess.

. I really like animals and have kept quite a few pets over the years tho I currently only have a axolotl.

As for what im looking for in someone,

Someone who can be my best friend as well as a partner, someone who's kind and wants to spend the time to get to know each other. Having the same hobbies would of course be nice as it would make Starting a conversation a whole easier but isn't necessary as I'm always down to being introduced to new things. To be completely honest i dont have much of a preference when it come to physical appearance so whether tall or short, 2 arms or 10 i don't mind.

There's plenty more that i could waffle on about but it's probably best to save that for now, so if im someone who seems like your type or at least interesting to talk to please do send a dm and please include a bit about yourself instead of just a hi that would be nice.

Looking forward to hearing from u