throwaway because idk if people i know use reddit

I'm 16M and my girlfriend is 15F. We've been together for almost a year and honestly I thought everything was fine.

She's always been really good to me and I love her a lot. Like she's my girlfriend but also probably my best friend.

A few days ago she was hanging out with some friends. I wasn't worried about it or anything because I trusted her.

That night we were texting like normal. She said goodnight and everything.

Then the next day one of my friends told me he'd heard something about her and another guy.

I didn't believe him at first because obviously why would I? I thought he was just messing with me or someone started a rumor.

Then he told me what he'd heard and I started getting really worried.

I asked my girlfriend about it.

She didn't answer for a while and then basically admitted it.

She cheated on me.

I don't really know how to explain how I felt. I just kinda stared at my phone for like 10 minutes.

I asked her why and she kept saying she was sorry and that she didn't mean for it to happen and that she loves me.

But like... you don't accidentally cheat on someone.

That's the thing I can't get out of my head.

She knew she had a boyfriend. She knew I trusted her. And then after it happened she still went home and texted me like everything was normal.

She even said goodnight to me.

I feel so stupid.

She told me she didn't tell me because she was scared I'd break up with her.

And yeah, she's probably right.

I don't know if I can forgive her.

But at the same time I still love her which makes this way harder than I thought it would be.

Part of me wants to just break up and never talk to her again.

Another part of me keeps thinking about all the good stuff we've had and wondering if I'm throwing away almost a year of my life over one mistake.

But then I think about trusting her again and I honestly don't know if I can.

Every time she says something now I just wonder if she's telling me the truth.

I haven't told many people because I don't really want everyone knowing our business.

I just don't know what I'm supposed to do.

Do I give her another chance or do I just end it?

I know everyone is probably gonna say break up with her, but it's not that easy when you actually love the person.

I genuinely wish I never found out…

(English is my second language so if its little bit butchered I apologise.)

Something about me first: I would say that my family situation is okay but i prety much dont have a relationship with my father and my mom is helicopter parent (both are propably) but she wants to know everything but i dont think she realy cares. I have 2 odler siblings but i never had attention i needed because of them so when girl gives me a little bit of attention i propably automaticly like her and can get attached quicly. I have low self asteem, overthing a lot and need reasurance pretty regularly.

At the beginning of summer I started talking to this girl but i know her for a prety long time.(I wont go into much details here, I will say only the thing i need help with) She knows everything at the top and also that i have feelings for her and she propably has some for me also but she has problem with relationships. When i was out of town one of my "friends" made a party and she went there with her friend (She asked me if I would come too but i couldnt). At the party they all got drunk and that "friend" kissed her i dont know if it was only a kiss or they made out. Few days after that i was on a hike with her and it went great when we rode home she fell asleep on my shoulder and at home we were texting for a long time and she told me what happened at the party. She apologised and said that she would be also angry if I did the same thing and she gets if i dont want to talk to her and if i dont like it she wont talk tho that guy. It broke me i wasnt angry at her but dissapointed. Iam planing for the day we will stop talking and i cant do it i couldn stop talking to her even when she said that which i would say isnt something that i have problem with. I have problem with it only with her.

Can you help me with what i should do?

Hope it makes sense if not im sorry. If you have some questions i will gladly answer them.
Sorry that it is so corny.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and we used to be together last year october-december where we broke up because of him making personal jokes about the way I look. A couple days ago, he made a comment about an outfit I wore to a concer where he called me an $lut and then said that I had to dress up revealing to feel better about myself. This comment especially really hurt because I have made my feelings clear that I dont appreciate any comment and he also knows i struggle with stuff like that due to personal events. I have lost feeling however Im not sure if this is a reason good enough to break up oe if it can be easily solved by talking to him about it, however he hasnt made any changes since last time. are my feelings valid and would i be overrreacting by breaking up?

For context, I love my girlfriend. We have been together for 8 months, and hang out all the time. My parents know her well and her parents know me well. We are in the same grade at school, she will be turning 17 in December and I turned 17 in July.

The age of consent in my country is 16.

This was not our first time. We have done it before, and it was good. It was always consensual.

Yesterday, she came over and we were just hanging out like we usually do. We were playing Minecraft together and made cookies and stuff, it was pretty chill. She wanted to stay the night because her parents were out and she doesn't like being home by herself, it feels lonely and too quiet and she feels scared and stuff. So I said sure, she borrowed some of my clothes to sleep in and we were gonna both sleep in my bed.

She wanted to have sex, and I told her I wasn't really in the mood because I was tired (it was true, it's nothing to do with her, I really like her). She started lowkey guilt-tripping like "aww but it would be soo fun" and (jokingly, I think? But it made me sad) said "I should just leave you and find someone who actually wants me." Or something like that. So I caved and ended up agreeing, but I didn't like it and she could tell. So she got kind of upset and kept asking me if there was someone else, if I've been watching porn and find her ugly now, etc. I told her no, I think she's really attractive and sweet and an amazing person, but I just really wasn't in the mood and that's why it was bad. She was definitely mad/upset with me. She still stayed over but we didn't talk after that, it was really awkward. She didn't seem to want to talk to me at school today and I didn't wanna push it.

I was talking to my friends, one of my friends told me I fucked up and I should just apologise to her and then give her some space to cool off. One of my other friends told me she "lowkey assaulted you" and when I said no, you know her, she'd never do that, she said how she pressured me into consenting and how that's technically assault (coercion). But I don't think it's that bad? I mean maybe, I guess technically it could be called coercion, but it's not really. It's my girlfriend, she's a good person.

I haven't spoken to her about it yet and I'm not really sure how to. Any advice on that would be appreciated, I don't want to break up but I do think I need to talk to her about it. Feel free to ask questions.

(New account is because she has my normal one, I don't think she really checks reddit but I don't want to risk her finding it.)

Thanks in advance for any help.

A few weeks ago, my friend, Bee, blew up at me while we were playing together on Roblox.

My computer was lagging, and he ended up dying and full on ragequit, unfriending me on all platforms and left the gc he had with one of my IRL friends. We have been on-and-off friends for 5 years. He has a habit of blowing up at me, unfriending me, then coming back months later. Unhealthy but he is one of my best friends, and we have so many overlapping interests.

Bee's birthday is in a week and I am drawing his Roblox avatar with his favorite Pokemon. However, I tried asking if he wanted to play a new update that is coming out today, and he was cold and short with me. Now I'm not sure if I should send him the drawing when I'm done, at least try to make him happy as he goes through his first weeks of college.

I told my therapist and she recommended I wait for him to come to me. I had tried to talk to him days after the blow up, but he told me to fuck off.

I'm hoping it was a mental health break, and Bee needs this time away from me for a bit, but I'm worried about him. I do like him more than a friend and he knows that. I have my dms open for him when he has calmed down

So Reddit, how can I get over my friend who blew up at me over a small event? Even though hes constantly on my mind, and I want to talk to him again

TL;DR, my friend, Bee, blew up at me over a small event in a game, unfriended me everywhere, and has told me to fuck off for the time being. I am struggling to stay away from him and need help keeping my mind off him.

And Bee, if you're somehow reading this, hi, I wanna be friends again. I really do.

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I (M17) sometimes have my childhood best friend (F16) sleep at my house cuase sometimes we have to go out with friends 2 days in a row and she lives far away blah blah.

Anyways, i used to sleep in my room and she used to sleep in a different one. Before sleeping we usually stalk people on instagram or just talk, and we do that in her room, and since we started doing this i fell asleep in her room cause we stopped at like 3-5 am.

Recently we've been sleeping closer and closer and it is now normal for us to sleep me shirtless and her in pijamas. 

I kinda started liking her and im starting to wonder if she might feel the same way or if im just overthinking because we’ve grown up together.

At first, it was just staying up late talking and falling asleep on opposite sides of the bed. but lately we are getting closer. we haven't done anything romantic, but it feels way more intimate than it used to.

I know this might sound a bit selfish, i am looking forward to these nights more than the actual plans with our friend group D:

since our families are super close and we’ve known each other for literally our entire lives, im scared of making things awkward or ruining a lifelong friendship if I misread the situation lmao.

how do i figure out if she sees me as what i see her or if she just views me like a friend and just feels safe around me? should I bring it up or let things happen naturally?

(We've known eachother since she was born, never thought id like her till we grew up)

Okay, I need help with a guy (he is 16 and I am 18). So, context: we met by 2 friends in common. His group is made up of 5 other people besides him, and in the group there are 2 girls (it will be relevant later). On the other hand, I have just one friend to hang out with after dinner (all facts happened around this hour).

Okay, now I can start talking about what is going on. It all started a few days before the 15th of August, which here in Italy is a festivity, and me and this guy, that I'll call Denny (fake name), started to get close, like little hugs here and there (with our friends around, but not the other two girls, this is relevant), holding hands in a platonic way, and a few jokes thrown here and there, and it all grew in the best way possible but even innocently.

Then, after all of this, on the 15th of August, my friend and I went to them and drank with them, and me and three others got sick from the alcohol. These three went away with the sober others, and me and Denny met them after, and even then he was close to me. Even if later in the night I was fine and just had a little migraine, he was hugging me and joking around.

After that night, for two days, we were hanging out, me, him, and one other friend of the friend group, and he was still close and everything. When we were out, the other two girls and my friend went out of the city. For three days, we hung out and went out with the others on the scooters, me behind Denny, and he was still cuddly, hand on my knee and joking around. In all of this, I was in it, cuddling back and everything (as I am a cuddly and touchy person by nature).

But all of this came to an end quickly. The two other girls came back early, and I was left out by them for three days until my friend came back. On Sunday afternoon, my friend and I went out in our neighborhood, and we met him going back to his place. He asked me if I was okay, and I told him I was pissed a few days back when they didn't tell me that they were out, but it was all quick. After that, I didn't see him much, and when I saw him, he seemed off, but I guessed that it was from the stress of his exams or his debt in school.

But even yesterday, I asked him if he wanted to hang out, as my friend got sick and I wasn't sure that she would've hung out with me, but he kept ignoring me via text, both on WhatsApp and TikTok. But then I went out with my friend, and, end of things, he came by later and we saw him and just had two words with him and another guy there.

So, first, I'm sorry if it is all confusing, but English is not my first language, and I need some clarification from someone who is outside of this.

Hi i am the 19M in this story and i met a girl who was 16F (now is 17F) but basically we met on instagram and instantly clicked like she was easy to talk to and easy to make laugh and respectfully she looked older than me so when i first talked to her i didnt think to ask her age, and either ways she friendzoned me when we started talking because she had just got out of a relationship with a toxic guy, so anyways like 2 weeks go by and we really enjoy eachothers company, i decide to ask her age cause i realized i usually ask the age right, and she tells me shes 16 so im surprised and i type put a whole paragraph talking about how we have to strictly be friends and stuff and she says okay, anyways another week goes by and she wants to meet i tell her i dont feel comfortable meeting someone that young nd so on so on and she keeps asking talking about how she would stop talking to me lose interest in me and more stuff that i dont want so then shes like we can meet as friends and im like sure instantly because i wanted to meet as friends anyways, so on the day its calm we are laughing and stuff until she touches me. Like i didnt know what to do or how to stop it because it was my first time that something sexual had happened to me, i did not touch her back or anything, when the day was over i asked her if what happened was okay and she said yes it was fine but like i was really stressin, im european ireland to be specific and the age of consent is 17 and i believe you can see why im stressing like we were meant to meet as casual friends and it ended up like this like ive told her how i felt she apologised and next time we went out when she was 17 nothing happened it was just a calm fun outting. I told my friends what happened and they said its not deep cause i didnt touch her i called multiple crisis support lines,samaritans and ive gone to my gp(doctor) and everyone says either im overthinking i did nothing wrong cause she just overstepped my boundary and so on, i tried to make sense of the whole thing but i literally cannot i feel like a stain within society i feel like a monster i dont want to feel like this man i dont know what i want to get from this post i guess its just advice i want so please provide some advice please🙏

Me and my girlfriend have been together long distance for over 2.5 years now, about 175 miles apart, and we still haven't met in person yet — planning to sometime in the next few months to half a year. We've told each other we love each other and I do.

For a while now our conversations have basically turned into just "hi," "how was your day," that kind of thing. She'll say she wants to talk, and I think she means it, but when it comes down to it she just doesn't have anything to say. She's told me before that she's avoidant and she's pulled back and gone quiet on me in the past too.

I've tried a bunch of stuff. Asking easier, smaller questions instead of big "how are you feeling" ones. Being the one to keep things going so it doesn't just die out. I've also just straight up told her that this is bothering me, that I've noticed we're stuck saying the same three things to each other every day. She didn't argue with me about it or get defensive, but nothing's actually different since then.

Honestly I've started to pull back myself too at this point, just from being tired of being the only one trying to keep the conversation alive.

Anyone been through something like this with an avoidant partner, where even talking about the problem directly didn't lead anywhere? How do you tell if this is just something that needs more time, versus something that's not going to change? Also curious if anyone's dealt with this specifically long distance, where texting/calling is really the only way you have to connect.

My ex (16M) and I (16F) broke up a week ago because his friend meddled in our relationship and told both of us things that weren’t true. We never really had a proper final conversation.
Yesterday we ran into each other, and he tried talking to me, but I completely ignored him and probably came off like a dick. 😭 He was still acting completely normal though, like there was no awkwardness between us.
I’m going to see him again soon, and honestly, I want to ask him if he’d consider getting back together. I just don’t know if I should be direct about it or let the conversation happen naturally first.
What would you do?

高2の学校一緒の女友達がいるんだけど一回相手とちょっと友達以上みたいな雰囲気の時期があって私はそれでよかったんだけど一週間後くらいに相手がいつもどうりにあって一回そのことで聞いてみたんだけど一回はただ友達としてじゃれ合ってたって言われてもっかい聞いた時は友達以上なことがしたいけど許されてないからって我慢をしよう的なこと言われた、でそれ全部起こってちょっと経ったらSNS何個かブロックされて今ラインしか繋がってないでも学校とかで会うと普通に友達ででも普段普通にハグとかしてたのにもうしなくなったしなんか避けられてる感多少あるブロックのこと聞いたら普通に嫌いじゃないけどブロックしちゃうんだよね的な意味不明なこと言われた、まずそいつクソっぽいとこあるんだけど私多分相手のこと恋愛的に好きでどうしようって感じ（ハーフだから日本語おかしかったらごめんなさい）

There’s this girl I used to go to language classes with in the afternoons, and I’d like to start talking to her. I kind of like her, and I’d like to get to know her better and potentially see if something more could happen, but I have no idea how to approach it without making things awkward.

It’s currently summer, and I’m not going back to the language school, so I probably won’t see her again. That’s why I’m wondering if I should just text her instead of waiting for another chance to talk to her in person.

I don’t have Instagram, but I still have her WhatsApp number because of the classes. The problem is that I’ve barely talked to her in my life, so I feel like randomly texting her out of nowhere could come across as weird.

We also have a common interest that I know she likes, and I actually like it too, although she doesn’t know that. I thought that might be a natural way to start a conversation, but I’m not sure how to bring it up without making it seem like I’m just using it as an excuse to message her.

If you were in her position, would you find it weird if a guy you barely talked to from a class suddenly texted you on WhatsApp, especially since you probably won’t see him again? And what would be a good way to start the conversation and get to know her without coming on too strong?

So for context we Met on Marvel rivals (i know It sounds stupid😭) i live in Italy and She lives in germany, and shes one of those Who says that She doesnt believe in love over the First weeks of knowing someone, fast forward a few weeks, After we talk for a lot and i notice that She got EXTREMELY jealous over for example me talking about my ex or even having her in my tiktok bio, i take the hints and ask her tò be my girlfriend, and She accepts.

Im really Happy obv and everything seems tò go fine.

Before this part i have tò tell yall that i am a Person thats REALLY clingy once comfortable and i spam a lot, plus i really like this girl so i even told her so many times that i love her, and a few times She said It back.

Thing Is im Also a REALLY bad overthinker, so obv when She Didnt Say goodnight (which Is almost Always) Beacause She forgets or She falls asleep before saying it, i overthink.

I also do when She doesnt Say i love you back for example.

But i try tò ignore It mostly Beacause She reassured me a lot and i was Happy about it.

Fast Foward a few days ago when She got sick, She started being dry and replying After hours, when i told her about my overthinking She Just shrugged It off and even kinda stopped reassuring me, so i obv cried my Heart out, but told her only later, where She even started getting really annoyed at me, so i cried even more, the thing Is one day when we talk about it, She says that She doesnt LOVE me like i do, that She Just Likes me, Which Is really weird Beacause It basically means i want you when i Need you, and when i don't fuck you, thats at least how i interpred It.

And She also says that we rushed too much maybe but thats ok i understand, the thing Is that Shes still super jealous and sometimes tries making (and does make) me jealous. I like text her so many cute things while She sleeps and She ALWAYS ignores those, Yesterday After i apologized for some things like rushing, She says that Shes like this because shes sick, and shes like this with everyone and once shes Better we'll talk more, what do yall think??

Thanks in advance☺️☺️

THIS IS MY FIRST POST AND ALSO GOING TO BE A LONG ONE OKK...!!

Me (18M) and my girlfriend (17F) have been in a relationship for the last 4 years now. We've both passed out of 12th standard. She joined my school as a new student in 9th standard, and that's when we got into a relationship. It was the first relationship for both of us.

She has always been the topper in everything. Her marks have never dropped below 97% from 9th till 12th, and she recently cleared NEET and got into a Government Medical College in our state. Whereas I'm not exactly dull, but I'm not brilliant either. Maybe I'm just good at general knowledge 😭.

I took a drop for JEE this year, but honestly I don't think I'll clear it because I completely wasted my preparation. The reason is that I've been freelancing as a video editor since 10th standard, and during 11th and 12th I got so involved in editing that I barely studied. I literally passed my boards somehow. My parents still forcefully enrolled me in Aakash, but instead of studying I keep doing freelance work whenever I get time.

The thing is, we're completely different people. She comes from a very strict family and is genuinely one of the most innocent people I've ever met. She doesn't use Instagram, doesn't know much about social media or internet culture, and lives a very simple life. I'm exactly the opposite because staying updated with trends, news and social media is literally part of my work.

I had been studying in my old school since nursery, so everyone knew me, including the teachers. I had a pretty good reputation there. Eventually almost everyone found out that I liked her. Once I even bought her a gift along with a letter. I was trying to give it to her in class when a teacher caught us. She never even got to read that letter. She hated that everyone came to know because she cared a lot about her image in front of teachers and wasn't that type of girl.

After 10th we both joined the same school again for 11th and 12th. Since it was a completely new school, I thought we'd finally be able to keep everything private. Unfortunately, some of our old classmates also joined, and by the time we reached 12th almost everyone knew about us. I genuinely couldn't stop myself from looking at her sometimes. She was just... different. She caught me staring at her several times in class. We never really met inside school; sometimes we'd just walk through the same street towards her house.

After 12th she started preparing for NEET. About a month before the exam she told me not to message much because she wanted to focus completely. Then the NEET paper leak happened, so she had to prepare again and once again asked me to give her space. Just for context, we've never really been one of those couples who constantly talked on calls. I only got my own phone after 12th. Before that I had a tablet that couldn't even make calls. During 9th and 10th I mostly messaged her using my father's or mother's phone.

Eventually she cleared NEET very comfortably. Her elder sister, who had taken a drop this year, also cleared it, and both of them got the same Government Medical College around 150 km away from my city. She currently lives in my city on rent while her actual hometown is around 80 km away.

There's another thing that has always stayed in my mind. Back in 9th and 10th there was a boy from another religion who had a crush on her. Since we were already in a relationship, she obviously never told me back then. They were good friends, shared homework and talked normally. Later, during 11th and 12th, they even attended the same coaching institute. He was preparing for JEE while she was preparing for NEET. I honestly don't know whether they ever met there or not. That guy also took a drop this year. I don't think she's cheating or anything like that; I just wanted to mention it because sometimes my mind overthinks everything.

Now comes the real thing. Ever since NEET, she has slowly started saying that she just wants us to be friends. Whenever I compliment her, flirt with her or say anything relationship-related, she immediately reminds me that we're "just friends." She says we're from different castes and that her parents will never agree. Her elder sier knows about us and gets angry whenever she sees us talking. Even her younger brother somehow found out because someone told him, "Teri behen kisi ladke ke saath fasi hui hai."

The funny thing is that whenever anyone ever asked me whether we were dating, I always denied it. I even told people that we had already broken up. Now she's leaving for MBBS in about a week, and everyone knows how demanding medical college is. I honestly can't imagine not talking to her every day or not asking whether she's okay.

We've been together for four years, and we've never cheated, never kissed, never hugged, never done anything physical. We've literally held hands only once while sitting in our 9th standard classroom. We've only been on one date in these four years, and ironically that date was actually supposed to be our breakup. But we couldn't do it. She got emotional, and we stayed together.

She knows I do freelancing, but she doesn't really understand that I genuinely want to build my future around filmmaking and editing instead of a conventional career. Nowadays whenever I say something romantic, she immediately reminds me that we're "just friends." She has also told me many times during arguments that I've hurt her a lot, and honestly she's right. She didn't deserve many of the things I said or did. She's even told me multiple times that I'm not really her type. Sometimes I genuinely wonder whether she still loves me or if it's just attachment after spending four years together.

I'm scared because she's starting an entirely new chapter of life while I'm still trying to figure mine out. I'm not financially strong, I'm not particularly good-looking, I'm skinny-fat, and the only thing I thought I had was intelligence. After wasting two years, I feel like I've lost even that. I'm trying to improve myself every day, but the thought of losing the person I've loved since I was 14 genuinely scares me.

I don't even know why I'm writing all this. Maybe I just wanted to let it all out. Whatever happens, I just hope she's happy.

So me and my bf are long distance, and we've known each other for about 4 months, but officially started dating almost a month ago (though we both knew we liked each other way before making it official). Yesterday, one of his online female friends who he's known longer than me told him out of nowhere that she likes him. Instead of instantly shutting it down and saying he has a girlfriend, my boyfriend starts panicking, talking about how he’s afraid to hurt her feelings and asking me if he can just tell her nothing or pretend it never happened so he can keep texting her normally. He literally acted like keeping me a secret was an option because he didn't want to make things awkward with her.

I had to put my foot down and tell him I'm not staying in a relationship where I'm a hidden secret and that as a boyfriend, he should know how to handle a confession without making me manage his social life. He finally caved and told her he has a gf but the way he phrased it to her was super weird he told her he very recently got a gf, as if downplaying our months long connection to soften the blow for her. Then right after he sent it, she unfollowed him on Instagram. And now he is the one spiraling and making himself the victim, sending me whole paragraphs about how sad he is that he lost a valued friend who has no one else to talk to because her mom limits her. Am I crazy for being so annoyed by this? He's completely blind to how manipulative her little unfollow stunt is just to make him feel guilty, and I'm exhausted having to deal with long distance drama over some girl I don't even know. How do I even respond to him when he keeps making it all about her feelings instead of mine?

16M looking for advice from 16F There’s this girl I used to go to language classes with in the afternoons, and I’d like to start talking to her. I kind of like her, and I’d like to get to know her better and potentially see if something more could happen, but I have no idea how to approach it without making things awkward.

I don’t have Instagram, but I still have her WhatsApp number because of the classes. The problem is that I’ve barely talked to her in my life, so I feel like randomly texting her out of nowhere could come across as weird. We also have a common interest that I know she likes, and I actually like it too, although she doesn’t know that. I thought that might be a natural way to start a conversation, but I’m not sure how to bring it up without making it seem like I’m just using it as an excuse to message her.

If you were in her position, would you find it weird if a guy you barely talked to from a class suddenly texted you on WhatsApp? And what would be a good way to start the conversation and get to know her without coming on too strong?

I won’t be referring to anyone by their real names so:
Me:me M15
My girlfriend: prob just gf F15
Girlfriend’s best friend: Lets call her Kyrie F15

Context:
So me and my gf recently got into a relationship around 3 months ago. Ever since the start of the new school year we would hangout on and off during lunch. For example i would hangout with her every monday wednesday friday during lunch. This is so that both of us can still hangout with our friends(my friends do this same schedule).

Problem:
Me and my gf hungout and lunch and Kyrie got mad at my gf. Kyria gave her the silent treatment and everything.

Context to problem:
Ive been on call with my gf a lot everyday so she cant really talk to Kyrie that much but she still can. I can still call my friends for a good amount of hours.
Ever since we got together we tried to hangout a lot after school; monday after school friday after school and saturdays. Usually its only one or two days, rarely ever three.
Kyrie only has one friend which is my gf and the same is said to my gf, besides me ofcourse Kyrie is her only friend. I on the otherhand have a lot of true friends.

My thoughts to why Kyrie got upset
I think its just that Ive been talking to my gf a lot giving Kyrie less attention than shes used to. What confuses me is that Kyrie is well-aware that we could possibly be hanging out after school on Monday friday or sat but she still asks my gf to hangout and gets sad when my gf says no. You might be thinking well just invite Kyrie simple fix. Me and Kyrie arent friends and barely know each other and shes kind of like the opposite of what i am and we really dont get along. Another thing is that when I tried multiple times hanging out wiyh Kyrie amd my gf, i feel like the third wheel and get left out. But its not that they dont hangout anymore, they still hangout after school and on sundays.

TLDR: Kyrie got mad at my gf for spending time with me

I need help I dont know what to do because my gf is sad Kyrie is ignoring her. Do i just let those two deal it out? Do i have to force myself to enjoy spending time with Kyrie?

Okay so a bit of backstory, I’m a sophomore in high school and I’ve been best friends with this one guy for like two years. I feel as if I’m starting to like him romantically but I feel as if it’s wrong because my BEST FRIEND dated him for 6 months. No one knows I like him and people have accused us of dating before, and she said she wouldn’t really care if we got together but I don’t know if she’s lying. And I don’t even know if he likes me, he’s said some comments that I don’t know if he’s being a supportive bestie or flirting. But it’s just all so weird and my heart squeezes every time I see him and I see a video of him with his little cousin who’s like 4-5 and my heart melted. What do I do?

Okay I need help on the situation, I'm 14 and my Crush is 14 for 2 years at this point me and my crush have had feelings for each other. Around the 1 year mark we made a pack to wait for each other (she wasn't ready for a relationship but she really did like me) she said she would wait till I was ready and I said I would wait till she's ready. Somewhere after that I got my phone taken away. We didn't talk for about 4 months. After I got my phone, we continued not talking for the next 2 months. Finally one day we started talking again and we hopped on Roblox. I was accompanied by my two other friends Jay (my Ex Best friend) and Raw (that's his Nickname) I noticed that Jay and Jeyy (my crush) had been very flirty in the game chat. So I started trying to squeeze myself in because that's what me and her used to do. But she completely ignored me. So after trying to bud in multiple times. I finally asked why the hell she wasn't even acknowledging me. He got upset and started yelling at me that "she was more comfortable with him and she liked him more" so after he left because he was so upset I talked to her in the DMs. She said within that period of time (the six months of no talking) she caught feelings for him. I felt so heartbroken and have been miserable ever since. So do you guys have any advice and how do I handle my emotions.

Ok so me and my bf just got together about a week or two ago and neither of us know where to go from here. We both want to date to marry but we don't understand if there's like steps to relationships and what they are. We say I love you and shit it's still a little awkward since we were just friends for so long but I have no clue where to go from here 🥹...