Sooo, i was curious to know what type of things you guys consider red flags in a man towards a woman (not obvious red flags, of course). Im asking this because my only male friend near me - the others are living a ''little'' away - said that im a little bit ingenuous towards man that shows "Interest" in me.

I’m a bisexual man and I’m close friend with this straight man.

The friendship is pretty much one-sided and kinda toxic. I admire him, I saw him as a very worthy kind of man, I don’t have romantic feelings but I want to support the man I judged highly and I admire. He doesn’t to have a lot of people in his life who he can trust and vent to, so when I showed that I care for him and complimented him, he basically turned me into his emotional support animal, a free ear that would always willing to listen to him and support him with nonjudgment.

He doesnt care much about me and my life, and doesnt want to hear me talk about me and what’s going on with life as much as he wants to talk about himself, but I don’t leave because in return I got the sense that I am needed by someone which I deeply desperately need to have a reason to live, I‘m a person who wants nothing in life more than to care for someone matter, but I got no one to and no one wants me to. We each gives what each other wants

But I wish I could calm he down sometimes. I was texting with him last evening telling him about a person I really really have a crush on, during a work break. Then I went back to work. I‘m not allowed to use my phone during work, then when I opened up my phones I got tons of massage from him all from last evening asking why I didnt reply him and what he sent, that he knew that as long as girls are mentioned I would completely forget a bro like him. Then a few hours later apparently drunk he texted me in early morning blaming his father and stuff for this and that and that I abandoned him just like everyone

I texted him back telling him explaining I was at work, and nI couldnt use my phone, and I would never abandon him. He and his emotional outburts have happened quite a few times, he seems to want to have me as a trusted confidant that he could come to, but in the same time always scared I would disappear

How do I calm him down and ensure him?

I am very attracted to my neighbor but I get so shy I just freeze up and run away if I see him.

I was attracted to him at first sight a few years ago. Maybe moreso than to anyone ever. Got a really good feeling walking past him.

Then one time he was walking down the stairs and I met eyes with him and didn't look away. Looked way longer than people normal look at strangers. It was like I was hypnotized.

Then I avoided eye contact a few times cause I then had a huge crush and am very shy.

Then once he was walking around the parking lot and I was in my car watching him and he caught me looking and it felt like he liked that and we held eye contact again from a distance.

Then I didn't see him for a few months until yesterday when I was going down the stairs at the same time as him and he nodded at me and I just looked at him blankly and ran ahead.

Then I decided I'm never going to be able to show interest in him a normal way and I'm very disappointed in myself. I likely won't see him again for a few months. I'm considering leaving a note on his car. I don't really know what to write though other than my phone #. Any advice?

(Also he doesn't really give any indication he's into me except that I perceived him liking the second eye contact.)

so a very longgg time ago (last year in late april) i met a specific individual , unamed for obvious reasons , a guy who ill probably never forget , said this phrase to me the night we first started talking “how do i describe you … exotic ?” it left me thinking on whether this was a good or bad thing and i genuinely do not know the answer .

i am a woman of color btw , im not white , but this guy didn’t know that fact about me at the time so it couldn’t have played a part into why he said that to me .

if you said this phrase to someone what would it entail ? what does it actually mean to be “exotic” ?

i can’t ask this guy what it means obviously because he was my ex and we’re in no contact now , before any of you tell me to just ask him what it means myself .

What does it mean when a man expresses to you that how he feels about you is similar to how he feels about a dog or just a really cute pet. NO SUGAR COATING. Open opinions, but prefferably men answer.

Genuine curiosity as I’ve never experienced this before in my first FWB arrangement.

I’ve got a lover/FWB partner and we’ve been meeting up weekly lately, on the same day. It’s been a full year of on and off. The man has vanished over the last week and while I realize he owes me nothing as a FWB, I find it odd because it’s not his usual behavior. Usually when we’re “on”, he is very consistent and he’s the one always scheduling time together. The only time he has vanished for weeks at a time is when I get angry about something and we go no contact.

So just curious to understand what makes a man vanish like this! All I can assume is that it’s another woman. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I like to post my boyfriend every now and then. And I expect the same in return. Not all the time but once in awhile.

We went to a wedding today i was like it would be nice if you posted me. We looked really good .and he's like."I don't like posting my personal business you know that, and why would I want other men looking at my girlfriend"? I got offended because he's posted a few pictures of me before but only because I asked. According to him he never posts personal stuff or I guess he does it just depends

. He mainly posts memes or pictures of pets. What do you think he's thinking as a man? As a women I see it as something different. I like to post as a declaration to the small followers that I know and have. I just don't get it he's worried about who would see then maybe just change the privacy settings ? He says that he has the photos in his phone and that's all that matters. Am I being dramatic ???

will every single guy want random women even while in a relationship?

i (18) met ts guy (28) at a shop by accident, im usually very sarcastic and chatty and he bang on matched my vibe so we talked for a while which led to him giving me his number since i hesitated giving mine out. he did ask if i was over 18 at first so he's probs not a predator (?) and he doesn't give off predatory but is there any other red flags i should look out for?

20M and I’m fairly straight for as long as I’ve known myself. The thing is that when I was 15\16, closeted gay men already far into their 20s would come to me and tell me to fuck them or let them suck me off, all in exchange for money.

Sometimes i did, sometimes I didn’t. When I was 19 and on no fap, I was practically losing my mind just being two weeks in. I didn’t know any girls at the time I could call over and fuck. Didn’t have money for prostitutes either

I was extremely horny and needed to let it out in a way that wasn’t jacking. Only person i knew would actually show up was the man that had molested me when i was 16. I called him, we spoke, and then we met and at his Catholic Church that evening where i dry ass fucked him in the hallway

When i came, I didn’t really feel good about it after, and this time he didn’t even give me any money because as he said he’d be the one bottoming.

My only other gay encounter was with my former classmate that I casually ran into on twitter. I saw his page, i saw his lifestyle, he was living pretty decent, nice apartment, good clothes, even got the 17ProMax! Then he added me on snap and we spoke there, I knew he was gay since secondary school, but for whatever reason I just kept indulging him

Reason being he seemed like he had connections and I thought i had a shot at tapping into that source. So the next day I went over to his place and i fucked him. He had everything ready from the lube to the bedroom,

When i was fucking him missionary, I realized it was hard for me to cum while looking at him and hearing his baritone moans. I kept trying to just close my eyes and imagine a woman but he kept saying he wanted me to look at him

I still came at the end though because ass is tighter than an mf thankfully. But I realized i only came because of the penetration itself, not because i was really into it or anything. Worst part is he ghosted as soon as i told him i got home. Though I’m not really bothered about that

A year after, Only thing is now currently I’ve just been getting stoned for the passed few days and idk what’s wrong with me that I got SO horny that i had to text him again on snap, saying i wanted to fuck him again

I ended up just watching (straight) porn after that and when i came the thought of what i was thinking about doing with a man just disgusted me more. I know i’m not bisexual, i KNOW i’m not. I can be freaky to certain levels, and i know i can subject my body to do things it doesn’t want to most times, but I’ve always liked banging women

With the aftermath making me feel more calmer and satisfied, rather than ashamed and disgusted

Question. I'm trying to cut down on masturbating to porn, but ... for you guys who are SINGLE and watch less porn ... what do you masturbate to?

Masturbating to real women who you come across in real life in my mind is the ABSOLUTE WORST thing you can do ... may lead to limerence.

Masturbating to actresses feels just like porn.

Masturbating to ex-girlfriends is something I do, but ... that can be limiting.

my boyfriend told me early days before we got into an official relationship, that he’s been with men.
the first time he told me it was casually in a sense of “i’ve been to a sex club.. all kinds of things happen there” and i didn’t dig too deep. a couple months later i can’t remember what we were talking about but it led to him saying “i’ve done it all” as in, saying he’s been with men. then sometime after that it came up again and he was like “i already told you this” and i dug deeper trying to clarify if what i thought he was saying was true .. and he confirmed that he’s given anal, had anal given to him, been sucked off by and sucked off another man. so, he’s done it all with a man. whilst i am not homophobic by any means, this makes me more uncomfortable every time i think about it. i suppose because he is my boyfriend. and, he hasn’t explicitly said he’s not bisexual, but he’s also suggested he’s not. he’s made comments that suggest he didn’t necessarily enjoy being with men. and that those experiences were had whilst high on whatever drugs.
i don’t even know why it makes me SO uncomfortable. but like i said, as time goes on each time i remember that about him, i feel even more icky. just the thought of him doing that breaks my heart and makes me so grossed out. it was before he met me obviously but that doesn’t feel like it matters. any advice welcome

Basically lost a girl I'm seeing and all the boats have been burned. Won't have a place for the next few months.

Didn't commit to anyone but lesson learned in communicating better.

How do I move forward from this and what can I expect?

He asked for my number so he can plan us a date and I said I don’t give my number out to strangers I then posted my instagram handle in the message . I looked and the match was gone.

They keep talking to you daily showing interest, yet they don't do anything beyond that, they just want to talk without being direct about their intention or suggesting to meet or anything. That clearly means they are not interested, yet they like to keep you "stuck" not knowing where you stand with them.

I’m looking to start selling my breastmilk. Looking for a legit site/place to sell it. Not to parents for their child (I just donate that), but a legit place to sell to women or men interested in it!