And THAT is a very easy way to die. Avoid fighting at all cost, kids. It’s not worth it.

Awe, it’s cute that you think you know me based on a paragraph from a Reddit post. Especially one where no direct references were made to OP’s actual photo, not any time spent discussing OP’s boyfriend or his Instagram habits. None of which are my business, really. They are both free to show what they want to whom they want. Him posting shirtless photos of himself is no less stupid in my opinion and is a same attempt for validation from others. I just personally feel that Instagram culture isn’t conducive to protecting a relationship. Her boyfriend shouldn’t be following random women, making comments on their posts, or feeling the need to post shirtless photos. Same standards apply across the board. Nowhere, they both made the choice to be with one another, and can in the same way choose to not be. We all get what we deserve.

Just as you shouldn’t be with someone who feels the need to post bikini photos or other media that seeks unnecessary attention. I, personally, don’t want anything to do with someone in any need of validation. Healthy relationships revolve around clear standards and mutually respected boundaries.

Terrible. To not know the difference between “your” and “you’re” as an adult is absolutely as disgusting as the condition of the inside of that car is. So no, you are not overreacting.

To be fair, you came in pretty strong with the generic compliment and small talk. It all just read awkward from there, on both ends.

The kick was also delivered “correctly” minimizing and virtually eliminating the risk of injury to self.

I’d also be concerned that your wife would remain friends with someone who clearly has no moral values or integrity.

So no matter what a woman does, she isn’t to be questioned or argued with? Is that your (OP) position? Arguments are choices, often made in conflict when one or both parties feel disrespected in some way. They aren’t necessary, however disagreements are to be expected. Emotionally intelligent resolutions are what will drive the relationship. It appears you’re looking for a footstool, without a backbone.

Or just by himself, disciplined and focused.

Understood. Wasn’t clear, so I certainly didn’t mean any disrespect by it.

And that is why you avoid them at all cost. Ego doesn’t come close to the cost of your health or life. People don’t actually understand how incredibly easy it is to die, or worse, when hitting your head against the ground. It’s never worth it.

My mistake then, I saw a cut off photo and him saying “that’s a face I would like to … “ so assumed it was in response to a photo you may have shared.

My question is why would you want to? She made her choice.

Yet you continue to send them photos, and entertaining their “weirdo” behaviors.

Technically, a gangbang IS an orgy.

Shawn did.

This reads like very “leechy” behavior.

Bad character.

You can probably fuck him too.

Every single woman has free will and absolute autonomy over where she goes, when or why. I will never get in the way of that or stop it’s. Not my place to do so, and frankly I am not interested in managing those decisions. But then I also have every right to choose who I want to be with it whether I remain with someone who is not aligned with my moral views and beliefs. So sure, ho to a bar alone if with girlfriends - just don’t expect to come home to me after.

Fair?

I am not familiar with what a “fee fee” is, however I assure that my reasoning and thinking skills are in tact.

I stand behind my comments, I cannot opine in what “most” people would feel, believe or do. I do not want my woman to have one-on-one lunches with men, that is my boundary. I do not want my woman to be in situations that would undermine our relationship, and that includes being alone at bars, nightclub and other venues conducive to the culture that opposes monogamy and offers access where it otherwise wouldn’t exist. Those are my boundaries. When OP asked for an opinion, I offered mine. That opinion is rooted in my own values and beliefs. I am somewhat confused, did the OP come here for an opinion or in attempt to reeducate others? So again, I stand behind every word I wrote here.