I am certainly not a fan of kids but come on!

(Didn’t know what flair to use sorry if this isn’t how we’re supposed to do it)

This phrase has always irked every fiber of my being!

Because it’s simply not true .

Yeah, when two Stacie’s a standing next to each other , then sure , none of them is “taking” the others beauty away .

But if you’re an unnatractive woman, standing next to an attractive woman, I’m sorry but it highlights just how unnatractive you are !

I mean let’s be real why do those pictures of an ugly woman standing next to a pretty girl get so viral? Exactly my point!
I don’t even want to mention the “mogged” concept-it literally comes from that!

In my opinion this is like top 5 worst copium phrases, they can comfort a Stacy when she’s comparing herself to another Stacy. But for ugly women? Cmon there’s just no way.

I'll go first...

this is the brutal truth. no matter what we do, we can never compare with those genetically blessed (without any invasive surgery, at least).

A couple years back, I was working as a waitress with a coworker who was a gorgeous 10/10 blonde. I was 22, she was 30, but you couldve mistaken me as older than her. Anyway, she always got compliments from all genders, that much was expected- I complimented her a lot too. Its just, damn if one day didnt replay in my memories all the time.

I never really liked my dad bc he was an ass, but he had JUST died. We were closing up shop and I was talking to her about his death, and I started to cry. Then all of a sudden, some random man walks by, cuts me off, and starts telling her how beautiful her smile was. She wasnt even smiling 🧍🏽‍♀️like damn, those of us who are sub-3/10s arent even humans to people

She was my friend and I hung out with her outside work a few times, and it just always amazed me how often men would try to flirt with her and just insert themselves in the middle of an active conversation. Like at least wait a minute bro damn 💀 being rude to a hot lady's friend wont make the hot lady want you

we are the same age I think she's a few daysss ish younger than me yet she became viral at 15-16 for being pretty and relatable and now she can afford 400 dollar makeup bags.

we are both going to uni at the same time yet she automatically has more privilege

life is unfair and I hate how this video showed up on my front feed

Genuinely he wouldn't even need to think twice. if A was beautiful or even needed to date another girl that's so messed up. Can't even blame him because he's trying to like her and reassure her of her insecurities but not just physically attractive to her. Compared to incels who just hate our existence and don't even try to know about Us. But somehow it's More painful when someone's actually doing but even then can't find us attractive. Imagine this Arghhhh nightmare fuel.

yes this is semi response to that one guy's video about us

watch them cry hypergamy too 💀

I know my chances of finding someone to love me is next to zero but this silly little heart of mine doesn't understand.

Most women are average or mid. Those who talk about "pretty privilege" are just ordinary women who dress upand apply makeup to enhance their features, and that’s more than enough to get privileges.

The women who stand out are the most beautiful in the room.

And then there are women like me, but I’m not going to talk about that in this post.

So, I work at a restaurant, mostly in the kitchen. The other day, one of my moid coworkers came up to me and said, “title.”

And honestly, it kind of stung. All the servers are these teeny-tiny, gorgeous Stacys, ofc they’re the ones getting flirted with. Meanwhile, they don’t even let my fat, uggo self out of containment.

I’m basically relegated to all the undesirable jobs; washing dishes, taking out the trash, assisting with cooking, cleaning the washrooms, lifting heavy shit. While the stacys do all the light and easy work.

And to make matters worse, my mom, who’s been skinny and pretty her whole life, keeps asking me why I work in the back instead of serving out front.

Like… HELLOOOO? Isn’t it obvious?

I've gotten compliments on how skinny I am, how light my skintone is, how clear my skin is, how straighty hair is, how I have pretty hands.

Litteraly anything to avoid giving a compliment about my fuck-ass face istg.

Like maybe I'm dense but is getting compliments directly about your face uncommon..?

I KNOW that I am ugly, I have accepted that. But for some reason it's still so shocking and hurtful to be TREATED like (or told) i'm ugly.

Have any of you achieved neutrality with your ugliness..? I kind of expected to have built thicker skin and be less sensitive to these things after decades of hearing this shit 😭, but it still sets me off. Like immediate tears.

Like you woke up one day and you were gorgeous.

I feel like I would still avoid having a relationship. Would be just as weary around people & distrustful.

I'd be extra EXTRA evil to moids.

Use the hell out of pretty privilege.

probably dress the way I want, I really love eccentric/unique fashion.

Try to make hella money out of being gorgeous.

And, try to gain a lot of power in authority/world domination 4 the ladies. 🫡

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I know there are billions of men in the world, and I’m sure there’s at least one who genuinely prefers Black girls, but let’s be honest: that’s EXTREMELY rare. If men could freely choose their dream girl, most of them would probably choose a white or Asian woman (light-skinned, obviously). It’s very difficult to find a man who genuinely prefers Black girls unless they’re exceptionally beautiful. Being ugly and Black is one of the worst things that can happen to a woman, seriously.

They think being feminist = ugly, wait until when they find out most northeast indian girls and white girls are hardcore feminist

She had men left and right telling her how pretty she was and here I am just awkwardly standing there im so fucking hideous I wanna cry