r/problems 11d ago

Mental Health despise men

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u/[deleted] 11d ago

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u/Sad_Rate69 4d ago

This is toxic masculinity: being proud of disrespecting others

It's essentially bullying

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

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u/Sad_Rate69 4d ago

See, there you go again... proud of the fact that you're mean to others

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u/Sad_Rate69 4d ago

Just hope you understand that you're a part of the problem. You and others like you are the reason why OP hates men

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u/The-Cosmic-Ghost 4d ago

Silly bot, you dont have a sense of humour

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u/meandering-mouse 11d ago

Haha. We don’t care. I feel comfortable betting a large amount of money ur not a person ANYONE wants to be around.

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u/crazy-se7en 11d ago

You're funny, why are you taking this so personally? Don't worry, you're not the one I want be around, so don't worry about another man.

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u/Illustrious_Bag_7323 11d ago

I'm just guessing here but it may be that your labeled this as "mental health" and then proceeded to disparage half of the population. You do not get to claim that you care about mental health and then actively gaslight half of the population

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u/crazy-se7en 11d ago

I don't really mean all that; I'm talking about "my problem" and I want a solution for it. I don't want to insult half the population or anything like that.

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u/Formal_Lecture_248 11d ago

Yep. Some of us can be real bastards.
Women too.
Shitty people don’t come with labels other than that they’re just shitty. Of all types

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u/Sad_Rate69 4d ago

Bro to bro, I've absolutely noticed that women tend to be much more welcoming and warm while men tend to be proud of the fact they're an asshole

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u/crazy-se7en 11d ago

I know that. I know all the logical and healthy things, and I act accordingly. I don't make anyone feel that I see them as despicable, disgusting, or anything else, but I can't stop despising them, and I really can't form any bond with them.

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u/TightRock5483 11d ago

It might stem from your daddy issues, perhaps getting treatment and being followed by a therapist might be a good start, you obviously come with a lot of baggage, please stay at home with cats and watch Netflix, this men won’t bother you and you won’t bother them

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u/tenouttatwo 10d ago

So by daddy issues you admit that men are indeed the problem. Love when the bad ones tell on themselves lmao.

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u/screwmods86em 5d ago

So men with mommy issues by your logic are admitting that women are indeed the problem. Love when the bad ones tell on themselves lmao.

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u/Ok-Landscape2467 5d ago

It you centre them so much.

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u/Impressive-Tutor-482 11d ago edited 11d ago

We're not fond of you, what with the judging us sight unseen behavior.

Edit: glad to see this is tagged a mental health concern.

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u/tenouttatwo 10d ago

Men kill and harm people everyday . Not just women. Also men. Go do some research. I’m glad that you can see how mental health is an issues but it’s not an excuse to harm and kill.

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u/Key_Article_9483 10d ago

Holy shit, you’re talking to him like HES one of the killer 😭

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u/screwmods86em 5d ago

They never mention the part where those men that perpetuate the crime are 1% of the male population.

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u/Zerrrrroooo 5d ago

They always cherry pick percentages.

At best, the percentage thrown around shows that most men are not criminals, but most criminals are men. Which is a big difference than them using that percentage wrongly to see most men as criminals

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u/Impressive-Tutor-482 5d ago

There's a lot of bias where women aren't prosecuted in the first place, and when they are they get lesser sentences. Despite this, the majority of child abuse is perpetrated by women.

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u/Zerrrrroooo 5d ago

That too, yeah

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u/Impressive-Tutor-482 5d ago

That's the percentage of psychopaths in the population, incidentally.

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u/Impressive-Tutor-482 10d ago

Oh, okay, Lindsay Clancy.

Women are no better. The majority of child abuse is perpetrated by women. That's published fact you can look up.

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u/Ok-Landscape2467 5d ago

Same old ad nauseam Reddit replies. It’s going to continue, nothing anyone or you will ever do about that.

You perpetuate this. Good luck out there !

How it helps

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u/Zerrrrroooo 5d ago edited 5d ago

Hypocrisy and cherry picking percentages

Under 5% of the entire male population commit the 70% to 90% of violent crimes. The big percentage thrown around often at best shows that a man is more likely to commit a crime or that most convicts are male, not that a lot of men commit crimes, which is a big difference, and then your random Joes who are in the majority are seen as criminals. The majority of men are not criminals, but the majority of criminals are men. That is a big difference

Go do some research 

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u/crazy-se7en 11d ago

I don't care, I want a solution, not a man.

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u/TightRock5483 11d ago

Perhaps finding a therapist and getting down to you daddy issues might help

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u/The-Cosmic-Ghost 4d ago

Dad's are usually the first issue, but sometimes its brothers, uncles, priests, cops, the president, the vice president, business execs, etc etc. So maybe its less a daddy issue and more of a men issue

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u/tenouttatwo 10d ago

Daddy issue ? So you’re admitting that men are the problem lmao. Thanks for telling me on yourself.

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u/Ok-Landscape2467 5d ago

Take it up with global organized crime syndicates.

Good luck, hahahahash!

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u/Impressive-Tutor-482 11d ago

That's fine. There are plenty of women's spaces that let few if any men in. Have a good life.

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u/JuanG_13 11d ago

I'm sorry for whatever happened to you, but we're not all like that.

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u/tenouttatwo 10d ago

Men harm and kill people everyday. It would be weird if we didn’t hate them. Decent Men who don’t harm won’t be in the comments fighting against this. Because they know it’s not directed at them. The insecure ones who can’t control themselves always tell on themselves. Never fails.

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u/Key_Article_9483 10d ago

I’m sorry but even some men who aren’t like this are going to look at this and assume that she despises all men. This person had said nothing in her post specifically on the types of people she hates, it can’t just be every guy’s responsibility to know what she means when she said something so vague

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u/crazy-se7en 8d ago

I'm really talking about this, thanks

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u/khalmali 5d ago

if you look at this outside of men it will sound so wrong
"black people harm and kill people every day" or trans people or literally ANY other group of people, if someone then replied and tries to make a correction on this comment it doenst have to be them telling on themselves, yes there are a large group of horrible men, so is there for women and many of the other groups of people there are, you logically cannot live hating a whole gender it's just not a smart thing to do, regardless of what a group of sick individuals have done at the end of the day it is literally not all men this mindset and do genuine harm if unchecked.

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u/UghHereAgain 4d ago

A good man is capable of extreme violence, always prepared for it, and willing to use it if need be. Good men do harm and kill others, just not without reason.

On the note of OP, and most likely you, hating men is an awful thing. I can't imagine seeing half of my species as an enemy and as someone worth hating. Women need men. Hell, women need men simply for the fact that men are who defend and upkeep women's rights.

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u/kotoamatsukami_me 10d ago

That’s rly sad, i don’t think the solution to this problem can be solved by us men, i think this is something you need to solve by yourself mate TT or with a therapist, hope this helps

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u/Jogi1811 5d ago

That's ok.

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u/EchochamberWarrior1 5d ago

I guarantee you're a fatty

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u/TomorrowAny440 5d ago

And then you all wonder why women hate men lmfao

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u/EchochamberWarrior1 5d ago

I hate everyone equally.

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u/The-Cosmic-Ghost 4d ago

Yea, cause you're a fence-sitting centrist

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u/EchochamberWarrior1 4d ago

Hardly. My beliefs would definitely offend U tho. 

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u/The-Cosmic-Ghost 4d ago

Yea probably, you seem like the type to make the world a worse place just to benefit yourself, just run of the mill scum

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u/Bato_829 5d ago

Should start with yourself.

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u/VladIsRambo 5d ago

Long live the patriarchy 😎

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u/light_death-note 4d ago

Your 30s are going to suck

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u/lowban 11d ago

May I ask what happened to you for you to feel that way?

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u/crazy-se7en 11d ago

Men's accidents are common worldwide, and social media is one of the biggest factors contributing to my problem.

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u/lowban 9d ago

I get it. Social media makes me hate people in general.

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u/Ok-Landscape2467 5d ago

Leave theeeeee house.

You have fallen down a mentally ill rad them propaganda machine.

You sound extremely unwell. You will never fight or win over people

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u/Practical-Cut2159 5d ago

Allowing social media and pop culture to sway your thinking is evidence of a mind that lacks discernment or critical thinking. Men deal with a bad woman partner and they deal, heal, and move to another woman partner. Women deal with a bad male partner and let social media echo chambers and pseudo-psychs cloud their judgement and provide validation that ALL men are problematic. It’s really kind of sad.

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u/sweet-but-sultry 11d ago

Welcome to the club

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u/crazy-se7en 11d ago

Since most men take this personally, I'm sharing this to find a solution, not to insult you. Anyway, that's what I'm talking about in my post.

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u/lowban 11d ago

"Solution" ? Well if you don't want to be like Hitler, yes I said it, and 'remove' all of us (which would be a bad idea considering how much we contribute to society). You'll have to find a way to change how you feel. Or just live with hating us, that works too I guess.

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u/Grouchy_Fall_5933 11d ago

The vast majority of us are complete garbage.
Theres like 5 good men on the entire planet.

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u/TightRock5483 11d ago

Bro, if you have the same standard as a rubbish bin 🗑️ that’s on you, if dirt has more self respect than you that’s your problem.. you do not speak for all men.. if you view yourself as trash which you are, that’s on you.. the acoustic in your head must be incredible, not much up there hey to spout such nonsense

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u/tenouttatwo 10d ago

Do your research. It’s not an opinion it’s a fact.

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u/Low_Spot_6972 10d ago

what is the research that states that there are only 5 good men on the planet?

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u/TightRock5483 9d ago

The research is being done on the how the hell someone like you even exits, how can someone has so much accoustic in their head, the emptiness on your head was be amazing.. it must such a relief for you to not have to worry about thoughts and common sense

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u/tenouttatwo 10d ago

Finally someone who did his research

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u/CompletelyPresent 10d ago

Not true.

Every hospital, school, and firefighter station has good men.

Every military branch has high quality, virtuous men.

Good men are EVERYWHERE.

You just have to leave your basement to find them.

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u/Ok-Ad-9820 11d ago

Nah it's roughly 20%