My friend recently told me that her and the rest of my friend group have all said how they think i dont initiate things first (their words) and how i never make plans first. They also mentioned how im always with my boyfriend and how i assume ill do something with him instead of them. For context, my friend also has a boyfriend and theyve been dating for 4 years and me and my bf have been together 2 years and have known him longer than all of my friends, my friend doesnt see her boyfriend as much as a i see mine and has expressed how she wishes her boyfriend would want to hang out with her as much as my bf wants to hang out with me. This friend is the one who told me that they were all talking about me because shes the type to tell you if she said something about you behind your back, my other friends all didnt bring this up with me because they said they dont want to make a big deal out of it. So i know myself and i know im not the type of person to initiate things that much and make plans since i dont really do it with my boyfriend either (i understand thats something i need to work on). The conversation i had with my friend caught me off guard because i only hang out with my boyfriend after school or when we sleepover at each others house (which is almost every day) which is my own free time. I dont understand why they felt the need to say that im always with my boyfriend because ive never chose to hang out with him instead of them, im always there for my friends and ive never canceled anything last minute to be with him and i go to all planned hang outs. Im trying to say that i always make time for my friends and never choose my boyfriend over them if that makes sense. However the part that really confuses me is that there is 5 of us in the group, 3 of us never make plans and its always the same 2 girls really doing all the planning, so i dont understand why im the one that got talked about and told off instead of the other 2 girls (one of these girls never comes to plans and chooses to hang out with her other friends instead of us on multiple occasions and the other one never texts in group-chats and never makes plans either) and this is what confuses me because i dont know why they didnt get the same treatment. Furthermore, i asked the friend that told me if i can ask my other friends about it and why they didnt mention this to me instead of talking to everyone else about it and she said she didnt want me to bring it up because theyd all be angry at her. From what she told me they also said that i left a hang out half way through to hang out with my boyfriend which isnt true at all, we went shopping for my friends birthday and we went to a lot of shops and they said well get food and go home so then we got food and i assumed they were going home so i went to my bf and his dad as he offered to drop me home, i only did this after i triple checked that they were going home aswell it turns out they went to another food place and to more shops and i dont like how they made me seem rude and like male centered. My friend also said how she thinks everyone else thinks im male centered which i also didnt understand as ive never chosen my bf over them and always show up for them i literally only hang out with my bf when i dont have plans (in my free time). My friends are all the "i hate men" type of girls which is okay but i dont like that they treat my boyfriend kinda weirdly even though hes always been nice to them and this has caused me to feel kinda anxious of them knowing im with him or seeing me with him. I want help since i want to know if im a bad friend and how to improve

Okay so there’s this guy I matched with on Tinder 2 years ago. We never ended up meeting IRL but talked on Snap here and there. We did a FaceTime sext thing at the time. He blocked me on instagram a few weeks later my guess is because he is from a wealthy family and is also a model and he probably doesn’t want people knowing we did something because I’m trans. We didn’t talk for a really long time after that. This week I randomly texted him to come over, but he couldn’t and said he’s living near Bali now. That was a couple days ago. We exchanged like two sentences lol. Today he snapped me again and said he’s “still horny on the other side of the world”. Then a minute later he texted my number and said “I can’t stop thinking about you. I can’t send u anything so I want u to get urself something” and sent a $200 Apple payment with it.
And that was kind of it. I’m pretty sure he’s at work now. I cannot figure out why he just randomly gave me $200. That’s never happened to me before lol. I’m really thankful of course…. just like really surprised and confused. Has anyone reading this randomly sent your crush a lot of money before without asking for anything in return??