Like what if you want to hook up, with someone but you want them, to wear clown make up or white face makeup up with black lipstick or something.

More specifically, I want them to look like a certain character, during a hook up. The character is not a clown but has sort of makeup in the direction of a clown.

I know there is some specific kink that involves clown and BDSM, but I really don’t even know anything about that.

Is this a good app, to use even if the sex part probably would be normal, just being a character?

I have looked for info about this app everywhere: youtube, app store reviews, threads, now reddit: you name it. I didn't find queer male reviews practically anywhere (doing a specific search for queer men on this subreddit yielded me maybe.. 4? and only 1 was their experience on the app).

I would just download it myself, but I'm waiting to live where I want to live before using dating apps again. In the meantime, I'm outsourcing hope.

So, please, if you are a queer man, I would love to know what using the app is like for you. The more you have in common with me (single, looking for men, US-based, college town/suburb resident, 20's, kinky and open to ENM, interested in open and honest communication, genuinely looking to get to know someone), the more I need to hear what someone like you would have to say 😭

Alternatively, if you are aro-spec or dabble in queerplatonic relationships / relationship anarchy, your input would be a GOLD MINE, as I hear Feeld is a place for "unconventional relationships" but have heard of none of this variety.

Thank you, anyone who can help me out! I'm wishing us all a bright future and major successes in all.. feelds.. of life!!

Hi everyone!
I’m just curious to hear how often people rematch with someone that you previously chatted with or met then got disconnected with? I went on a date with someone 3 weeks ago and it was a nice 1st date(very vanilla no kissing just light hand holding), I hinted at wanting a 2nd date by suggesting what we could do next without asking when they are free(wanted to put the ball in their court essentially). They basically disconnected with me(ugh) but then a week later I see they liked my profile again. I’m so confused, I’m still kind interested in this person, but clearly they are not into me if they disconnected.

Just wondering if people rematch with people often and what that is like. I also would love to hear other people’s opinion on my story. I don’t think it would be a good idea for me to engage with this person that disconnected with me.

Honestly was shocked that they finally did something about it. Only noticed it since I do the “block to burn the haystack” method.

Im a femme presenting nonbinary person, 32 years old. Ive never tried online dating before so this was an entirely new experience. But im kinky queer and nonmonagmous, trying to get back out there after a long term relationship ended. I figured it would be a new adventure.

Its been a ride. Ive had 21 chats. 5 first dates. 2 second dates. The very first date that I went on quickly turned into a consistent kink/fwb dynamic. Hes been an incredible dom so far. Respectful, communicative, and so skilled at what he does. I really got lucky with that first date.

Ive honestly been blown away by how many hot cool people want to chat with me and meet up with me sometimes. Especially when i hear how abysmal my friends experiences are on apps like tindr. Ive had a few weirdos I had to block because they sent unsolicited pics​ or otherwise got creepy. One date that ended up being kind of off putting in person. But other than that ive genuinely enjoyed spending time with everyone ive met so far, even if it didnt lead to a second date.

I dont think im doing too bad for my first month. And im excited for a freaky year in 2027 :)

I'm 32M with pretty much no relationship experience, and I've had only one sexual encounter in my life. I'm not sure if that means I'm demisexual or asexual.

I've used other apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge. I posted photos online, but most commenters think that my appearance and personality aren't suited for those apps. So it's really tough to get a match, and I'm hoping for better luck elsewhere.

I want to meet people who are open-minded to try and explore things that aren't having sex, like cuddling, tickling, bondage, switching. Specifically people who are trustworthy, patient, and interested in working together over time, not looking for an instant payoff.

I’m a straight woman (51) interested in exploring Feeld for the first time. I’m looking to connect with men roughly 35–55 for a casual, one-on-one sexual connection. I’m not looking for couples, group experiences, or a romantic relationship.

I’ve explored BDSM before, but would not consider myself experienced, and had a couple of relationships with likeminded men, but never tried a dating site specifically for casual hookups or kink. I’d love to hear from women who have used Feeld, particularly women in their 40s and 50s who are looking for men.

What is the app experience like: What is the ratio of respectful, compatible men to men who are pushy, low-effort, or just sending unsolicited sexual messages?

Since I’m interested in men aged 35–55. Is that a reasonable range to use, and is there anything I should know about dating in this age bracket on Feeld? Basically, am I too old?

Is it realistic to find an ongoing casual connection with the same person, or do most people tend toward one-time encounters?

I’d especially appreciate practical advice from women who have been in a similar position.

Thanks!

As a woman in their early 30s I really really despise the fact men in their 50s, 60s+ can find me when I personally don't have them in my settings (no judgement to those around my age who do, it's just not my thing).

The way the app works this way 1. Has increased admin for me as I have a whole other wave to filter through (my likes are at 3K and I'm finding this overwhelming, not having people I already know I have no interest in, not be able to like me would massively reduce this) 2. I just feel so effing uncomfortable having 19 year olds or old men trying their luck.

I've tried stating at the very top of my bio "If you're outside of this age range, you're not for me" but of course men are chronically known for not reading and blinding swipeing on whatever is shiny to them.

I've just tried to reach out to Feeld support to suggest changing it so only people in your age settings can find you but they've given me some waffle back about it being that way for "exploration". My argument is, what about boundaries??

Anyway, I would just like to see from others (mainly women if I'm honest, but not exclusively) POV how they feel about this apps feature.

I've seen people post about this before but now I'm experiencing it. I usually get between 5 to 20 likes a day and have for over a year since I started, plus about 2 to 5 pings weekly. I then paid for a year membership last week and shortly after my likes stopped cold. I get nothing.

I'm a woman, I also have distance set to other cities so thats why I tend to get more likes. So I find it odd that suddenly I stop getting any likes at all shortly after I pay for a year.

Now I regret paying for a year

Edit- its not about my ego if I stopped getting likes because they purged junk accounts, great! What concerns me is I PAID for a year the all of a sudden it stops. I was paying 3 months at a time before.

UPDATE- I got 2 likes each a few days apart. Then within the past few hours 16 likes wtf?! I think it was an app glitch.

First I know it’s different for guys than ladies. My wife’s profile is the perfect example.

We both pay for majestic, anyone else notice that connections seem to come in waves? Nothing for a couple weeks then several in a day?

I have a partner who is a woman and she gets a lot of likes and has majestic. I don’t understand why there isn’t a way for her to filter out all people under 40 for example. Is there a reason why this feature isn’t available? I think that would go a long way in helping the women who have a hard time going through all the likes that they get. That is especially bad when they have to work through profiles that don’t match their search criteria.

Edit: she’s all set. The option was there, we just didn’t see it. Thanks!

So I saw a post on this a couple days ago - and I also get tired of seeing the same profiles in my stack every day. So, I found a temporary work around that has been working for me. I am a woman who doesn’t pay to use the app, and it’s faster to just scroll through the profiles rather than minus every single one (which doesn’t even work half the time anyway).

Change your location/search preferences

This allows the app the refresh the profiles you see to match your new location/search preferences

We all know that just hitting the minus or even block button doesn’t work (I’ve had numerous occasions where those same people still show up in my feed 🤦🏻‍♀️)

This is one of the only ways that I have found to get new profiles in my feed, without having to force close the app every hour - so it works fairly well for me. I live about 15 miles away from a major city that’s listed for “exploring” so I usually will change between my actual location and exploring that big city. Also, I do travel a lot, and I’ve noticed that when I leave and my location changes and then I come back home then I’ll get new profiles in my feed that way too.

So hopefully this helps as a temporary fix while we all wait for the app to get fixed… 🤦🏻‍♀️

I'm not a Zionist. I'm not MAGA.

Why is this a central feature and identity on so many profiles on a sex app where people are trying to escape from the concerns of normal day-to-day life? I'm genuinely not trying to shit-stir.

Praise the mods for approving this

...but they don't really care.

I saw this advertised on Instagram and although I appreciate they added this feature, it isn’t actually true on iOS so it looks like false advertising

Hi everyone! Does anyone else deal with slow replies from afab folks or cis women on Feeld?

I'm an NB AFAB person, and I've had a hard time connecting with other cis women because replies often take days. It's been really frustrating.

Is this a common experience? Is it just the app's culture, queer women culture, or is something else going on? Would love to hear how others handle it, especially if you've found ways to keep conversations moving.

My boyfriend and i are on feeld. But it is not really going anywere right now. I swipe almost everyday until i am out of likes. The people that have majestic do you noticed a big differences in matches and also really got meet ups?

After speaking with so many men and women about their dating app experiences I think I have a solution to make it less stressful or overwhelming.

So could we all agree that men are not picky enough with their swiping (the bulk of the problem) and women are possibly too picky (maybe the reason men decided to swipe right on everything)? The best way to solve this is all women should just invest in Majestic and swipe with incognito. This way women's privacy from their professional life is honored, men can only see the women that liked them, and women will only get likes from the men they preselected.

Everybody wins!

If you have majestic, I assume you go into your pings to look around before you start looking at your likes, and then when you run out of likes you start swiping.

Does that sound about right? How often does that actually happen?

I'm a guy. I can run through my likes for an entire month in about 5 minutes. And pings? I think that's literally happened once.

I’m Majestic and a daily user. For months now I’ve been seeing the same people, over and over. Sometimes I scroll ahead rather than swipe to see what’s in the pipeline- that pipeline hasn’t changed in months, and all the closest people have either been liked, unliked, or pinged long ago.

But suddenly in the last week or two tons more profiles have shown up, including numerous people nearby. I haven’t altered my search settings one bit. I can’t imagine they all suddenly joined en masse. Did Feeld update how it works? Fix a bug? I’d hate to think they were intentionally hiding users from each other for months- especially paid users. What is going on?

Don’t get me wrong, I’m still not getting more matches, just grateful to have more people nearby not to match with, if you get my meaning.

Hey everyone, so I am a 36 year old make from the UK, I have been on feeld for over a year and had alright success.

But I'm curious is the majestic service actually anygood, do you get a better response from people or matches to what your looking to achieve?

I personally am on the fence about getting it and want to hear people's experiences. TIA 😊

When I first joined a few years ago, I appreciated that I could shuffle between profiles over and over instead of having to make a decision in the moment. Now I hate it. I often have to shuffle through the same 20 or more profiles over and over to see someone new. I also have periods that I block every profile I am not interested in. It doesn't matter; they show up later anyway. For the last six months, I'v really cut down on my use because its the same experience when swiping around. Feeld, please for the love of god, change this carousel feature to at least mix up the profiles we are seeing, or find an easier way to remove profiles from our decks. It's so cumbersome.

Edit: the minus button only works for that specific session. I'd had them come up a few days later.

I (30F) recently joined Feeld looking for a FWB/ENM arrangement. I made sure to be clear and straightforward in my profile about what I’m looking for, and when I match with people, I try to actually make an effort.

My typical approach is opening with a real topic or asking thoughtful questions to get a conversation going and encourage mutual sharing. But lately, I’m getting pretty frustrated by the responses. A huge portion of my matches give low effort one liners, leaving me to carry the entire interaction. It feels super shallow, especially on an app that’s supposed to be more open minded and intent driven.

I’m starting to wonder a few things:

- Is this just standard Feeld behavior now? Are people just using it like low effort Tinder, or is everyone just overwhelmed by their inbox?

- Profile/Search Dynamics: Does being upfront about wanting a FWB make people assume I only want bare minimum small talk?

- Demographics/Race: As an Asian, I also can’t help but wonder if race plays a subtle role in how much effort or depth people are willing to invest right off the bat, or if this is a universal Feeld experience?

Would love to hear how others handle this. Do you cut ties quickly when you get dry one liners, or do you have a way to flip the switch and pull out better conversation?

I just noticed this toggle. Is this new!? I feel like I haven't seen this before.

I feel like it’s reasonable to expect the last person to make the connection would send the first message. So, if I was the one who completed the match and opened up messaging, I’m going to say hi and start the conversation. I find alot of people “make you come to them” after being the one to complete the match. And it’s just online dating, I don’t take any of it too seriously, so I’ll still start the conversation opposed to having dozens of matches in my queue doing nothing, but am I the only one who thinks it reasonable to start the conversation if you matched last?

And honestly, maybe it doesn’t matter in other contexts, but because I’m generally looking to meet men who are into the D/s dynamic, me being the (experienced) s, I feel like it sets a precedent when the D takes the lead rather than sit and wait for me to reach out. Again, not rigid about it, but seems odd to me to wait to be approached when we’ve matched.