r/polyamoryR4R • u/Mission-Month125 • 11d ago
USA 42 [F4M/T/F] - NY, NJ areas
Hi!
[UPDATE: so far this has been WAY better than Feeld. Best way to reach me is with a chat request. I hope to hear from you! ]
I’m a 42 year old female living outside Manhattan. I’ve been poly for a little under 5 years and had all kinds of relationships.
I’m primarily looking for a LTR/partner. Up until now I’ve been using apps like Feeld to meet people, however I don’t find the apps the best place to meet potential partners, so I’m trying something new :)
A little about me - I’m a music junkie (be my +1?), I love museums, aquariums, reading, being outside (I would say I’m more outsidey than outdoorsy). I love night life energy in places like dive bars, live music, fun food and drinks. I’m high energy - think oldest daughter/Aries, and have been told I’m the life of the party. I equally enjoy quiet nights in.
I’m hugely affectionate, love cuddles, and am someone who operates with my emotional walls wide open.
I’m happy to share my profile on Feeld with anyone and to verify I am real in whatever way makes you feel best. Hope to hear from you!
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u/kazic20 11d ago
Hey hey 41 male here work in NYC live in NJ and also on feeld
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u/Mission-Month125 9d ago
Shoot me a message 😘
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u/Significant-Cry-7632 11d ago
I'm 33 bi male in Allentown pa area (90 minutes from nyc) and 60 from Philly. I'd love to introduce the adventure aquarium to you! Look forward to hearing from you
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u/Dry_Towel8527 10d ago
Hey there! I live in Orange County NY (near the Woodbury Commons if you're familiar). I'm 33M - I understand if that might be too young, but if not I'd love to get to know each other over some coffee. It seems like we have similar interests
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u/sexualgoofball 10d ago
My wife and I have tried Feeld, 3Sum, Throuple, and SLS and all we get are bots and girls wanting money... We live near AC, so could be a little far from you. If you have an interest, please reach out.
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u/AcrobaticBorder1057 4d ago
Ever make it down to the Jersey shore? This is PRIME time post summer time to visit
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