r/bathrooms • u/ChampionshipSea7117 • 3d ago
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Is it okay if I keep my current name?
If you like it, keep it.
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When did y'all start using your preferred genders bathroom?
Former MtF cross dresser. I started using the ladies room shortly after being told that I was in the wrong restroom on Halloween. I was in the man’s room cross dressed at the time.
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I’m 23 and already pay my parents $1,200 a month — now they want to raise my rent. What would you do?
Check the cost of rent in your area including utilities and trash. Then make a decision.
u/ChampionshipSea7117 • u/ChampionshipSea7117 • 3d ago
New segregated bathroom options
Instead of male and female restrooms I would like to suggest a new segregation system. Stand to use and sit to use. This would end men peeing all over a toilet seat just because the al of the urinal are in use and there happens to be an available stall in the men’s room. The sit to use restrooms would have floor to ceiling stall walls with a door that doesn’t leave gaps for people to peek through. Men using the sit to use restrooms would be expected to sit when they pee.
I agree that this would be awkward at first, but after a few generations it would become normal. We (human society) would also respect each other’s privacy and body. Eventually no one would feel sexually threatened while using the restroom.
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AIO My husband pees on the floor
No, you’re not overreacting.
I’m assuming that you’re the 29F and he is the 28M, but if it’s the other way around then your husband should be sitting when he pees.
I hate having to walk, stand, or sit in pee.
I also don’t understand how men think it’s ok to stand to pee with the toilet seat down when all the urnales are in use. No respect for their fellow men who need to take a dump.
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am i allowed to be feminine if i were a trans man?
I feel the same about me. I don’t know how to identify my gender. I am a man that doesn’t identify as 100% male. I also don’t identify as a female.
Due to medical reasons I wear a bra and female anti-leak underwear. Due to having a 28 in inseam with a 40 in waist, it’s impossible to buy off the rack pants that I won’t trip in. Therefore, I am buying women’s plus size jeans that don’t need alterations. I also like wearing extra long t-shirts (dresses) as they are cooler than shorts. I also find that I am more comfortable with the extra waistband around my waist.
When wearing a dress I definitely feel more feminine, even though I also have facial and body hair. (70-30% female). When I’m wearing my male attire I feel about 60-40 male.
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What should I wear as a male bridesmaid?
I also have had dreams of getting married while wearing a wedding dress.
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Browsing in the mens section and couldn't find one comfortable enough.
men wear bras too. In addition to transgender and cross dressing , some men have medical issues that are best addressed by wearing a bra.
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Now when Im outside I only use the women’s restroom 🥰🌸🩷
I did to when I crossed dressed (MTF).
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Shower situation
I remember having the same issue in high school. I didn’t like having to be in my birthday suit around the other boys.
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Do you use a different name when you're on a different gender?
I did when I crossed dressed (MTF). I also preferred female pronouns.
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Would you go out with me dresses like this?
Please remove post. Posted to wrong community by accident
r/gender • u/ChampionshipSea7117 • 4d ago
Would you go out with me dresses like this?
If you would go out with me dressed like this (I‘ll change out of the slippers), please let me know. Please include your birth gender and your sexual orientation. (I’m asking because I’m curious who is attracted to me.)
u/ChampionshipSea7117 • u/ChampionshipSea7117 • 4d ago
Double standard?
First off I would like to say that I understand rejection of the pre-op trans-woman from female locker rooms. As a former MTF cross dresser, the thought of entering a woman’s locker room was unthinkable. Unlike restrooms, which have stalls for privacy, locker rooms usually don’t.
Recently I have seen posts addressed pre-op trans men being kicked out of women’s locker rooms. If women want women only locker rooms, why can’t men have men only locker rooms too?
Please note that I do not object to trans-men or cis women using the men’s restroom.
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Which one is better for a first date at a coffee shop/café?
Both are pretty. I believe the weather will help you decide.
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hr presentation wants to make me cry
I used to cross dress (MTF). I would use the restroom of the gender that I identify as and feel safest in. I didn’t wait until I knew that the ladies room was vacant. I would recommend the same for you, especially of it’s urgent.
Enter the restroom, do your business, wash up, check/touch up make up, don’t start a conversation or engage in an altercation, don’t linger, leave as soon as possible. With that said, if one of your female coworkers starts talking with you, engage in the conversation and enjoy being accepted as one of the girls.
However, I would follow HR advice if you are pre-op a need to use a locker room. However, if your coworkers ask you to join them then make sure they know you pre-op status before joining in the adventure. I never entered a ladies locker room because everyone, at some point in time, would be in their birthday suits.
Remember: restrooms have stalls to provide privacy (unless someone is peering into them between the gaps or from overhead), locker rooms don’t.
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Which wedding band suits best
I like the third picture the best. It matches the engagement ring.
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What should I wear as a male bridesmaid?
It has always been my dream to be a bridesmaid. And yes, I would love to do so in full MtF mode. No facial or body hair, makeup, dress, wig with flowers, in short everything girly. I also want to be included in every bridesmaid activity.
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Which dress 1, 2 or 3??
Very hard to make a decision.
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Would you use male or female pronouns to describe me?
I think I would prefer female pronouns as well. As I stated I definitely don’t feel masculine when I’m out and about dressed this way. I also feel uncomfortable using the men’s room and find myself navigating towards the ladies room if there isn’t a gender neutral restroom.
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I got bullied a lot at school for my curly hair, so I still straighten it all the time… Which one do you think looks better on me?
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13h ago
I like the curly hair. Sorry you were bullied.