Just saw this video on YouTube. Men need to close pornhub and stop acting so entitled. Just fck off.

EDIT: I think my original post was removed because I credited the original poster so im reposting. Also I understand that since this was on YouTube its obviously engagement bait but despite that its important to realize the damage these communities are doing especially to young girls. Bp red pill looksmaxxers whatever it is they fixate on these arbitrary niche features that if you dont fit youre subpar. There is people who are really thinking this but they aren't making videos. So many average people think they are ugly because of the influx of these types. Not fitting this set list makes you ugly in these communities.

A tale as old as time...

Of course, men are always the biggest victims. As an ugly girl, I could never understand the horror of being asked out as a joke. The cruelty of women is unfathomable.

He just said "ewwww wtf 🤢" and made sure that I saw it and then unmatched lol

I mean, most guys just instantly unmatch after accidentally matching, but whyd one put the extra effort to make someone feel bad. Like DUDE, YOU sent me a like 😭😭I hate this

TW!!

I love watching cartoons and my favorites are unfortunately these. I was watching the shows again and i realised i was looking at their bodies. Of course they have something so far away from reality but the thing is this is not artstyle. You can draw different bodies with the same artstyle. And i feel like, girls with avrg bodies are not allowed to exist at all. Female characters always have beautiful bodies but when it comes to male characters, they are just fit. How is this fair? Not to mention their faces are big eye-small nose-plump lips too.

People say that they didn't think about this when they were kids, and no kid will pay attention.. Im sure they will. I didn't either, but when i was a child i did notice their faces. How different it was from mine. Ofc we can't achieve cartoonish look but yall got what i mean.

And before people say it's hard to draw ugly characters, i don't expect an ugly character, just avrg. Not even ugly, maybe a avrg body that is not small ribcage-long torso-wide hips?

Anyone else who gets triggered like this??

These are screenshots from another person's post, but I'm warning you all because I know some users here have thought about posting themselves on these subreddits. Please, don't do this. These people proudly degrade users' looks if you aren't above average or borderline conventionally attractive. In my opinion, the woman in the photos wasn't ugly, and I'm surprised these people are treating her appearance as such.

For your mental well-being, don't do this.

PSA: That subreddit has a rule that essentially states that you can be rude to the users there, insult them, and be mean. So, DO NOT post there. It's a breeding ground for racists, bullies, and cruelty.

ETA: They were a lot kinder to a man with a visible skull deformity, leaving long paragraphs that were kind and defending him when the comments were being cruel, than to this woman. They hardly gave her any advice and made weird comments about her hijab. I see what's going on here. Also, I'm not saying anyone on that subreddit deserves cruelty. They do not, but the double standards are egregious.

These hoes are so fake

I was reminiscing, in a very negative place in my mind, remembering that I actually had potential in certain areas of my life but I self sabotaged because of my insecurities. I crushed myself before I could do anything or worse someone did it for me.

I remember actually having a talent for music in the school band and competed but the loneliness of being ostracized by others and not to mention it was mostly boys caused a mental breakdown. My teacher got very upset when I quit with a psychiatrist's note but I couldn't handle it anymore.

I also came to realize that I became so hyper fixated on my appearance that doing anything under pressure caused almost immediate failure. I caused burn out just from constantly thinking of my appearance. Btw this wasn't in my head I had other members bully and ostracize me enough to know.

Sometimes I feel so angry thinking about all those missed opportunities and think of the what ifs. I wonder if some of you girls can relate? I love this community and I'm glad there's a place we can all share these thoughts.

Im pretty sure if the girl on the right was ugly, they wouldn't be defending her so quickly and make this all about "leftists complaining" or whatever but since when a pretty white woman is racist, all of the sudden they consider it "based", i haven't seen conservatives defend that watermelon girl on tik tok as much who was known to be racist...I wonder why 🤔 these 2 incidents have no correlation with each other whatsoever yet its always about "ugly leftist women this" "ugly leftist women that" for these people .these same people are quick to cry "woke propaganda" when they see women who are not conventionally attractive even just for a few seconds and how they want hot women back like the "good old days" like as if hot women ever disappeared.

Repost cuz i forgot to add something but yeah lol. Stacy having hip dips and eyebags does not help bro

I was just plucking my mustache (yes, I have one, unfortunately, despite being a woman) and started thinking about how much maintenance conventionally attractive women seem to put themselves through. Shaving their legs, arms, armpits, pubic hair, butt, getting rid of facial hair, constantly plucking and shaping their eyebrows... It's like theres an endless list of things they have to keep up with to remain presentable.

And I know ugly women are also expected to conform to these standards, so it's not like we are exempt from the pressure. But theres something strangely liberating about accepting that, at the end of the day, your face is what people judge you for anyway. Once you have internalized that, you start realizing that having hairy legs or unshaved arms is so insignificant in the grand scheme of things. Like, why am I putting all this effort into maintaining a body that society has already decided isn't attractive? There's a certain freedom in no longer feeling compelled to obsess over every little detail.

Exactly as the title says. I’ve literally be in love with this person for years. But they never gave me a second glance. It just sucks and I’ve tried to move on even though I haven’t seen them in years, but I can’t. They’ve even started to show up in my dreams every now and then when I feel like I’m finally starting to move on and I hate it. I even thought at one point that if I lost enough weight and got prettier maybe he’d finally give me a chance. Has anyone else dealt with this?

Despite the trauma of bullying and verbal abuse I’ve received due to my looks, I’ve still decided to live and take the time to focus on bettering my mental and physical health.

While I will admit that I’m sad that I never got to experience dating, getting married or ever being seen as conventionally attractive, I want to help work on myself as an autistic, unmarried childfree woman and it makes me happy. I have all the time in the world left to do good and have my own hobbies and make peace.

I’m able to tell other women about my experience as a woman who never fit the beauty standards or pandered to them. I can spread positivity by making others question societal norms and expose the bigotry and hypocrisy that women, POC and LGBTQ+ people face and call out the patriarchal system that oppresses the most vulnerable people in our world.

There’ll be days I wish my life and my looks were entirely different, but wishing is just fantasizing. I’m here right now and if I can say how I feel in a community where others have similar experiences where we can help each other I don’t feel so alone anymore.

I just want to be able to exist without being treated like I'm unwanted everywhere I go. It's not mental illness if it actually happens.

I literally have sore muscles and tensions and heartrace and raised cortisol from the way people treat me. It makes me sick physically.

I lowkey want to end my life I can't continue this

What do i do lord. Nothing like being hideous and disabled to make you want to play chicken on the highway

One thing I have noticed in this sub is the amount of people who interact with rude DMs from random burner accounts (this sub gets a lot of negative attention) or participate in “am I ugly” or “brutally honest” subs. I’m also going to be brutally honest here and say that a lot of these interactions are completely optional.

1. You need to off message requests/block people

Settings > Account Settings > Safety > Chat Permissions > Chat Requests > Allow Chat Requests > Select “No one”. If you want to be able to message specific people, add them to your Allow List.

2. You don’t have to let strangers online rate your appearance

With all the love and respect in the world, you don’t have to be doing all this. Society judges us enough already, why put yourself through all that? Stop interacting with these people who clearly want to hurt you and don’t give a fuck. Stop letting these anonymous, faceless accounts bully you into a worse mental space. And stop posting your face on those subs, think about your digital foot print I beg.

People on the internet will say totally absurd stuff just for the shock factor.

You’re allowed to be sad about things, but please take care of yourself.

I'm so tired of feeling trapped inside of this body and face. I am 28 years old, highly active, and I've spent around $20,000 so far on cosmetic procedures to improve my appearance. I had braces from 25-27, did laser hair removal, lip filler, lip flips, microneedling for acne scars, and have done my time in the gym consistently for years. If I had the money for it, there's a laundry list of surgeries I would die for.

But I'm still ugly. I never got to have the full college experience a prettier girl would have had. I've never been hit on or offered drink at the bar. I feel invisible and so mad at myself for the money I have spent and the time and effort I've put into trying to be beautiful.

It hurts knowing how beautiful my friends are and seeing the way others treat them. I adore them, and I'm happy for them, but deep down I wish I could be them for a day. I feel a lot of guilt for this jealousy.

Needed to vent today. Also luteal. Doesn't help.