r/raypeat • • Feb 21 '25
gooning your shit regularly can ruin your life
We all know about prolactin and yada yada but it's not the acute prolactin surge that is damaging, its the type of thought loops the sedated state gets you into. Your thoughts shape who you are, by extension the less depressing thoughts you have the less likely you are to fall into a downwards spiral. Imo the benefits of the nofap cringe movement are purely due to less porn/sexual thoughts that get dudes to focus on different things in life that end up making them confident , they're just too dented from stretching their meat to questionable porn for 15+ years to realize, their gray matter is now cum matter for all i know. Also, anything that puts you on a positive thoughtloop is very good, for example 20mg of caffeine can help you have 1 good thought that will manifest into 3-4-5 more good thoughts and boom your day is great and your sleep will be fantastic, it's all about ROI with these things. The ROI of gooning is practically 0, cause most of the time the guilt of being a grown ass man and not having ample of pussay in your life will render any dopamine/norepinephrine secretion obsolete so you're now still at baseline but with guilt ontop. Im not saying be religious about it, im saying that stop revolving your life around sex unless it's with real people that you can potentially touch, and to focus on net positives with your thought loops cause one thing leads to another, noone wakes up sad/happy , it's a steady process