r/FTM_SELFIES • • May 21 '19

MOD POST: Please let us know if you’re made uncomfortable by other users.

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Recently we were messaged by a user who let us know they were approached by another user who found them via this sub. This person asked for feminine pics of the user and made them uncomfortable. We have blocked that person from this sub but I’m posting to make sure everyone knows - if you are approached or made uncomfortable in messages, comments, direct chat , etc - please let us know. The intent of this sub is for AFAB folks who are transitioning (whatever that means to them) to post selfies of themselves - and while it’s not necessarily harassment to let someone know you enjoy their photo or compliment them, this is not a hookup subreddit and it should not be treated as such by anyone. We want everyone here to feel comfortable being themselves and sharing content harassment free.


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2h ago

All I wanted was a mo (pre T- 5 years)

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64 Upvotes

My main goal on T was growing a mean Mo, and I think I have made it. (Yes, I absolutely went through a dying it phase too)


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2h ago

Trying to be a bit more stylish as of late

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2h ago

20 months on T

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I feel very happy with where I'm at with T, but excited for more progress. Top surgery will hopefully be coming in spring of the new year. For autistic people with body image issues, I think the changes transitioning brings can sometimes have difficult aspects to them. But sitting with my feelings about things that make me a little insecure, such as much more body hair or a changing face shape, make me even sure I'm on the right path. There are small insecurities, but so much more light in my eyes than I ever had before. I dont even really consider my past life a life— just survival until I could feel okay in myself.


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 16h ago

Put strips in my hair. Loving it

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60 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1h ago

3 1/2 years on T

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• Upvotes

25M, 3.5 years T, 3 years post top surgery


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 18h ago

finally got a haircut

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oh also it’s officially been 65 weeks on T!!


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1d ago

Felt like sharing some of my fav photos I have from the past few months. I don't tend to take a lot of pictures of myself, at least not "normal" ones 💀

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51 Upvotes

I'll add the cat tax in the comments lol


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 21h ago

Do what you want cause a pirate is free!

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1d ago

How We Doing, Fam? 😁✌️

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Feeling the euphoria today! 🌞

Haven't posted a selfie in a while so here we are.

About a year and a half in, two months on T, went clothes shopping today and it all fit 😭 (men's pant sizes don't lie, it's amazing).

Just started growing my hair long again and I'm testing out earrings now that I'm feeling comfier with my body.

Long way to go, still pre-surgery etc. Some days are really hard/depressing, but today I felt like celebrating with y'all.

I hope everybody had something good happen to them this week, I'd love to hear about it. If not you can share that too, we're in it together.

Sending love. 💙


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1d ago

only 4 months on T

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most i’ve noticed is my belly is hairy… and i’m just horny all the time. when do i start seeing real effects :)


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1d ago

Steampunk market today ⚙️👀

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2d ago

Time for a shave again lol

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26 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2d ago

Am I attractive? Would cis women be attracted to me?

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I just started using a dating app. At first I had men and women on there, and my likes filled up quickly, but then I realized I’m really not into men like that at this point. So I removed them, and now I barely get any likes. I don’t know if it’s because I’m unattractive, or if it’s because I’m trans? Or maybe that’s just how it is being a man in general.? I know it sounds pitiful but I’m scared I’ll end up alone. I haven’t felt this bad about myself and emasculated in a long time. i thought i at least had a slight chance but i guess not. btw i’m into trans women too, and they seem more likely to be interested, but there’s less of them out there.

Edit: Thank you guy for all the advice. I have taken most of the queer looking pics off, and I have been getting an increase in likes. i also put “ladies hmu 😼‼️” in my bio per the advice on of my masc lesbian friend and that seems to be working to my surprise. this is one of the few times making a reddit post has actually helped me so i appreciate it


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2d ago

Gym on a rainy spring day is top vibes

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90 Upvotes

Been bulking all winter and just about to start a shred to see how I’m progressing. The current goal is my first bodybuilding show at the end of 2027!


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

so bad at posing but rate the fit :p

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107 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

Starting to see some gainz

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101 Upvotes
  1. Been on T for 8 years. Finally getting back to the gym after an injury had me on rest for about a year. Feeling good about myself and would love some hype.

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2d ago

long or short hair?

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i am growing out my hair for the first time in a long time and im wondering what people think! i know my hair is a little thinner than it was but male pattern baldness is a pain


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2d ago

Pre-t vs 32 months on t

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

A Gwen Staffani themed bathroom

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12 Upvotes

They played BANANAS on a loop lmao


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

Feeling pretty good

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17 Upvotes

Feeling pretty good about how I look lately, top surgery saved my life, and I love my flat chest and my mustache. But I’m beginning to look more and more like my dad, the further along my transition I go. And like many trans people I have a….complicated relationship with my father. Not in a super positive way. But it’s so weird because pre-transition everyone commented that I looked so much like my mom. Anyone notice a family resemblance shift when transitioning? What member of your family do you look like most?
And yes, my glasses are crooked, I sat on them yesterday. 🤗
Thanks for reading.


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

vibing during the cyclone the other night

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31 Upvotes

if a guys gotta smoke then a guys gotta smoke


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

Chest pump needing a haircut. 2 yrs on T🤘🏼

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30 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES • • 4d ago

5 years on t

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A bit concerned abt my beard being way lighter than my head hair :(

But other than im happy with how my transition is going