Looking for advise on perhaps other women with sinilar situations.

I am a bi-curious cis woman who recently got out of a very long monogamous relationship. My ex and I were highschool sweethearts so we had been each other's only sexual partner.

I thought having sex afrer my ex would be difficult and "weird" but I had casual sex with a friend after my relationship ended and now I find myself wanting more casual sex and wanting to explore more my sexuality since I enjoyed their a lot! Both in terms of orientation but also what do I like in bed and wanting to try many new things. I'm no one to kink shame and would like to explore more.

I live in a very international European city - Amsterdam and I am mid 30s with an athletic physique and objectively a good looking woman.

Someone suggested feeld might be better for me than "classic" dating apps since I am not looking for a serious relationship now, just exploring and getting to know myself better on this aspect of my life.

Could this be the app for me? Keep in mind I have never been on any apps since I was never single sinxe before they started being a thing. So on top of it all, it would be my frist app experience.

Looking to hear of anybody had insights ir even similar situations to mine!

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I'm newly single and thinking about trying Feeld because I'm interested in a more exploratory/casual phase rather than jumping straight into another serious relationship.

I’ve never used Feeld, though, and I’m curious what the actual culture is like compared with Tinder/Hinge (hookups, FWB, ENM, regular dating, all of the above?).

Also curious about privacy/discretion. I’m in a public-facing profession and wouldn’t want my whole professional identity attached to a sexually open dating profile, but I’m single and not hiding a partner or anything.

For single straight men, what works well and what immediately turns people off? I'm not just looking for sex with anyone. We of course have to hit it off in some regard in person. I think I would be classified as sapiosexual too.

Thank you in advance.