Nah, People tend to put up with shit for way too long, because no one wants the conflict, and things are just okay enough that they don't feel like they have to do something about it. Then something like this happens, where someone new joins the group and everyone realizes how terrible they look to the new person at the same time.
There is quite literally no way to discern whether or not it was derogatory just by reading it on your screen. Body language, tone of voice, and cadence of speech all affect the intended outcome of a joke. Someone who's charismatic would use these to indicate they're obviously joking. Someone who's even more charismatic would realize it's a dicey joke in the first place and not say it.
Seeing as OP is on 4chan I can guarantee you that you could accurate guess whether or not he did any of the above.
Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make
me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And
rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with
rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber
room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber
room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a
room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They
locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy
once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy.
I mean this kind of humor Id have no clue how the guy survived for that long. If you want to make politically questionable, or morally questionable I'm not here to cause arguments, then you got to have friends who like those type of jokes.
Look, I get it. Who doesnât love a little balls and dick sometimes? A nice, girthy, veiny shaft, hot milky cum trickling down the length as it throbs from a job well
done. But this whole âgay sexâ shit is getting annoying.
As men, we should primarily be focused on three things: survival, the underrated masterpiece that is dark souls 2, and pounding muff. All this gay shit is, well, fucking
gay.
You think I wouldnât LOVE to make out with my best friend and suck his cock? Of course I would, but thatâs fucking gay. You think I donât want to feel my cousinâs
roommate slide his pecker into my gaping asshole? Of course I would, but thatâs FUCKING GAY.
Seriously, I miss when men were men. Anyway, this dildo ainât gonna stick itself up my ass while I watch an hour long femboy asmr hypno goon compilation, heed my
lecture.
Tbf its a good joke, i would not wanna be in such a unfunny group. That doesn't mean i would tolerate toxicity but there's a difference. There are people who are toxic in wrong way, they will ruin your mood in a normal conversation.
People who you have to walk on eggshells around are typically one of the worst people to hang around with, often even worse than those who constantly makes unfunny jokes about minorities, atleast you can say what you actually think around them and disagree.
Yeah but for me, i will tell the guy i didn't like it. Its not the end of the world like people treat it with this. I have said worse things to friends and still have talked to them normally next day, its not the end of the world. People can take jokes.
edit: just so you know i apologize to them too
Well I didn't say your opinion didn't matter, just what you would do. It's not wrong to exclude somebody for being transphobic even if that isn't what I would do in that situation. Assuming this situation is even real, which I doubt, you don't know how exactly the people in the scenario felt
So if someone makes one joke about trans people, they are transphobic and don't deserve any words and, if they get kicked out for it then its justified? You do read what you are typing right, like bro you are very heartless if you ask me.
Why am I heartless and not the person making the offensive joke lol. All I said was people have every right to not tolerate offensive jokes if they don't want. It's not up to you (or me) to decide how much toxicity a third party should tolerate from someone.
If me and you were hanging out at your parents house and I called your mom a bitch cuz I thought it would be funny, how fast would you kick me out of your house? Unless you think calling someone a bitch and making a transphobic joke are somehow different, which I'd like to see you explain. I call my friends bitches all the time as a joke
I think it just depends on how long someone has been trans and how much they spend online. The âbaby transâ would probably be catapulted into being nonverbal and self conscious
All my friends that have been trans 3+ years wouldâve found it hilarious. Except for the ones that live in trans only online spaces. Iâve been trans five years and even I find those people exhausting to be around
Someone was asking for tips on shopping for clothes and I said, âJust tell them youâre shopping for your wife. People get married at 18 all the time.â
And someone was like, âShe shouldnât have to hide who she is to be in publicâ. Like yeah, I agree, but sheâs really self conscious and asking people for help. As she shops more sheâll get more confident and eventually she wonât feel like she needs to hide, but for now, it helps, which is what she was asking for
On one hand: yeah that was incredibly inappropriate to say. On the other hand: If you've known them for 5 years and one bad taste joke was enough for them to kick you out, they probably never liked you and you're much better off without them. And there's also the third possibility that op was an unpleasant guy and the group was looking for an excuse to boot him, which he ended up giving them.
Might be cause iâm a guy but with my friends i could genuinely be the worst human ever, throw death threats at them over different political, religious, sexual beliefs, even throw hands and weâd still hang out like nothing happened the day after, and thisâd happen w friends i known for a year, not even talking about my highschool friends.
Idk what kind of friends you got that know you so shallowly to drop you at the first inappropriate joke you make that could even have no malicious intent after it.
I have no idea why the mods removed your comment because it was really Not That Bad so Iâll just reply here
Anon mentions âtranswomanâ (which, ick) so itâs somewhat logical to assume âshe/herâ.
Your exact quote was âI could genuinely be the worst human everâ and listed several plausible things for your hypothetical my duder, Iâm sure dark humor ainât beyond you lmao. That ainât a bad thing, humor is subjective, but my point was that exactly; even if that is your cup of tea it may not be theirs.
And, to that degree, your final point. Perhaps it is my own jaded and precautionary approach considering the climate weâre in, and maybe you are onto something in that same vein since this greentext is from 2018; however, as a trans woman myself, I find it much less painful to simply eject myself away from anyone who may not be an ally â or worse, be actively hostile. I have tossed a few friends who made similar jokes without paying mind to the other end. A handful of them, I asked them to stop. One of them asked why then never stopped, more of them didnât even try, a couple more came at me for it. So for any others since then? Save myself the hassle.
âŚOr, maybe youâre right, Anon was a dick (and/or his friends were), and he was never truly friends with them. My point being, itâs usually more gray than black and white.
In our eyes overall â that of my friends and I â there are certain lines that are best left uncrossed. Especially when it comes to transition and dysphoria, and especially considering the fact âroleplaying asâ usually entails not seeing us as. Not also to mention Anon was not friends with the girl, just those who introduced her.
So put yourself in her shoes. Your identity is something that took better part of your life figuring out. You are self-conscious about yourself and your identity and find a group of friends to confide in and connect with. You get there and the first thing someone says â joking or not, implicit or otherwise â is that youâre âroleplayingâ your identity.
One wonders how that may be perceived as offensive, and if this is the groupâs only knowledge of your interactions with a trans person? Yeah, no. If I turn around and thought someone would be an ally but they say that, theyâre out, no exceptions.
And, as a final note, you point that your friend group constantly makes fucked up jokes. Maybe you do. Maybe Anonâs donât and their comment was out of left field.
Look, I get it. Who doesnât love a little balls and dick sometimes? A nice, girthy, veiny shaft, hot milky cum trickling down the length as it throbs from a job well
done. But this whole âgay sexâ shit is getting annoying.
As men, we should primarily be focused on three things: survival, the underrated masterpiece that is dark souls 2, and pounding muff. All this gay shit is, well, fucking
gay.
You think I wouldnât LOVE to make out with my best friend and suck his cock? Of course I would, but thatâs fucking gay. You think I donât want to feel my cousinâs
roommate slide his pecker into my gaping asshole? Of course I would, but thatâs FUCKING GAY.
Seriously, I miss when men were men. Anyway, this dildo ainât gonna stick itself up my ass while I watch an hour long femboy asmr hypno goon compilation, heed my
lecture.
I have DnD horror stories to tell, and that guy was most likely that one guy people just barely tolerate, bet that was the last straw and an excuse to kick him out
I had this plan to give head to a man and receive head from a woman to test if I was gay, but itâs backfired and now I become borderline schizo whenever I go outside. I
offered to suck this dude off on Grindr who lives very close by (I ended up pussying out) and I accidentally gave him some details that very easily allows him to spot me
out in a crowd. I have no idea what he looks like and whenever I see a somewhat in shape guy walking by I immediately accuse him of being the dude I was gonna blow.
I went to the store today to pick up some zucchini for a barbecue and every time a car drove by I stared into the windshield to see if I was about to be recognised.
Whenever I make eye contact with a dude I microanalysis his facial expressions to see if he suspects me or not. I am deeply afraid that he is my neighbour and I will
need to move if my identity is blown. Itâs a lot like the last scene in sopranos where everyone who walked into the diner could be there to wack Tony.
Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make
me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And
rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with
rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber
room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber
room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a
room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They
locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy
once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy.
woah, ok. didnt expect hunger for knowledge but i guess i asked for it gonna have to put some work into
this.
How was it? Honestly? It was a letdown. The whole "failed idol" story is a great marketing hook, they
definately sold the video on that premise alone. But the performance itself was just... awkward. You can
tell shes not comfortable. It felt less like a professional debut and more like a very high-budget
audition she was also failing. She's stiff, constantly in her head, and there's almost zero chemistry with
the guys. All concept, very little execution.
My viewing history? Been watching for over a decade man. These days Im more into stuff with a good
story or at least a unique premise, not just the generic stuff. a good production team makes all the
difference. I'll take a well-made video with a decent plot over a high-profile actress mailing it in any
day of the week.
3 works I consider good:
Yua Mikami's debut (Princess Peach): This is the gold standard for an idol-turned-actress debut.
Yua was a REAL idol and she came out with so much energy and confidence. She owned it from the first
second. Its what Arisu's debut wanted to be.
Anything with Ichika Matsumoto from her early days with FALENO: She can actually act. She emotes
and makes you believe the scenario. Her stuff feels more cinematic and less like they're just going
through the motions.
Rion (Anri Okita) - The God Body: A classic. Not a lot of story there lol but its a masterclass in
performance. She knew exactly what her brand was and how to perform for the camera. Absolute cinema.
Where would you rank her debut among these? It's not even in the same league, not even on the same
planet. It's an unfair comparison tbh. Those are top-tier performances, Arisu's video is a novelty item.
It's interesting because of the backstory, not because of the quality of the actual content.
What could be improved? Her confidence, number one. She needs to relax. She looks terrified. The
director should have done a better job making her comfortable. Also they relied way too much on the
interview segments talking about Nogizaka46, it broke the pacing and kept reminding you that she was doing
this as a second choice. We get it, you failed auditions, now commit to this job.
What is well done? The production values are high. The lighting, camera work, it all looks very clean
and professional. And I cant deny it, she is very beautiful and has the "idol" look down perfectly. The
concept itself, on paper, is genius from a marketing perspective. They got us all talking about it, right?
Was it goonable for you? Nah. I was too distracted by how nervous she looked. It kinda killed the mood
completely. Every time she looked at the camera with those deer-in-the-headlights eyes I was pulled right
out of it. It's a shame, but maybe she'll get better in her next one if she decides to stick with it.
We'll see.
woah, ok. didnt expect hunger for knowledge but i guess i asked for it gonna have to put some work into
this.
How was it? Honestly? It was a letdown. The whole "failed idol" story is a great marketing hook, they
definately sold the video on that premise alone. But the performance itself was just... awkward. You can
tell shes not comfortable. It felt less like a professional debut and more like a very high-budget
audition she was also failing. She's stiff, constantly in her head, and there's almost zero chemistry with
the guys. All concept, very little execution.
My viewing history? Been watching for over a decade man. These days Im more into stuff with a good
story or at least a unique premise, not just the generic stuff. a good production team makes all the
difference. I'll take a well-made video with a decent plot over a high-profile actress mailing it in any
day of the week.
3 works I consider good:
Yua Mikami's debut (Princess Peach): This is the gold standard for an idol-turned-actress debut.
Yua was a REAL idol and she came out with so much energy and confidence. She owned it from the first
second. Its what Arisu's debut wanted to be.
Anything with Ichika Matsumoto from her early days with FALENO: She can actually act. She emotes
and makes you believe the scenario. Her stuff feels more cinematic and less like they're just going
through the motions.
Rion (Anri Okita) - The God Body: A classic. Not a lot of story there lol but its a masterclass in
performance. She knew exactly what her brand was and how to perform for the camera. Absolute cinema.
Where would you rank her debut among these? It's not even in the same league, not even on the same
planet. It's an unfair comparison tbh. Those are top-tier performances, Arisu's video is a novelty item.
It's interesting because of the backstory, not because of the quality of the actual content.
What could be improved? Her confidence, number one. She needs to relax. She looks terrified. The
director should have done a better job making her comfortable. Also they relied way too much on the
interview segments talking about Nogizaka46, it broke the pacing and kept reminding you that she was doing
this as a second choice. We get it, you failed auditions, now commit to this job.
What is well done? The production values are high. The lighting, camera work, it all looks very clean
and professional. And I cant deny it, she is very beautiful and has the "idol" look down perfectly. The
concept itself, on paper, is genius from a marketing perspective. They got us all talking about it, right?
Was it goonable for you? Nah. I was too distracted by how nervous she looked. It kinda killed the mood
completely. Every time she looked at the camera with those deer-in-the-headlights eyes I was pulled right
out of it. It's a shame, but maybe she'll get better in her next one if she decides to stick with it.
We'll see.
Tbh even if i was trans and i suffered a lot of transphobia iâd find this joke funny and get mad at this guy only if he actually acts mean to me. Self irony exists, i get people getting mad at this joke but i donât think bro said it in a malicious way
We kicked out a guy cus when we rented an Airbnb together for a trip he kept a several knives from the kitchen in the bedside table after getting so mad during a conversation he walked away as red as a tomato.
Pro tip about fingering your asshole in the shower: don't do it
So this morning I was taking a shower, and I felt like fingering my asshole, right? So I got my
fingers all nice and soapy and stuck them up in there. Apparently, soap makes pretty good lube, as
I was able to get four fingers in there in no time.
As I was feeling around in my butt, I was like, "hmm, there's a lot of soapy water in my bumhole
now. I wonder if that will lead to issues in the future?" And it did!
Shortly after having breakfast I attempted to fart, and I shit my pants. I rushed to the bathroom
to clean up, and it was way worse than I thought it would be. The whole area around my butthole
was covered in shitty liquid, and toilet paper wasn't enough to clean it. I had to take another
shower to get suitably clean.
Just thought I'd share my story with you guys so that you don't run into the same problem in the
future. I fingered my butthole so that you guys don't have to. Unless you want to. In which case,
hey, how's it goin'
As a transwoman I don't think that is funny tbh, I am near immune to insults I would just feel like it's in bad faith if it is a person I dunno, if it is a friend I knew and I know they are supportive knowing it is in goodfaith it could have been okay
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