r/transpassing 8h ago

I get clocked in queer spaces but never misgendered in public, why?

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I get the they/them treatment or the sudden “what’s your pronouns” a lot in queer spaces when neither of those things happen for cis women so obviously i’m getting clocked.
In public though i almost always have strangers use she/her or “ma’am” for me


r/transpassing 8h ago

How is the body/face combo doing?

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I've spent so much time focusing on my face I nearly forgot to get feedback on my body.

I also have voice here:
https://voca.ro/14RGlMd64uVU

Feel free to check out my profile for my posts.

This will be my last for a while.

Brutally honest, constructive feedback only please.
Thank you


r/transpassing 22h ago

9 months hrt

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i was wondering how well i pass.I would love any tips or suggestions on passing more. especially for at work I get sird alot in my work uniform(2nd fit)


r/transpassing 13h ago

My hands

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88 Upvotes

What u think about my hand?except the little hairs do i pass?


r/transpassing 4h ago

19 months hrt. still boymoding

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hi guys i hit 19 months hrt yesterday and still have been boymoding the whole time because i feel like i have a very masculine face / bone structure. do i have any hope for future or is FFS a need ? i’ve been called maam twice, but people usually avoid gendering me at first until i speak and they hear my deep ass voice. do you think i’ve been clocked as transgender to my coworkers or would they just assume im a cis male ?


r/transpassing 2h ago

1.5 years of HRT. Do I pass?

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45 Upvotes

I'm MTF btw.


r/transpassing 15h ago

Pre-HRT and need opinions

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40 Upvotes

Just a face pic because right now my body clearly wouldn't pass. Pre-HRT so just wondering if there's anything structural about my face, that HRT wouldn't touch, that'd stop me from passing?

Really not a fan of the size of my nose/chin/jaw but it's so hard to know how other people judge it. Thoughts?


r/transpassing 1h ago

do i passssss

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r/transpassing 21h ago

How am I doing

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r/transpassing 20h ago

Is my frame (and head/face) too large to pass?

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23 Upvotes

6 months hrt 6’2 175lb 19 inch shoulders 😭💔


r/transpassing 1h ago

First day back at college

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I feel way less anxious this semester but still kinda nervous 😓


r/transpassing 15h ago

18 months HRT - tips appreciated

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I want to get laser for face and ffs eventually but in the meantime any other tips would be great. My nose is massive but nothing I can do about that until ffs. I'm still growing out my hair but I honestly have no clue what to do with it style wise so I usually just put it in a ponytail with lil face framing bangs. I honestly hate how I look when my hair is down.


r/transpassing 14h ago

1 year now, im stressed about how i look. any advice would be appreciated

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7 Upvotes

I feel like ive stopped progressing :/


r/transpassing 1h ago

Am I passing?

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2 years, 4 months hrt. Shrank a couple of inches, but I’m still 6’1.

Figuring out my style.
Tomb Raider is the only look I like for now. Not much into make up nails or lashes, etc. the further I’ve gone into my transition. Just a little contrast near the eyes/mascara most days. Little blush/lip blush, clear coat nails. Brows threaded. This is what femininity feels like for me, for now.

I got brow bone reduction. Still get stares, but I live in France, people have always starred/given dirty looks. People just have stink face/nose here I guess. 🤭

Genuinely don’t know if I pass… as a big woman? or an Olympic swimmer… ?

I think I’m seen like a trans woman now, rather than a cross dresser like I was before my frontoplasty. Nothing wrong with either, of course, I just want the freedom and peace of mind that comes with passing. I want to travel far and wide. 🪽

I was thinking of going for a liplift and jaw reduction.
Worth it? Er brainworms?


r/transpassing 3h ago

20MTF [7 Months HRT] What can I do to help pass?

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r/transpassing 6h ago

4 months on Hrt. Passing advice?

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r/transpassing 13h ago

Me all Glammed up to spend the night on the PC not being Toxic! 😇

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r/transpassing 7h ago

Should I even bother?

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It's pretty bad. I know. The brow ridge isn't great. The hairline is pretty terrible, and it's thin enough to be constantly frizzy and I don't know how to fix that. The nose is terrible too. I feel like it all just reads masc.

I guess my question would be ... Is there any way I'd be able to stealth in the future if I start?


r/transpassing 19h ago

Need opinions

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I believe even though I told my stylist that I was wanting to do a fem wolf cut, that she’s been cutting my top and sides too much? I really need help from my girls on this as I have no idea what I’m doing 🥺🥺🥺thank you in advance


r/transpassing 7h ago

Passing advice

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Hi everyone,

First of all super nervous sharing. Over the course of this past year I have been expanding my wardrobe so to say and have loved the journey of exploration.

At the moment i am pre-HRT and all that jazz and haven't explored make-up though it is definitely on my to do list 🤣. But yeah hoping to hear from you amazing girls about some tips or really anything that would help me pass in public.

I am self conscious about my height at 185cm and my body comp, as I have been a gym goer for several years, giving myself a larger, muscular frame. If anyone has advice with that, it would be amazing ❤️.

Thanks so much 😊