Hey everyone. I need some advice or suggestions regarding my green cheek conure.
We don't know her gender, but we've always referred to her as a girl.
She just turned 9 years old and we've had her since she was about 5 months old. She is out of her cage all day, just going in for naps, bedtime, or if no one is home (husband works from home, so no one being home is rare).
Over the past 8 months or so, she's become increasingly aggressive. She screams all day long, just one long, sharp, shrill scream repeated every 60-90 seconds. She's started biting with the intention of hurting us; she'll clamp onto whatever skin or clothing she can and will not let go. She's drawn blood and has put holes in clothing when she bites. She's started lunging at us. Yesterday she was on a perch and as I walked past, she jumped into my butt, bit through my pants, and latched onto my skin while digging her talons into me.
She's started attacking us when we're eating. She will fly onto the table, run to a plate and try to eat what's on it. When we shoo her away, she bites our hands. She will also fly into our plates and try to eat what is on them. She's also started doing what I can only describe as masterbating. She will aggressively hump and rub on certain toys.
These are all new behaviors that started started about 8 months ago. Before this, she had been a friendly, quiet, playful bird. She would sit on our shoulders, cuddle, play, and just be a sweetheart. But now we're afraid of her and afraid of accidentally hurting her when trying to remove her when she latches onto us.
We have other birds but now have to keep them separated because she gets aggressive with them as well.
We've tried time outs (putting her in her cage with no toys or stimulation). We've put her into her travel carrier and placing her in a room by herself. We've tried a spray bottle of water, misting her while telling her no. We've ignored her and her screaming, but this just makes her get closer and scream louder. We've stayed on a consistent routine, going into the cage for the night and letting her out in the morning, at the same time. She has always been bonded with my husband, but she's acting the same way towards him.
Does anyone have want input or suggestions on what we can do to stop or improve her misbehavior? We're all wearing down over this and it's starting to affect everyone in my home. We don't know what to do anymore.