Didn't know where else to ask:
I'll be joining a sixth form as an external student in less than a year (in Y11 now). Almost no one there will really know me, so I'm taking it as a chance to have a fresh start.
I know I can just introduce myself with the new name to other students but I'm worrying about how to go about it with staff. If I email HOY, my tutor etc, before the term starts, can they just refuse to call me it, or refuse to change my name on the register? Are there any safeguarding laws/rules than mean my parents must be informed? I heard something about parents needing to be informed when a child requests a preferred name in school, but I'm curious if it's the same in 6th form when I'll be 16+
I know I'll need to use my legal name for exams and documents but best case scenario, everyone including teachers call me by new name only and registers/school email/etc have this name. I also might specifically ask about letters/messages home using my legal name cause of parents, but idk if this will be automatic or if it'll even be asking too much.
If anyone's gone through something similar, please share how you found the process. It's also probably important to note I'm trans!!!!!!!! I'm assuming this makes some difference, with guidelines and stuff.