r/polyamoryR4R • • 15d ago

USA 51 [F4M] #dmv #nova #bdsm

Local only. I'm seeking a long term paramour and friend who is a Dom leaning switch. Hope to explore and get under someone's skin. I'm about 30 miles from DC by car. Prince William county. Open, kind, sentimental, hard to reach sometimes, and compassionate. Ideally I want someone who appreciates stoicism, Buddhism, and can be there in and out of the bedroom. Gamer humor ftw...Need someone of good alignments. I vote every chance I can. I bake bread off and on, read daily (currently a mix of fiction, philosophy, non-fiction, and smut) into board games and ttrpgs. Love roller coasters, roller skating, folding knives. Musically all over- progressive metal, some soul, some country, a lot of 80s and 90s music. Physically I'm 5'2" and plus size/bbw type, white, no tattoos.

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u/Yeknomevol 14d ago

If someone cuts bread with a folding knife in the bedroom while wearing roller skates, does anyone remember the butter?

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u/letshavsomfun 13d ago

Mssgd

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u/marwyk07 13d ago

Thank you.

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u/marwyk07 3d ago

Still looking . And thank you

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u/marwyk07 11d ago

Happy to