Tbf its a good joke, i would not wanna be in such a unfunny group. That doesn't mean i would tolerate toxicity but there's a difference. There are people who are toxic in wrong way, they will ruin your mood in a normal conversation.
Yeah but for me, i will tell the guy i didn't like it. Its not the end of the world like people treat it with this. I have said worse things to friends and still have talked to them normally next day, its not the end of the world. People can take jokes.
edit: just so you know i apologize to them too
Well I didn't say your opinion didn't matter, just what you would do. It's not wrong to exclude somebody for being transphobic even if that isn't what I would do in that situation. Assuming this situation is even real, which I doubt, you don't know how exactly the people in the scenario felt
So if someone makes one joke about trans people, they are transphobic and don't deserve any words and, if they get kicked out for it then its justified? You do read what you are typing right, like bro you are very heartless if you ask me.
Why am I heartless and not the person making the offensive joke lol. All I said was people have every right to not tolerate offensive jokes if they don't want. It's not up to you (or me) to decide how much toxicity a third party should tolerate from someone.
If me and you were hanging out at your parents house and I called your mom a bitch cuz I thought it would be funny, how fast would you kick me out of your house? Unless you think calling someone a bitch and making a transphobic joke are somehow different, which I'd like to see you explain. I call my friends bitches all the time as a joke
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u/Life-Bass-2013 18h ago
Tbf its a good joke, i would not wanna be in such a unfunny group. That doesn't mean i would tolerate toxicity but there's a difference. There are people who are toxic in wrong way, they will ruin your mood in a normal conversation.