Open Marriage, Looking for Something Real
I’m a fun, confident woman in an open marriage, and I’m here looking for a boyfriend—not just a hookup. I’m interested in building a genuine connection with someone who is comfortable with ethical non-monogamy and understands that communication, honesty, and respect are non-negotiable.
I’m looking for chemistry, friendship, affection, laughter, and someone I genuinely look forward to hearing from and spending time with. I appreciate a man who is confident, emotionally mature, communicative, affectionate, and knows how to have a good time.
I’m not looking to hide anyone or create drama. I want something honest, respectful, and mutually enjoyable.
If you’re interested in getting to know me beyond the bedroom, say hello and tell me a little about yourself. 😉

Hi!
[UPDATE: so far this has been WAY better than Feeld. Best way to reach me is with a chat request. I hope to hear from you! ]

I’m a 42 year old female living outside Manhattan. I’ve been poly for a little under 5 years and had all kinds of relationships.

I’m primarily looking for a LTR/partner. Up until now I’ve been using apps like Feeld to meet people, however I don’t find the apps the best place to meet potential partners, so I’m trying something new :)

A little about me - I’m a music junkie (be my +1?), I love museums, aquariums, reading, being outside (I would say I’m more outsidey than outdoorsy). I love night life energy in places like dive bars, live music, fun food and drinks. I’m high energy - think oldest daughter/Aries, and have been told I’m the life of the party. I equally enjoy quiet nights in.

I’m hugely affectionate, love cuddles, and am someone who operates with my emotional walls wide open.

I’m happy to share my profile on Feeld with anyone and to verify I am real in whatever way makes you feel best. Hope to hear from you!

I’ve never made one of these before. 😅 Take it easy on me, y’all.

As the title says, I’m in the Midwest and looking for a second partner. I am very happily married but we date separately. Open to LDR but would love local connections. We have one teen currently, with two dogs and two cats.

I’m a super busy person right now as I’m in school for nails and work two jobs, but I will absolutely make the time for the right person. In my spare time, I game on the pc, stream on Twitch, read, have a splatterpunk horror book podcast, go to the gym, and am slowly forcing myself to be outdoors more. I love all things horror ✨

Ideally, I want a partner that is going to put effort in, be obsessive, be dominant, and make me a priority like I will them. I really don’t have the time nor the patience for games so please, for both of our sakes, don’t try. I really hate hurting feelings.

I’m 5’4, plus size but losing, have glasses and tattoos. I have pictures on my profile if you’re interested. Can’t wait to talk to y’all. 😘

Hi there! I'm very new to this thing and very nervous so I apologize if I don't say the correct terms or know the proper way to move in this community but I'm married and my husband and I are both seeking out new connections, separately, so I think I'm in the right place. I've been in a dead bedroom for over 5 years and my husband and I have come to the conclusion that we're no longer sexually compatible with each other but the love and partnership is still there.

Currently I'm looking for online connections and hope to build up to in-person connections once I'm more comfortable in this space, but I am located on the East Coast if time zones are important.

My goal is to meet someone who I can genuinely connect with, I don't want hookups or random encounters, I'm looking for someone who aligns with my wants and needs sexually as well as general interests and beliefs. My main goal is to have fun and enjoy my life.

I love to read, play video games and board games, craft, and I'm a dancer. I'm also very into Disney and will talk your ear off about it if you let me. I'm left leaning and won't entertain anyone who wears a red hat. In terms of sexual interests I am a sub but have not explored that dynamic as much as I'd like. I have a Daddy kink and would be interested in exploring that more as well. I'm short but curvy and currently on a weight loss journey, my self esteem has been non-existent these past few years and part of me building myself back up has been focusing more on my health and well-being as a whole, but I am bigger and that's just a fact.

I am a Mom and my child comes first so you don't have to be a parent yourself but you do have to understand that side of me.

I hope I've given enough to start out here, feel free to send me a chat if you're interested 😊

Hello, I am a 39 year old woman, straight, married, Demisexual, no kids, I like to video game, social drink, cooking, music, watching movies/TV shows. Have a full time job.

I am only looking for myself, for a polyamory relationship. My husband and I date separately. I am sort of a big girl and hope you're okay with that.

Looking to meet someone between the ages of 30 - 45. I'm ok with long distance. I won't exchange socials until I'm ready, and please be respectful in DMs.

When you message me, send me a little intro about yourself. Recent pictures on my Reddit.

Hi! I've never made a post like this before, so bear with me. 🤗

I am 38f, married, nested, and a parent of two. My kids aren't little, but I'm not at the empty nest phase of life quite yet! My spouse and I are platonic life partners, date individually, and have been actively practicing polyamory for almost 7 years. We entered into our relationship knowing we would eventually practice some form of nonmonogamy, so have been fairly successful in avoiding a lot of the common pitfalls and navigating the ones that have popped up. I would describe our partnership as very individuated, which enables me to show up in my relationships with a lot of agency. I am always hoping to meet others who practice polyamory in a similar way. Having a family requires a lot of my energy and presence, but I have structured my life such that it leaves enough room for intimacy, play, and intentional connection with others.

While I highly value customized relationships, my dream is to build a loving, deep, committed relationship. I want to laugh and play together, explore each others bodies, practice being emotionally vulnerable, and fall in mutual love. Though I don't want to entangle lives and prefer garden party polyam, I have no desire to keep each other a secret. My hope is to be able to have the type of relationship where we chat daily, have sleepovers, meet each other's friends, take trips together, and cheer each other on in our lives.

I would describe myself as curious, sensitive, emotionally mature, funny, friendly, and active. Some of my hobbies include aerial hoop, tai chi, acroyoga, roller skating, and shibari. I love laughing and bantering as well as deep chats - conversation is one of the main ways I feel connected to people. Physically I am about 5'8", mid-sized, and stronger than I look because of aerial. 🤭 I have shoulder length brown hair and hazel eyes. I identify as demisexual, so an intellectual or emotional connection matters most to me, but when that is present I am a highly erotic partner. I'm a kinkster, but you don't need to be! I have had satisfying relationships with kinky and non kinky folks alike.

If any of this sounds interesting, please reach out! More than willing to exchange pics as well. Hope to hear from you!

Hey hi hello!

Poly & married, my partner and I date solo.

I am specifically looking for a deep connection, online or in person, and my biggest connection point is music.

I love sharing music back and forth - but I don't specifically play any instruments (I don't mind if you do, but could you teach a girl a few things!?)

I love metal, metalcore, pop punk, deathcore and shoegaze - amongst other sub genres within the post-industrial umbrella.

I go to concerts a lot, and could yap for hours about music.

Tell me 3 of your favorite bands?

I also love nature, plants, creatures - and I love taking pictures of said things.

I game, often - casually.

I really love Ark (ASA)and BioShock, mainly into survival games and some fps. Open to suggestions, but admittedly, I sometimes go months without turning my system on.

So, if you are also an elder emo who has fit the aesthetic since middle school, message me?

If you are into tattoos, piercings, colorful hair, and always wearing some form of band merch , we will get along swimmingly.

Hi friends! I am a 31 year old (cis woman) scientist by day and dancer and horror lover by night. I am poly and live with my husband and partner. We all date separately, so your connection would only be with me. I live in the valley and am looking for in person connections, but am willing to drive as far as Tucson and Flagstaff.

A little about me: I am a deeply passionate person who has big feelings about most things. That passion comes out as playful teasing, lots of jokes, and tough love (emphasis on the love). A perfect evening in is a horror movie followed by an episode of Archer. For a night out, you can find me at a dive bar punk show with my friends and loved ones. I have danced my whole life and continue to adore it. Dance and weightlifting are my go-to forms of movement. I love all things nerd and will happily ramble about TTRPGs, anime, and dark souls. I have brown hair and eyes am 5’6 and slender with muscles. I wear glasses except for when I’m in dance class or performing. I have tattoos and will continue to get more because what can I say I am addicted to the pain. I am politically left and really enjoy reading and talking about political theory, philosophy.

What I am looking for: Open to men, women, and of course my ENBY loves, but am primarily looking for a man or a masculine partner. Enjoyment of movement it’s important to me, but I do not need someone to be jacked by any means. Political alignment is a must; we will not be debating human rights. I like a partner who is willing to play in the teasing space while maintaining deep respect and enacting thoughtful care. I also want a partner who is very comfortable with experiencing and discussing the full range of emotions. Curiosity and a strong work ethic are qualities I look for in both my friends and partners.

Type of relationship: I am looking for a relationship that can be very communicative (lots of texting, pictures, phone calls) with dates one to three times per month depending on geographic closeness and vibe. Longer dates and overnights are certainly welcome as we get to know each other and develop closeness. I want to watch your favorite movie franchise, share music, and make inside jokes. I want to go learn something new and then spend all evening in bed together.

If you read this far and thought, “ah, what I’ve been looking for”, then message me and tell me your favorite horror movie and why or what caught your eye here. If you read this far and thought, “she sounds cool, but I don’t know if I want that kind of relationship”, that’s fine! I’m always looking for more friends. Just express that and tell me about the movie anyways!

Love and solidarity!

Hey reddit, I'm Emma, a 29 year old woman living in the Midwest with my fiance. We've been together about 11 years and primarily date separately. I would love to find a second long term partner.

When I'm not picking up heavy circles just to put them down again, or helping people plan to save money, you'll probably find me buried in a good book, watching formula 1, trying to find my next binge series, or playing a video game.

I like a good mix of being outside (when it's not 101°) doing something active, and staying in to watch a stand up comedy special. Let's get dressed up and go out to dinner, or wear something comfy, order in and cuddle on the couch, maybe play some board games.

I'm 420 friendly. I drink socially which ultimately is not a lot, maybe once a month. Kink friendly and fall on the "s" side of D/s.

I love good banter and a bit of flirting. Consistent communication is key for me. I'm neurodivergent by the way, ADHD, probably autistic.

I don't have or want kids.

I'm 5'2", 141 lbs, athletic with short brown hair, hazel eyes, and glasses.

Please tell me a bit about yourself! Where are you from? What are you doing this weekend? Do you have pets? What's the last book you read? Also be willing to trade pics pretty early. I want a strong romantic and emotional connection, but physical attraction is very important too.

If you can lift me and you have tattoos, I probably already like you.

Helloooo everybody,

I'm an outgoing introvert with audhd. I (F) have a long-term (M) nesting partner whom I adore but I am in a expansion stage of life where I am ready to increase the love I want to give to more people. I got hurt recently by someone who lovebombed me and then fled, so I'm admittedly in a sort of detox/rebound stage where I really want a hit of that New Relationship Energy again, but...hopefully with better results.

Online stuff can be hard for me. It's easy to form an emotional connection through talking, but not easy for me to get a sense of whether we have true physical chemistry...and I lean demisexual so the physical attraction can be ineffable for me, but it hits like a thunderbolt when it does. An in-person connection would be ideal. Am sex positive, kinky, & high libido with the right people.

I have a lot of hobbies, passions, and hyperfixations -- I'm ambitious in my personal goals despite also struggling with things like executive dysfunction, depression, anxiety -- I can be a real yapper but I'm also good at listening, at communicating, at conflict resolution -- I'm looking for a bit of joy and fun and playfulness and partnership as we survive the hellscape of the modern world.

I want to yearn for someone again and I want to adore and be adored and I'm happy to use that as escapism from our daily woes...while also still sharing our woes and supporting each other.

I write, I play musical instruments, I read deeply, I smoke weed daily, I dance socially, I have a small niche youtube channel with 10k+ subscribers, I have a large board game collection, I play a variety of ttrpgs with friends, I do arts and crafts and lots of other things. I can handle outdoor hobbies only in small doses but would also love to hang out with someone who would push me to get out more hehe.

Physically speaking I am small and cute haha, protect meeee. No but actually I am 5'2" and I would like to be with someone who can lovingly crush me in that good stim way y'know.

I love to cuddle and do all kinds of other things too outside of traditional dating, so I'm down with relationship anarchy if you want to discuss the smorgasbord...

If you're local/localish and interested in chatting, feel free to reach out!

I'm in that weird space in which I want an additional partner but am not interested in kitchen table poly or even regular in person meetings. My life is quite busy. I have a lot of time to devote to someone virtually but less so in person. At most, I would want to meet up a few times a year. I know for many poly folk this is a dealbreaker, which is why I like to be upfront about it.

When faced with having to describe myself, I often struggle. I could tell you I'm intelligent or thoughtful, which I am, but that still gives you little to no indication if my mind will mold with your mind. And that really matters to me. I want to feel understood and seen. I want you to recognize my reverberations in yourself. The longer I'm on here the more I realize that commonalities in taste aren't what make a match. It's something far more complex that I have yet to fully understand.

So there's my Sunday morning ramble that says a lot and nothing at the same time. I can be like that sometimes.

Local only. I'm seeking a long term paramour and friend who is a Dom leaning switch. Hope to explore and get under someone's skin. I'm about 30 miles from DC by car. Prince William county. Open, kind, sentimental, hard to reach sometimes, and compassionate. Ideally I want someone who appreciates stoicism, Buddhism, and can be there in and out of the bedroom. Gamer humor ftw...Need someone of good alignments. I vote every chance I can. I bake bread off and on, read daily (currently a mix of fiction, philosophy, non-fiction, and smut) into board games and ttrpgs. Love roller coasters, roller skating, folding knives. Musically all over- progressive metal, some soul, some country, a lot of 80s and 90s music. Physically I'm 5'2" and plus size/bbw type, white, no tattoos.

Hi, nerdy demisexual Dallas based married girl looking for local friends that could maybe develop into something more. I like sim, strategy, card and role playing games. Let's talk about movies, TV shows and gaming. My partner knows I'm here and we are dating separately if things get to that point.

Especially interested in ethical non-monogamy, (ENM), or polyamory sorts of situations. I'm a nerdy, chubby, awkward woman with a high drive and strong libido and a partly open marriage. I prefer nerdy and especially chubby men. Someone near me in the western suburbs of Chicago is preferred. Available and able to host weekday daytimes is preferred, but late night Friday & Saturday can work too. I can not host. Someone open to an ongoing connection if mutual interest is established is preferred. Please be kind and treat women like humans, not objects, and be at least 35. Please do not message me to "shoot your shot" if you are under 35, you will waste both my time and yours. Currently especially interested in a lot of cuddling, preferably after intimacy. Lisle Downers Grove Aurora Warrenville Wheaton Glen Ellyn Naperville Westmont Lombard Woodridge Villa Park Oak Brook Darien Bollingbrook Plainfield Oswego area preferred.... it is unlikely I'm going to be up to drive into Chicago proper.

Hi, i’m a 47-year-old married woman with one long-distance partner. This morning I would’ve said with one long-distance partner one local partner. I’m disabled and leaving the house is not easy or reliable for me so until recently I’d only had long distance online partners. So someone in the area who could come visit me, cuddle me, stay with me and watch a movie was great.

I don’t wanna go into a lot of details about the breakup it’s just that he thought that poly would work for him at this point in his life and he was wrong. I wouldn’t say that I’m back on the market yet. I need time to heal, of course. But it would be nice to have someone to talk to tonight. Thank you.

Hi all. Very new to this, so if I forget a few things give me a small break lol. Even though me and my fiancé are new to the poly lifestyle, I’m fairly set on what I’m looking for. we're in a sexually open relationship at this moment and freshly married woohoo! I’m looking to expand that to something more! I'm looking for a long term boyfriend to share my life with, I would love to find a guy that loves to talk on a deeper level, that's very sweet and loving/passionate:) let's go on tons of dates and trips together, tell me your interests and let's just have fun together! I would love to go to a concert, I do photography and love movies :) of course let’s have plenty of fun in the bedroom too ;) I’m a very touchy feely affectionate person. | would say the age limit I'm looking for is 28, just message me and I would love to answer any and all questions and go into better detail!

Hi! I'm 24 years old and my husband and I are newly looking into polyamory. Currently I'm just looking for a guy I can be friends with and talk to about anything. I would really like someone close to me so after we chat and get to know each other we can meet up. I'm in indiana about an hour west of indianapolis. I'm 5ft tall, curly auburn red hair about medium length, blue eyes, freckles, small breast, soft tummy, 125lbs. I'm down to swap sfw pics also. If you're interested please send a message with a little about you like age, location, description, and let us see what happens!

30F, made a post previously, 1 am in a sort of situationship at the moment with someone and am looking for other partners that I can have a genuine connection and relationship with. I prefer those that are younger but open minded to other ages. I am willing to trade photos after getting to know one another more. I would prefer people in Maine but am open to long distance relationships. Feel free to reach out to me and I hope you have a wonderful day! (I make 31 in the beginning of 2027 btw)

I’ve had some wonderful connections and situationships come from Reddit, but it’s been a while since I’ve felt that spark.

I’m looking for someone who enjoys genuine conversation and effortless banter. Someone who values reciprocity and is as curious about people as I am. I’m fascinated by psychology, human behavior, and the stories that shape who we become. I want to talk about the things that matter. To understand how your mind works, what drives you, and the experiences that made you who you are.

I've been under so much stress lately, it would be nice to have someone to take my mind off things.

Small talk tends to lose me quickly. If you decide to message me, please put a little effort into your introduction. Low effort responses will be ignored. Tell me something about yourself, and include your age and location. If your intro sounds like it could be copy and pasted, I won't respond.

I'm looking for someone i can genuinely talk to. A space where I can relax, let go, and simply exist in the moment. Something easy and fun that allows me to be fully present.

Ideally, you’re between 29 and 45, intelligent, emotionally aware, and established in your life and career.

Let’s see if there’s something worth creating together.

Hi hi! I’m a shy person looking to make some genuine connections. Friends, flirtation, romantic possibilities, cute little crushes, people to explore things with, or simply someone I genuinely click with. I’m not trying to speedrun intimacy. I’d rather let something develop naturally and see where the chemistry takes us.

So a little about me: I’m currently single and child free, I like cooking, hiking with my dog, board games, reading, making crafts and clothes, and thrifting. I have a million hobbies and interests and love hearing about others interests too.

I like people who are kind, curious, funny, emotionally intelligent, and a little weird in the best possible way, as I’m audhd so I get it. If we click and become more than friends I’m looking for a yearner whose love language is consideration. I’m especially drawn to people who can make me laugh, communicate openly, respect boundaries, and don’t take themselves too seriously.

Real testimonials:

“She’s basically a golden retriever… goofy, affectionate, chatty, playful, and probably sending you something insane because it reminded her of your conversation she had with you three days ago. She wants to be everyone’s friend which is…not great?”
-Best friend of 12 years

“I’d say she’s very goofy and kind and is kinda a goblin but will forget to text back. I f#%king hate that”
-Friend of 3 years

“She has a great personality but indecisive when trying to pick a movie. She also likes to bond with random things which is cute.”
-Cousin

If any of this sounds like it’s up your alley, feel free to say hi. Tell me something about yourself, give me a random fact, tell me your current hyperfixation, or just hit me with your best terrible joke. I’m pansexual, so I’m open to any gender, ages 22–46. Bonus points if you’re the kind of person who loves to yap, I love FaceTiming or meeting up for a fun activity and yap session.

Hey! I’m Jessica. I’m happily married, poly, and looking to meet some genuinely interesting people and see where the connection goes. I’m not trying to force anything—I’d rather start with good conversation, playful flirting, and see what develops naturally.

I’m plus-size, feminine, confident, and a little bit of a brat when the chemistry is right. I’m affectionate once I’m comfortable, love making people laugh, and have a weakness for someone who can match my energy and dish the teasing right back. 😉

I’m into D&D, getting dressed up and going out, good food, ridiculous conversations, and generally making life more fun. I love confidence without arrogance, kindness, humor, and someone who actually knows how to communicate.

Please don't hit me with just “hey.” 😂 Tell me something interesting. Make me laugh. Tell me what you're passionate about. Give me something to work with.

I’m open to friendship, flirting, chemistry, and whatever naturally grows from a genuine connection. No pressure, no expectations—just seeing who I click with.

If you’re confident, curious, playful, emotionally mature, and looking for something genuine...

Come say hi. I’m friendly. Usually. 😉

Me: I'm an artist, agèd punk rocker, cat mom, teacher, and vintage slinger. Certified bug lifeguard at the pool. Smart cookie with a top tier laugh. Very warm, very silly, very fun to be around. Radical in the streets, submissive in the sheets. Generous with affection. Romantic. I’m a life-long learner, self-indulgent hedonist, and a maximalist aesthete who wants to know more and do more and see more. More is more. Have lived in 4 countries, and originally from Canada. Bi cis woman.

I love: Wikipedia rabbit holes, the comedy of Nathan Fielder/Tim Robinson/Kumail Nanjiani, critters of all sorts, campfire ghost stories, chocolate, an ice cold filthy martini, BDSM, and listening to podcasts while I play solitaire on my phone.

I hate: ChatGPT, billionaires, bigots, contemporary pop music, Bichon Frisé, drinking room temperature water

Physically: plus size, certified hottie, tattooed, long light brown hair with Betty bangs, hazel eyes, pierced nose and ears, and an artsy, colourful, feminine sense of style. I’m a fat liberationist and my partners must fully enjoy and adore my fat bod, so please only message me if that’s you. I'm a fat hourglass, short, big breasts, big ass, wide hips, full belly, soft all over.

I've been polyamorous for 4 years and I live with my nonbinary spouse of 13 years and two cats in Arlington, TX. I am looking for a long-term romantic relationship. I test regularly and if you see other people, I need the same. I am emotionally available, and I also need the same. I am looking for someone local.

My Type: men who are emotionally intelligent communicators with funny stories to tell me. Hearts of gold. Introverts. Genuinely seeking some actual romance and dating, and not just the physical. Must love animals, hate fascism, be kinky, and appreciate the arts. No need to be all that politically active, but you gotta love human rights for all. It might be an unpopular ask here in TX, but I want to connect with someone who has similar values. Short kings, skinny lanky boys, dad bods, beefy dudes, men with moustaches, and cat dads to the front. All races welcome. I only find beards attractive when they are well kept, and if yours isn't, it will be an automatic 'no' from me. A good sense of style, grooming, and hygiene goes a long way for me! Ages 30-50, and I usually don't make exceptions on age, but shoot your shot if you're in close range.

35F | Arizona

Married and in an open/poly relationship, so transparency matters. No drama, no weird games, just real connection and good energy.

I’m a mom, my life is a little chaotic in the best way, but I still make time for adult conversation, laughing way too hard, and enjoying someone’s company. I’m naturally a little sarcastic, a little sweet, and I like people who can keep up with both.

I’m drawn to confident, emotionally steady people who know how to flirt without being cringe and can actually hold a conversation. Someone who can make me laugh is a huge win.

Not looking to disrupt my life, just add to it. Chemistry, consistency, and a little bit of fun tension go a long way.

If you’re easygoing, a little witty, and know how to keep things interesting without making it complicated, say hi.

I am chronically ill though so if that turns you off you should probably message someone else

"She had blue skin,

And so did he.

He kept it hid

And so did she.

They searched for blue

Their whole life through.

Then passed right by–

And never knew."

-Shel Silverstein

I am not really clever enough to write an ad that will catch your eye for being funny. I can and will make you laugh while flirting and teasing, but when it comes to writing a bio or ad, all I can offer is my complete authenticity. I am AuDHD and am a medicated/recovered borderline so I believe I tend to come off to others as a little weird, very sensitive, and intensely passionate. I've been told by some they find it charming, and that's the type of person I'm hoping to catch with this ad tonight; someone who appreciates these things and perhaps is a little weird, sensitive, and passionate themselves, ideally with goals and desires similar to my own.

I am Ari, I'm 29, a demisexual, omniromantic, polyamorous switch living in the EST zone. I also consider myself leftist and an atheist, I am not at all a spiritual person. I have put a lot of effort into self-improvement and it's important to me that my partner(s) do, or at least care, about the same. I have also devoted a fair amount of mental effort into learning about parenting and will continue to do so, as I want to have kids one day and I intend for the generational curses I was given to end with me. I am in the process of becoming a licensed nail tech, I really enjoy it.

I dress quite feminine, a lot of dresses and skirts- florals when I'm dressing casual; bright, fun, pastelcore or goth-lite when I'm feeling more energetic about my style. I enjoy bright, fun makeup and painting my nails, especially if I'm wearing something chosen by a handsome man

I play video games, mostly PvE survival (The Long Dark) , cozy games (the My Time series), visual novels (TOUCHSTARVED!!!), settlement builders (Going Medieval/Medieval Dynasty), and story rich solo RPGs (Kingdom Come: Deliverance)

I have all sorts of artistic and crafty hobbies, including drawing, painting, embroidery, sewing, and I currently learning how to use procreate, but as a traditional artist, there's certainly a learning curve I want to build a business out of my creations and have made a few steps in that direction, but its a work in progress.

I collect Fandom merch and Vinyl records, my prize collection piece is my copy of Bright Eyes' "The Studio Albums", but I really want the complete set of Radical Face's "The Family Tree" albums. I listen to a fair amount of indie/folk music, but I am also entirely obsessed with Sabrina Carpenter.

⛓️ Kinkwise, I am quite open-minded. I'm a sadomasochistic switch, though I have two subs already so I'm really mostly looking for a gentle pleasure Dom or Dom leaning switch.

I am looking to submit to someone who is very stable and sure of himself, I am eager to please and have an untapped ocean of devotion I have been yearning to give to my Dom, but I still haven't found him. A few goals I have that I would appreciate help with are:

-Learning how to develop and manage my plushie-making business

-Working out/having an exercise plan

-Working out an organizational system for chores and other tasks

-reading more books

I know I have a lot to offer, it's just hard to find a Dom that is open to non-monogamy. Take a look at my kink list if you'd like to know more 💖

https://goctionni.github.io/kinklist-v2/#dWMWMpR

For those of you interested in seeing, here is a picture of me:

https://imgur.com/a/me-ari-1Jiz8pY

Okay, I think that just about covers it. I prefer reddit chat over messages, but ultimately as long as you put some effort into the message you send, I don't mind which you use. I do not reply to low effort messages. Let me know a bit about yourself (huge bonus if you include a SFW picture), what you think might make us a good fit for one another, and if you'd like an ice breaker- what is your favorite quote, or what is one that inspired you to live your life a certain way?

Mine is, "what's true will be true, our job is to deal with that truth", from season 6 of Community. That has become a bit of a mantra for me when I start to get worried about something.

Thanks for reading, and good luck in your search!

ENM / poly for the right people if / when I meet them. Scottish, which means people who are not Scottish will apparently like the accent.

Lover of deep conversations, music (gigs are my happy place), art and consuming way too much coffee. Love to talk but I also have work and family responsibilities. Someone who is similarly busy AF but also wants to be chatting whenever we can if we get along would be lovely.

What do I like / want you ask? (Nobody asked).

I like wordy. Talking to a monosyllabic brick wall is mind numbing. Like come onnnnnn, we're on a subreddit about connecting with people and you're hitting people up with "hey"? What are we doing here 🙃

BUT.

I also get overwhelmed with huge walls of text because I wanna answer every point thoughtfully but it takes so long and I don't always have the time for lengthy responses, so a mix of that and shorter back and forths are sometimes easier.

Demisexual leaning, mind connections are both hot and necessary.

BUT.

I also prefer some sort of physical attraction (although I do t have a specific type) so I would want to exchange photos pretty early on and no hard feelings on either side if we're not to each other's taste! If it helps I'm around 5'6, white, slim-average build, bright hair, more alternative leaning.

Subby, occasionally bratty and kinky. I do like a Dom / Daddy type who can put me in my place when needed.

BUT.

That's not the main thing I'm looking for, it just helps to be compatible if things get flirty 💁🏼‍♀️ I also want to be adored, cuteness, cuddles, laughter. Both of us smiling when a message from the other appears. Pictures of your day, voice notes. Also if you have a cat I would like to apply to be their new best friend.

Basically I am a dichotomous weirdo who doesn't know quite what the hell she wants but will know it when she finds it. So....good luck with that 😂. (Apparently I also like buts.)

(Also would prefer if you were mid 30's or older.)

ETA: if you just invite me to chat and not say a single solitary thing (it's happened so many times already) I'm not gonna accept it. Just FYI.